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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 5:19:59 PM #51: |
Moonjay posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Moonjay posted...I never dated anyone in my entire life, but I've been married for 16 years. :P Oh~ I use dating as both getting to know and going out Ive used dating to describe going to dinner alone with my best friend, Dad, mom, boyfriends, etc. Thats why I was confused! Muffin by waiting I meant waiting you out --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 5:20:57 PM #52: |
Muffinz0rz posted...
That's a shitty answer ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Moonjay 01/30/18 5:22:33 PM #53: |
We met online. We were engaged before we ever met in person. We spent something like five days together in person before we got married. Why? We were stupid in love.
--- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doctor Foxx 01/30/18 5:23:55 PM #54: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Doctor! Endearing and enduring is more like a strong foundation of understanding and respect vs. say something that is extremely passionate and based more on the chemicals and how they make you feel around someone Don't get me wrong I still had the butterflies for him when it was early, my continued interest is based on things other than physical attraction or superficial shared interests. He is also pretty handsome. :) (I can also pick him up and carry him around like nothing) --- Never write off the Doctor! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 5:24:52 PM #55: |
Haha do you like being able to carry your boyfriends around usually or is it a fun feature for just him ?
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 5:25:23 PM #56: |
TheWorstPoster posted...
Muffinz0rz posted... I can use a non-trolly advice from TC ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 5:28:17 PM #57: |
Poster I missed it can you show me your question again!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 5:29:56 PM #58: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Poster I missed it can you show me your question again! TheWorstPoster posted... Why am I unable to get a girlfriend? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 5:32:00 PM #59: |
TheWorstPoster posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Poster I missed it can you show me your question again! Oh! Well, theres millions of possible reasons so youd need to give more specific times youve tried talking to women or what youve been doing in general --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smarkil 01/30/18 5:32:29 PM #60: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Oh I assumed you were a crepe for posting her pics without her permission then talking about her boobs and admitting you mostly wanted to hang out with her because of them. He's not a crepe, he's a muffin. --- "We're not even close" - Romans building Rome at the end of Day 1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 5:33:27 PM #61: |
Smarkil posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Oh I assumed you were a crepe for posting her pics without her permission then talking about her boobs and admitting you mostly wanted to hang out with her because of them. Hm? --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doctor Foxx 01/30/18 5:34:42 PM #62: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Haha do you like being able to carry your boyfriends around usually or is it a fun feature for just him ? I mean I could pick up everyone I have been with, but he's the first partner I have had that's decidedly smaller than I am. I have a couple inches in height on him and he's built pretty slim. His darn speedy metabolism! Oh and my cats like him. he built them a cat wheel as a labor of love. A big pretty wheel which they have proceeded to stare at and never touch because they are cats. --- Never write off the Doctor! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muffinz0rz 01/30/18 5:35:28 PM #63: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Muffin by waiting I meant waiting you out I don't understand though. Why bother "waiting me out" instead of just unmatching? LittleRoyal posted... Smarkil posted...LittleRoyal posted...Oh I assumed you were a crepe for posting her pics without her permission then talking about her boobs and admitting you mostly wanted to hang out with her because of them. ![]() --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) FantaCE Football Squad: ELIMINATED. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 5:36:23 PM #64: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Oh! Well, theres millions of possible reasons so youd need to give more specific times youve tried talking to women or what youve been doing in general Every time I asked one out on a date, I got rejected. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrMelodramatic 01/30/18 5:37:56 PM #65: |
I have a girlfriend I've been dating for three months. Shits nice.
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 5:39:35 PM #66: |
TheWorstPoster posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Oh! Well, theres millions of possible reasons so youd need to give more specific times youve tried talking to women or what youve been doing in general Well who are you asking? Friends? Girls from your clubs/classes? Do you know them? Do they have boyfriends? Did you just meet them? If so have you been chatting with them recently and what have you been talking about? Did you learn about them? If not, have you ever hung out just you two and proved it fun and save? Muffin I didnt know unmatching was possible Idk I never seen dating sites --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 5:43:53 PM #67: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Well who are you asking? Girls in my class mostly. Almost every girl out there has boyfriends. But I only asked out those who don't, but still got rejected for a myriad of reasons, with "too busy" being one of the most common ones. I even got rejected by a girl, who I asked out on a date once, because her ex-boyfriend cheated on her around 4 times in the past. LittleRoyal posted...
