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BalanceLost 11/02/17 6:58:40 AM #1:	We started out as fuck buddies but the prospect of something more serious began to flare up. Now hes on one hand saying he is too busy with school and work to see me right now while on the other hand he said hes feeling something for me he didnt expect to feel for anyone. Is he scared of something serious and trying to push me away or is he simply busy? Or what is going on? I told him to be honest if he doesnt want to see me anymore and he said that isnt the case. But he also said hes busy for several weeks. Im just ?! --- "BalanceLost has a steam-powered PS2 because Sweden don't have electric" - dimeanatrix <cite>BalanceLost posted [p:889608678] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote>We started out as fuck buddies but the prospect of something more serious began to flare up. Now hes on one hand saying he is too busy with school and work to see me right now while on the other hand he said hes feeling something for me he didnt expect to feel for anyone. Is he scared of something serious and trying to push me away or is he simply busy? Or what is going on? I told him to be honest if he doesnt want to see me anymore and he said that isnt the case. But he also said hes busy for several weeks. Im just ?!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mipond 11/02/17 7:55:14 AM #2:	Maybe he's starting to care for you and doesn't want to get hurt if you don't feel the same for him. Maybe he needs time away to rethink what he is doing. Maybe he found someone else he is interested in who wouldn't be happy with him having a buddy. Ask him to meet you for coffee or whatever and ask him. --- "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.". Winnie The Pooh. <cite>mipond posted [p:889610056] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote>Maybe he's starting to care for you and doesn't want to get hurt if you don't feel the same for him. Maybe he needs time away to rethink what he is doing. Maybe he found someone else he is interested in who wouldn't be happy with him having a buddy. Ask him to meet you for coffee or whatever and ask him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BalanceLost 11/02/17 10:42:38 AM #3:	mipond posted... Maybe he's starting to care for you and doesn't want to get hurt if you don't feel the same for him. Maybe he needs time away to rethink what he is doing. Maybe he found someone else he is interested in who wouldn't be happy with him having a buddy. Ask him to meet you for coffee or whatever and ask him. Ive said Im interested in dating seriously and see where it goes so he know where I stand. Its possible hes met someone else but why would he say hes feeling something for me he didnt expect to feel for anyone if that is the case? And hes said he doesnt have time to meet for several weeks. --- "BalanceLost has a steam-powered PS2 because Sweden don't have electric" - dimeanatrix <cite>BalanceLost posted [p:889616557] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote><cite>mipond posted...</cite> <quote>Maybe he's starting to care for you and doesn't want to get hurt if you don't feel the same for him. Maybe he needs time away to rethink what he is doing. Maybe he found someone else he is interested in who wouldn't be happy with him having a buddy. Ask him to meet you for coffee or whatever and ask him.</quote> Ive said Im interested in dating seriously and see where it goes so he know where I stand. Its possible hes met someone else but why would he say hes feeling something for me he didnt expect to feel for anyone if that is the case? And hes said he doesnt have time to meet for several weeks.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mipond 11/02/17 11:42:02 AM #4:	Yea, doesn't make sense to me either. --- "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.". Winnie The Pooh. <cite>mipond posted [p:889619494] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote>Yea, doesn't make sense to me either.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BalanceLost 11/02/17 11:47:33 AM #5:	mipond posted... Yea, doesn't make sense to me either. Im glad were two! And thanks for your input :) --- "BalanceLost has a steam-powered PS2 because Sweden don't have electric" - dimeanatrix <cite>BalanceLost posted [p:889619822] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote><cite>mipond posted...</cite> <quote>Yea, doesn't make sense to me either.</quote> Im glad were two! And thanks for your input :)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joeydollaz 11/02/17 11:48:31 AM #6:	you just said it, you started as that..... he liked it that way, you want to take it somewhere else he ain't feeling that --- YEAR OF 4 <cite>Joeydollaz posted [p:889619875] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote>you just said it, you started as that..... he liked it that way, you want to take it somewhere else he ain't feeling that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Returning_CEmen 11/02/17 11:51:09 AM #7:	He is seeing someone else and is too much of a coward to admit it. --- http://i.imgtc.com/BOhYeOg.jpg <cite>Returning_CEmen posted [p:889620021] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote>He is seeing someone else and is too much of a coward to admit it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DarthWendy 11/02/17 11:53:43 AM #8:	BalanceLost posted... Im just ?! Do you also come with the sound effect that goes with the mentioned punctuation ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNJ1B_2b17s --- Ave Caesar, Rosae Rosam et Spiritus Rex ! - Voila, ca ne veut absolument rien dire, mais l'effet reste le meme. http://i.imgur.com/z1pkX.jpg <cite>DarthWendy posted [p:889620168] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote><cite>BalanceLost posted...