Poll of the Day > I hate that my dad is supporting a bunch of dumbass step kids

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Mead 12/30/17 2:20:02 PM #1:	And when I say kids I mean adults in their 20s with kids of their own. Hes been married to this woman for 7 years now and both of her adult children refuse to move out or do anything with their lives. Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects. They live like total animals too. For some reason they are constantly ripping doors off of hinges and breaking furniture, they never clean anything or even pick up clutter. Their house is infested with gnats because when my dad is out driving(he is a truck driver) they refuse to even take out trash or wash dishes. The youngest one is the biggest problem. Guy is twenty but acts like he is 13. If he at any time doesnt get something he wants he pretends to cry and then breaks something. Hes gone through several cell phones because he gets mad and smashes them. They just got him a new phone for Xmas because it was all he wanted and the next day he sold it so he could buy cigarettes. His mom makes excuses for him every time and says that it isnt his fault because his dad had depression so maybe he has it too. Hes just a total piece of shit though. Hes one of those people that will just constantly lie to your face and it is completely transparent. Its my dads own fault though. Ive tried telling him that hes being taken advantage of but he doesnt want a divorce because this is like his 5th marriage and he wants to make it work. It sucks though to know that he is fully supporting a bunch of deadbeats in a home that he rarely even visits and that he is out trucking nearly every day for them. Its messed up but part of me hopes the stepson fucks up bad enough to get locked up so he is out of their hair. No real point to this topic I suppose. Just blogfaq-ing about a crappy situation. --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:893128093] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote>And when I say kids I mean adults in their 20s with kids of their own. Hes been married to this woman for 7 years now and both of her adult children refuse to move out or do anything with their lives. Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects. They live like total animals too. For some reason they are constantly ripping doors off of hinges and breaking furniture, they never clean anything or even pick up clutter. Their house is infested with gnats because when my dad is out driving(he is a truck driver) they refuse to even take out trash or wash dishes. The youngest one is the biggest problem. Guy is twenty but acts like he is 13. If he at any time doesnt get something he wants he pretends to cry and then breaks something. Hes gone through several cell phones because he gets mad and smashes them. They just got him a new phone for Xmas because it was all he wanted and the next day he sold it so he could buy cigarettes. His mom makes excuses for him every time and says that it isnt his fault because his dad had depression so maybe he has it too. Hes just a total piece of shit though. Hes one of those people that will just constantly lie to your face and it is completely transparent. Its my dads own fault though. Ive tried telling him that hes being taken advantage of but he doesnt want a divorce because this is like his 5th marriage and he wants to make it work. It sucks though to know that he is fully supporting a bunch of deadbeats in a home that he rarely even visits and that he is out trucking nearly every day for them. Its messed up but part of me hopes the stepson fucks up bad enough to get locked up so he is out of their hair. No real point to this topic I suppose. Just blogfaq-ing about a crappy situation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MannerSaurus 12/30/17 2:23:53 PM #2:	Mead posted... The youngest one is the biggest problem. Guy is twenty but acts like he is 13. If he at any time doesnt get something he wants he pretends to cry and then breaks something. Hes gone through several cell phones because he gets mad and smashes them. Has he ever been diagnosed with autism? I DO NOT mean this as an insult, there are many loved ones in my life that are Autistic/Asperger's. And I immediately thought of them. They don't mean any harm at all, I just know that something being out of order with the world is like life or death to them. I saw my pastor's 5 year old go into a violent crying rage because his 4 year old sister "violated the new physics" of the world he imagined and created with his toys. Granted, he was 5, not 20... but I'm just saying. --- Ever since the day you left, my fate's been set unknown... How many years to walk this path alone? [...] So why'd you close your eyes... why can't I shut mine? <cite>MannerSaurus posted [p:893128268] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote> The youngest one is the biggest problem. Guy is twenty but acts like he is 13. If he at any time doesnt get something he wants he pretends to cry and then breaks something. Hes gone through several cell phones because he gets mad and smashes them. </quote> Has he ever been diagnosed with autism? I DO NOT mean this as an insult, there are many loved ones in my life that are Autistic/Asperger's. And I immediately thought of them. They don't mean any harm at all, I just know that something being out of order with the world is like life or death to them. I saw my pastor's 5 year old go into a violent crying rage because his 4 year old sister "violated the new physics" of the world he imagined and created with his toys. Granted, he was 5, not 20... but I'm just saying.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/30/17 2:26:22 PM #3:	He isnt autistic, I wouldnt say he is anywhere on the spectrum. Im not an expert by any means but my niece has pretty severe developmental autism so I do have some experience with it. Hes just an asshole. --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:893128375] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote>He isnt autistic, I wouldnt say he is anywhere on the spectrum. Im not an expert by any means but my niece has pretty severe developmental autism so I do have some experience with it. Hes just an asshole.