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HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:13:53 PM #1:	Thoughts CE? --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885408] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Thoughts CE?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Near_ 08/16/17 1:14:35 PM #2:	Sure, as long as you both know it. --- http://i.imgur.com/QoIYepz.gif Just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they're not after you. <cite>_Near_ posted [p:884885456] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Sure, as long as you both know it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jack Torrance 08/16/17 1:14:36 PM #3:	Absolutely not ok. --- Currently playing: PS4, PSP, XBOX (360 & Original), Wii, PS3, DS, TurboGrafx-16/CD,NEO-GEO and ARCADE <cite>Jack Torrance posted [p:884885458] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Absolutely not ok.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution999 08/16/17 1:14:51 PM #4:	_Near_ posted... Sure, as long as you both know it. --- "Impossible is just a word to let people feel good about themselves when they quit." - Vyse, Skies of Arcadia <cite>Caution999 posted [p:884885479] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>_Near_ posted...</cite> <quote>Sure, as long as you both know it.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 08/16/17 1:14:58 PM #5:	Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah. <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:884885486] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PoopPotato 08/16/17 1:15:32 PM #6:	Military leeches do it all the time. --- http://i.minus.com/i5EWBMXTN4ERv.gif <cite>PoopPotato posted [p:884885519] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Military leeches do it all the time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
saspa 08/16/17 1:15:34 PM #7:	What exactly is "love" ? --- http://i.imgur.com/0UFI0T9.jpg <cite>saspa posted [p:884885521] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>What exactly is "love" ?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:15:40 PM #8:	Questionmarktarius posted... Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah. By marriage I mean commit your life to them. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885532] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Questionmarktarius posted...</cite> <quote>Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah.</quote> By marriage I mean commit your life to them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 08/16/17 1:16:16 PM #9:	HypnoCoosh posted... Questionmarktarius posted... Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah. By marriage I mean commit your life to them. So... Not marriage. <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:884885567] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Questionmarktarius posted...</cite> <quote>Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah.</quote> By marriage I mean commit your life to them.</quote> So... Not marriage.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:17:17 PM #10:	NeoShadowhen posted... HypnoCoosh posted... Questionmarktarius posted... Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah. By marriage I mean commit your life to them. So... Not marriage. Well both. Don't play semantics. The general idea is people fall in love, get married, blah blah blah. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885633] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Questionmarktarius posted...</cite> <quote>Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah.</quote> By marriage I mean commit your life to them.</quote> So... Not marriage.</quote> Well both. Don't play semantics. The general idea is people fall in love, get married, blah blah blah.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 08/16/17 1:17:48 PM #11:	PoopPotato posted... Military leeches do it all the time. And gold diggers, and immigration seekers. --- Oda break tracker 2017- 6 (3) Super Mario Maker Profile: 1237-0000-0073-02FE <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:884885660] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>PoopPotato posted...</cite> <quote>Military leeches do it all the time.</quote> And gold diggers, and immigration seekers.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:17:48 PM #12:	Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885661] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 08/16/17 1:18:00 PM #13:	it's a mistake --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:884885670] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>it's a mistake</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution999 08/16/17 1:19:02 PM #14:	HypnoCoosh posted... Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc If you both are open about how this is the relationship is...then yeah. I mean, there are already plenty of married couples out there as we speak who no longer love each other, but don't want to leave each other due to fear of the unknown (or financial reasons). There is such a thing as a peaceful marriage even if the love is gone. Most people who no longer love their partner, but still respect them, still trust them with their lives. --- "Impossible is just a word to let people feel good about themselves when they quit." - Vyse, Skies of Arcadia <cite>Caution999 posted [p:884885737] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc</quote> If you both are open about how this is the relationship is...then yeah. I mean, there are already plenty of married couples out there as we speak who no longer love each other, but don't want to leave each other due to fear of the unknown (or financial reasons). There is such a thing as a peaceful marriage even if the love is gone. Most people who no longer love their partner, but still respect them, still trust them with their lives.