wife if she was sexually assaulted?

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Evil_Evil_Evil_ 07/24/17 1:38:28 PM #1:	hmm? <cite>Evil_Evil_Evil_ posted [p:883508798] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>hmm?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Go_Totodile 07/24/17 1:39:16 PM #2:	.... why the fuck would I do that? <cite>Go_Totodile posted [p:883508847] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>.... why the fuck would I do that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
im not 13 07/24/17 1:39:53 PM #3:	Go_Totodile posted... .... why the fuck would I do that? --- http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m510t9eNw71r2yd8o.jpg <cite>im not 13 posted [p:883508892] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Go_Totodile posted...</cite> <quote>.... why the fuck would I do that?</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chill02 07/24/17 1:40:32 PM #4:	this is huh wow --- Ave, true to Caesar. <cite>chill02 posted [p:883508935] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>this is huh wow</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Philoktetes 07/24/17 1:41:25 PM #5:	yeah she's no longer pure --- I don't think so, Tim. ~~ Pizza Crew ~~ <cite>Philoktetes posted [p:883508982] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>yeah she's no longer pure</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 07/24/17 1:42:27 PM #6:	Go_Totodile posted... .... why the fuck would I do that? --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:883509029] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Go_Totodile posted...</cite> <quote>.... why the fuck would I do that?</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
averagejoel 07/24/17 1:43:08 PM #7:	why the fuck would ANYONE do that? ... actually, don't answer that --- peanut butter and dick <cite>averagejoel posted [p:883509073] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>why the fuck would ANYONE do that? ... actually, don't answer that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ReignFury 07/24/17 1:47:09 PM #8:	No, but it would bring out the worst in me --- TRANSITIONING REDDITSEXUAL http://i.giftrunk.com/rv4b2c.gif <cite>ReignFury posted [p:883509336] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>No, but it would bring out the worst in me</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Milkman5 07/24/17 1:47:28 PM #9:	im not 13 posted... Go_Totodile posted... .... why the fuck would I do that? <cite>Milkman5 posted [p:883509356] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>im not 13 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Go_Totodile posted...</cite> <quote>.... why the fuck would I do that?</quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anarchy_Juiblex 07/24/17 1:53:18 PM #10:	No. Unless she was doing something particularly stupid (which may have us break up regardless), for example, there's a Mystery Inc episode where Daphne bails on Fred to hang with an Orc biker gang, anything could have happened (sans it being a kids cartoon). --- "Tolerance of intolerance is cowardice." ~ Ayaan Hirsi Ali <cite>Anarchy_Juiblex posted [p:883509708] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>No. Unless she was doing something particularly stupid (which may have us break up regardless), for example, there's a Mystery Inc episode where Daphne bails on Fred to hang with an Orc biker gang, anything could have happened (sans it being a kids cartoon).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xelltrix 07/24/17 1:54:25 PM #11:	...what --- Reading this post may induce one or more of the following: Nausea / Butt-Hurt / Lulz / UM? Syndrome / Angst / Diarrhea <cite>Xelltrix posted [p:883509776] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>...what</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Funkdamental 07/24/17 1:54:44 PM #12:	I've been married to a woman who survived child sexual abuse, so it's not a hypothetical question for me. When we started to become serious I discovered what had happened to her earlier in her life, and no, it didn't stop me loving her. --- Slaughterhouse 5 Cattle 0 <cite>Funkdamental posted [p:883509796] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>I've been married to a woman who survived child sexual abuse, so it's not a hypothetical question for me. When we started to become serious I discovered what had happened to her earlier in her life, and no, it didn't stop me loving her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ving_Rhames 07/24/17 1:54:53 PM #13:	Go_Totodile posted... .... why the fuck would I do that? --- the real Irving Rameses http://i.imgur.com/A7f6F9h.jpg <cite>Ving_Rhames posted [p:883509801] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Go_Totodile posted...</cite> <quote>.... why the fuck would I do that?</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 07/24/17 1:54:59 PM #14:	wtf --- Currently Playing: Trails of Cold Steel http://i.imgur.com/mfuN9AI.png http://i.imgur.com/nyP8pdG.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:883509809] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>wtf</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
