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SamuelHyde 12/19/17 8:58:13 PM #1:	I know of a guy in the Army who is dating an underaged girl. I have suspicions that they have been sexual but no proof. All I know is he is manipulative and hurts her and her parents won't do anything to stop it in fear of her hurting herself. Can anything be done about this? <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892533493] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>I know of a guy in the Army who is dating an underaged girl. I have suspicions that they have been sexual but no proof. All I know is he is manipulative and hurts her and her parents won't do anything to stop it in fear of her hurting herself. Can anything be done about this?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 12/19/17 9:00:20 PM #2:	Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:892533596] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 12/19/17 9:00:27 PM #3:	She doesnt like you, get over it. --- Him being greedy is a good thing. That means he'll want to spend less and help us get out of this debt. Gamefreak36 <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:892533604] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>She doesnt like you, get over it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:03:32 PM #4:	NeoShadowhen posted... Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required. He's 20, she's 15. He manipulates her and subtly insults her. Talks to her like a dog. Makes plans, gets her hopes up, then bails; calls her up just to make fun of her in front of his buddies. <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892533778] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required.</quote> He's 20, she's 15. He manipulates her and subtly insults her. Talks to her like a dog. Makes plans, gets her hopes up, then bails; calls her up just to make fun of her in front of his buddies.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 12/19/17 9:04:46 PM #5:	NeoShadowhen posted... Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required. Hes just trying to play captain save a **, nothing to see here. --- Him being greedy is a good thing. That means he'll want to spend less and help us get out of this debt.* Gamefreak36 <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:892533856] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required.</quote> Hes just trying to play captain save a ***, nothing to see here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:05:27 PM #6:	SamuelHyde posted... NeoShadowhen posted... Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required. He's 20, she's 15. He manipulates her and subtly insults her. Talks to her like a dog. Makes plans, gets her hopes up, then bails; calls her up just to make fun of her in front of his buddies. To add (can't edit), he also sicks his exes (who are underaged as well) on her. It's all emotional abuse. Calls her fat; she throws up every meal because of it. JBaLLEN66 posted... She doesnt like you, get over it. Not funny. <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892533903] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>SamuelHyde posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required.</quote> He's 20, she's 15. He manipulates her and subtly insults her. Talks to her like a dog. Makes plans, gets her hopes up, then bails; calls her up just to make fun of her in front of his buddies.</quote> To add (can't edit), he also sicks his exes (who are underaged as well) on her. It's all emotional abuse. Calls her fat; she throws up every meal because of it. <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted...</cite> <quote>She doesnt like you, get over it.</quote> Not funny.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sativa_Rose 12/19/17 9:05:42 PM #7:	What the fuck, well if you know this girl then you need to convince her that this guy is a piece of shit. Maybe an older girl would be able to do it --- I may not go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. <cite>Sativa_Rose posted [p:892533921] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>What the fuck, well if you know this girl then you need to convince her that this guy is a piece of shit. Maybe an older girl would be able to do it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:06:19 PM #8:	JBaLLEN66 posted... NeoShadowhen posted... Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required. Hes just trying to play captain save a *, nothing to see here. You're a really shitty person. She's ten years younger than me; she is my friend's sister. <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892533973] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>JBaLLEN66 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required.</quote> Hes just trying to play captain save a *, nothing to see here.</quote> You're a really shitty person. She's ten years younger than me; she is my friend's sister.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 12/19/17 9:07:40 PM #9:	You can report it to his chain of command - 16 years is the minimum age of consent according to the UCMJ. --- i dont like signatures <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:892534055] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>You can report it to his chain of command - 16 years is the minimum age of consent according to the UCMJ.