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Metua
06/29/17 6:17:44 PM
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Balrog0
06/29/17 6:37:45 PM
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Asherlee10 posted...
Balrog0 posted...
who the actual fuck has a "foreplay routine"

a foreplay. routine.


I figured that's how all straight sex went.

*watch alarm* "Honey! It's time for sex. Let's kick off our foreplay routine!"


this post is incredibly offensive

only rich straight people wear watches any more
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EyeWontBeFooled
06/29/17 6:43:03 PM
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Zurkon posted...
weapon_d00d816 posted...
Jesus fuck it's just sex. Why are people beating themselves up over a penis going in a vagina?

Fuck

A bad high will make a feeling of dread or fear exponentially worse.

And it can easily happen with weed, too. If you have anxieties, do NOT take in weed unsupervised.
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fire_bolt
06/29/17 6:56:10 PM
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Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"
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Howl
06/29/17 6:59:18 PM
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fire_bolt posted...
Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"


WTF who would keep going? This is entirely different than the op suggested.
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Mist_Turnips
06/29/17 7:02:22 PM
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Lmao. Glad I'm not sjw enough to worry about something this stupid when I'm with a girl.
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alexander37
06/29/17 7:09:52 PM
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MabusIncarnate posted...
Cj_WlLL_VVlN posted...
Wait so correct me if I'm wrong.

Your friend has a girlfriend. They regularly have sex.

They have a ritual that they do beforehand every time. He follows ritual and she never says no. They have sex.

Now she's claiming she didn't want it and wished she said no.

He's depressed because he did what he does all the time and she didn't say no?

This is the weirdest thing I've ever read. How old are you guys?

I'm about on the same page also. She sounds like a head case and he just needs to leave her and move on.

Normally when you are in a relationship, and you sleep together a few times, the green light is pretty much always on. If she pulls some shit like this, and it's entirely not his fault, she has serious problems and he needs to get far away.

These, except that they both always have the option to say no at anytime. But if they can't do that, then they are being immature and/or crazy as f*** and should probably just break up. I'm the same age and if my gf tells me no I shut it down, in fact I did last night because she was tired. And I've probably done more drugs not just weed than half of CE put together, no means no. But doing the same things that they usually do before sex, either she is just tripping and he shouldn't be upset or she really did have some kind of body language going on to suggest she didn't want it and he was just out of his gourd dumb in which case I feel sorry for the both of them.....
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fire_bolt
06/29/17 7:09:53 PM
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Howl posted...
fire_bolt posted...
Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"


WTF who would keep going? This is entirely different than the op suggested.


What I posted yesterday is what he told me. He never told me he thought she fell asleep. I can only report what I'm told
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That_Happened
06/29/17 7:10:56 PM
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dave_is_slick posted...
That_Happened posted...
weapon_d00d816 posted...
Jesus fuck it's just sex. Why are people beating themselves up over a penis going in a vagina?

Fuck

Did you just suggest that you don't understand how rape (even if accidental) can be traumatic for people?

The fuck is "accidental" rape?

I thought it was explained in the original post. You can misread the signals and end up having sex with a girl who froze up instead of her saying no. You can have sex with a girl you don't realize is too drunk to consent. In both of these situations, you probably would have stopped had you known. Or did you think every example of non consensual sex involved some monster assaulting a girl behind an alley, and that "rape" specifically implies intent?
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Callixtus
06/29/17 7:13:33 PM
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This is dumb as FUCK
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giantblimpN7
06/29/17 7:15:04 PM
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fire_bolt posted...
Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"

Welp
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Balrog0
06/29/17 7:17:59 PM
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what drugs were they doing
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megamanzero1000
06/29/17 7:44:18 PM
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This is the best troll topic I've ever read. If it's not then I'm assuming your friend and his GF are mentally challenged in some way
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Richbark1
06/29/17 7:57:51 PM
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The Admiral posted...
TC, you need to help us out with some details:

1. How old are they?
2. How long have they been together?
3. Was this their first time having sex?

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Panthera
06/29/17 8:11:01 PM
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And this is why drugs and sex can mix very poorly
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F1areaGaman
06/29/17 8:19:27 PM
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butthole666 posted...
Jesus christ it must be in the air this week.


I'm sorry to hear that TC. I hope your friend and his gf are boyh okay, hopefully he can get the help he needs. Is he open to counselling?



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gamer167
06/29/17 8:29:42 PM
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If she's afraid he's going to hurt himself she needs to just just sack the fuck up and tell this dweeb "hey, it's cool".
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EnragedSlith
06/29/17 8:36:34 PM
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gamer167 posted...
If she's afraid he's going to hurt himself she needs to just just sack the fuck up and tell this dweeb "hey, it's cool".

