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Smallville
07/04/17 8:14:09 AM
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I'm talking about a quality that most girls look for. In your opinion is it an overrated quality to most girls? What about being a really nice guy? Do you think that's an overrated quality?
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DrizztLink
07/04/17 8:15:38 AM
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Being funny is pretty much all I have going for me, so I hope not.
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GODTIER
07/04/17 8:21:47 AM
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yes because a girl who is attracted to you will find you funny regardless
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GODTIER
07/04/17 8:22:09 AM
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also once youre with them long enough nothing you say will be funny
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Steve Nick
07/04/17 8:23:35 AM
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being 'funny' is a fake quality.

that doesn't actually mean anything

Any two people that like each other will find humor and amusement together.


also, a lot of times what seems to pass as being 'funny', is just being immature and peddling cliche sexual jokes at every possible moment.
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Howl
07/04/17 9:22:30 AM
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GODTIER posted...
yes because a girl who is attracted to you will find you funny regardless

GODTIER posted...
also once youre with them long enough nothing you say will be funny


Both of these are true.
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NonDairyMiltank
07/04/17 9:27:16 AM
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with the internet around to spoil every joke possible, no

making a funny first impression takes practice
staying attractively funny with new material takes real talent
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SpiralDrift
07/04/17 9:28:29 AM
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Rich >>>>>>>>>>>>> funny > attractive >>>>>>>>>>>>> nice
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Blue_Dream87
07/04/17 9:32:34 AM
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CwebbMichSac4
07/04/17 9:33:20 AM
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Blue_Dream87 posted...
wtf does "nice" even mean these days?

you think most people are assholes or something?
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Blue_Dream87
07/04/17 9:35:39 AM
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CwebbMichSac4 posted...
Blue_Dream87 posted...
wtf does "nice" even mean these days?

you think most people are assholes or something?


No, but you hear so many of these usual types complaining that women don't like "nice" guys. It's like, how the fuck are you defining that now? I've had female friends complain about guys who identify as "nice" being no more than stewing assholes who open the door for a girl then throw a bitch fit when they don't fuck them afterwards.

Trying to find out what these guys perceive is "nice". IMO it means being a decent human being, which is bare minimum effort.
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Steve Nick
07/04/17 9:46:35 AM
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Blue_Dream87 posted...
wtf does "nice" even mean these days?


attractive
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SpiralDrift
07/04/17 9:52:58 AM
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There are two "nice guy" camps really.

1. The foreveralones who don't understand that there's more to romantic appeal than just being nice.
2. Guys who have been in long-term relationships and were hurt because girls either took advantage of the guy wanting to treat them well or got bored because it was too easy, no risk of loss, etc.
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CwebbMichSac4
07/04/17 9:56:21 AM
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SpiralDrift posted...
There are two "nice guy" camps really.

1. The foreveralones who don't understand that there's more to romantic appeal than just being nice.
2. Guys who have been in long-term relationships and were hurt because girls either took advantage of the guy wanting to treat them well or got bored because it was too easy, no risk of loss, etc.

so you don't think too highly of supposedly nice guys?
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SpiralDrift
07/04/17 10:19:09 AM
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CwebbMichSac4 posted...
SpiralDrift posted...
There are two "nice guy" camps really.

1. The foreveralones who don't understand that there's more to romantic appeal than just being nice.
2. Guys who have been in long-term relationships and were hurt because girls either took advantage of the guy wanting to treat them well or got bored because it was too easy, no risk of loss, etc.

so you don't think too highly of supposedly nice guys?

