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TheDyslexicGuy
06/28/17 5:47:02 PM
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She was supposed to work until 8 tonight and I was going to enter a bean bag tournament. Her son has a baseball game and she originally was going to have to miss it but she can get off work early so she expects me to ditch my friends and tourney and go to this game. We haven't been dating two months and she's ultra clingy, I think. It's like she expects me to be Mr. Dad even though the actual Dad goes to these games and the kid couldn't care less whether I'm there or not because like i said, we haven't been dating very long and I've only met the kid a few times. What do you think CE?
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Turbam
06/28/17 5:48:07 PM
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Bean bag tournament?
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KiwiTerraRizing
06/28/17 5:48:12 PM
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Leave now
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Balrog0
06/28/17 5:48:27 PM
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dump her
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MetalGearSquid
06/28/17 5:48:37 PM
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Marry her so then it'll be your wife's son.





I jest >_>
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MoreRpgs
06/28/17 5:49:14 PM
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Time to find a new one.
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/28/17 5:50:23 PM
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I googled "my girlfriend expects me to drop everything all the time" and lists of relationship faux pas came up.
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/28/17 5:52:21 PM
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Also she gets mad when I am out with my friends and don't formally invite her. "I don't chase guys" blah blah blah, it's like babe we've been dating for over a month I don't need to send you an RSVP. The invitation goes without saying.
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wdlp
06/28/17 5:54:01 PM
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Just drop her. There's clearly a reason her kids dad ain't still with her
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AzNDarkSamurai
06/28/17 5:54:23 PM
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sounds annoying

she can get worse in the future if you don't talk to her about this
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D-Lo_BrownTown
06/28/17 5:55:09 PM
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Tanoomba
06/28/17 5:55:10 PM
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wdlp posted...
Just drop her. There's clearly a reason her kids dad ain't still with her

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thrashmetal14
06/28/17 5:55:24 PM
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I was with a girl like that before. The type of girl that just expects you to drop all your plans/obligations/free time to cater to her wants. Get out while you can. Like you said its only been 2 months.
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/28/17 5:55:34 PM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
sounds annoying

she can get worse in the future if you don't talk to her about this

And what's a reasonable way to approach that? I'm mean she's with me almost every night I feel suffocated. I'm not going to cheat on her because I have morals and despite everything else I do like her.
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Drpooplol
06/28/17 5:55:45 PM
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Leave now

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dummy420
06/28/17 6:02:39 PM
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TheDyslexicGuy posted...
AzNDarkSamurai posted...
sounds annoying

she can get worse in the future if you don't talk to her about this

And what's a reasonable way to approach that? I'm mean she's with me almost every night I feel suffocated. I'm not going to cheat on her because I have morals and despite everything else I do like her.

How can she know it gets on your nerves if you don't own up and tell her. If she can't handle it there's your answer
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/28/17 6:04:25 PM
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dummy420 posted...
TheDyslexicGuy posted...
AzNDarkSamurai posted...
sounds annoying

she can get worse in the future if you don't talk to her about this

And what's a reasonable way to approach that? I'm mean she's with me almost every night I feel suffocated. I'm not going to cheat on her because I have morals and despite everything else I do like her.

How can she know it gets on your nerves if you don't own up and tell her. If she can't handle it there's your answer

True. I guess I don't know how to go about it, I haven't dated much.
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known2FAIL
06/28/17 6:04:26 PM
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KiwiTerraRizing posted...
Leave now


This that's a massive red flag. Get out now. You Wil regret it if you don't.
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/28/17 6:05:33 PM
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Asherlee10 posted...
If you feel the relationship has potential and this isn't a red flag to other awful behaviors, then a serious conversation about respecting your time is needed.

If not:

Balrog0 posted...
dump her

Well there's other red flags. She's clingy, she brings up old shit or old girls I used to date, she's insecure, etc. She gets mad over trivial things.
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Gheb
06/28/17 6:07:22 PM
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Get the fuck out now. This won't get better.
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/28/17 6:36:14 PM
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Also she left a toothbrush at my house 3 weeks into the relationship.
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Carlbertomfg
06/28/17 6:40:55 PM
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Why is nobody talking about the real issue here? Wtf is a bean bag tournament?
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ArtVandelay
06/28/17 6:43:58 PM
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TheDyslexicGuy posted...
Also she left a toothbrush at my house 3 weeks into the relationship.

I see the point you're trying to make; but if you're inviting her to crash for the night, that's a good move on her part.

Unless you like, enjoy morning breath or something. yuck.
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meralonne
06/28/17 6:47:39 PM
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Turbam posted...
Bean bag tournament?

Carlbertomfg posted...
Wtf is a bean bag tournament?

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lilORANG
06/28/17 6:48:38 PM
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Hey, I'm in a bean bag tournament next weekend!
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Vermander
06/28/17 6:54:22 PM
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She can't drive?
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NeuralLaxative
06/28/17 7:03:46 PM
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Looks like you have one more thing to drop
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megamanzero1000
06/28/17 7:05:09 PM
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I can't believe there are still big enough cucks in the world to fall for this crap. Haven't you all learned your lesson by now? Aren't there enough horror stories on the internet? There's a reason she's a single mom. Never go for women who are single and have kids, it ruins men's lives.

Please just leave before your life is fucked up for good. I say this to help you.
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/29/17 2:59:31 PM
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Well the consensus is pretty clear
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moose_knuckle
06/29/17 3:04:09 PM
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Carlbertomfg posted...
Why is nobody talking about the real issue here? Wtf is a bean bag tournament?

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butthole666
06/29/17 3:04:25 PM
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I have posted a series of topics recently about similar behavior that culminated in suicide threats/possible attempts to get my attention.


Get the fuck out while you can.
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Offworlder1
06/29/17 3:32:06 PM
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Pump and dump topic creator.
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garan
06/29/17 4:38:17 PM
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wdlp posted...
Just drop her. There's clearly a reason her kids dad ain't still with her
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Omnislasher
06/29/17 4:40:36 PM
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get out
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Darklit_Minuet
06/29/17 4:40:52 PM
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TheDyslexicGuy posted...
Her son

Run. Fast.
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/29/17 7:00:45 PM
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Darklit_Minuet posted...
TheDyslexicGuy posted...
Her son

Run. Fast.

At my age it isn't unreasonable to expect a girl to have children.
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D-Lo_BrownTown
06/29/17 7:03:26 PM
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Correct_Facts
06/29/17 7:05:08 PM
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There is literally nothing cuck about TC's predicament lol leave it to CE to throw around words they don't know the meaning to
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TheDyslexicGuy
06/29/17 8:57:07 PM
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Is it normal that she wants to hang out every damn day? Like ever since we first started dating?
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vbty3
06/29/17 8:58:51 PM
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TheDyslexicGuy posted...
Is it normal that she wants to hang out every damn day? Like ever since we first started dating?

Honeymoon period. It's not always to that extent, but it's reasonable for her to want to see you often for the first few months when things feel new and exciting.
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