There wouldn't be a problem if she didn't feel violated
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Manocheese
06/29/17 8:37:48 PM
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She consented. End of story.
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Wolf_J_Flywheel
06/29/17 8:52:53 PM
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weapon_d00d816 posted...
Jesus fuck it's just sex. Why are people beating themselves up over a penis going in a vagina?

Fuck

This. I was hoping the OP was some stupid parody. You know, hold on, I'm going to skim through the OP to my wife and I'll post her response.
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thronedfire2
06/29/17 8:55:17 PM
#72:


fire_bolt posted...
Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"



Well that changes things

You don't keep banging an unresponsive girl even if she's your gf
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Pogo_Marimo
06/29/17 9:06:26 PM
#73:


thronedfire2 posted...
fire_bolt posted...
Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"



Well that changes things

You don't keep banging an unresponsive girl even if she's your gf

To be fair...

My girlfriend has explicitly told me I could keep fucking her if she passed out drunk mid-sex. No, I don't remember how the conversation ever reached that point, and to make it explicitly clear this should not be how EVERYONE feels. But it is a valid point of view to many.

This still seems like a non-issue, all things considered. Like, shit stupid white people think is a tragedy because they've spent their whole life devoid of any real challenge or hardship. You can rape your girlfriend and you can definitely rape someone who is passed out, to be clear. In this case, though, I don't see where the trauma or shit happened. If you're getting high to the point of passing out mid-sex, I think you've probably got much bigger problems in your life than the two minutes of sex you consented to (By any reasonable standard, and stressing the context) that you weren't concious for.
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CatataFish462
06/29/17 9:07:35 PM
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Don't do drugs.
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clearaflagrantj
06/29/17 9:09:02 PM
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My foreplay routine is go down on her first to get her wet, then she goes down on me to get me hard, we start off with cowgirl since it's the gentlest way to initiate intercourse, then I do whatever

Don't fuck with the foreplay routine
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thronedfire2
06/29/17 9:12:14 PM
#76:


Pogo_Marimo posted...
thronedfire2 posted...
fire_bolt posted...
Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"



Well that changes things

You don't keep banging an unresponsive girl even if she's your gf

To be fair...

My girlfriend has explicitly told me I could keep fucking her if she passed out drunk mid-sex. No, I don't remember how the conversation ever reached that point, and to make it explicitly clear this should not be how EVERYONE feels. But it is a valid point of view to many.

This still seems like a non-issue, all things considered. Like, shit stupid white people think is a tragedy because they've spent their whole life devoid of any real challenge or hardship. You can rape your girlfriend and you can definitely rape someone who is passed out, to be clear. In this case, though, I don't see where the trauma or shit happened. If you're getting high to the point of passing out mid-sex, I think you've probably got much bigger problems in your life than the two minutes of sex you consented to (By any reasonable standard, and stressing the context) that you weren't concious for.


If she gave permission beforehand that's different

Either way tc's friend is way overreacting
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fire_bolt
06/29/17 9:14:11 PM
#77:


Richbark1 posted...
The Admiral posted...
TC, you need to help us out with some details:

1. How old are they?
2. How long have they been together?
3. Was this their first time having sex?


All of this has been answered in the topic already
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DezCaughtIt
06/29/17 9:27:42 PM
#78:


fire_bolt posted...
Ok, got her side of the story from mutual friends today. And I quote:

Me: "Can you tell me what [name redacted] thinks happened?"

Friend:"That she got really high and kinda fucked up and in the middle of sex she went limp and motor functions etc but rather than stop to see if she's okay he kept having sex with her. He said he thought she fell asleep, but idk why he would keep having sex if she's fallen asleep"


Welp.



That's kind of rape
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Khalpz
06/29/17 10:16:25 PM
#79:


Wolf_J_Flywheel posted...
weapon_d00d816 posted...
Jesus fuck it's just sex. Why are people beating themselves up over a penis going in a vagina?

Fuck

This. I was hoping the OP was some stupid parody. You know, hold on, I'm going to skim through the OP to my wife and I'll post her response.
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Wife "I think the dude is sweet but he's a pussy. She gives it to him sober, what's the difference? If I'm passed out and you want some, it is what it is. I'd fuck you if I was awake so either way. I might be sore but it's my duty. That's some shit they need to keep to themselves anyway. What are you typing? Are you on that stupid game eff-A -ques? Why are you always on that?"

lol real shit
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