As I said, mostly in my classes. But those I did ask out, I talked to them before and after class, if possible, which falsely got my hopes up for them. LittleRoyal posted...
The girl who rejected me wanted me to hand out with her as friends, but I had to decline, not only out of disappointment, but with my grandmother dying that week as well. Never saw her again after that semester. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 01/30/18 5:46:46 PM #68: |
Moonjay posted...
We were engaged before we ever met in person. Save for arranged marriages this is crazy. Still it worked out for you so all is good. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Muffinz0rz 01/30/18 5:46:55 PM #69: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Muffin I didnt know unmatching was possible Idk I never seen dating sites Yeah unmatching is possible. So if she was 100% not interested, she'd've unmatched me already --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) FantaCE Football Squad: ELIMINATED. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Moonjay 01/30/18 5:52:03 PM #70: |
wwinterj25 posted...
Moonjay posted...We were engaged before we ever met in person. Oh yeah, it was completely insane and stupid. For a lot of reasons. I was also 19 and he was almost 21. We were in the top highest tier of likely divorce based on age. And I moved to another state with him. We were crazy little kids. So worth it. I knew I knew him and I did. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doctor Foxx 01/30/18 5:53:34 PM #71: |
Moonjay posted...
wwinterj25 posted...Moonjay posted...We were engaged before we ever met in person. you are the 1%... of internet teen marriages that work --- Never write off the Doctor! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 5:59:34 PM #72: |
Poster: hanging out a little at school doesnt mean that she will be interested. Sometimes its enough sometimes t isnt
To me it seems like you think that when a girl is nice and friendly it means she is into you that way. Realistically, we are nice for many reasons We like you, but not like that We dont dislike you and are nice in general We think you have a fragile ego Youre just nice in general Dont think talking a few times means all that much If shes really interested she would probably make it more clear. Maybe being more blush and shy, maybe being more giggly and open many girls are different but thats the most common. Im not quite like those, I just feel too shy to change my behavior and get flustered more easily at jokester or comments about my appearance or other actions and tend to ask the meaning of things they say more often Idk of thsts as common but it goes to show theres different ways to show it If she doesnt seem all that interested dont ask If she does and its wrong, then thats fine. You were confused about her personality Few girls think youre being weird or think any less of you for asking them out. It can be flattering! She may not want to be alone with you for a while depending on how she takes it or how its presented. Thats normal I think? Or maybe just means you need to work on presentation. Consider those its truly simple its just talking to people. Would you hang out with a guy friend after like 10 minutes of agreeing? --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 6:01:26 PM #73: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Poster: hanging out a little at school doesnt mean that she will be interested. Sometimes its enough sometimes t isnt That doesn't work that way for me. They tell me that they don't like me. Period. As well as me having no friends at all, so I can't go with her with anybody else, so that is not an option. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 6:22:26 PM #74: |
Why dont they like you? Do you say scary things? Talk about them personally or talk about their bodies?
Or are you rude? Inconsiderate to their feelings? You arent giving much info on yourself or what youre like or what things you say so its really hard to think about this --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 6:24:58 PM #75: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Why dont they like you? I wish I knew. LittleRoyal posted... Do you say scary things? Talk about them personally or talk about their bodies? Not that I am aware of. I never asked a girl out because I thought she was cute. Even a few girls that were less than average looking I asked out, I got rejected by. LittleRoyal posted...
I really don't know what else to say. I am just a loser I guess. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 6:35:13 PM #76: |
What do you say to the girls?
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Smarkil 01/30/18 6:36:25 PM #77: |
It took me three posts to realize tc must be talking to icoyar whom I have blocked. Not really hard to figure out considering the responses I suppose.
