Current Events > Being almost 30 is the worst.

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We have no advantages over 21 year old guys, so why would women choose us? Pretty depressing to think about. There are basically infinite early 20s Chads for women to choose over us. We're obsolete.
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31 married with 5 old daughter.
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Pepys Monster posted...

We're obsolete.

Speak for yourself. Most women innately find older men more attractive than younger men.
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Pepys Monster posted...

We have no advantages over 21 year old guys, so why would women choose us? Pretty depressing to think about. There are basically infinite early 20s Chads for women to choose over us. We're obsolete.

You should much more capital than a 21 year old...
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Stop dating 21 year old women. Date 30 year old women.

I'm 30 and doing just fine.
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lol wut

I'd be embarrassed to feel threatened by 21 year old fratboys.
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steveoSEK posted...

Stop dating 21 year old women. Date 30 year old women.

I'm 30 and doing just fine.

30 year old women only want a man with a six figure career.
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youngfossil posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

We have no advantages over 21 year old guys, so why would women choose us? Pretty depressing to think about. There are basically infinite early 20s Chads for women to choose over us. We're obsolete.

You should much more capital than a 21 year old...

I think they should too.

Wut?
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Age doesnt matter much, within reasonable boundaries. Aside from which younger guys are pretty unbearable. Trust me, I was one of them.
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In the stone age, women will choose the strongest men.

But in our times, its the man with the fattest wallet who gets the women.

https://wnews.world/facts-events/monique-motta-brazilian-model-of-30-years-old-falls-in-love-with-a-13-year-old-teen-VcMllg
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Pepys Monster posted...

steveoSEK posted...

Stop dating 21 year old women. Date 30 year old women.

I'm 30 and doing just fine.

30 year old women only want a man with a six figure career.

Not true at all, wtf you must just suck with women (people)
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Pepys Monster posted...

steveoSEK posted...

Stop dating 21 year old women. Date 30 year old women.

I'm 30 and doing just fine.

30 year old women only want a man with a six figure career.

Not true. I only make 34k. I also am chubby and just average looking. I do just fine.
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Youve clearly got it all wrong. Being 30 is the shit. Youre a little more mature, usually youve got a better head on your shoulders, a better job, more experience.

You know how many damn girls like older men? A lot. Get out there and look.
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Being 21 sucked. The only girls interested in guys that age are high school girls
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I'm 32 and only 5'7 on a low gravity day. Women still flirt with me.
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Talks posted...

Being 21 sucked. The only girls interested in guys that age are high school girls

I had a cute 22 y/o GF when I was 21.
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being almost 30 with a shit life is worse, you feel like wanting to die every day.
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Who cares about getting a gf? We're all gonna die anyway.
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Talks posted...

Being 21 sucked. The only girls interested in guys that age are high school girls

Not true. I had a messed up 26yo woman after me around 21 lol... But generally, they will be younger so it only makes sense.

Its flattering to be liked by just about anyone though, even if youre not interested. When it gets fucked up is when youre like 28 and somebody literally half your age is lusting after you while youre staying at the same house... you dont want to hurt their feelings or look like a creep and its super awkward. Especially when everybody else is laughing about it and not trying to help. Brutal.
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I was with a 35 year old woman at 22, now I'm 34 with a 44 year old woman, I can't imagine going to a younger woman. Too much drama.
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I'm 27 now and way more confident now then I was when I was 21. Got a lot more money, a lot nicer shit.

I've also had a gf for 9 years, and for some reason my not giving a fuck about other women is a turn on for them. Any girls that know me and my gf also glow about how I'm a nice boyfriend.

I think my 30's will be a lot better than my 20's.
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AustonMatthews posted...

I'm 27 now and way more confident now then I was when I was 21.

Confidence doesnt mean anything. Do you LOOK better? Looks are everything.
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Pepys Monster posted...

AustonMatthews posted...

I'm 27 now and way more confident now then I was when I was 21.

Confidence doesnt mean anything. Do you LOOK better? Looks are everything.

the fact that you think this shows you don't know anything about women. Worse, it means you're not even aware of your own flaws and why you can't get any and instead of improving yourself you blame something unchangeable like attractiveness and wallow in your own self-imposed hopelessness.

You're not going to get anywhere if you continue down that path.
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@MacadamianNut3
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Pepys Monster posted...

AustonMatthews posted...

I'm 27 now and way more confident now then I was when I was 21.

Confidence doesnt mean anything. Do you LOOK better? Looks are everything.

Is that really how you view life? Atractiveness is maybe 40% at most looks and mostly how you carry yourself.

If you are only looking at pictures of people on the internet than I can see why you are focusing on looks, but think about the times that you are talking to people in the real world. Looks are not enough to making up for an inability to carry a conversation, having a ****** personality, having a ****** outlook on life, having nothing going on in your life, and many other things.

What do you have going on in your life that is positive and interesting that people would like to talk to you about? Hobbies? Interests? You seem so focused on getting women but what do you bring to the table? Being with somebody else isn't some end goal in life, it's just another part of living.

What else do you have going on in your life right now?

NYmasajista posted...

Pepys Monster posted...

AustonMatthews posted...

I'm 27 now and way more confident now then I was when I was 21.

Confidence doesnt mean anything. Do you LOOK better? Looks are everything.

Is that really how you view life? Atractiveness is maybe 40% at most looks and mostly how you carry yourself.

If you are only looking at pictures of people on the internet than I can see why you are focusing on looks, but think about the times that you are talking to people in the real world. Looks are not enough to making up for an inability to carry a conversation, having a ****** personality, having a ****** outlook on life, having nothing going on in your life, and many other things.

What do you have going on in your life that is positive and interesting that people would like to talk to you about? Hobbies? Interests? You seem so focused on getting women but what do you bring to the table? Being with somebody else isn't some end goal in life, it's just another part of living.

What else do you have going on in your life right now?

I go to raves and I shuffle super well and give awesome light shows with my LED gloves. People gather around and everyone wants to add me on Snapchat. I'm a popular guy. But no one wants to be my GF.
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My 30s have been amazing so far. Finally got my shit together, learned from almost all the dumb mistakes I made in my 20s, still youthful enough to move and look good yet at the same time have a more "mature" look, have a lot more disposable income to do more fun things, etc. The only thing that sucks is it looks kind of creepy if you're going for the younger girls in the 18 - 20 range and your dating options get a little more limited to women with kids and baggage.

Guys in their late twenties and early thirties absolutely slay when it comes to chicks in their twenties.
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weapon_d00d816 posted...

Guys in their late twenties and early thirties absolutely slay even it comes to chicks in their twenties.

I haven't been laid in 3 years. We don't "absolutely slay."
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They want older dudes

If you're in your 30s and have nothing more than a 21 year old to offer, you screwed up badly.
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You have 9 more years of building wealth and muscle and banging chicks than those stupid 21 year olds.
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Pepys Monster posted...

AustonMatthews posted...

I'm 27 now and way more confident now then I was when I was 21.

Confidence doesnt mean anything. Do you LOOK better? Looks are everything.

Ya, I'm ripped and grew a beard, but don't think I didn't get girls when i was 21.
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