Poll of the Day > How Many different people have you had sex with?

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ZiggiStardust posted...

ew... did you apologize after?

you ruined it by editing in the latter

lame
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mastermix3000 posted...

ZiggiStardust posted...

ew... did you apologize after?

you ruined it by editing in the latter

lame

who actually the fuck are you lmao
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Three.

Current gf, cheated with her youngest sister. And a old friend I had in highschool.

PiV? Over 60. Probably 65-70.

All sexual acts combined? Maybe 75-80. Very few women lick the peen but dont put want to bang.
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adjl posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

one

there will only ever be one

Even if she dies? It's not really any of my business, and this is a pretty personal question, but I'm kind of curious. You don't have to answer if you'd rather not.

Im really not interested in other women. if my wife dies, then my life becomes dedicated to caring for and looking after our daughter.
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Troll_Police_ posted...

adjl posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

one

there will only ever be one

Even if she dies? It's not really any of my business, and this is a pretty personal question, but I'm kind of curious. You don't have to answer if you'd rather not.

Im really not interested in other women. if my wife dies, then my life becomes dedicated to caring for and looking after our daughter.

that's beautiful, ok?

https://media1.giphy.com/media/11mvOtPM2FxZOE/giphy.gif
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mastermix3000 posted...

ZiggiStardust posted...

ew... did you apologize after?

you ruined it by editing in the latter

lame

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DxICkcNp_LQ
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Three
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Troll_Police_ posted...

adjl posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

one

there will only ever be one

Even if she dies? It's not really any of my business, and this is a pretty personal question, but I'm kind of curious. You don't have to answer if you'd rather not.

Im really not interested in other women. if my wife dies, then my life becomes dedicated to caring for and looking after our daughter.

Cool. Hopefully it doesn't come to that.
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Thugstar posted...

Men will inflate the number. Women will lower the number.

Interesting. I guess my real answer is - 5 then. Don't ask how it just is.
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adjl posted...

Jen0125 posted...

Blue_Thunder posted...

If you can't keep track, that means you're a sloot.

Just sayin'.

or you're apathetic to the number

It's pretty easy to keep track of smaller numbers without particularly caring about them. I can tell you I've been to Yarmouth ~4 times, and I really don't care about Yarmouth (because who would). It's only once an event happens a large number of times that you won't be readily able to come up with a ballpark figure.

Also, if one treats sex casually enough that one doesn't care how many different people one does it with, that does in fact make one a slut. By definition. I don't consider that to be a particularly bad thing, because the meaning assigned to sex is a personal matter and not something to judge strangers for, but that's literally what the word means.

or you just don't care enough to count
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Nah. With sex if you have under 10 you know. Sloot.
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9, fooled around with closer to 20.

I'm not saying promiscuity is bad but if you don't even have an estimate to the number of your sexual partners, that's dangerous.
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I'm secretly a porn star. So all of them.

SunWuKung420 posted...

I'm not saying promiscuity is bad but if you don't even have an estimate to the number of your sexual partners, that's dangerous.

I mean I'm sure the people who are saying unknown can estimate. I can but why bother.
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Gotta count the notches on the bedpost for bragging rights apparently.
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Clench281 posted...

9

good to know. lol
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The exact answer depends on how many people I can count the legit schizophrenic/mpd ex as, but for now let's say 20ish.
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Jfc, and people wonder why divorce rates and single motherhood are so goddamn high.

You kids will stick your dicks in anything or let anything stick its dick into you.
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Troll_Police_ posted...

people wonder why divorce rates

i don't think high rate of partners would have to do with this. i'd think it'd have more to do with marrying young or rushing to marry in a relationship or any variety of factors
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Jen0125 posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

people wonder why divorce rates

i don't think high rate of partners would have to do with this. i'd think it'd have more to do with marrying young or rushing to marry in a relationship or any variety of factors

I got married at 18 and just hit my ten year wedding anniversary last week tho
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ss4parrothair posted...

Jen0125 posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

people wonder why divorce rates

i don't think high rate of partners would have to do with this. i'd think it'd have more to do with marrying young or rushing to marry in a relationship or any variety of factors

I got married at 18 and just hit my ten year wedding anniversary last week tho

"i'm an outlier to the established statistics look at me"
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Jen0125 posted...

Blue_Thunder posted...

If you can't keep track, that means you're a sloot.

Just sayin'.

or you're apathetic to the number

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To the best of my recollection, over the years it's been somewhere in the region of ... I dunno, maybe 30. Possibly more. After my divorce I was basically a born-again singleton and busied myself sowing the wild oats I'd been saving, so I guess I'd have squeezed quite a few of those into my "new-found freedom" years. By that time, despite some hard knocks I'd accumulated experience and confidence, made connections reached through some lucky networking, owned my own place, and all of that stuff does tend to be very helpful. They definitely made my early 30s my golden years.
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I don't believe in condoms, chances I was the person who gave your significant other HPV, ok?
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ClarkDuke posted...

I don't believe in condoms, chances I was the person who gave your significant other HPV, ok?

Condoms offer very little protection against HPV. The problem's shedding skin cells, not bodily fluids. Just, y'know, sayin'.
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5. Looks like I'm on the low end of the spectrum here.
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Jen0125 posted...

ss4parrothair posted...