iamintents 07/24/17 1:55:44 PM #15:	Only on CE --- http://i.imgur.com/rCECrB9.gif <cite>iamintents posted [p:883509848] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>Only on CE</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thanosibe 07/24/17 1:56:16 PM #16:	I knew she had been when I married her. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski <cite>thanosibe posted [p:883509872] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>I knew she had been when I married her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 07/24/17 1:56:55 PM #18:	Funkdamental posted... been married odd word choice. --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:883509915] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkdamental posted...</cite> <quote>been married</quote> odd word choice.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ving_Rhames 07/24/17 1:57:11 PM #19:	fenderbender321 posted... Especially if it was me who sexually assaulted her. >_> --- the real Irving Rameses http://i.imgur.com/A7f6F9h.jpg <cite>Ving_Rhames posted [p:883509933] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>fenderbender321 posted...</cite> <quote>Especially if it was me who sexually assaulted her.</quote> >_></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 07/24/17 1:57:57 PM #20:	fenderbender321 posted... Of course not. Especially if it was me who sexually assaulted her. Really? --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:883509979] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>fenderbender321 posted...</cite> <quote>Of course not. Especially if it was me who sexually assaulted her.</quote> Really?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UnfairRepresent 07/24/17 1:58:16 PM #21:	im not 13 posted... Go_Totodile posted... .... why the fuck would I do that? --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:883509992] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>im not 13 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Go_Totodile posted...</cite> <quote>.... why the fuck would I do that?</quote></quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 07/24/17 1:58:36 PM #22:	too far, fender. --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:883510009] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>too far, fender.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chill02 07/24/17 1:59:31 PM #23:	christ, this board --- Ave, true to Caesar. <cite>chill02 posted [p:883510074] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>christ, this board</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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UnfairRepresent 07/24/17 2:01:12 PM #25:	fenderbender321 posted... even though I don't see what could be offensive about a hypothetical. --- ^ Hey now that's completely unfair. https://imgtc.com/i/14JHfrt.jpg <cite>UnfairRepresent posted [p:883510166] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>fenderbender321 posted...</cite> <quote>even though I don't see what could be offensive about a hypothetical.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
vbty3 07/24/17 2:01:34 PM #26:	Ya'll took no time getting weird. --- Steam Wishlist: http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198043569354/wishlist <cite>vbty3 posted [p:883510191] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>Ya'll took no time getting weird.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Kangaroo_ 07/24/17 2:02:30 PM #27:	I left my girlfriend after this happened to her. I tried to stick around but all she ever did was cry and she was always so down. It started to affect my happiness and I couldn't be around her anymore. She moved on and now she's married to some girl from the UK. --- Roo <cite>_Kangaroo_ posted [p:883510240] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>I left my girlfriend after this happened to her. I tried to stick around but all she ever did was cry and she was always so down. It started to affect my happiness and I couldn't be around her anymore. She moved on and now she's married to some girl from the UK.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Milkman5 07/24/17 2:05:18 PM #29:	ok the only reason I can understand is if your partner suffered so much trauma from the event that it strained the relationship and made sex weird <cite>Milkman5 posted [p:883510404] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>ok the only reason I can understand is if your partner suffered so much trauma from the event that it strained the relationship and made sex weird</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thronedfire2 07/24/17 2:07:05 PM #31:	What the fuck kind of question even is this --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:883510504] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>What the fuck kind of question even is this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lukabrosci 07/24/17 2:07:12 PM #32:	Yes. I wouldn't ever be able to win an argument again. <cite>lukabrosci posted [p:883510512] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>Yes. I wouldn't ever be able to win an argument again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Funkdamental 07/24/17 2:10:24 PM #34:	Darkman124 posted... Funkdamental posted... been married odd word choice. Less so if you've had more than one marriage. --- Slaughterhouse 5 Cattle 0 <cite>Funkdamental posted [p:883510683] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darkman124 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkdamental posted...</cite> <quote>been married</quote> odd word choice.</quote> Less so if you've had more than one marriage.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lukabrosci 07/24/17 2:11:09 PM #35:	Wouldn't you feel crummy about it though? Seriously it would probably take all the fun out of the relationship. <cite>lukabrosci posted [p:883510733] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>Wouldn't you feel crummy about it though? Seriously it would probably take all the fun out of the relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
