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SerPounceAIot
07/30/17 7:08:22 PM
#202:


Basing off how quick he was to break up, he probably already had some trust issues with her. If he didn't want an open relationship and the thought of her even bringing up one scared him enough to break up sorta tells that there was something else going on she didn't mention.

Either way, I can't blame the guy. She's completely right in wanting an open relationship and he's completely right in walking away from it if he isn't comfortable. I know if my partner brought up one I'd be very heartbroken.
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Vermander
07/30/17 7:09:50 PM
#203:


My girlfriend asked me once if I'd be interested in an open relationship.

What this effectively equated to was her banging multiple dudes and me struggling to pull even one girl in. Knowing this, I told her no.
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Darmik
07/30/17 7:10:32 PM
#204:


Vermander posted...
My girlfriend asked me once if I'd be interested in an open relationship.

What this effectively equated to was her banging multiple dudes and me struggling to pull even one girl in.


Couldn't you bang some hookers? Or be a sleaze in a strip club? That's what I'd do lol.
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IfGodCouldDie
07/30/17 7:10:48 PM
#205:


The Admiral posted...
The Deadpool posted...
WaterLink posted...
The Deadpool posted...
You lose the ability to sleep with whoever you want in exchange for gaining... What exactly?

Not having your partner fuck/get fucked by other people.


And what's the advantage in that?


Being able to go to sleep at night knowing you're not an emasculated pussy who's okay with other men banging his girlfriend.

This is not a hard concept for socially normal men to understand.

So you think it's better to NOT BE an "emasculated pussy" than it is TO BE an "alpha male?"
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The Admiral
07/30/17 7:10:49 PM
#206:


Darmik posted...
So a guy can bang whoever he wants but a woman has to be exclusive? That's a bit weird.


Not sure how you extended the statement to this. I said a guy can do what he wants at his bachelor party and shouldn't be judged negatively for it. I never said he had a blank check to bang women and cheat on his wife apart from that.
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The Deadpool
07/30/17 7:10:50 PM
#207:


Darmik posted...
I don't think most people have enough confidence, security or self-esteem to handle letting their partner sleep with other people.


That's the most common answer. And that's fair honestly. It just doesn't make sense and it's kind of important to realize when you're being emotional instead of logical.

WaterLink posted...
Possibility for STDs or some other person fathering a kid outside your relationship


Condoms, obviously.

WaterLink posted...
or one partner liking sex better from another person and becoming more drawn to them than you


That's that self esteem.

Of course, they could just talk to someone and become more drawn to them than you... But they're still allowed to talk to people?
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thronedfire2
07/30/17 7:12:09 PM
#208:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
Conflict posted...
The Deadpool posted...
thronedfire2 posted...
It's less than that and more me not wanting other dudes banging my girl


You only date virgins?


That's a bad response because you knew what he meant

That he owns who ever he is dating?


Another completely dumb response
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IfGodCouldDie
07/30/17 7:12:16 PM
#209:


Leanaunfurled posted...
Yes, I'd still consider it a red flag. In an established monogamous relationship, one party clearly having thoughts of wanting to wander and asking permission is a red flag. Both parties doing it, moreso.

So if both people are ok with an open relationship after years of commitment you think they are better off just ending the relationship as a whole?
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Darmik
07/30/17 7:13:24 PM
#210:


The Admiral posted...
Darmik posted...
So a guy can bang whoever he wants but a woman has to be exclusive? That's a bit weird.


Not sure how you extended the statement to this. I said a guy can do what he wants at his bachelor party and shouldn't be judged negatively for it. I never said he had a blank check to bang women and cheat on his wife apart from that.


Ok. But you don't think a woman should get away with it on her bachelorette night right?

The concept doesn't seem that far apart. You're excusing a guy having no-strings attached sexual escapades for one night. Some people can do that for their entire relationship if they have permission.

I'm not sure why a bachelor night drastically changes it being acceptable.
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IfGodCouldDie
07/30/17 7:13:45 PM
#212:


ClockworkHare posted...
Leanaunfurled posted...
ClockworkHare posted...
I thought that Reddit post was confirmed fake eons ago.

I'm pretty sure it's been posted on CE before and racked up similar posts counts despite likely being fiction.
Takes so little to get that ball rolling, huh?

Why wouldn't it still warrant discussion?

The topic is free to discuss, but some posters were not aware that the OP is recycled bait.
I prefer when trolling takes some cunning forethought and not just posting something like a coypasta from Reddit rofl.

Where have all the good trolls gone~.
Zup5UOF

I think it's less that than it is actually people having a discussion, TC hasn't really been doing much to incite anything and everyone else is just having legit discussions on the topic.
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The Deadpool
07/30/17 7:15:27 PM
#214:


The Admiral posted...
The Deadpool posted...
WaterLink posted...
The Deadpool posted...
You lose the ability to sleep with whoever you want in exchange for gaining... What exactly?