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 6:42:26 PM #78: |
LittleRoyal posted...
What do you say to the girls? Normal stuff. Mostly class related though, but some personal things that they ask me. I really have no idea what to say otherwise, or any at all. Last semester, on my first day of school, I was waiting an hour and a half between classes, so I decided to play Splatoon 2 on my Switch. That gone some attention, including a girl who asked me about a few things, like what I did, and was asking about the game. She thought I was a genius, because I graduated the semester prior in Computer Information Technology, and I coded my own Tic-Tac-Toe game (multiplayer only), as well as a simplistic application for Android that had screenshots and music samples of Nintendo games (which obviously I did not upload online due to copyright infringement, and was only my project for that class anyway), but I am back at the same school for Computer Science, so I can dual major both of them when I go to a 4 year school. Anyway, let's just say that she was not my type, did not show any signs of intelligence (and that is putting it nicely), and she had a boyfriend anyway. Nothing similar happened for the rest of the semester. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 6:43:14 PM #79: |
I was told you send women creepy messages and say very creepy inappropriate things to them so until you prove they wrong I wont respond
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RCtheWSBC 01/30/18 6:44:05 PM #80: |
LittleRoyal posted...
What do you say to the girls? "Pics" "Put your toes in your vagina" "Poop or pee?" --- http://i.imgur.com/1yl1fH0.jpg the White-Sounding Black Chick ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 6:44:21 PM #81: |
LittleRoyal posted...
I was told you send women creepy messages and say very creepy inappropriate things to them so until you prove they wrong I wont respond What makes you think I am in any way interested in you? I have no intention of PMing you. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Greenfox111 01/30/18 6:45:29 PM #82: |
LittleRoyal posted...
I was told you send women creepy messages and say very creepy inappropriate things to them so until you prove they wrong I wont respond LittleRoyal follows the "guilty until proven innocent" principle i see --- Don't ask. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ogurisama 01/30/18 6:46:48 PM #83: |
Greenfox111 posted...
LittleRoyal posted...I was told you send women creepy messages and say very creepy inappropriate things to them so until you prove they wrong I wont respond There is more proof that he is guilty then innocent --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 6:46:50 PM #84: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
LittleRoyal posted...What do you say to the girls? Eww entirely why would anyone do that or think its okay to say? --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 6:47:21 PM #85: |
TheWorstPoster posted...
LittleRoyal posted...I was told you send women creepy messages and say very creepy inappropriate things to them so until you prove they wrong I wont respond Didnt say anything about me. Specifically, just that I wont be responding to you startinggggg NOW --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 6:48:46 PM #86: |
LittleRoyal posted...
None of that shit. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RCtheWSBC 01/30/18 6:52:03 PM #87: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Because he has no experience with women. --- http://i.imgur.com/1yl1fH0.jpg the White-Sounding Black Chick ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 6:53:04 PM #88: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
LittleRoyal posted... I haven't said any of that to any girl I have met in person. If you want an example what happened to me once recently, read post #78. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 6:56:28 PM #89: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
LittleRoyal posted... You shouldnt need it to know not to talk like that to people.. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 6:58:11 PM #90: |
LittleRoyal posted...
I don't talk like to that to people. At all. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 6:59:34 PM #91: |
This is getting too judgey and weird. Im typing to you guys while peeing judge that instead.
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 7:00:37 PM #92: |
I came here asking for legitimate advice, and yet everyone else had to ruin it for me.
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 7:05:43 PM #93: |
Ive told you basically all I can anyway.
A girl being interested in your games doesnt mean shes into you, but I cant give you some one size fits all advice at how to woo a girl. Just feel out the situation. Dont ask out every girl you felt was nice to you. Dont creep girls out if youre doing that. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/30/18 7:08:06 PM #94: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Ive told you basically all I can anyway. Thank you for helping me out all you can anyway. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smarkil 01/30/18 8:02:05 PM #95: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
And a little bit of that Gold (AU) --- "We're not even close" - Romans building Rome at the end of Day 1 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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wwinterj25 01/30/18 9:18:12 PM #96: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
Because he has no experience with women. I don't think that's a valid excuse. I mean if it was then a lot of posters here including myself would do the same. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 01/30/18 9:23:55 PM #97: |
This topic became much less happy
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SusanGreenEyes 01/30/18 9:42:41 PM #98: |
Valentine's Day is coming up.