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/30/17 2:43:58 PM #4:	Mead posted... Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects. How does this even happen? Mead posted... Its my dads own fault though. "I did everything I could to destroy that booty" --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:893129230] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote> Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects.</quote> How does this even happen? <cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>Its my dads own fault though.</quote> "I did everything I could to destroy that booty"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DirtBasedSoap 12/30/17 2:46:35 PM #5:	Mead posted... They just got him a new phone for Xmas because it was all he wanted and the next day he sold it so he could buy cigarettes. damn what a loser --- AT&T U-Verse internet is TRASH. <cite>DirtBasedSoap posted [p:893129349] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>They just got him a new phone for Xmas because it was all he wanted and the next day he sold it so he could buy cigarettes.</quote> damn what a loser</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zeus 12/30/17 2:54:58 PM #6:	Mead posted... Hes been married to this woman for 7 years now and both of her adult children refuse to move out or do anything with their lives. Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects. They live like total animals too. For some reason they are constantly ripping doors off of hinges and breaking furniture, they never clean anything or even pick up clutter. Their house is infested with gnats because when my dad is out driving(he is a truck driver) they refuse to even take out trash or wash dishes. Neat, maybe I'll see your family on Judge Judy one of these days. Mead posted... Its my dads own fault though. Ive tried telling him that hes being taken advantage of but he doesnt want a divorce because this is like his 5th marriage and he wants to make it work. Talk about not learning from mistakes. wwinterj25 posted... Mead posted... Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects. How does this even happen? Are you asking how sex works? --- (\/)(\/)\|-\| In Zeus We Trust: All Others Pay Cash <cite>Zeus posted [p:893129761] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>Hes been married to this woman for 7 years now and both of her adult children refuse to move out or do anything with their lives. Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects. They live like total animals too. For some reason they are constantly ripping doors off of hinges and breaking furniture, they never clean anything or even pick up clutter. Their house is infested with gnats because when my dad is out driving(he is a truck driver) they refuse to even take out trash or wash dishes.</quote> Neat, maybe I'll see your family on Judge Judy one of these days. <cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>Its my dads own fault though. Ive tried telling him that hes being taken advantage of but he doesnt want a divorce because this is like his 5th marriage and he wants to make it work. </quote> Talk about not learning from mistakes. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote> Each one has a couple kids at this point despite having no job or future prospects.</quote> How does this even happen? </quote> Are you asking how sex works?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OneTimeBen 12/30/17 2:57:57 PM #7:	Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling. --- Still waters run deep <cite>OneTimeBen posted [p:893129892] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote>Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/30/17 3:00:46 PM #8:	OneTimeBen posted... Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling. It would be impossible to not be a better person in comparison. I live across the country though and he knows exactly how I feel about his house full of deadbeats. --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:893130021] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>OneTimeBen posted...</cite> <quote>Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling.</quote> It would be impossible to not be a better person in comparison. I live across the country though and he knows exactly how I feel about his house full of deadbeats.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/30/17 3:03:18 PM #9:	Left Leaning Centrist posted... Talk about not learning from mistakes My father in a nutshell tbh --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:893130153] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Left Leaning Centrist posted...</cite> <quote>Talk about not learning from mistakes</quote> My father in a nutshell tbh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/30/17 3:06:06 PM #10:	Zeus posted... Are you asking how sex works? I'm asking how unemployed bums with no prospects that behave like spoiled brats manage to get a gal who is desperate enough to have sex and have kids with them. Upon reflection though it's not uncommon over here to see chavs with many kids despite never having a job so I'm not at all surprised. Just curious really. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:893130302] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>Are you asking how sex works?</quote> I'm asking how unemployed bums with no prospects that behave like spoiled brats manage to get a gal who is desperate enough to have sex and have kids with them. Upon reflection though it's not uncommon over here to see chavs with many kids despite never having a job so I'm not at all surprised. Just curious really.