</cite> <quote>Im just ?!</quote> Do you also come with the sound effect that goes with the mentioned punctuation ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNJ1B_2b17s</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 11/02/17 12:10:30 PM #9:	BalanceLost posted... And hes said he doesnt have time to meet for several weeks. Then his intentions are irrelevant. It sucks that you're interested in dating him seriously but he's not already carving out time for you then y'all'll be intermittent at best. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:889621159] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote><cite>BalanceLost posted...</cite> <quote>And hes said he doesnt have time to meet for several weeks.</quote> Then his intentions are irrelevant. It sucks that you're interested in dating him seriously but he's not already carving out time for you then y'all'll be intermittent at best.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KILBOTz 11/02/17 12:17:45 PM #10:	sounds to me he wants to keep fucking you and not have it evolve to something else so he is giving you mixed signals to keep you on the line. --- http://i.imgur.com/O3syCWD.gif http://i.imgur.com/k3YiBdG.gif <cite>KILBOTz posted [p:889621560] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote>sounds to me he wants to keep fucking you and not have it evolve to something else so he is giving you mixed signals to keep you on the line.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 11/02/17 1:49:00 PM #11:	BalanceLost posted... We started out as fuck buddies but the prospect of something more serious began to flare up. Now hes on one hand saying he is too busy with school and work to see me right now while on the other hand he said hes feeling something for me he didnt expect to feel for anyone. Is he scared of something serious and trying to push me away or is he simply busy? Or what is going on? I told him to be honest if he doesnt want to see me anymore and he said that isnt the case. But he also said hes busy for several weeks. Im just ?! Are you familiar with the term "tossing enough bait to keep them on the hook"...? People do it all the time whenever a fuck buddy starts developing feels. They do enough to keep you interested or curious, but only as a booty call. There's nothing serious on their end. You're just another number on the list. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/flcnpawn.png http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/84543589.gif <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:889627095] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote><cite>BalanceLost posted...</cite> <quote>We started out as fuck buddies but the prospect of something more serious began to flare up. Now hes on one hand saying he is too busy with school and work to see me right now while on the other hand he said hes feeling something for me he didnt expect to feel for anyone. Is he scared of something serious and trying to push me away or is he simply busy? Or what is going on? I told him to be honest if he doesnt want to see me anymore and he said that isnt the case. But he also said hes busy for several weeks. Im just ?!</quote> Are you familiar with the term "tossing enough bait to keep them on the hook"...? People do it all the time whenever a fuck buddy starts developing feels. They do enough to keep you interested or curious, but only as a booty call. There's nothing serious on their end. You're just another number on the list.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Buzz Killjoy 11/02/17 1:50:48 PM #12:	KILBOTz posted... sounds to me he wants to keep fucking you and not have it evolve to something else so he is giving you mixed signals to keep you on the line. This, classic manipulator strategy. --- *Does the name Pavlov ring a bell?* <cite>Buzz Killjoy posted [p:889627221] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote><cite>KILBOTz posted...</cite> <quote>sounds to me he wants to keep fucking you and not have it evolve to something else so he is giving you mixed signals to keep you on the line.</quote> This, classic manipulator strategy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BalanceLost 11/02/17 3:06:36 PM #13:	What you are saying makes a lot of sense sadly. Especially considering this: Im a top and the CLEAR majority of gay guys in this area are bottoms. And we have great sex together so if he dumps me because I got feelings for him then he might risk not getting laid easily anymore since the share of potential partners is so small for him (he is a total btm like 90% on Grindr here)... DarthWendy posted... BalanceLost posted... Im just ?! Do you also come with the sound effect that goes with the mentioned punctuation ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNJ1B_2b17s Of course ;) --- "BalanceLost has a steam-powered PS2 because Sweden don't have electric" - dimeanatrix <cite>BalanceLost posted [p:889631684] in I don'... [t:75946143]...</cite> <quote>What you are saying makes a lot of sense sadly. Especially considering this: Im a top and the CLEAR majority of gay guys in this area are bottoms. And we have great sex together so if he dumps me because I got feelings for him then he might risk not getting laid easily anymore since the share of potential partners is so small for him (he is a total btm like 90% on Grindr here)... <cite>DarthWendy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>BalanceLost posted...</cite> <quote>Im just ?!</quote> Do you also come with the sound effect that goes with the mentioned punctuation ? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KNJ1B_2b17s</quote> Of course ;)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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