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:08:54 PM #10:	Sativa_Rose posted... What the fuck, well if you know this girl then you need to convince her that this guy is a piece of shit. Maybe an older girl would be able to do it There is no convincing her unfortunately. She just...argued. fingers in the ears and lalalala. Hexenherz posted... You can report it to his chain of command - 16 years is the minimum age of consent according to the UCMJ. Would that apply considering no proof of anything sexual? Is there anything against non-platonic communication with a minor? <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892534137] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sativa_Rose posted...</cite> <quote>What the fuck, well if you know this girl then you need to convince her that this guy is a piece of shit. Maybe an older girl would be able to do it</quote> There is no convincing her unfortunately. She just...argued. fingers in the ears and lalalala. <cite>Hexenherz posted...</cite> <quote>You can report it to his chain of command - 16 years is the minimum age of consent according to the UCMJ.</quote> Would that apply considering no proof of anything sexual? Is there anything against non-platonic communication with a minor?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wackyteen 12/19/17 9:09:43 PM #11:	Doesn't matter what the age of consent is in whatever state he is in. He's still subject to UCMJ and 16 is the age of consent. iirc he isn't even supposed to be dating her, even non-sexually, per UCMJ. So if you know his chain of command or someone in his company/unit then you can go that route. --- The name is wackyteen* for a reason. Never doubt. *No longer teen <cite>wackyteen posted [p:892534184] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>Doesn't matter what the age of consent is in whatever state he is in. He's still subject to UCMJ and 16 is the age of consent. iirc he isn't even supposed to be dating her, even non-sexually, per UCMJ. So if you know his chain of command or someone in his company/unit then you can go that route.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wackyteen 12/19/17 9:11:24 PM #12:	SamuelHyde posted... Would that apply considering no proof of anything sexual? Is there anything against non-platonic communication with a minor? does he live in the barracks? Has he brought her over to the barracks, to your knowledge? or is he a guardsman/reservist? If he's brought her to the barracks, that alone is enough to get him in trouble cause Army wide you're not supposed to have visitors under the age of 18 --- The name is wackyteen* for a reason. Never doubt. *No longer teen <cite>wackyteen posted [p:892534291] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>SamuelHyde posted...</cite> <quote> Would that apply considering no proof of anything sexual? Is there anything against non-platonic communication with a minor?</quote> does he live in the barracks? Has he brought her over to the barracks, to your knowledge? or is he a guardsman/reservist? If he's brought her to the barracks, that alone is enough to get him in trouble cause Army wide you're not supposed to have visitors under the age of 18</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:12:06 PM #13:	wackyteen posted... Doesn't matter what the age of consent is in whatever state he is in. He's still subject to UCMJ and 16 is the age of consent. iirc he isn't even supposed to be dating her, even non-sexually, per UCMJ. So if you know his chain of command or someone in his company/unit then you can go that route. Unfortunately, I don't. I did call a recruiting station and they advised I call the police in the town of his base. I mean, can bases just be called like that and would they take an anonymous tip like that? Id never toy with anything like this; I truly believe this is a serious matter that is getting worse. Something needs to be done because it isn't just my friends sister...it's multiple underaged girls that he manipulates. <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892534331] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>wackyteen posted...</cite> <quote>Doesn't matter what the age of consent is in whatever state he is in. He's still subject to UCMJ and 16 is the age of consent. iirc he isn't even supposed to be dating her, even non-sexually, per UCMJ. So if you know his chain of command or someone in his company/unit then you can go that route.</quote> Unfortunately, I don't. I did call a recruiting station and they advised I call the police in the town of his base. I mean, can bases just be called like that and would they take an anonymous tip like that? Id never toy with anything like this; I truly believe this is a serious matter that is getting worse. Something needs to be done because it isn't just my friends sister...it's multiple underaged girls that he manipulates.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 12/19/17 9:12:07 PM #14:	Well you can also contact CID - http://www.cid.army.mil (contact info at the top), speak with someone over the phone and they will probably initiate an investigation. I don't know what you expect to happen - unless you're following them around taking photographs and videotaping things as evidence, really all you can do is report your suspicions to someone who can take appropriate action. If they find reason to believe a crime has been committed then it moves forward from there, if not then he'll probably be moved to a different work center or command. I would say go ahead and give CID a call - just because someone's in the military does not automatically give them a clean mental bill of health and it's entirely believable that some guy is preying on young girls. --- i dont like signatures <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:892534334] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>Well you can also contact CID - http://www.cid.army.mil (contact info at the top), speak with someone over the phone and they will probably initiate an investigation. I don't know what you expect to happen - unless you're following them around taking photographs and videotaping things as evidence, really all you can do is report your suspicions to someone who can take appropriate action. If they find reason to believe a crime has been committed then it moves forward from there, if not then he'll probably be moved to a different work center or command. I would say go ahead and give CID a call - just because someone's in the military does not automatically give them a clean mental bill of health and it's entirely believable that some guy is preying on young girls.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:13:17 PM #15:	wackyteen posted... SamuelHyde posted... Would that apply considering no proof of anything sexual? Is there anything against non-platonic communication with a minor? does he live in the barracks? Has he brought her over to the barracks, to your knowledge? or is he a guardsman/reservist? If he's brought her to the barracks, that alone is enough to get him in trouble cause Army wide you're not supposed to have visitors under the age of 18 She hasn't visited. That's actually one of the things he used to fuck with her. Said she could visit, then changed his mind. Next thing you know, his ex is bragging to her about he she's going to go visit him off base around town. <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892534399] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>wackyteen posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SamuelHyde posted...</cite> <quote> Would that apply considering no proof of anything sexual? Is there anything against non-platonic communication with a minor?</quote> does he live in the barracks? Has he brought her over to the barracks, to your knowledge? or is he a guardsman/reservist? If he's brought her to the barracks, that alone is enough to get him in trouble cause Army wide you're not supposed to have visitors under the age of 18</quote> She hasn't visited. That's actually one of the things he used to fuck with her. Said she could visit, then changed his mind. Next thing you know, his ex is bragging to her about he she's going to go visit him off base around town.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 12/19/17 9:13:22 PM #16:	SamuelHyde posted... JBaLLEN66 posted... NeoShadowhen posted... Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required. Hes just trying to play captain save a **, nothing to see here. You're a really shitty person. She's ten years younger than me; she is my friend's sister. Dude, Im just trying to save you from getting owned. I can see it now...month later you make a topic about how you wuv this girl and how she keeps breaking your heart. --- Him being greedy is a good thing. That means he'll want to spend less and help us get out of this debt.* Gamefreak36 <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:892534404] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>SamuelHyde posted...</cite> <quote><cite>JBaLLEN66 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>Ages of both individuals, as well as clarification on "hurts her", is required.</quote> Hes just trying to play captain save a ***, nothing to see here.</quote> You're a really shitty person. She's ten years younger than me; she is my friend's sister.</quote> Dude, Im just trying to save you from getting owned. I can see it now...month later you make a topic about how you wuv this girl and how she keeps breaking your heart.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:14:42 PM #17:	Hexenherz posted... Well you can also contact CID - http://www.cid.army.mil (contact info at the top), speak with someone over the phone and they will probably initiate an investigation. I don't know what you expect to happen - unless you're following them around taking photographs and videotaping things as evidence, really all you can do is report your suspicions to someone who can take appropriate action. If they find reason to believe a crime has been committed then it moves forward from there, if not then he'll probably be moved to a different work center or command. I would say go ahead and give CID a call - just because someone's in the military does not automatically give them a clean mental bill of health and it's entirely believable that some guy is preying on young girls. Thank you so much! I will definitely look into this. If I had proof, I'd give it all up. I just hope he doesn't scrape by it all...that would be the worst. But thank you! <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892534483] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>Hexenherz posted...</cite> <quote>Well you can also contact CID - http://www.cid.army.mil (contact info at the top), speak with someone over the phone and they will probably initiate an investigation. I don't know what you expect to happen - unless you're following them around taking photographs and videotaping things as evidence, really all you can do is report your suspicions to someone who can take appropriate action. If they find reason to believe a crime has been committed then it moves forward from there, if not then he'll probably be moved to a different work center or command. I would say go ahead and give CID a call - just because someone's in the military does not automatically give them a clean mental bill of health and it's entirely believable that some guy is preying on young girls.