I don't really have a bias. I only wanted to point out that it's not just foreveralones who think being a nice guy, in other words "a good person", can be a bad thing. You can be a well-rounded attractive guy and still lose a girl if she feels like everything is just too easy with you. It can be interpreted as you being boring or easily controlled.
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faizan_faizan
07/04/17 10:32:59 AM
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It's an overrated quality touted constantly by fat, neckbeard Nice Guys™ to compensate for how unattractive they are, sad thing is, they aren't even funny.
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scar the 1
07/04/17 10:37:48 AM
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Most of the girls I've hooked with have been attracted to me thanks to my sense of humor. My looks are average at best. Being funny is definitely an attractive trait to a lot of people. I guess it's difficult for people here to internalize that, since they value their prospective partners completely based on looks.
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gmanthebest
07/04/17 10:40:44 AM
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Easy way to tell if someone is into you: Tell the worst joke ever. If they laugh, good chance.

Note: Don't go straight to dead baby levels of bad jokes
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Lorenzo_2003
07/04/17 10:46:28 AM
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SpiralDrift posted...
Rich >>>>>>>>>>>>> funny > attractive >>>>>>>>>>>>> nice


My observation is:

Rich > Attractive > Funny > Nice
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scar the 1
07/04/17 10:58:35 AM
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I never cease to amaze over how so many here think women are this different species that all prefer the same thing.
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iosifsvoboda
07/04/17 11:00:20 AM
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being able to make jokes is a sign of Intelligence and intelligence is $$$
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specialkid8
07/04/17 11:09:38 AM
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Wow, lot of unfunny guys in here. I'm sure someone will eventually find your bland personality and anime figure collection attractive.
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legendary_zell
07/04/17 12:39:32 PM
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Lmao, guys. It's the great equalizer. You can always go broke or get out of shape but you shouldn't lose your sense of humor.
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legendary_zell
07/04/17 12:39:46 PM
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iosifsvoboda posted...
being able to make jokes is a sign of Intelligence and intelligence is $$$

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iLikeMtnDew
07/04/17 12:45:20 PM
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Went on a first date last night and she laughed really hard at every shitty joke I said for 3+ hours. I normally think I'm pretty funny but the fact that she thought I was cute might've had something to do with it
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ShotOJameson
07/04/17 12:47:55 PM
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Laughing, like REAL laughter, is the sexiest thing in the world.
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ArchiePeck
07/04/17 12:48:54 PM
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When you're old and wrinkly and no longer having sex with your partner, you want someone that's still going to make you laugh and put joy and fun into your final years.
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AsucaHayashi
07/04/17 12:49:05 PM
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being funny is completely irrelevant.

the only quality that matters is making "her" laugh... and if she's into you, she WILL laugh.
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ShotOJameson
07/04/17 12:59:15 PM
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If she's not blowing snot bubbles when she laughs you aren't funny
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ProbablySkye
07/04/17 6:42:36 PM
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I like it when they genuinely make me laugh...
as for nice, nice to me is when they're nice to everyone just to be nice, no hidden agendas or just cause they like you... they should make you feel special no doubt, but they should be a nice person in general. It's funny how people think money and looks come first, money runs out and beauty fades... then what are you left with? You'll only be truly happy with someone who makes you truly happy, just by being them. In my experience anyway.
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Gojak_v3
07/04/17 7:02:49 PM
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Yer already half way in their pants if you can make them laugh. So I'd say no, but it could also be like a couple others said and they already like you so yer probably half way in their pants anyway.
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Dash_Harber
07/04/17 7:05:05 PM
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No, being funny isn't really an important quality, but it is usually an indication of a lot of other important qualities.
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Steve Nick
07/04/17 7:30:03 PM
#33:


Gojak_v3 posted...
Yer already half way in their pants if you can make them laugh. So I'd say no, but it could also be like a couple others said and they already like you so yer probably half way in their pants anyway.



i'd say it's the opposite - you were halfway in her pants THEREFORE she laughed
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SpiralDrift
07/04/17 7:52:17 PM
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What does it mean if I make my sisters laugh then?
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Forlorn_Ass
07/04/17 7:57:26 PM
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Being funny is being confident and charismatic. That's what they are attracted to, even if they don't realize it.
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suhleepy
07/04/17 7:58:16 PM
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GODTIER posted...
also once youre with them long enough nothing you say will be funny

not true at alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
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