Not having your partner fuck/get fucked by other people.


And what's the advantage in that?


Being able to go to sleep at night knowing you're not an emasculated pussy who's okay with other men banging his girlfriend.

This is not a hard concept for socially normal men to understand.


Yes. Real men sleep with only one woman. With the lights off. Missionary. Socks on.

I will be the "emasculated pussy" over here having sex with multiple women in a day. Super heartbroken about it. =(

That sad face proves how upset I am.

Like said "this is how it has always been so this is how it must always be."
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The Deadpool
07/30/17 7:17:25 PM
#215:


Darmik posted...
I'm not sure why a bachelor night drastically changes it being acceptable.


Like I said, tradition is hard to break. Some people can understand it logically and still can't get over it emotionally.

Human mind is weird...
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IfGodCouldDie
07/30/17 7:18:01 PM
#216:


The Admiral posted...
Darmik posted...
So a guy can bang whoever he wants but a woman has to be exclusive? That's a bit weird.


Not sure how you extended the statement to this. I said a guy can do what he wants at his bachelor party and shouldn't be judged negatively for it. I never said he had a blank check to bang women and cheat on his wife apart from that.

But should a woman not be afforded the same right on her bachelorette night?
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Vermander
07/30/17 7:18:58 PM
#217:


Darmik posted...
Vermander posted...
My girlfriend asked me once if I'd be interested in an open relationship.

What this effectively equated to was her banging multiple dudes and me struggling to pull even one girl in.


Couldn't you bang some hookers? Or be a sleaze in a strip club? That's what I'd do lol.


I suppose, but something didn't feel right about it. It kind of felt like she as asking me if we could break up, still fuck, and hang out normally until she found someone to move on to.

Anyways in our differences we have moved past it. But I am 25 and she is the only girl I have ever had sex with, which feels weird.
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WaterLink
07/30/17 7:20:09 PM
#218:


The Deadpool posted...
Condoms, obviously.

You can still get STDs while wearing them.

The Deadpool posted...
That's that self esteem.

Of course, they could just talk to someone and become more drawn to them than you... But they're still allowed to talk to people?

False equivalency of the highest order lmao.
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Darmik
07/30/17 7:20:59 PM
#219:


Vermander posted...
Darmik posted...
Vermander posted...
My girlfriend asked me once if I'd be interested in an open relationship.

What this effectively equated to was her banging multiple dudes and me struggling to pull even one girl in.


Couldn't you bang some hookers? Or be a sleaze in a strip club? That's what I'd do lol.


I suppose, but something didn't feel right about it. It kind of felt like she as asking me if we could break up, still fuck, and hang out normally until she found someone to move on to.

Anyways in our differences we have moved past it. But I am 25 and she is the only girl I have ever had sex with, which feels weird.


Yeah fair enough. It's something that needs to be 100% transparent for it to work I think. You can't be guessing motives and it's simply just not for everyone.
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TheBiggerWiggle
07/30/17 7:21:42 PM
#220:


scar the 1 posted...
So is the reasoning the same with other fantasies? What if I ask my gf to consider anal or letting me spank her? Should she just break up with me, because how can she trust me to not keep trying to put my dick in someone's ass?


Have you been in a real relationship? Clearly you can see the huge difference between wanting to try something new in the bedroom together and wanting to fuck other people outside of the relationship?
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The Admiral
07/30/17 7:21:51 PM
#221:


The Deadpool posted...

Yes. Real men sleep with only one woman. With the lights off. Missionary. Socks on.

I will be the "emasculated pussy" over here having sex with multiple women in a day. Super heartbroken about it. =(

That sad face proves how upset I am.

Like said "this is how it has always been so this is how it must always be."


Like I said, this is not a hard concept for socially normal men to understand.

Although judging from how badly you seem to have mangled my point, I think your lack of understanding may be for a different reason.
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IfGodCouldDie
07/30/17 7:22:35 PM
#222:


Conflict posted...
IfGodCouldDie posted...
Conflict posted...
The Deadpool posted...
thronedfire2 posted...
It's less than that and more me not wanting other dudes banging my girl


You only date virgins?


That's a bad response because you knew what he meant

That he owns who ever he is dating?


Lol

I hope that was facetious

It was, but that's only because I don't take that kind of thinking very seriously.

"That's MY girl!" is such a dude bro mindset.

If he were to have actually phrased it as my girlfriend or SO or anything that remotely resembles an inkling of respect towards "his girl," I probably wouldn't have said anything.

I know it was likely just an attempt to type it out quicker and whatnot but the words you choose are important.
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The Deadpool
07/30/17 7:22:51 PM
#223:


WaterLink posted...
False equivalency of the highest order lmao.


