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emblem boy
08/14/17 2:57:18 AM
#402:


gna647 posted...
Tonight's was really luke warm

And idk if I'm jumping the gun but she set off a lot of red flags

Picked her up, came to my place and watched game of thrones. Little bit of naruto. (Her favorites)

Everytime we were getting close she would scoot away a bit. Instead of cuddling or whatever like 90% or girls do

And after we were done watching i just drove her home afterwards, instead of chilling for a bit like most dates.

And she gave me a hug goodbye when I dropped her off. No kiss or nada.


It's almost like she just wants to hangout as friends. I think we both have completely different intentions. But I think I'm done with her.

Should probably communicate this with her before you jump to conclusions
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umax555
08/14/17 3:48:59 AM
#403:


Do I have a chance to escape the friend zone here?

I met this girl from Tinder back in March or April. I've been on tons of online dates but this girl stood out and was one of the very few that I was 100% sure I really liked. We went on 3 dates, she seemed into me during the first two but after the third she seemed less interested and made excuses not to hang out. I finally asked her what was up and she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and we should just be friends. After that we didn't talk for awhile.

Fast foward to about a month ago. I sent her a text saying happy birthday, and it turned into a whole conversation. Since then we've been texting/snapchatting multiple times per week and she actually seemed interested in talking to me again. No flirting yet though. I finally said we should hang out and she agreed. We're planning on grabbing drinks or something later this week. So, do I make a move or wait until we've hung out a bit more? And how would I go about doing it?
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Blue_Popo
08/14/17 8:58:14 AM
#404:


umax555 posted...
Do I have a chance to escape the friend zone here?

I met this girl from Tinder back in March or April. I've been on tons of online dates but this girl stood out and was one of the very few that I was 100% sure I really liked. We went on 3 dates, she seemed into me during the first two but after the third she seemed less interested and made excuses not to hang out. I finally asked her what was up and she said she didn't want a boyfriend right now and we should just be friends. After that we didn't talk for awhile.

Fast foward to about a month ago. I sent her a text saying happy birthday, and it turned into a whole conversation. Since then we've been texting/snapchatting multiple times per week and she actually seemed interested in talking to me again. No flirting yet though. I finally said we should hang out and she agreed. We're planning on grabbing drinks or something later this week. So, do I make a move or wait until we've hung out a bit more? And how would I go about doing it?


See how the situation unfolds, if you've been on a ton of dates you should be able to tell if she just wants a friend or she wants you
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Blue_Popo
08/14/17 8:59:03 AM
#405:


EnragedSlith posted...
gna647 posted...
emblem boy posted...
I think I'm scared of kissing her because it's been so long and I don't want to be had at it. I've kissed 2 girls. When I was 23/24 and had a month long thing with this girl. Then when I was 25, but I was drunk for that one and don't remember it. I haven't been sober for a kiss in 3 years.


This is how I feel except for sex
I've had sex 3 times but I haven't had any since April

Then why do you keep talking about "being with" women. What does even mean to you?

Also, kissing is easy. Just kiss her how she kisses you.


Yes this last bit is key. Match their pace, don't be trying to tongue her wisdom teeth
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billcom6
08/14/17 4:18:40 PM
#406:


Matched with a girl on bumble today.

She messaged me pretty much right away.

We exchange a few messages.

She then deletes her account (I say that cause I can still see the convo but can't respond, if she just unmatched I think the convo would disappear but I'm not sure) mid conversation.

Stuff like this is why I am so close to deleting these apps.
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Tauros
08/14/17 5:57:25 PM
#407:


billcom6 posted...
Matched with a girl on bumble today.

She messaged me pretty much right away.

We exchange a few messages.

She then deletes her account (I say that cause I can still see the convo but can't respond, if she just unmatched I think the convo would disappear but I'm not sure) mid conversation.

Stuff like this is why I am so close to deleting these apps.

I think the key is to not take them so seriously. Having them is at least marginally better than not doing anything at all.
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gna647
08/15/17 6:47:32 PM
#408:


Came close to messaging halloween girl again :[

last i talked to her was july 22nd according to my last message sent

idk, i told her maybe we can hang again when my feelings subsided
but i dont see that happening for a while.
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Blue_Popo
08/15/17 7:12:35 PM
#409:


^

gna647 posted...
Officially did it


Talked to her about how I felt and I told her we probably can't be friends because of it.

She told me it's frustrating we can't be friends but she understands, and that what I wanted was bad timing for her because she's not ready for anything serious with anyone


But we had closure, and I blocked her on everything


So that's that.

I feel relieved and regret at the same time. Like I wanted her to stop me and tell me she's willing to give us a shot. But I'm just happy I won't be seeing her on anything or talking to her anymore


First page of this topic LOL

This guy is jorah mormont, that girl is danerys
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emblem boy
08/15/17 7:29:20 PM
#410:


Blue_Popo posted...
^

gna647 posted...
Officially did it


Talked to her about how I felt and I told her we probably can't be friends because of it.

She told me it's frustrating we can't be friends but she understands, and that what I wanted was bad timing for her because she's not ready for anything serious with anyone


But we had closure, and I blocked her on everything


So that's that.

