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My brother is going to have a kid, I guess, and he's younger than I am. I can't even get a girl to come and hang out with me and I want to [ToS violation] because I'm so miserable

The holidays are the worst part of the year
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It's ok. First thing to do is find out why you think you can not get a girl. Do you smell ,or you shy, ect. NOTE these are not meant to put you down, but you have to see what the issue is before it can be fixed.
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How much younger
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cjsdowg posted...

It's ok. First thing to do is find out why you think you can not get a girl. Do you smell ,or you shy, ect. NOTE these are not meant to put you down, but you have to see what the issue is before it can be fixed.

Maybe there is nothing wrong with him at all other than depression and/or low self-esteem.
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3khc posted...

How much younger

8 years

cjsdowg posted...

It's ok. First thing to do is find out why you think you can not get a girl. Do you smell ,or you shy, ect. NOTE these are not meant to put you down, but you have to see what the issue is before it can be fixed.

No idea. I think it's because I'm short and I have a baby face
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So you're what like 28 or something. Still young enough. Not that age really matters.
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3khc posted...

So you're what like 28 or something. Still young enough. Not that age really matters.

I understand how tc feels. Ever since i was 22 or so, i felt pressure of how my life should be right now. The feeling just got worse and worse each year, and i'm 28, soon to be 29. Now, i have too many issues to have normal life, probably ever. I feel old, like i should be adult, which i don't feel i am.

Only thing that comforts me is that i look back and remember what lead to this, and how i likely wouldn't have too much power to change things, and the hope that maybe i some day win in lottery and i don't have to care or do anything ever, except the things i like.
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Yeah, I'll be 35 soon

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Nobody., It's been so long since anyone as gone out with me. I'm so miserable and thinking so many horrible thoughts right now
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Stop being a cuck and go find a girl?

Seriously just go work out or find a hobby and stop crying...posting to CE isnt gonna make any pussy appear out of the sky.
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Bad_Mojo posted...

Yeah, I'll be 35 soon

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Nobody., It's been so long since anyone as gone out with me. I'm so miserable and thinking so many horrible thoughts right now

Make an account on POF and possibly OKC. Tinder is garbage, don't bother. Message girls. Be patient. You just might find a girl who likes you.
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I've had a profile on OKC and Match for about three years now and not a single person outside of the ones from Thailand or something has never messaged me back

And I do talk to girls in real life, but they also turn me down. I'm a fucking loser that nobody likes
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Pepys Monster posted...

Bad_Mojo posted...

Yeah, I'll be 35 soon

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Nobody., It's been so long since anyone as gone out with me. I'm so miserable and thinking so many horrible thoughts right now

Make an account on POF and possibly OKC. Tinder is garbage, don't bother. Message girls. Be patient. You just might find a girl who likes you.

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Bad_Mojo posted...

I've had a profile on OKC and Match for about three years now and not a single person outside of the ones from Thailand or something has never messaged me back

And I do talk to girls in real life, but they also turn me down. I'm a fucking loser that nobody likes

Well, girls in real life are difficult. A lot of them are taken. At least on dating sites, the girls are single and looking. IDK why you haven't been messaged back.
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Nobody likes me

My brother has had his own place for awhile now and never once invited me over. Never asked me if I wanted to go out with him. I just sit alone at night, every night, wishing I has enough courage.

I hate the fucking holidays. If it isn't feeling bad because I have so little money to buy anything good, it's this.

Failed to launch, that's what I am.
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Bad_Mojo posted...

Nobody likes me

My brother has had his own place for awhile now and never once invited me over. Never asked me if I wanted to go out with him. I just hit along at night, every night, wishing I has enough courage.

I hate the fucking holidays. If it isn't feeling bad because I have so little money to buy anything good, it's this.

Failed to launch, that's what I am.

Surely, you have friends.
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Pepys Monster posted...

Bad_Mojo posted...

Nobody likes me

My brother has had his own place for awhile now and never once invited me over. Never asked me if I wanted to go out with him. I just hit along at night, every night, wishing I has enough courage.

I hate the fucking holidays. If it isn't feeling bad because I have so little money to buy anything good, it's this.

Failed to launch, that's what I am.

Surely, you have friends.

Nope

The last friend I had moved to California about 5 years ago
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Bad_Mojo posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

Bad_Mojo posted...

Nobody likes me

My brother has had his own place for awhile now and never once invited me over. Never asked me if I wanted to go out with him. I just hit along at night, every night, wishing I has enough courage.

I hate the fucking holidays. If it isn't feeling bad because I have so little money to buy anything good, it's this.

Failed to launch, that's what I am.

Surely, you have friends.

Nope

The last friend I had moved to California about 5 years ago

He moved away 5 years ago and you haven't found any new friends since? Do you try to make friends?
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After that, not really

Every friend I have ever made as moved away and left me here so I don't really try to seek new friends. However, I do still try to make connections with people, but at my age every one in my age group has a family, which they need to focus on

That's the real issue, it's hard to make friends at my age, especially when everyone I work with is a lot older than I am and are married with children

I'm sure there are people on here that understand, but I can't really talk about it because of the ToS.

I try so fucking hard to be happy, but no matter what I do I'm so fucking sad. All the time

Just leave this topic alone and I'll close it.
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