Is it? Explain the difference.
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MachoManSavage
07/30/17 7:23:07 PM
#224:


KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Dude left her nasty ass before she started banging other guys, and she was 100% going to and likely had the guy in mind.

Good for him.


Lol the insecurity is strong in this one.
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Darmik
07/30/17 7:23:47 PM
#225:


TheBiggerWiggle posted...
scar the 1 posted...
So is the reasoning the same with other fantasies? What if I ask my gf to consider anal or letting me spank her? Should she just break up with me, because how can she trust me to not keep trying to put my dick in someone's ass?


Have you been in a real relationship? Clearly you can see the huge difference between wanting to try something new in the bedroom together and wanting to fuck other people outside of the relationship?


Tbh people get dumped for being weirdo's in bed too.
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The Deadpool
07/30/17 7:24:45 PM
#226:


The Admiral posted...
Like I said, this is not a hard concept for socially normal men to understand.


Like I said: "This is how it has always been and this is how it shall always be."

When trying to convince people to think critically about the subject I never expected you to pull it off buddy. The exercise is for other members of the class...
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WaterLink
07/30/17 7:28:46 PM
#227:


The Deadpool posted...
Is it? Explain the difference.

Because communication is pretty necessary in everyday life and sex isn't? Like are you seriously implying not letting your gf talk to other people and not letting your gf have sex with other people is equivalent?
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Vermander
07/30/17 7:28:53 PM
#228:


Darmik posted...
Vermander posted...
Darmik posted...
Vermander posted...
My girlfriend asked me once if I'd be interested in an open relationship.

What this effectively equated to was her banging multiple dudes and me struggling to pull even one girl in.


Couldn't you bang some hookers? Or be a sleaze in a strip club? That's what I'd do lol.


I suppose, but something didn't feel right about it. It kind of felt like she as asking me if we could break up, still fuck, and hang out normally until she found someone to move on to.

Anyways in our differences we have moved past it. But I am 25 and she is the only girl I have ever had sex with, which feels weird.


Yeah fair enough. It's something that needs to be 100% transparent for it to work I think. You can't be guessing motives and it's simply just not for everyone.


I mean she has flat out told she has never felt completely satisfied with one person for all emotional physical needs. At the same time she has literally been approached by doctors while she was drunk, asking her to sleep with them, and turned them down out of respect for me. So I know she definitely loves me.
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The Deadpool
07/30/17 7:31:09 PM
#229:


WaterLink posted...
Because communication is pretty necessary in everyday life and sex isn't?


So you wish you could make your girl not ever meet another man because you're afraid she might like him better than you... But you don't do that because it's not feasible?

Did I get that right?
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K181
07/30/17 7:33:32 PM
#230:


Reaction now was the same as it was when this broke, there is absolutely zero chance that after five years of dating someone you wouldn't have a good idea of how your partner would react if you suggested an open relationship. She was either legitimately dumb as fuck or she didn't care what her boyfriend thought and just figured he'd cave. Either way, very easy grounds to dump her.

And it goes both ways. Women are entirely fine to dump their boyfriends if they suggest an open relationship, too.
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WaterLink
07/30/17 7:34:11 PM
#231:


The Deadpool posted...
WaterLink posted...
Because communication is pretty necessary in everyday life and sex isn't?


So you wish you could make your girl not ever meet another man because you're afraid she might like him better than you... But you don't do that because it's not feasible?

Did I get that right?

No, now you're not even trying
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Offworlder1
07/30/17 7:35:07 PM
#232:


I think you all should be aware that "the deadpool" is just trolling here pretending to be ignorant about why men would not want their girlfriend or wife fucking other men.

It's one thing to not want to date but to think letting other men bang your wife/girlfriend would be a deal breaker for most men is just stupidity.
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The Deadpool
07/30/17 7:35:13 PM
#233:


WaterLink posted...
The Deadpool posted...
WaterLink posted...
Because communication is pretty necessary in everyday life and sex isn't?


So you wish you could make your girl not ever meet another man because you're afraid she might like him better than you... But you don't do that because it's not feasible?

Did I get that right?

No, now you're not even trying


Then what does it matter than communication is necessary?
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TheFuzz3451
07/30/17 7:36:38 PM
#234:


You can end a relationship for any reason no matter how nonsensical it may be

Relationships require consent from both partners and if one partner wants to back out, it's within their right to do so. Even if it's because they just found out their partner doesn't like jelly beans
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Panthera
07/30/17 7:39:48 PM
#235:


The Deadpool posted...
WaterLink posted...
The Deadpool posted...
WaterLink posted...
Because communication is pretty necessary in everyday life and sex isn't?


So you wish you could make your girl not ever meet another man because you're afraid she might like him better than you... But you don't do that because it's not feasible?

Did I get that right?

No, now you're not even trying


Then what does it matter than communication is necessary?


