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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:08:59 AM
#1:


Basically what the title says. Found out this girl likes this place that I like too, so I wanted to bring up the idea of going there to eat because I really like her I think it would be cool to hang out.

What is the best way to ask her without it being perceived as me wanting to steal her from her boyfriend even if I really do want to do just that?!?!
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jumi
10/06/17 3:10:58 AM
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"Yo girl. Why don't you lose the zero and get with a hero?"
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:12:27 AM
#3:


jumi posted...
"Yo girl. Why don't you lose the zero and get with a hero?"

I don't know, great line, I really like it, but I feel that is something I say when we are actually at the restaurant, you know?
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SwayM
10/06/17 3:16:26 AM
#4:


Hey ___ wanna go hit up ___ this weekend

Either she says yes or

I have a boyfriend

Then you say

Aight

Then you literally drop her from your life. You make it known youre interested in her but youre not about to fuck around in the friend zone. Dont get yourself in the friend zone thinking you can get close to her that way

It doesnt work.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:20:29 AM
#5:


SwayM posted...
Hey ___ wanna go hit up ___ this weekend

Either she says yes or

I have a boyfriend

Then you say

Aight

Then you literally drop her from your life. You make it known youre interested in her but youre not about to fuck around in the friend zone. Dont get yourself in the friend zone thinking you can get close to her that way

It doesnt work.

That would be a little hard to drop her from my life. Honestly, it is one of those scenarios where I can't let her know that I have even the least bit interest in her because it would make the rest of the year awkward for me (she is my College Hall's RA).

She is just a joyful person to be around too, so it would suck to have to cut someone like that from my life.
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Pepys Monster
10/06/17 3:30:17 AM
#6:


You can't. It's over.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:31:54 AM
#7:


Pepys Monster posted...
You can't. It's over.

There has to be a way. I have finally decided it is time to stop quitting before I even give myself a chance with girls.

I will even accept being the rebound guy if necessary.
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Pepys Monster
10/06/17 3:39:36 AM
#8:


PiOverlord posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
You can't. It's over.

There has to be a way. I have finally decided it is time to stop quitting before I even give myself a chance with girls.

I will even accept being the rebound guy if necessary.

You're not making sense. You said you can't let her know you have interest in her. It sounds like it's better to just give up now. Or listen to the other guy and give it a shot, but you might have to cut her out of your life.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:40:30 AM
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Pepys Monster posted...
PiOverlord posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
You can't. It's over.

There has to be a way. I have finally decided it is time to stop quitting before I even give myself a chance with girls.

I will even accept being the rebound guy if necessary.

You're not making sense. You said you can't let her know you have interest in her. It sounds like it's better to just give up now. Or listen to the other guy and give it a shot, but you might have to cut her out of your life.

I play the long game sir.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:45:24 AM
#11:


byron posted...
If you have to ask www.gamefaqs.com then it's not going to work out.

CE is a place filled with many successful individuals.

You know byron, you were once my fam, this is like an anime betrayal tbh you punk.
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The_OD
10/06/17 3:48:47 AM
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Just ask her out. ya know, if she says no, its not the end of the world, tell her you know she's got a bf, but you wanna take her out.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:49:35 AM
#13:


The_OD posted...
Just ask her out. ya know, if she says no, its not the end of the world, tell her you know she's got a bf, but you wanna take her out.

Seems like there is no strategy behind this.
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Sportsaholic
10/06/17 3:50:21 AM
#14:


She has a boyfriend. Be respectful and either wait until they break up or move on.
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SwayM
10/06/17 3:50:32 AM
#15:


PiOverlord posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
PiOverlord posted...
Pepys Monster posted...
You can't. It's over.

There has to be a way. I have finally decided it is time to stop quitting before I even give myself a chance with girls.

I will even accept being the rebound guy if necessary.

You're not making sense. You said you can't let her know you have interest in her. It sounds like it's better to just give up now. Or listen to the other guy and give it a shot, but you might have to cut her out of your life.

I play the long game sir.


One day youll realize how you wasted your time and you should have taken my advice.

Your absolute best shot is to put yourself on her radar by asking her out and if she shoots you down just stop talking to her. Women dont want a fuckboy lurking in the shadows trying to play the long game they want a fucking man. You make it known youre interested and if she isnt on the same page you bounce like dryer sheets. If youre LUCKY she might respect that and come to you when the time is right. But you Cannot sit around waiting for that as if its a real possibility.

Start looking elsewhere dude. Girls arent that hard to find.

Or dont take any of my advice and regret it for years to come and learn the hard way. I wish I had someone telling me all this when I was younger. Maybe I did and I just didnt listen either. The prices you pay for being young dumb and full of
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do_ob_tpkillr
10/06/17 3:52:22 AM
#16:


Sportsaholic posted...
She has a boyfriend. Be respectful and either wait until they break up or move on.