vbty3 07/24/17 2:13:21 PM #36:	lukabrosci posted... Wouldn't you feel crummy about it though? Seriously it would probably take all the fun out of the relationship. Relationships aren't all fun. Sometimes they're work. Hopefully you'd be willing to tough things out because you love her. --- Steam Wishlist: http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198043569354/wishlist <cite>vbty3 posted [p:883510853] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>lukabrosci posted...</cite> <quote>Wouldn't you feel crummy about it though? Seriously it would probably take all the fun out of the relationship.</quote> Relationships aren't all fun. Sometimes they're work. Hopefully you'd be willing to tough things out because you love her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
lukabrosci 07/24/17 2:20:12 PM #37:	I'd try but if it was something that would always linger then we'd have to end things. <cite>lukabrosci posted [p:883511217] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>I'd try but if it was something that would always linger then we'd have to end things.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gafemaqs 07/24/17 2:21:48 PM #38:	Yeah probly <cite>gafemaqs posted [p:883511301] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>Yeah probly</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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vbty3 07/24/17 2:23:04 PM #40:	lukabrosci posted... I'd try but if it was something that would always linger then we'd have to end things. Which is completely understandable. I couldn't blame you. --- Steam Wishlist: http://steamcommunity.com/profiles/76561198043569354/wishlist <cite>vbty3 posted [p:883511359] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>lukabrosci posted...</cite> <quote>I'd try but if it was something that would always linger then we'd have to end things.</quote> Which is completely understandable. I couldn't blame you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
emblem boy 07/24/17 2:23:29 PM #41:	Milkman5 posted... ok the only reason I can understand is if your partner suffered so much trauma from the event that it strained the relationship and made sex weird --- Posted with GameRaven 3.2.1 <cite>emblem boy posted [p:883511373] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Milkman5 posted...</cite> <quote>ok the only reason I can understand is if your partner suffered so much trauma from the event that it strained the relationship and made sex weird</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thanosibe 07/24/17 3:38:43 PM #43:	vbty3 posted... lukabrosci posted... Wouldn't you feel crummy about it though? Seriously it would probably take all the fun out of the relationship. Relationships aren't all fun. Sometimes they're work. Hopefully you'd be willing to tough things out because you love her. And being able to communicate, both, what you like and don't like out of a sexual relationship without fear of of judgement or embarrassment is something you both have to work at. For as long as we have been together I know what it too over the line and what isn't. And when something is found out to be too over the line we can communicate it at the moment, without ruining said moment. I only felt it was an issue in our sexual relationship because I didn't want to address it. And that stunted starting something wonderful we have now have because I was too timid to communicate. I let it be the be all when we first together and that was my mistake. To define her by that terrible event. Don't define a person by something that they aren't. Even if it's subconscious or for the "right" reasons. --- I think I need a drink. Almost everybody does only they don't know it. -- Charles Bukowski <cite>thanosibe posted [p:883515438] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>vbty3 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>lukabrosci posted...</cite> <quote>Wouldn't you feel crummy about it though? Seriously it would probably take all the fun out of the relationship.</quote> Relationships aren't all fun. Sometimes they're work. Hopefully you'd be willing to tough things out because you love her.</quote>And being able to communicate, both, what you like and don't like out of a sexual relationship without fear of of judgement or embarrassment is something you both have to work at. For as long as we have been together I know what it too over the line and what isn't. And when something is found out to be too over the line we can communicate it at the moment, without ruining said moment. I only felt it was an issue in our sexual relationship because I didn't want to address it. And that stunted starting something wonderful we have now have because I was too timid to communicate. I let it be the be all when we first together and that was my mistake. To define her by that terrible event. Don't define a person by something that they aren't. Even if it's subconscious or for the "right" reasons.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Itoldyaso 07/24/17 3:49:29 PM #44:	I am surprised this topic is still here. <cite>Itoldyaso posted [p:883516001] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>I am surprised this topic is still here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Virus731 07/24/17 3:53:12 PM #45:	Go_Totodile posted... .... why the fuck would I do that? because of the fucking baggage are you actually that naive that that thought doesn't cross your mind? --- I hope this **in' world **in' burns away And I'd kill you all if I had my way <cite>Virus731 posted [p:883516202] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Go_Totodile posted...</cite> <quote>.... why the fuck would I do that?</quote> because of the fucking baggage are you actually that naive that that thought doesn't cross your mind?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