I feel relieved and regret at the same time. Like I wanted her to stop me and tell me she's willing to give us a shot. But I'm just happy I won't be seeing her on anything or talking to her anymore


First page of this topic LOL

This guy is jorah mormont, that girl is danerys


Lmao
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emblem boy
08/15/17 11:26:19 PM
#411:


gna647 posted...
Came close to messaging halloween girl again :[

last i talked to her was july 22nd according to my last message sent

idk, i told her maybe we can hang again when my feelings subsided
but i dont see that happening for a while.


You still talking to this new girl though?
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Maeiv
08/16/17 12:43:04 AM
#412:


Dating friends. Yes or no?
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Blue_Popo
08/16/17 12:47:06 AM
#413:


Maeiv posted...
Dating friends. Yes or no?


no
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emblem boy
08/16/17 12:49:39 AM
#414:


Maeiv posted...
Dating friends. Yes or no?


Seems like that's how most relationships start
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gna647
08/16/17 1:15:18 AM
#415:


emblem boy posted...
You still talking to this new girl though?


yes

shes in Texas for the week though
but planning to take her out next sunday.
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Blue_Popo
08/16/17 7:47:28 PM
#417:


JustMyOpinion posted...
emblem boy posted...
Blue_Popo posted...
^

gna647 posted...
Officially did it


Talked to her about how I felt and I told her we probably can't be friends because of it.

She told me it's frustrating we can't be friends but she understands, and that what I wanted was bad timing for her because she's not ready for anything serious with anyone


But we had closure, and I blocked her on everything


So that's that.

I feel relieved and regret at the same time. Like I wanted her to stop me and tell me she's willing to give us a shot. But I'm just happy I won't be seeing her on anything or talking to her anymore


First page of this topic LOL

This guy is jorah mormont, that girl is danerys


Lmao


What a joke. A sad, pathetic joke.


Hey

...I thought my joke was pretty good :p
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Tauros
08/16/17 7:50:37 PM
#418:


Tinder date flaked today. It amazes me how these girls can talk to me for a week, let me know when they're available, we set up a date, then just ghost.
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Blue_Popo
08/16/17 8:31:04 PM
#419:


Tauros posted...
Tinder date flaked today. It amazes me how these girls can talk to me for a week, let me know when they're available, we set up a date, then just ghost.


Sucks, been there. If she ever hits you up again, tell her you are only going out if she buys dinner
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billcom6
08/16/17 11:53:11 PM
#420:


Well looking on the bright side, school starts next week, so I won't be alone all day every day.

Hopefully I will keep myself busy enough to ignore negative thoughts about dating or being single for awhile.
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emblem boy
08/17/17 1:37:14 AM
#421:


billcom6 posted...
Well looking on the bright side, school starts next week, so I won't be alone all day every day.

Hopefully I will keep myself busy enough to ignore negative thoughts about dating or being single for awhile.


Brah
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DeroIin
08/17/17 1:47:37 AM
#422:


Tauros posted...
Tinder date flaked today. It amazes me how these girls can talk to me for a week, let me know when they're available, we set up a date, then just ghost.


Dam that sucks, but at least you were able to set up a date. Every time I get that far and ask when they're available, they say they work all the time and are never free...yet have time to post new Insta pics
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gna647
08/17/17 12:24:17 PM
#423:


She left my message on read. Guess shes not interested.


Oh well


Next girl
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justaguy3492
08/17/17 12:24:57 PM
#424:


Did tinder give more swipes? I've been swipin since I woke up and haven't hit the limit yet.
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teepan95
08/17/17 12:44:52 PM
#425:


gna647 posted...
Oh well


Next girl

Story of my life
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Turtlebread
08/17/17 12:50:18 PM
#426:


i've been dating the girl i met on bumble for like 7 months now
i miss tinder tbh
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Coolppl Owns
08/17/17 1:07:46 PM
#427:


Turtlebread posted...
i've been dating the girl i met on bumble for like 7 months now
i miss tinder tbh


getting bored? @Turtlebread
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teepan95
08/17/17 1:13:17 PM
#428:


We have new neighbours

The guy is probably my age. He's alright.

His gf is maybe a year or two younger. She's banging <_<
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Turtlebread
08/17/17 1:56:49 PM
#429:


Not bored but I do miss the possibilities of single life and I'm only young once.
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Coolppl Owns
08/17/17 2:01:39 PM
#430:


Depends on how you look at it I suppose. Having a girlfriend is pretty great to me
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emblem boy
08/17/17 2:08:25 PM
#431:


Turtlebread posted...
Not bored but I do miss the possibilities of single life and I'm only young once.


What about being single do you miss?
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Blue_Popo
08/17/17 2:18:58 PM
#432:


Downloaded tinder again today. Let's see how this round goes. I wanted to let a past failure heal first and I think I'm ready now
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dragnmaninferno
08/17/17 2:31:34 PM
#433:


Been talking to the same guy for over a week now. Our schedules haven't lined up so we haven't gone out on a coffee/lunch date yet. Planning on doing that soon.
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vbty3
08/17/17 2:36:16 PM
#434:


gna647 posted...
She left my message on read. Guess shes not interested.


