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This is a reddit post concerning a bathroom in a Montreal university that is used by gay people for sex encounters:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Concordia/comments/75lcnq/hall_building_12_floor_bathroom/

Went 5 days ago to meet with my friend to work on a project on the 12th floor in Hall. After finishing , at about 6pm decided to use the bathroom (male). When I got there , i heard guys moan... went to the back to pee and there were about 6 guys jerking off together and a guy sucking them. 4 of them were clearly not students (45+), so I ran out and left. The day after , my friend and I met again at the same spot to finish off what we didnt finish last time. When we were done ( 4-5 pm) I used to bathroom again. This time two guys were fucking understall ( clearly old guys :40+), and 3 others ( looked like students) hooking up and doing shit at the urinals and turned towards me with an inviting smile ( fml). Left quickly and went home. So 2 days ago I told a friend of mine this and he laughed and didnt believe me and said lets go check it out( it was 8pm). As soon as we get in theres nothing , but a fkn old guy comes in 30 seconds later next to us ( we were peing at the urinals) , pulls out his dck and starts wanking. My friend pushed him and screamed at him , i held him from hitting him. SO MY POINT IS : WHAT THE HELL IS GOING FKN ON IN THE MENS BATHROOM IN HALL 12?????? Anyone experienced something before???? Is the school and security aware????

It appears to be legit. There are posts in gay sex meetup forums with directions to that bathroom and it's considered to be a good place since it's a quiet floor of the university.

However, some people have called the police about this situation.

One user suggests this is homophobic:

Calling cops or security against a gay cruising spot is homophobic. It reminds me of the gay bashers staying hours in toilet just to find a gay person to beat him. This internet post is very problematic, it exposes people to gay bashing or arrest, just for being gay and having hidden sex. Not a long time ago, people were arrested and killed just for cruising in toilets. Some of them were also arrested based on anonymous reports like this one to the cops, which side are you on ? It exists in most of the universities and train stations around the world. Because being gay is not so easy people can come and discover their sexuality like that, it is not your business... It is something that is hidden, you are not exposed to it unless you are looking for it. Just get over it.

Is this really homophobic?
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Are you that random user, TC?
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No.

Those gay men should learn to cruise more subtle and not make ppl that don't want it involved.

But if there are gay men cruising but doing it neatly without disturbing someone, and someone who learns about it calls the cops or something, then it's majorly asshole behavior.
And besides cruising spots aren't needed in the same way as before since you can hook up via internet real easy, they are just more for the fun now.
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It's not "hidden sex" as the accuser says. It's public fornication, which is very much illegal.
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frozenshock posted...

Calling cops or security against a gay cruising spot is homophobic. It reminds me of the gay bashers staying hours in toilet just to find a gay person to beat him. This internet post is very problematic, it exposes people to gay bashing or arrest, just for being gay and having hidden sex. Not a long time ago, people were arrested and killed just for cruising in toilets. Some of them were also arrested based on anonymous reports like this one to the cops, which side are you on ? It exists in most of the universities and train stations around the world. Because being gay is not so easy people can come and discover their sexuality like that, it is not your business... It is something that is hidden, you are not exposed to it unless you are looking for it. Just get over it.

The scary thing is, people actually think like this.
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The post calling it homophobic is blatantly obvious trolling.
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I have classes in the 4th floor of that building...
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You know what is homophobic? IS jihadi's throwing gays of roofs.
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You know those family bathrooms at stores? Yeah it's better you not go in there. What I don't get is how these guys can just be ready a moments notice to go at it with each other. Don't they got to do some prep work?

Also it's not homophobic, those guys sound like freaks getting it on in public, lucky I never been around that, otherwise there would be something other than anal blood on the floor.
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Nah. Not homophobic. I mean, who wants to pee beside two people fucking?
Seriously. If you wanna hook up, go back to someones house or rent a hotel room for an hour or so, it's not like there aren't plenty of then around in Montreal.

By the way, @frozenshock , you're from Montreal too? Cool dude. What're you taking at Concordia?
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I wouldn't want to hear two people of any gender getting it on in a public bathroom do you know how hard it is to pinch a loaf with a woodie?
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Eat More Beef posted...

By the way, @frozenshock , you're from Montreal too? Cool dude. What're you taking at Concordia?

Well I'm trying to get into computer engineering so I'm taking the prereq classes now. I wanted to do them at Dawson but Concordia didn't let me
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