Jen0125 posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

people wonder why divorce rates

i don't think high rate of partners would have to do with this. i'd think it'd have more to do with marrying young or rushing to marry in a relationship or any variety of factors

I got married at 18 and just hit my ten year wedding anniversary last week tho

"i'm an outlier to the established statistics look at me"

That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that I don't think it's age. I think it's social media making it easier to cheat.
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no there's definitely statistics showing that younger couples divorce at a high rate.
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Funkdamental posted...

ClarkDuke posted...

I don't believe in condoms, chances I was the person who gave your significant other HPV, ok?

Condoms offer very little protection against HPV. The problem's shedding skin cells, not bodily fluids. Just, y'know, sayin'.

I just spread it, ok?
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Jen0125 posted...

no there's definitely statistics showing that younger couples divorce at a high rate.

OK. Reason being is prob cause younger people use to most social media lol
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But also prob cause they have more time has older people to get a divorce if that makes sense? Like they have more years, thus more chances
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Jen0125 posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

people wonder why divorce rates

i don't think high rate of partners would have to do with this. i'd think it'd have more to do with marrying young or rushing to marry in a relationship or any variety of factors

of course you dont think sex is sacred. most people dont these days, which is why their marriages dont last.
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Troll_Police_ posted...

of course you dont think sex is sacred. most people dont these days, which is why their marriages dont last.

i think sex is "sacred" in a relationship. if that's the word you want to use.

i think monogamy is very important when i'm in a relationship. but if i'm single i'm not trying to be a nun.
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Jen0125 posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

of course you dont think sex is sacred. most people dont these days, which is why their marriages dont last.

i think sex is "sacred" in a relationship. if that's the word you want to use.

i think monogamy is very important when i'm in a relationship. but if i'm single i'm not trying to be a nun.

right, and we all know you as a paragon of successful relationships
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Troll_Police_ posted...

right, and we all know you as a paragon of successful relationships

i mean i've only had 3 relationships and i'm 28. i'm not a serial dater or anything. they've all been 3 or more years.

so i'm not sure what you're getting at.

3 relationships in 14 years isn't crazy. i only date someone if i think it's going to be long term.
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Three:

Your mom, your sister and your girlfriend

Jen0125 posted...

i mean i've only had 3 relationships

so youre 1 for 3 so far

thats 33%
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Troll_Police_ posted...

Jen0125 posted...

i mean i've only had 3 relationships

so youre 1 for 3 so far

thats 33%

so what? lots of people have dated a lot more people than me. very few people marry the first person they ever date like you have. you're in the minority. you're not gonna make me feel bad about my past dating life. i'm very comfortable with it.
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Jen0125 posted...

Troll_Police_ posted...

Jen0125 posted...

i mean i've only had 3 relationships

so youre 1 for 3 so far

thats 33%

so what? lots of people have dated a lot more people than me. very few people marry the first person they ever date like you have. you're in the minority. you're not gonna make me feel bad about my past dating life. i'm very comfortable with it.

and im not saying you shouldn't be. youre not my wife, so i dont need to care about your romantic lifes success or failure.

what i am saying is that "everyone does relationships this way!" isnt exactly a great point since MOST of those relationships don't work out.

like i said, everyones just looking to throw their dicks into whatever (or the female equivalent), and as a result the relationship is always an afterthought. nobody ever waits to figure out if they like a person, because they always feel like its more important to find out if they like their genetalia first. And then 3 years later they realize that the person behind that genitalia is not the person they want to be with and everyone gets hurt, and damaged and fucks up their future relationships with all that baggage.

i watched it happen to all of our parents, and im watching it happen to us and just shaking my fucking head wondering how you all thought this was a good idea.
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Troll_Police_ posted...

what i am saying is that "everyone does relationships this way!" isnt exactly a great point since MOST of those relationships don't work out.

and lots of people who marry their first love don't work out too.

the fact of the matter is lots of relationships don't work out for a variety of reasons and that's just the way life works.

i'm not gonna comment on the rest because i don't care what other people do with their sex lives.
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Riding the same bike for life sounds dull. Still better than having no bike I suppose.
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i lost count years ago
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Jen0125 posted...

or you just don't care enough to count

If you didn't care about considering the number at all, you wouldn't have posted in the topic at all. You're really not very good at hiding when you're using "I don't care" to be defensive about something. I stand by what I said: If you can't produce at least a ballpark figure, no matter how little you care about that number, then that means the number's quite large.

Troll_Police_ posted...

Jfc, and people wonder why divorce rates and single motherhood are so goddamn high.

That's more because people in general are very bad at emotions than anything to do with sex. Heck, if anything, you'd have a better case blaming it on people putting too much value on sex, rather than not enough. When you've got so many people saying sex should only happen with somebody you love, is it any wonder people mix up wanting to bang somebody with being in love with them?

That, and failed relationships are nothing new. It's just relatively recently that divorce has become socially acceptable enough that people get out of them instead of sticking with them. People have always sucked at relationships.
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What does the number have to do with my desire to post in the topic? I posted in the topic because the tc asked a discussion question and I participated.
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Jen0125 posted...

What does the number have to do with my desire to post in the topic? I posted in the topic because the tc asked a discussion question and I participated.

If you didn't care how many people you've slept with, why would you take the initiative to enter and post in a topic asking how many people you've slept with?
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Because it's a discussion topic. I participate in a lot of topics here I don't have a vested emotional interest in.
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