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Near_ 08/16/17 1:19:26 PM #15:	voldothegr8 posted... PoopPotato posted... Military leeches do it all the time. And gold diggers, and immigration seekers. And pregnant couples. --- http://i.imgur.com/QoIYepz.gif Just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they're not after you. <cite>_Near_ posted [p:884885766] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>voldothegr8 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>PoopPotato posted...</cite> <quote>Military leeches do it all the time.</quote> And gold diggers, and immigration seekers.</quote> And pregnant couples.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:19:43 PM #16:	but what if the person you truly love offers less of the things I mentioned above i.e.financial stability and a more stable home life. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885790] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>but what if the person you truly love offers less of the things I mentioned above i.e.financial stability and a more stable home life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
voldothegr8 08/16/17 1:19:58 PM #17:	Caution999 posted... HypnoCoosh posted... Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc If you both are open about how this is the relationship is...then yeah. I mean, there are already plenty of married couples out there as we speak who no longer love each other, but don't want to leave each other due to fear of the unknown. There is such a thing as a peaceful marriage even if the love is gone. More like fear of monetary loss. Cheaper to keep her as they say. --- Oda break tracker 2017- 6 (3) Super Mario Maker Profile: 1237-0000-0073-02FE <cite>voldothegr8 posted [p:884885810] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Caution999 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc</quote> If you both are open about how this is the relationship is...then yeah. I mean, there are already plenty of married couples out there as we speak who no longer love each other, but don't want to leave each other due to fear of the unknown. There is such a thing as a peaceful marriage even if the love is gone.</quote> More like fear of monetary loss. Cheaper to keep her as they say.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:20:28 PM #18:	Caution999 posted... even if the love is gone. what if there was never love? --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885837] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Caution999 posted...</cite> <quote> even if the love is gone.</quote> what if there was never love?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 08/16/17 1:20:32 PM #19:	HypnoCoosh posted... but what if the person you truly love offers less of the things I mentioned above i.e.financial stability and a more stable home life. the one thing worse than marrying someone you don't love is marrying someone and loving someone else instead --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:884885839] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>but what if the person you truly love offers less of the things I mentioned above i.e.financial stability and a more stable home life.</quote> the one thing worse than marrying someone you don't love is marrying someone and loving someone else instead</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 08/16/17 1:20:33 PM #20:	HypnoCoosh posted... Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc It's not ideal, but I guess it's okay. Worse things happen. So to answer your question, sure. It's okay. However, I will require it to be consummated. ~~Mwahahahahahah...~~ <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:884885843] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Point being is it ok to marry someone your don't love just for financial stability, stable home life, companionship etc</quote> It's not ideal, but I guess it's okay. Worse things happen. So to answer your question, sure. It's okay. However, I will require it to be consummated. Mwahahahahahah...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Near_ 08/16/17 1:20:55 PM #21:	HypnoCoosh posted... but what if the person you truly love offers less of the things I mentioned above i.e.financial stability and a more stable home life. What's the point in having all of that if you can't be with the one you love? You can work to get financial stability and home stability. You can never replace the one you love. --- http://i.imgur.com/QoIYepz.gif Just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they're not after you. <cite>_Near_ posted [p:884885863] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>but what if the person you truly love offers less of the things I mentioned above i.e.financial stability and a more stable home life.</quote> What's the point in having all of that if you can't be with the one you love? You can work to get financial stability and home stability. You can never replace the one you love.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tmaster148 08/16/17 1:20:59 PM #22:	There's nothing wrong with marrying anyone regardless of your own feelings. I just don't see why you would. --- http://i.imgur.com/BBcZDLJ.png <cite>Tmaster148 posted [p:884885871] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>There's nothing wrong with marrying anyone regardless of your own feelings. I just don't see why you would.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Caution999 08/16/17 1:21:15 PM #23:	Then I believe it could work, easily. It's like another version of a roommate at that point (with legal and financial privileges). --- "Impossible is just a word to let people feel good about themselves when they quit." - Vyse, Skies of Arcadia <cite>Caution999 posted [p:884885891] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Then I believe it could work, easily. It's like another version of a roommate at that point (with legal and financial privileges).