My husband thinks he's supposed to take me to a romantic movie and cuddle with me. I just want to order Chinese food in and go out to see The Black Panther movie. I told him we can either cuddle during that or after the movie. I hate romantic movies, because I don't find them to be romantic at all. Should I go to a movie both of us are going to hate, or see an awesome action movie? --- Been a murder, over in Riften. Some old lady who runs an orphanage. Those poor children must be heartbroken. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doctor Foxx 01/30/18 9:51:41 PM #99: |
SusanGreenEyes posted...
Valentine's Day is coming up. Did you tell him you don't want to see that movie and would rather see The Black Panther? Go to what you both want. Doing things you don't want while pretending you enjoy them sets a bad precedent --- Never write off the Doctor! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Eat Man 01/30/18 9:56:48 PM #100: |
Allow me to throw some wisdom into this topic for the younger or generally less experienced guys:
1) you have to get experience talking to people/being social Get the hell off the phones. I know every kid and almost every adult is glued to their phones but this is why everyone is socially immature. No one knows who to actually communicate anymore. And this isnt some preach BS. I am also a millennial. I get it. Id rather be on my phone browsing the net than talking to 9/10 people. But I also have a hot girlfriend because I can call an audible and put the phone away and be interesting in a conversation when I want to be. If youre not confident just conversing, get that EXP. This leads to... 2) Dont date girls who are obsessed with their phones/social media Do not waste your time. I dont care how good looking they are or how many followers like their pics online, if thats really one of the priorities of their lives they are socially broken. Head for the hillzzzzz. Dont look back. This one is really hard to get guys to follow. Theres almost like a high school head cheerleader effect where you think if you get with a popular girl (online) that gives you clout. It only gives you an enormous pain in the ass. In a sense were lucky in that our generation gets really obvious clues when a girl is selfish and superficial, but you guys blow it for everyone else when being ignored by high maintenance chicks just makes you shower them with your own attention and money. Just stop. Youre literally training girls to be monsters. When they act like jerks, just stop talking to them. Undoubtedly some other punk guy will jump in your seat and shower them with attention and money and the vicious cycle will continue. Fine. Its his mistake. Trust me, he will regret it. Which leads me to... 3) Date a wide variety of women I use the term somewhat loosely. Go out with girls often. Dont make it a big formal affair. Just go out and do fun activities and what happens is what you think you are attracted to may not be at all what youre really attracted to. You think you want the stunning blonde who squeezes into the tightest jeans on earth and holds onto your arm....and then you find out you prefer tomboys...or you think you want someone who has all the same interests and then you find out you need a little more space and its not the worst thing to have diverging hobbies. Everyones different but you wont knwo this until you date a tom of chicks and get to know different personalities. Dont sit in your room waiting for the one. It wont happen. Thats not how this works. But more importantly, you dont actually know what the one even looks like yet if you arent a very experienced dater. So youre doubly wasting your time. Which leads me to... 4) ...thats not an excuse to compromise. Dating can be frustrating. It can feel insurmountable when you meet a ton of people but none click. But dont fall in the trap where when one kind of clicks you say screw it and start devotion g your life to them. Dont do man. Dont do it. Casually date, but do not jump right into commitment. Chances are you dont know what you really want and youre not emotionally prepared for the compromises youre forced to make when you realize what you DONT want but it feels like its too late...but now youve committed so much time and energy you feel like youre stuck......just stop. Dont make the mistake in th first place. Go out, meet a ton of people, but just because you kind of like someone, dont shut the whole thing down and commit long term. Getting to know people takes a loooooong time. Dont try and shortcut that. --- Oops, my bad, that's my scenario. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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