This. Don't be a scumbag homewrecker.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 3:56:00 AM
#17:


do_ob_tpkillr posted...
Sportsaholic posted...
She has a boyfriend. Be respectful and either wait until they break up or move on.


This. Don't be a scumbag homewrecker.

That is dumb. That advice is why I am where I am now.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 4:13:02 AM
#18:


I think I am just gong to just act like a normal person when I do it. Somehow get the conversation to run that way, and ask her, along with a few of my friends about going. Very simple. Very easy.
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Sportsaholic
10/06/17 12:35:11 PM
#19:


PiOverlord posted...
do_ob_tpkillr posted...
Sportsaholic posted...
She has a boyfriend. Be respectful and either wait until they break up or move on.


This. Don't be a scumbag homewrecker.

That is dumb. That advice is why I am where I am now.


No, it's good advice. Especially if she's a friend that you value. Show respect.
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Sativa_Rose
10/06/17 12:47:22 PM
#20:


PiOverlord posted...
That is dumb. That advice is why I am where I am now.


Umm where are you now? Lonely and emotionally vulnerable or something? If so, then getting into this kind of thing is an even more terrible idea, it's already a bad idea for moral reasons, but you're also setting yourself up for some kind of huge emotional problem down the road when *surprise* this doesn't end up being some magical healthy relationship.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 1:01:49 PM
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I feel like the advice I am getting is all over the place.
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Sativa_Rose
10/06/17 1:02:46 PM
#22:


PiOverlord posted...
I feel like the advice I am getting is all over the place.


It seems like it's actually pointing all in the same direction.
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SSJKirby
10/06/17 1:04:30 PM
#23:


"I'm hungry, want to get some lunch?"
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 1:07:50 PM
#24:


This sucks, why can't I get to be happy?!?
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Sativa_Rose
10/06/17 1:08:52 PM
#25:


PiOverlord posted...
This sucks, why can't I get to be happy?!?


Well if you have defined happiness to only be being with this one specific girl who already has a boyfriend, well son that's a pretty helpless box to trap yourself into.
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Turbam
10/06/17 1:09:32 PM
#26:


"If i take u to weenier schnitzel will u bite on my weenie "

Then immediately after send

"lol jk "
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 1:10:51 PM
#27:


Sativa_Rose posted...
PiOverlord posted...
This sucks, why can't I get to be happy?!?


Well if you have defined happiness to only be being with this one specific girl who already has a boyfriend, well son that's a pretty helpless box to trap yourself into.

I am talking about in many things I can't find happiness. I just want one thing.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 1:11:32 PM
#28:


Turbam posted...
"If i take u to weenier schnitzel will u bite on my weenie "

Then immediately after send

"lol jk "

I am going to do this!!!
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Sativa_Rose
10/06/17 1:12:18 PM
#29:


PiOverlord posted...
Sativa_Rose posted...
PiOverlord posted...
This sucks, why can't I get to be happy?!?


Well if you have defined happiness to only be being with this one specific girl who already has a boyfriend, well son that's a pretty helpless box to trap yourself into.

I am talking about in many things I can't find happiness. I just want one thing.


umm you just contradicted yourself in the same post. Do you think this one girl is going to fix all those other things in which you can't find happiness? I don't.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 1:13:53 PM
#30:


Sativa_Rose posted...
PiOverlord posted...
Sativa_Rose posted...
PiOverlord posted...
This sucks, why can't I get to be happy?!?


Well if you have defined happiness to only be being with this one specific girl who already has a boyfriend, well son that's a pretty helpless box to trap yourself into.

I am talking about in many things I can't find happiness. I just want one thing.


umm you just contradicted yourself in the same post. Do you think this one girl is going to fix all those other things in which you can't find happiness? I don't.

She can make the situation better. Maybe even help in the other things too.
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Sativa_Rose
10/06/17 1:14:30 PM
#31:


Reminds me of myself as a 15-16 year old.
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Pepys Monster
10/06/17 4:43:18 PM
#32:


PiOverlord posted...
I think I am just gong to just act like a normal person when I do it. Somehow get the conversation to run that way, and ask her, along with a few of my friends about going. Very simple. Very easy.

This won't end well. What do you think is going to happen? Even if she said yes, she's not going to leave her boyfriend for you. You're just a friend. She finds her boyfriend more attractive than you.
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Sportsaholic
10/06/17 4:53:06 PM
#33:


PiOverlord posted...
Sativa_Rose posted...
PiOverlord posted...
Sativa_Rose posted...
PiOverlord posted...
This sucks, why can't I get to be happy?!?