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jeff AKA Snoopy 08/16/17 1:21:20 PM #24:	In North America we have an idea of romantic marriage. Lots of other places marriage is just a family business system. It's fine to marry someone you don't love. Not for me, but I have no reason to tell you how to marry. --- It's art! YOU DON'T NEED PANTS! - Chris Jericho http://imgur.com/a/1zdpk <cite>Jeff AKA Snoopy posted [p:884885900] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>In North America we have an idea of romantic marriage. Lots of other places marriage is just a family business system. It's fine to marry someone you don't love. Not for me, but I have no reason to tell you how to marry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:21:37 PM #25:	Another thing how likely is it to find crazy mad love as opposed to just love as a friendship that grows over time. True love vs Partnership --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885919] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Another thing how likely is it to find crazy mad love as opposed to just love as a friendship that grows over time. True love vs Partnership</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Talks 08/16/17 1:22:34 PM #26:	why do all the normies come out on CE in the day time --- http://i.imgur.com/gBllw.jpg <cite>Talks posted [p:884885983] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>why do all the normies come out on CE in the day time</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YookaLaylee 08/16/17 1:22:38 PM #27:	If I had the chance to marry someone insanely wealthy who I didn't really love, I'd do it. --- https://media.giphy.com/media/26gsuNHaqCPgziZYA/giphy.gif <cite>YookaLaylee posted [p:884885989] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>If I had the chance to marry someone insanely wealthy who I didn't really love, I'd do it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:22:44 PM #28:	Jeff AKA Snoopy posted... Lots of other places marriage is just a family business system. like I said above "partnership" --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884885997] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jeff AKA Snoopy posted...</cite> <quote> Lots of other places marriage is just a family business system. </quote> like I said above "partnership"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 08/16/17 1:25:32 PM #29:	HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... HypnoCoosh posted... Questionmarktarius posted... Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah. By marriage I mean commit your life to them. So... Not marriage. Well both. Don't play semantics. The general idea is people fall in love, get married, blah blah blah. There is no need whatsoever to obtain permission for monogamy. <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:884886166] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Questionmarktarius posted...</cite> <quote>Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah.</quote> By marriage I mean commit your life to them.</quote> So... Not marriage.</quote> Well both. Don't play semantics. The general idea is people fall in love, get married, blah blah blah.</quote> There is no need whatsoever to obtain permission for monogamy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YookaLaylee 08/16/17 1:26:12 PM #30:	Questionmarktarius posted... HypnoCoosh posted... NeoShadowhen posted... HypnoCoosh posted... Questionmarktarius posted... Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah. By marriage I mean commit your life to them. So... Not marriage. Well both. Don't play semantics. The general idea is people fall in love, get married, blah blah blah. There is no need whatsoever to obtain permission for monogamy. It's not permission for monogamy. It's about tax breaks --- https://media.giphy.com/media/26gsuNHaqCPgziZYA/giphy.gif <cite>YookaLaylee posted [p:884886214] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Questionmarktarius posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Questionmarktarius posted...</cite> <quote>Marriage is legally just a glorified Durable Power of Attorney, so yeah.</quote> By marriage I mean commit your life to them.</quote> So... Not marriage.</quote> Well both. Don't play semantics. The general idea is people fall in love, get married, blah blah blah.</quote> There is no need whatsoever to obtain permission for monogamy.</quote> It's not permission for monogamy. It's about tax breaks</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 08/16/17 1:27:28 PM #31:	YookaLaylee posted... It's not permission for monogamy. It's about tax breaks "Love" is not a prerequisite for a (alleged) tax break. <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:884886289] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>YookaLaylee posted...</cite> <quote>It's not permission for monogamy. It's about tax breaks</quote> "Love" is not a prerequisite for a (alleged) tax break.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 08/16/17 1:28:27 PM #32:	_Near_ posted... You can never replace the one you love. Sure you can. You can't always build financial security however. What if the person you love is financially irresponsible? Accumulating debt, opening credit cards behind your back, etc. Anyway, to answer the question, I don't think it's wrong so long that both parties in the marriage are aware. Personally I wouldn't do it. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:884886345] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>_Near_ posted...</cite> <quote>You can never replace the one you love.</quote> Sure you can. You can't always build financial security however. What if the person you love is financially irresponsible? Accumulating debt, opening credit cards behind your back, etc. Anyway, to answer the question, I don't think it's wrong so long that both parties in the marriage are aware. Personally I wouldn't do it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YookaLaylee 08/16/17 1:28:53 PM #33:	Questionmarktarius posted... YookaLaylee posted... It's not permission for monogamy. It's about tax breaks "Love" is not a prerequisite for a (alleged) tax break. I didn't say that it was. And who cares why you're getting a tax break? I'd just be happy that I was getting it --- https://media.giphy.com/media/26gsuNHaqCPgziZYA/giphy.gif <cite>YookaLaylee posted [p:884886373] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Questionmarktarius posted...