</quote> Thank you so much! I will definitely look into this. If I had proof, I'd give it all up. I just hope he doesn't scrape by it all...that would be the worst. But thank you!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 12/19/17 9:15:35 PM #18:	Police departments close to bases tend to have pretty good working relations with the units at those bases but yeah I mean CID is the Army's own investigatory command... Can't really go wrong with either one. And if one says they can't do anything about it try the other one. I'm pretty sure they will act on this though. --- i dont like signatures <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:892534545] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>Police departments close to bases tend to have pretty good working relations with the units at those bases but yeah I mean CID is the Army's own investigatory command... Can't really go wrong with either one. And if one says they can't do anything about it try the other one. I'm pretty sure they will act on this though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sativa_Rose 12/19/17 9:16:35 PM #19:	Will he get put in Leavenworth for this? --- I may not go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. <cite>Sativa_Rose posted [p:892534603] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>Will he get put in Leavenworth for this?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SamuelHyde 12/19/17 9:18:05 PM #20:	Hexenherz posted... Police departments close to bases tend to have pretty good working relations with the units at those bases but yeah I mean CID is the Army's own investigatory command... Can't really go wrong with either one. And if one says they can't do anything about it try the other one. I'm pretty sure they will act on this though. Ok. Awesome. Thank you again. I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. All I want to do is stop this guy and force this relationship to end. It may not go that way; hopefully he at least gets scared. <cite>SamuelHyde posted [p:892534713] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>Hexenherz posted...</cite> <quote>Police departments close to bases tend to have pretty good working relations with the units at those bases but yeah I mean CID is the Army's own investigatory command... Can't really go wrong with either one. And if one says they can't do anything about it try the other one. I'm pretty sure they will act on this though.</quote> Ok. Awesome. Thank you again. I can't tell you how much I appreciate this. All I want to do is stop this guy and force this relationship to end. It may not go that way; hopefully he at least gets scared.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wackyteen 12/19/17 9:19:04 PM #21:	SamuelHyde posted... She hasn't visited. That's actually one of the things he used to f*** with her. Said she could visit, then changed his mind. Next thing you know, his ex is bragging to her about he she's going to go visit him off base around town. this is a really weird situation going on. Yeah, I'd report it to CID. Provide them as much information as you can about the guy. At the very least his first and last name, his rank, and what unit (company/battalion/brigade) if you know. Even if he hasn't actually done anything yet, he's putting himself in a very compromising position that can very easily not only ruin his career, but his life as well. And if he has done something wrong, then he needs to be punished for it. --- The name is wackyteen* for a reason. Never doubt. No longer teen <cite>wackyteen posted [p:892534769] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote><cite>SamuelHyde posted...</cite> <quote> She hasn't visited. That's actually one of the things he used to f** with her. Said she could visit, then changed his mind. Next thing you know, his ex is bragging to her about he she's going to go visit him off base around town.</quote> this is a really weird situation going on. Yeah, I'd report it to CID. Provide them as much information as you can about the guy. At the very least his first and last name, his rank, and what unit (company/battalion/brigade) if you know. Even if he hasn't actually done anything yet, he's putting himself in a very compromising position that can very easily not only ruin his career, but his life as well. And if he has done something wrong, then he needs to be punished for it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hexenherz 12/19/17 9:31:59 PM #22:	Also considering there's a military drug ring bust basically every year and a prostitution ring bust every few years it would not surprise me if there's more going on, either. I don't want there to be anything more, just saying it's good you noticed something fishy was up in the first place because that's how things like that get caught. Sativa_Rose posted... Will he get put in Leavenworth for this? It's possible. --- i dont like signatures <cite>Hexenherz posted [p:892535553] in Can someon... [t:76117279]...</cite> <quote>Also considering there's a military drug ring bust basically every year and a prostitution ring bust every few years it would not surprise me if there's more going on, either. I don't want there to be anything more, just saying it's good you noticed something fishy was up in the first place because that's how things like that get caught. <cite>Sativa_Rose posted...</cite> <quote>Will he get put in Leavenworth for this?</quote> It's possible.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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