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Master Kazuya
01/05/18 10:52:44 AM
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It drives me crazy, so far two girls that I've really liked have done this, be physical and shit, etc, and then when I try to move things actually forward, they're just super hesitant and these walls come up. It's fine if they don't want anything more of it, but it's like, why on earth would you do that to me beforehand?

That's like going to a fast food restaurant, ordering food, and just throwing it away once you get it. Why the fuck did you order if you didn't want to eat?
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HighOnSolar
01/05/18 10:54:01 AM
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can't tell if you just compared yourself to fast food or not
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einegutePerson
01/05/18 10:55:05 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
It drives me crazy

that's why
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Master Kazuya
01/05/18 10:55:44 AM
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HighOnSolar posted...
can't tell if you just compared yourself to fast food or not


Inadvertently yeah. I could've said anything. Grocery store, restaurant, etc. Just an analogy.
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Sativa_Rose
01/05/18 10:55:51 AM
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HighOnSolar posted...
can't tell if you just compared yourself to fast food or not


He's a number 9 large with extra dip
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Giant_Aspirin
01/05/18 10:56:07 AM
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attention
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Silver Bearings
01/05/18 10:58:12 AM
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Flirting is fun. You've never flirted with someone you didn't want things to progress? #allwomen?
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beechesfreeman
01/05/18 10:58:19 AM
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they already have a chad to bang their brains out, you're the cuck to tend to their emotional needs
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solosnake
01/05/18 10:59:11 AM
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Sativa_Rose posted...
HighOnSolar posted...
can't tell if you just compared yourself to fast food or not


He's a number 9 large with extra dip

what about numble 4 small hold the pickles?
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SpiritSephiroth
01/05/18 11:00:33 AM
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Manipulation. Girls have a tendency and instinct to manipulate and influence men. Whether it be for personal gain or satisfaction just don't fall for it. Especially when a girl constantly does it to you.
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Master Kazuya
01/05/18 11:04:30 AM
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Silver Bearings posted...
You've never flirted with someone you didn't want things to progress?


Maybe to them they think I've been flirty, but no, I never consciously have. There's a certain kind of comfortable/familiar behavior you can have with anyone (joking, teasing, etc), and then there's another kind of interaction that happens with someone you like, where it'd be weird/off if you acted that way with a guy friend (speaking between two straight guys).
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Awesome
01/05/18 11:04:39 AM
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when women do that you cut them off, stop talking to them and if they give you problems say if you have no intention of banging me then stop talking to me . who cares what they think, stop hanging around messed up women.
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einegutePerson
01/05/18 11:05:55 AM
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some girls are just naturally flirty with pretty much everyone, TC

you have to learn who these girls are and distance yourself before they drive you crazy
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Kanaya413
01/05/18 11:10:18 AM
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Silver Bearings posted...
Flirting is fun. You've never flirted with someone you didn't want things to progress? #allwomen?

Exactly
Zodd and I flirt all the time but neither of us are gonna pursue each other
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Sativa_Rose
01/05/18 11:23:55 AM
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I don't flirt with women I don't want to bang.

...It just so happens that I want to bang most women (not all)
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pojr
01/05/18 11:33:15 AM
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Master Kazuya posted...
be physical and shit, etc

In what way
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Amazon_Shampoo
01/05/18 11:35:53 AM
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Guys often do it to, One of my best friends at work is in a great relationship with a girl he loves, but he flirts with nearly ever attractive girl at the office.

I know he wouldn't cheat on her, but her likes the attention.
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Sack_Pickscott
01/05/18 11:36:54 AM
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Why do men assume because girls are talking to them that they actually want anything besides friendship out of the relationship?
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Funkydog
01/05/18 11:37:01 AM
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Silver Bearings posted...
Flirting is fun.

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darkphoenix181
01/05/18 11:45:25 AM
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Yes, i was saving my friends table in lunch back in highschool. All of a sudden the whole cheerleading squad sat down, da one closest to me(cute white one, I'm pretty sure she was da captain) started asking me questions in flirty like way. After like 3 questions and looking at her smile da whole time, and looking at literally all da other cheerleaders staring at my soul i got up and left da table lol

I was barely a freshman, and dey were mostly juniors/seniors...i was so scared lol
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Woodger
01/05/18 11:52:44 AM
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Validation, people do it to see how you react, try to see if they're desirable. Men do it too, but more often honest / desperate enough to go ahead and do something more.

It's not very nice they're just experimenting with you, but at least they value your opinion.
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Master Kazuya
01/05/18 12:33:52 PM
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pojr posted...
In what way


Scruffing my hair, leaning over my lap to get something on the other side of me (using me as support), putting their legs on my lap, grabbing my waist, resting head on my shoulder briefly, linking arms, playing footsies, tickling, oh and one time, LITERALLY KISSING ME ON THE CHEEK
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KILBOTz
01/05/18 12:42:14 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
pojr posted...
In what way


Scruffing my hair, leaning over my lap to get something on the other side of me (using me as support), putting their legs on my lap, grabbing my waist, resting head on my shoulder briefly, linking arms, playing footsies, tickling, oh and one time, LITERALLY KISSING ME ON THE CHEEK


Yeah those would feel like pretty clear signals to me most of the time.
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EyeWontBeFooled
01/05/18 12:46:18 PM
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solosnake posted...
Sativa_Rose posted...
HighOnSolar posted...
can't tell if you just compared yourself to fast food or not


He's a number 9 large with extra dip

what about numble 4 small hold the pickles?

Roasted
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EyeWontBeFooled
01/05/18 12:46:42 PM
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Master Kazuya posted...
pojr posted...
In what way


Scruffing my hair, leaning over my lap to get something on the other side of me (using me as support), putting their legs on my lap, grabbing my waist, resting head on my shoulder briefly, linking arms, playing footsies, tickling, oh and one time, LITERALLY KISSING ME ON THE CHEEK

This happened.
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nicklebro
01/05/18 12:47:34 PM
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Its an ego boost, makes them feel good.
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Master Kazuya
01/05/18 12:56:17 PM
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KILBOTz posted...
Yeah those would feel like pretty clear signals to me most of the time.


Exactly. Like, if the other girl had just been slightly friendly, and I tried something, and she didn't want to, then that's totally fine by me. I saw something that could have or couldn't have been real, took a shot at it, turned out to be not real. Sucks, but is still fine.

However, when I see something that definitely looks real, go for it, and it turns out to be not real, that's when I start questioning everything.
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Master Kazuya
01/05/18 6:50:43 PM
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Bump
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Sada_Pop
01/05/18 6:53:04 PM
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Yea they're just flirty. Flirt back.
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thronedfire2
01/05/18 6:53:18 PM
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darkphoenix181 posted...
Yes, i was saving my friends table in lunch back in highschool. All of a sudden the whole cheerleading squad sat down, da one closest to me(cute white one, I'm pretty sure she was da captain) started asking me questions in flirty like way. After like 3 questions and looking at her smile da whole time, and looking at literally all da other cheerleaders staring at my soul i got up and left da table lol

I was barely a freshman, and dey were mostly juniors/seniors...i was so scared lol


We don't need another person typing like vegy here
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