</cite> <quote><cite>YookaLaylee posted...</cite> <quote>It's not permission for monogamy. It's about tax breaks</quote> "Love" is not a prerequisite for a (alleged) tax break.</quote> I didn't say that it was. And who cares why you're getting a tax break? I'd just be happy that I was getting it</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Phantom_Nook 08/16/17 1:30:45 PM #34:	It's not wrong, per se, but most people wouldn't do it. --- When a girl has sex with a bunch of guys, they call her a slut, but when a guy does it, they call him gay. ~ Antifar <cite>Phantom_Nook posted [p:884886481] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>It's not wrong, per se, but most people wouldn't do it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
--kresnik-- 08/16/17 1:31:10 PM #35:	I don't think so. Thankfully, I'm not any kind of royalty or from a "powerful" family which might require me to do so. --- southcoast09 <cite>--kresnik-- posted [p:884886507] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>I don't think so. Thankfully, I'm not any kind of royalty or from a "powerful" family which might require me to do so.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:32:18 PM #36:	Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884886582] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Near_ 08/16/17 1:32:43 PM #37:	Cleo_II posted... Sure you can. You can't always build financial security however. What if the person you love is financially irresponsible? Accumulating debt, opening credit cards behind your back, etc. Anyway, to answer the question, I don't think it's wrong so long that both parties in the marriage are aware. Personally I wouldn't do it. I mean, you can, but they won't be the same. If you love a new person, then go ahead. But if you're still in love with person 1, and you marry person 2, who you're not in love with, then you just don't value relationships and marriage that much. --- http://i.imgur.com/QoIYepz.gif Just because you're paranoid, doesn't mean they're not after you. <cite>_Near_ posted [p:884886599] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Cleo_II posted...</cite> <quote> Sure you can. You can't always build financial security however. What if the person you love is financially irresponsible? Accumulating debt, opening credit cards behind your back, etc. Anyway, to answer the question, I don't think it's wrong so long that both parties in the marriage are aware. Personally I wouldn't do it. </quote> I mean, you can, but they won't be the same. If you love a new person, then go ahead. But if you're still in love with person 1, and you marry person 2, who you're not in love with, then you just don't value relationships and marriage that much.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Giant_Aspirin 08/16/17 1:33:25 PM #38:	HypnoCoosh posted... Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her. then why are you marrying her --- Now Playing: Nier: Automata (PC) *(~);} - Get out the pans, don't just stand there dreamin' - {;(~)* <cite>Giant_Aspirin posted [p:884886640] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.</quote> then why are you marrying her</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YookaLaylee 08/16/17 1:33:51 PM #39:	HypnoCoosh posted... Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her. If you don't mind me asking, why are you with her? --- https://media.giphy.com/media/26gsuNHaqCPgziZYA/giphy.gif <cite>YookaLaylee posted [p:884886664] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.</quote> If you don't mind me asking, why are you with her?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 08/16/17 1:34:54 PM #40:	HypnoCoosh posted... Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her. Does she know? Do you want to go through with it? <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:884886719] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.</quote> Does she know? Do you want to go through with it?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:35:05 PM #41:	Giant_Aspirin posted... HypnoCoosh posted... Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her. then why are you marrying her Because the woman I truly love is my ex wife but really made some poor life decisions. This other woman I'm marrying is educated, responsible, a good role model for my daughter and provides a lot of stability. I just don't love her, care about her but not love. I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884886730] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Giant_Aspirin posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.</quote> then why are you marrying her</quote> Because the woman I truly love is my ex wife but really made some poor life decisions. This other woman I'm marrying is educated, responsible, a good role model for my daughter and provides a lot of stability. I just don't love her, care about her but not love. I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:35:59 PM #42:	Yes she's head over heals for me --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884886780] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Yes she's head over heals for me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 08/16/17 1:37:35 PM #43:	So, your ex made some poor life decisions, or you did? What's your ex up to now? <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:884886869] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>So, your ex made some poor life decisions, or you did? What's your ex up to now?