Because wanting someone not to do something that is essential for anything resembling an ordinary life is obviously a hell of a lot more controlling than wanting someone not to do something that is not remotely necessary in any way?
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MrPeppers
07/30/17 7:40:19 PM
#236:


The Deadpool posted...
WaterLink posted...
Because communication is pretty necessary in everyday life and sex isn't?


So you wish you could make your girl not ever meet another man because you're afraid she might like him better than you... But you don't do that because it's not feasible?

Did I get that right?


Wait, define "meet". Do you mean as in a casual public encounter, or are you using that as a euphemism for physicality
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Dragonblade01
07/30/17 7:53:32 PM
#237:


This topic generates so much more heat than is necessary. There's no need for either party to get mad so long as the topic isn't presented forcefully or as some sort of ultimatum. Are both parties okay with it? If not, is it important enough for them to break up over? That's all that needs to happen.
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thronedfire2
07/30/17 7:54:45 PM
#238:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
Conflict posted...
IfGodCouldDie posted...
Conflict posted...
The Deadpool posted...
thronedfire2 posted...
It's less than that and more me not wanting other dudes banging my girl


You only date virgins?


That's a bad response because you knew what he meant

That he owns who ever he is dating?


Lol

I hope that was facetious

It was, but that's only because I don't take that kind of thinking very seriously.

"That's MY girl!" is such a dude bro mindset.

If he were to have actually phrased it as my girlfriend or SO or anything that remotely resembles an inkling of respect towards "his girl," I probably wouldn't have said anything.

I know it was likely just an attempt to type it out quicker and whatnot but the words you choose are important.


this is a theoretical girl anyway I'm not dating anyone right now

and she's free to fuck anyone she wants, she's just not gonna be dating me anymore
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ShiningFetus
07/30/17 8:47:48 PM
#239:





Of course, they could just talk to someone and become more drawn to them than you... But they're still allowed to talk to people?


You are aware of emotional cheating right? And if your SO finds someone else more enticing to the effect that It's affecting your own, then it's a signal that your relationship is coming to an end.
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k darkfire
07/30/17 9:04:51 PM
#240:


People like her are why feminism is evil and why we need MGTOW. Dude is a fucking badass true Man. Women these days think they can fuck whomever they want and thats why this gen sucks. I miss the days when Women were loyal and devoted to their lovers and would never dream of fucking cheating on them. -spit-
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marthsheretoo
07/30/17 9:10:17 PM
#241:


VandorLee posted...
Its the cost to have a happy relationship with the one you love and not lie.


A truly happy relationship isn't one you need to pay a "cost" to participate in.
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EverDownward
07/30/17 9:16:55 PM
#242:


MegaButterfree posted...
He made the right choice.

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EverDownward
07/30/17 9:18:48 PM
#243:


scar the 1 posted...
NeonOctopus posted...
scar the 1 posted...
NeonOctopus posted...
tl;dr version?

Woman asked boyfriend to consider an open relationship. He panics and dumps her, she is sad because obviously she still loves him. People here celebrate his decision while slut shaming her.

lmao, that sounds like a biased version of the story

You're free to read the entire thing. People are already throwing ad hominems at me, that should be a decent indicator.

>a sage being this wrong
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Vermander
07/30/17 9:20:45 PM
#244:


k darkfire posted...
People like her are why feminism is evil and why we need MGTOW. Dude is a fucking badass true Man. Women these days think they can fuck whomever they want and thats why this gen sucks. I miss the days when Women were loyal and devoted to their lovers and would never dream of fucking cheating on them. -spit-


Which was never by the way, it just wasn't publicy accepted and was frowned upon by other women so nobody came out about it.
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DocileOrangeCup
07/30/17 9:22:59 PM
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IfGodCouldDie
07/30/17 9:28:32 PM
#246:


k darkfire posted...
People like her are why feminism is evil and why we need MGTOW. Dude is a fucking badass true Man. Women these days think they can fuck whomever they want and thats why this gen sucks. I miss the days when Women were loyal and devoted to their lovers and would never dream of fucking cheating on them. -spit-

Shit I cut myself pretty deep on this post.
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LordMarshal
07/30/17 9:34:26 PM
#248:


marthsheretoo posted...
VandorLee posted...
Its the cost to have a happy relationship with the one you love and not lie.


A truly happy relationship isn't one you need to pay a "cost" to participate in.


Yes it is.
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FurryPhilosifer
07/30/17 9:37:10 PM
#249:


WhinyZach posted...
Meh, she wanted to fuck other guys. That's fine. Her b/f is normal and doesnt want her gf fucking other guys, so he dumped her.

Now post the reddit post where the girl dumped the rich dude that was cheap.

Hahahaha is that the one where she finds out he's rich so thinks she's entitled to some of his money after she dumped him?
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ColdOne666
07/30/17 9:46:40 PM
#251:


Sounds made up.
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