Well if you have defined happiness to only be being with this one specific girl who already has a boyfriend, well son that's a pretty helpless box to trap yourself into.

I am talking about in many things I can't find happiness. I just want one thing.


umm you just contradicted yourself in the same post. Do you think this one girl is going to fix all those other things in which you can't find happiness? I don't.

She can make the situation better. Maybe even help in the other things too.


From personal experience, even a relationship can still leave you with loneliness. It's also not going to fix problem areas.
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Touch
10/06/17 4:54:53 PM
#34:


Hey girl. Wanna fuck?

Oh you have a boyfriend?

Wanna just get dinner then?
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cuttin_in_farm
10/06/17 5:23:18 PM
#36:


SSJKirby posted...
"I'm hungry, want to get some lunch?"


Why is this logical post ignored. It fits TC's criteria perfectly.
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darkphoenix181
10/06/17 5:24:33 PM
#37:


beat up her boyfriend and call her and say

"I know not busy this weekend cause your boyfriend is in the hospital so lets go to such and such"
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kinetika_
10/06/17 5:49:25 PM
#38:


PiOverlord posted...
do_ob_tpkillr posted...
Sportsaholic posted...
She has a boyfriend. Be respectful and either wait until they break up or move on.


This. Don't be a scumbag homewrecker.

That is dumb. That advice is why I am where I am now.


Is she happy or unhappy in her relationship? If the former, don't pursue and follow that poster's advice. Now, if it's the latter, then I suggest you try to be her friend and mix some subtle flirting in there, BUT don't make any advances on her until she starts to question your motives. Once that starts happening, you slowly start chipping away at that opportunity should she give it to you because those "what if's" will start to float around in her mind. But I'm going to warn you now, she better be someone you truly want to be with and you have an incredible amount of patience because this little game can last anywhere from months... to years.

One girl took me 3 months to break off from her BF, and another (the one I'm currently with right now) took me 2 and a half years to do so. It's a very long and agonizing process, and I don't recommend it to anyone, honestly. I succeeded because of personal factors (e.g. my personality, appearance, attitude), but what I told you is how I did it. I simply just became friends with them and worked my way to becoming romantically attractive to them by showing them who I was.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 5:52:57 PM
#39:


I mean, at one point they were taking a break, so idk.
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PiOverlord
10/06/17 11:41:13 PM
#40:


I was being dumb earlier. The mind is easily distorted. After thinking about it, I realized that was me wanting to be foolish.
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DonaldClinton
10/06/17 11:42:08 PM
#41:


Grab her by the pussy and drag her to McDonald's. Women love that
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Kanaya413
10/06/17 11:51:23 PM
#42:


How do I suggest going out to a place to eat with guy who has a wife?
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DonaldClinton
10/06/17 11:52:31 PM
#43:


Kanaya413 posted...
How do I suggest going out to a place to eat with guy who has a wife?

Tell him the only meal he'll need is your poonani
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Kanaya413
10/06/17 11:57:07 PM
#44:


PiOverlord posted...
This sucks, why can't I get to be happy?!?

Oh big mood
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Kanaya413
10/06/17 11:57:31 PM
#45:


DonaldClinton posted...
Kanaya413 posted...
How do I suggest going out to a place to eat with guy who has a wife?

Tell him the only meal he'll need is your poonani

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Keith_Valentine
10/06/17 11:57:34 PM
#46:


It's bad karma. Remember that. Even if you pull it off, it will not end how you want because you won't trust her afterwards. Because you know she'll drop you too for the next thing better, and judging by your posting itt, it wouldn't take her long to find.

Plus be honest with yourself. You'd fuck it up. You'd make the situation awkward and be miserable the rest of the time you had to see her. You seem like you wouldn't even be able to stay erect tbh.
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mortimerjames
10/06/17 11:58:45 PM
#47:


Imply that her boyfriend has her on a leash and doesn't let her live enough
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PiOverlord
10/07/17 12:01:16 AM
#48:


Keith_Valentine posted...
It's bad karma. Remember that. Even if you pull it off, it will not end how you want because you won't trust her afterwards. Because you know she'll drop you too for the next thing better, and judging by your posting itt, it wouldn't take her long to find.

Plus be honest with yourself. You'd fuck it up. You'd make the situation awkward and be miserable the rest of the time you had to see her. You seem like you wouldn't even be able to stay erect tbh.

You are right.
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Evil_Evil_Evil_
10/07/17 12:17:42 AM
#49:


lol what is with you people trying to cuck others? i hope you get cucked somewhere down the road and think back about this topic you made
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PiOverlord
10/07/17 12:30:00 AM
#50:


Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted...
lol what is with you people trying to cuck others? i hope you get cucked somewhere down the road and think back about this topic you made

I like your username.
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