Oh well


Next girl

Maybe she's busy?
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Blue_Popo
08/17/17 2:55:13 PM
#435:


Just downloaded bumble as well and have a match already. Let's do this ;)
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Tauros
08/17/17 3:38:15 PM
#436:


Blue_Popo posted...
Just downloaded bumble as well and have a match already. Let's do this ;)

Ahh, to be attractive enough to have dating be easy mode. Lol
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teepan95
08/17/17 4:15:22 PM
#437:


Tauros posted...
Ahh, to be attractive

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drunkmuggle
08/17/17 4:19:16 PM
#438:


ive been on 2 dates with this chick and might go on a third but I'm not really attracted to her idk what to do do I end it
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dragnmaninferno
08/17/17 4:21:58 PM
#439:


drunkmuggle posted...
ive been on 2 dates with this chick and might go on a third but I'm not really attracted to her idk what to do do I end it

Yes. Dragging whatever you two are doing is not fair to either you or her.
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gna647
08/17/17 4:54:22 PM
#440:


im considered attractive but dating mode is not easy

but then again, it might be something i'm doing wrong. Kinda wanted to go on a double date and ask a friend if i was "acting" alright.

What I do is just be myself, go with the flow and keep up with conversation, but most importantly, listen to her.

I think what i did wrong my last date, when I was driving her home she was talking about the type of music she listened to but i was kinda half listening cause I was driving, not to mention she blasted her music in my car.



I can't really pinpoint what I do wrong though. Maybe im not as attractive as I am in my pictures? Maybe they didn't expect me to have a certain personality? No idea.
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mrtopgoon327
08/17/17 5:15:03 PM
#441:


gna647 posted...
What I do is just be myself, go with the flow and keep up with conversation, but most importantly, listen to her.

That doesn't really mean shit. You and 5 other guys she goes on a date with can do that. But maybe one in particular just says more interesting shit, or is funnier and etc. I hung out with this chick the other day. She was cool, nothing wrong with her really, but I kinda lost all interest in her. She was herself, and went with the flow and didn't really do anything that turned me off. Sometimes it's as simple as you just aren't into the person, because they aren't what you're into. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong, just means you're not for that person. Maybe she just wanted to be taken out and was never actually interested in the first place, maybe she didn't find you as attractive in person. All kinds of possibilities, to the point where you shouldn't even worry about it in that way. This ain't gonna be the last time this happens and you may end up doing it to someone else one day. You definitely seem like you think way too fucking much. Calm the fuck down man.
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gna647
08/17/17 6:51:46 PM
#442:


Good things happen in threes for me


girl finally messaged me back and said sorry she was busy etc.

cute navajo black girl matched me on tinder and weve been texting for like an hour

and this hot white girl with nice tits actually messaged me on bumble



hnnnng
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gna647
08/17/17 6:56:09 PM
#443:


pretty sure both of these girls want to go out on a date

so which means i would be juggling 3 girls at once

bad idea or nah? Still not sure what first girl thinks about me if she wants to be more than friends or not, hoping to make a move soon and find out.
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Turtlebread
08/17/17 8:10:34 PM
#444:


emblem boy posted...
Turtlebread posted...
Not bored but I do miss the possibilities of single life and I'm only young once.


What about being single do you miss?


Being able to openly flirt with anyone, going to clubs with my boyz, my free time, and casual tinder sex.
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mrtopgoon327
08/17/17 8:30:34 PM
#445:


gna647 posted...
pretty sure both of these girls want to go out on a date

so which means i would be juggling 3 girls at once

bad idea or nah? Still not sure what first girl thinks about me if she wants to be more than friends or not, hoping to make a move soon and find out.

Great idea, do it. They're probably talking to multiple guys. If you're worried about it just cut things off with the others when things are starting to get serious. I told you already to stop fucking thinking so much. That is coming from someone that thinks hard as fuck about everything.
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emblem boy
08/18/17 1:58:50 AM
#446:


I need to kiss her next time I see her. I've let this go on too long
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emblem boy
08/18/17 6:12:14 AM
#447:


Like, the fuck is wrong with me. This weekend, I'm doing it
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dragnmaninferno
08/18/17 9:07:34 AM
#448:


Ya do it. Even I kissed the dude I was interested in the first time we made our attraction to each other known.
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Coolppl Owns
08/18/17 9:17:08 AM
#449:


@emblem_boy

how times have you seen this girl now? She's definitely waiting for it. I'd find a nice quiet place to sit and just go for it
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emblem boy
08/18/17 9:49:20 AM
#450:


Coolppl Owns posted...
@emblem_boy

how times have you seen this girl now? She's definitely waiting for it. I'd find a nice quiet place to sit and just go for it


We were at my place last night. It was our 4th time meeting. So ya, I've completed fucked up.

It's happening this weekend
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Coolppl Owns
08/18/17 9:50:48 AM
#451:


you could probably even go further if you wanted to

3 dates is usually the standard for sex
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