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OneTimeBen 12/30/17 3:07:10 PM #11:	Mead posted... OneTimeBen posted... Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling. It would be impossible to not be a better person in comparison. I live across the country though and he knows exactly how I feel about his house full of deadbeats. If you are good as far as life, and he knows how you feel. Then all I would do is make sure he gives nothing to the step people when he is gone. --- Still waters run deep <cite>OneTimeBen posted [p:893130359] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote><cite>OneTimeBen posted...</cite> <quote>Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling.</quote> It would be impossible to not be a better person in comparison. I live across the country though and he knows exactly how I feel about his house full of deadbeats.</quote> If you are good as far as life, and he knows how you feel. Then all I would do is make sure he gives nothing to the step people when he is gone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
helIy 12/30/17 3:09:18 PM #12:	you know that you dad knows all this, though, right? he's fully aware of what's going on --- "Dogs smell like they've had too much fun and need a bath Cats smell like espionage" - Mead <cite>helIy posted [p:893130458] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote>you know that you dad knows all this, though, right? he's fully aware of what's going on</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OneTimeBen 12/30/17 3:09:55 PM #13:	OneTimeBen posted... Mead posted... OneTimeBen posted... Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling. It would be impossible to not be a better person in comparison. I live across the country though and he knows exactly how I feel about his house full of deadbeats. If you are good as far as life, and he knows how you feel. Then all I would do is make sure he gives nothing to the step people when he is gone. I have had step fathers. Guarantee if my mom had died, I would have been on the outside . --- Still waters run deep <cite>OneTimeBen posted [p:893130497] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>OneTimeBen posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote><cite>OneTimeBen posted...</cite> <quote>Be the better person. Sit with Dad and tell him everything you are feeling.</quote> It would be impossible to not be a better person in comparison. I live across the country though and he knows exactly how I feel about his house full of deadbeats.</quote> If you are good as far as life, and he knows how you feel. Then all I would do is make sure he gives nothing to the step people when he is gone. I have had step fathers. Guarantee if my mom had died, I would have been on the outside .</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/30/17 3:19:07 PM #14:	helIy posted... you know that you dad knows all this, though, right? he's fully aware of what's going on Yeah he knows He just always feels guilty and thinks he can change people by talking to them. I dont think I know of a time it has worked out for him. I think he is also terrified of being alone --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:893130959] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>helIy posted...</cite> <quote>you know that you dad knows all this, though, right? he's fully aware of what's going on</quote> Yeah he knows He just always feels guilty and thinks he can change people by talking to them. I dont think I know of a time it has worked out for him. I think he is also terrified of being alone</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zeus 12/30/17 6:39:57 PM #15:	wwinterj25 posted... Zeus posted... Are you asking how sex works? I'm asking how unemployed bums with no prospects that behave like spoiled brats manage to get a gal who is desperate enough to have sex and have kids with them. Upon reflection though it's not uncommon over here to see chavs with many kids despite never having a job so I'm not at all surprised. Just curious really. So basically you're asking why do men and women make poor life choices? >_> In general, unintended pregnancies are far more common among idiots for some reason which has remained a mystery to modern science =p Otherwise we've set up a benefits system which creates incentives for unmarried women to recklessly have kids, especially when you consider that many of the single moms on benefits today were themselves the children of single moms on benefits. And, of course, you have all the men and women who stupidly assume that their partner will change. There's still that perception that people will step up once they become parents. --- (\/)(\/)\|-\| In Zeus We Trust: All Others Pay Cash <cite>Zeus posted [p:893140841] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>Are you asking how sex works?</quote> I'm asking how unemployed bums with no prospects that behave like spoiled brats manage to get a gal who is desperate enough to have sex and have kids with them. Upon reflection though it's not uncommon over here to see chavs with many kids despite never having a job so I'm not at all surprised. Just curious really.</quote> So basically you're asking why do men and women make poor life choices? >_> In general, unintended pregnancies are far more common among idiots for some reason which has remained a mystery to modern science =p Otherwise we've set up a benefits system which creates incentives for unmarried women to recklessly have kids, especially when you consider that many of the single moms on benefits today were themselves the children of single moms on benefits. And, of course, you have all the men and women who stupidly assume that their partner will change. There's still that perception that people will step up once they become parents.