chill02 07/24/17 3:55:45 PM #46:	Itoldyaso posted... I am surprised this topic is still here. I'm not, this place is a hellhole --- Ave, true to Caesar. <cite>chill02 posted [p:883516327] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><cite>Itoldyaso posted...</cite> <quote>I am surprised this topic is still here.</quote> I'm not, this place is a hellhole</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
omega cookie 07/24/17 3:59:50 PM #47:	I actually stayed with a girlfriend for an extra year after... something happened to her. I never really found out what(I think she got groped and forcibly fingered at a party), but she didn't want to talk about it. She was an absolute piece of shit person and I was going to break it off on that Saturday when I saw her after work, and it happened Friday night. I'm an asshole, but I'm not a sadist. Ended up waiting until she broke it off which was almost a full year later. --- FFRK: BRKB - Eiko - Guardian Mog FFBE: 885,063,087 - Orlandeau - 931 ATK <cite>omega cookie posted [p:883516539] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>I actually stayed with a girlfriend for an extra year after... something happened to her. I never really found out what(I think she got groped and forcibly fingered at a party), but she didn't want to talk about it. She was an absolute piece of shit person and I was going to break it off on that Saturday when I saw her after work, and it happened Friday night. I'm an asshole, but I'm not a sadist. Ended up waiting until she broke it off which was almost a full year later.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
super_clout 07/24/17 4:21:48 PM #48:	no. but i would fuck up the person who did when I find them. --- FC 1891 1184 7059. IGN. Clout <cite>super_clout posted [p:883517761] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>no. but i would fuck up the person who did when I find them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 07/24/17 4:22:58 PM #49:	Did I stumble into 4chan by accident? What the fuck is this topic? --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i191.photobucket.com/albums/z316/CeliaOfTheSky/Pinky0926.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:883517816] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote>Did I stumble into 4chan by accident? What the fuck is this topic?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClockworkHare 07/24/17 4:27:31 PM #50:	would you break up with your girlfriend/wife if she was sexually assaulted? Ideally I would say no, like many people would want to in my country. When your partner/spouse gets put through a traumatic experience, it's typically expected that you be there to support them through their recovery. That's part of being a significant other, to be committed and compassionate. It's natural for committed people to want to rescue their beloved partners from their suffering. However, I am aware that there are also extreme cases involving elements that can quickly erode a couple's stability to the point of breakup. Sometimes no amount of partner support will bring the damaged person back from their brink. The trauma they sustained had too intense of an impact on their emotional and possibly even cognitive well being. While I still sympathize with the victims in these cases, I would also feel concern for their diligent partners trying to help them. When the damaged person starts to casually lash out, act violent, and become too overwhelming to safely help...I have never had any qualms telling their caring partners to abandon ship. In the past, I have told both women and men to leave shattered partners who were becoming increasingly abusive and potentially dangerous. And I don't judge the ones who chose to opt out. I have experience with the situations myself; choosing to stay can sometimes be a decision that requires a lot of harsh endurance. I don't blame some people for realizing they lack the stamina for that. A couple times so did I. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/flcnpawn.png http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/84543589.gif <cite>ClockworkHare posted [p:883518074] in would you ... [t:75599796]...</cite> <quote><quote>would you break up with your girlfriend/wife if she was sexually assaulted?</quote> Ideally I would say no, like many people would want to in my country. When your partner/spouse gets put through a traumatic experience, it's typically expected that you be there to support them through their recovery. That's part of being a significant other, to be committed and compassionate. It's natural for committed people to want to rescue their beloved partners from their suffering. However, I am aware that there are also extreme cases involving elements that can quickly erode a couple's stability to the point of breakup. Sometimes no amount of partner support will bring the damaged person back from their brink. The trauma they sustained had too intense of an impact on their emotional and possibly even cognitive well being. While I still sympathize with the victims in these cases, I would also feel concern for their diligent partners trying to help them. When the damaged person starts to casually lash out, act violent, and become too overwhelming to safely help...I have never had any qualms telling their caring partners to abandon ship. In the past, I have told both women and men to leave shattered partners who were becoming increasingly abusive and potentially dangerous. And I don't judge the ones who chose to opt out. I have experience with the situations myself; choosing to stay can sometimes be a decision that requires a lot of harsh endurance. I don't blame some people for realizing they lack the stamina for that. A couple times so did I.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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