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Veggeta_MAX 08/16/17 1:38:39 PM #44:	Learnt love is a foreign logic in today's society. --- I'm Veggeta X's alt FFBE ID: 196 912 851 900+ ATK Orlandu <cite>Veggeta_MAX posted [p:884886939] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>Learnt love is a foreign logic in today's society.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:38:55 PM #45:	NeoShadowhen posted... So, your ex made some poor life decisions, or you did? What's your ex up to now? She did. She's living with her parents and working as a manager in a shop for some guy she has been dating. We both talk daily via WhatsApp and are clearly still in love --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884886960] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>NeoShadowhen posted...</cite> <quote>So, your ex made some poor life decisions, or you did? What's your ex up to now?</quote> She did. She's living with her parents and working as a manager in a shop for some guy she has been dating. We both talk daily via WhatsApp and are clearly still in love</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Giant_Aspirin 08/16/17 1:39:32 PM #46:	HypnoCoosh posted... I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her. i think that is the right thing to do. but be prepared for her to call the wedding off on account of your honesty. --- Now Playing: Nier: Automata (PC) *(~);} - Get out the pans, don't just stand there dreamin' - {;(~)* <cite>Giant_Aspirin posted [p:884887001] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her.</quote> i think that is the right thing to do. but be prepared for her to call the wedding off on account of your honesty.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:40:17 PM #47:	Veggeta_MAX posted... Learnt love is a foreign logic in today's society. That's what my prother says/ He says love isn't like a fucking Disney movie. He said it's a friendship that grows over years. But my ex was my Disney fairy tale I was head over heels for her. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884887041] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Veggeta_MAX posted...</cite> <quote>Learnt love is a foreign logic in today's society.</quote> That's what my prother says/ He says love isn't like a fucking Disney movie. He said it's a friendship that grows over years. But my ex was my Disney fairy tale I was head over heels for her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NeoShadowhen 08/16/17 1:40:58 PM #48:	How poor are these life decisions we're talking about? Do you get the feeling she wants to give it another go? <cite>NeoShadowhen posted [p:884887085] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote>How poor are these life decisions we're talking about? Do you get the feeling she wants to give it another go?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
HypnoCoosh 08/16/17 1:41:08 PM #49:	Giant_Aspirin posted... HypnoCoosh posted... I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her. i think that is the right thing to do. but be prepared for her to call the wedding off on account of your honesty. I honestly don't think she will. But I think your assumption is logical. --- We make men without chests and expect from them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honor and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. - C.S. Lewis <cite>HypnoCoosh posted [p:884887097] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>Giant_Aspirin posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her.</quote> i think that is the right thing to do. but be prepared for her to call the wedding off on account of your honesty.</quote> I honestly don't think she will. But I think your assumption is logical.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 08/16/17 1:42:39 PM #50:	HypnoCoosh posted... Giant_Aspirin posted... HypnoCoosh posted... Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her. then why are you marrying her Because the woman I truly love is my ex wife but really made some poor life decisions. This other woman I'm marrying is educated, responsible, a good role model for my daughter and provides a lot of stability. I just don't love her, care about her but not love. I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her. I was in a similar situation a few years back. Engaged to a man I didn't really love, rationalizing it with similar kind of reasons. I broke it off in the end. It's just not worth it. You can find someone to marry for the "right reasons" and also love them. Meaning, you can find another woman with those qualities again, and actually love her more than your ex. But you would first need to get over your ex. Do you think you have yourself enough time to heal after the divorce? Did you jump into this relationship too soon? <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:884887181] in Is it okay... [t:75677057]...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Giant_Aspirin posted...</cite> <quote><cite>HypnoCoosh posted...</cite> <quote>Well I'm getting married in October and I'm not in love with her.</quote> then why are you marrying her</quote> Because the woman I truly love is my ex wife but really made some poor life decisions. This other woman I'm marrying is educated, responsible, a good role model for my daughter and provides a lot of stability. I just don't love her, care about her but not love. I might need tot ell her tonight I'm not in love with her.</quote> I was in a similar situation a few years back. Engaged to a man I didn't really love, rationalizing it with similar kind of reasons. I broke it off in the end. It's just not worth it. You can find someone to marry for the "right reasons" and also love them. Meaning, you can find another woman with those qualities again, and actually love her more than your ex. But you would first need to get over your ex. Do you think you have yourself enough time to heal after the divorce? Did you jump into this relationship too soon?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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