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/30/17 7:09:29 PM #16:	Zeus posted... So basically you're asking why do men and women make poor life choices? >_> Look man all I need to know is how to get laid and make even worse life choices too m'kay? --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:893142219] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>So basically you're asking why do men and women make poor life choices? >_> </quote> Look man all I need to know is how to get laid and make even worse life choices too m'kay?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/30/17 7:59:52 PM #17:	I wouldnt think Zeus is the best person to take advice from regarding picking up women --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:893144497] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote>I wouldnt think Zeus is the best person to take advice from regarding picking up women</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zeus 12/30/17 8:07:51 PM #18:	wwinterj25 posted... Zeus posted... So basically you're asking why do men and women make poor life choices? >_> Look man all I need to know is how to get laid and make even worse life choices too m'kay? Have you tried Tinder? Or going to a bar? Or pretty much anything? Really not that hard, tbh. And if you want to make a really shit life choice, you can try dating a single mom. You know they put out. Mead posted... I wouldnt think Zeus is the best person to take advice from regarding picking up women Use both arms and lift with your knees. --- (\/)(\/)\|-\| In Zeus We Trust: All Others Pay Cash <cite>Zeus posted [p:893144896] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>So basically you're asking why do men and women make poor life choices? >_> </quote> Look man all I need to know is how to get laid and make even worse life choices too m'kay?</quote> Have you tried Tinder? Or going to a bar? Or pretty much anything? Really not that hard, tbh. And if you want to make a really shit life choice, you can try dating a single mom. You know they put out. <cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>I wouldnt think Zeus is the best person to take advice from regarding picking up women</quote> Use both arms and lift with your knees.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 12/30/17 8:13:43 PM #19:	Zeus posted... Have you tried Tinder? Rejection at the swipe of a finger? No thanks. I want to actually feel rejected. Zeus posted... Or going to a bar? I do this now and then. I have no game though. Still I'm improving my social skills I guess. Zeus posted... Really not that hard, tbh. I mean what maybe easy for some isn't for others obviously. We can't all be a stud muffin like you. Zeus posted... And if you want to make a really shit life choice, you can try dating a single mom. You know they put out. Time to start hanging around schools then.... --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:893145214] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>Have you tried Tinder?</quote> Rejection at the swipe of a finger? No thanks. I want to actually feel rejected. <cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>Or going to a bar?</quote> I do this now and then. I have no game though. Still I'm improving my social skills I guess. <cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>Really not that hard, tbh. </quote> I mean what maybe easy for some isn't for others obviously. We can't all be a stud muffin like you. <cite>Zeus posted...</cite> <quote>And if you want to make a really shit life choice, you can try dating a single mom. You know they put out. </quote> Time to start hanging around schools then....</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kislev 12/30/17 8:15:01 PM #20:	Why not just beat him up? If he acts childish just give him a good old backhand straight to the face --- Trump 2020 We need a new Final Fantasy Tactics <cite>kislev posted [p:893145281] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote>Why not just beat him up? If he acts childish just give him a good old backhand straight to the face</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 12/30/17 8:28:50 PM #21:	kislev posted... Why not just beat him up? If he acts childish just give him a good old backhand straight to the face I dont live there. I told him off the last time I saw him but the guy has a massive chip on his shoulder and resents pretty much everyone in his life, I doubt that will ever change --- All praise Mead <cite>Mead posted [p:893145919] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>kislev posted...</cite> <quote>Why not just beat him up? If he acts childish just give him a good old backhand straight to the face</quote> I dont live there. I told him off the last time I saw him but the guy has a massive chip on his shoulder and resents pretty much everyone in his life, I doubt that will ever change</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kislev 12/30/17 8:33:16 PM #22:	Mead posted... kislev posted... Why not just beat him up? If he acts childish just give him a good old backhand straight to the face I dont live there. I told him off the last time I saw him but the guy has a massive chip on his shoulder and resents pretty much everyone in his life, I doubt that will ever change Im willing to bet his real father was never around or not very involved He needs to be discplined for sure --- Trump 2020 We need a new Final Fantasy Tactics <cite>kislev posted [p:893146132] in I hate tha... [t:76151764]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote><cite>kislev posted...</cite> <quote>Why not just beat him up? If he acts childish just give him a good old backhand straight to the face</quote> I dont live there. I told him off the last time I saw him but the guy has a massive chip on his shoulder and resents pretty much everyone in his life, I doubt that will ever change</quote> Im willing to bet his real father was never around or not very involved He needs to be discplined for sure</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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