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Philoktetes
06/25/17 3:12:31 PM
#1:


she says she wants to have her friends over once a week with just the girls and that I should stay late at work every friday evening.

this seems unreasonable to me, since I pay half of the rent. however she says it's normal for couples to give each other space like this regularly. this is my first relationship so im not sure if this is true or not.

I really don't want to have to work an extra three hours every friday though. heck
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Paper_Okami
06/25/17 3:13:51 PM
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This is unreasonable, surely there is a room where you can just stay by yourself and not interfere with anything. right?
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omega cookie
06/25/17 3:15:01 PM
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Philo with a girlfriend.

I don't think so, Tim.
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weapon_d00d816
06/25/17 3:15:34 PM
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Are you her emotional boyfriend?
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stone
06/25/17 3:15:44 PM
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First, every Friday? Fuck that, any other day, heh sure. Friday? No way.

Second,
omega cookie posted...
Philo with a girlfriend.

I don't think so, Tim.

This.
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Flasbangs
06/25/17 3:16:07 PM
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Or she could go with her friends and piss off for an evening?
It's never reasonable to not be allowed in your own home.
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MetalGearSquid
06/25/17 3:16:54 PM
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Nah, ur getting cucked brah
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SalaciousCrumb
06/25/17 3:18:15 PM
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Pics of the friends please
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Dustin1280
06/25/17 3:18:23 PM
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It's not reasonable not even slightly...

SHE can go have a girl's night with them somewhere else.
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weapon_d00d816
06/25/17 3:20:15 PM
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Please stop responding seriously to a cuck joke
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DaTwistedGuns
06/25/17 3:20:49 PM
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I would agree, wait a few minutes up to an hour and go in. Warning, you might not like what you see.
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pinky0926
06/25/17 3:22:56 PM
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It's not unreasonable, to be honest. Ignore all the cuck comments from people who have never been in a long term adult relationship. Couples definitely need some space, and she's trying to set some expectations on this so that its fair to you.

She's asking you to come home later than 8 once a week, not 2am three times a week. Shouldn't be hard right? Like, go find something to do once a week.

What is/would be unreasonable is asking you to do it every friday. That's not fair.
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Dustin1280
06/25/17 3:23:55 PM
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pinky0926 posted...
It's not unreasonable, to be honest. Ignore all the cuck comments from people who have never been in a long term adult relationship. Couples definitely need some space, and she's trying to set some expectations on this so that its fair to you.

She's asking you to come home later than 8 once a week, not 2am three times a week. Shouldn't be hard right? Like, go find something to do once a week.


It is 100% unreasonable. Asking for your S/O to come home later once in awhile is ok. But once a week, no not acceptable at all.

People in a "long term adult relationship." Don't set arbitrary rules like this...
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pinky0926
06/25/17 3:26:13 PM
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Dustin1280 posted...

It is 100% unreasonable. Asking for your S/O to come home later once in awhile is ok. But once a week, no no acceptable at all.

People in a "long term adult relationship." Don't set arbitrary rules like this...


It's not arbitrary if you're trying to set some expectations around things. Couples can agree to some rules that work for each other. Relationships are about compromise.

So, I'll say this. If she's saying "you need to clear out every friday", that's not fair. Saying "Can you make yourself scarce for like a couple of hours one night on a tuesday or something", I think that's fine. 8pm is not late anyway. I can't imagine myself being home often enough that early for it to be a problem.
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Go_Totodile
06/25/17 3:26:57 PM
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I wonder if TC posts on LUE about all his fake made up stories?
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MabusIncarnate
06/25/17 3:27:12 PM
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Just find you a side piece then. Get off work, meet up with the other girl and slay.
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YUNASBFGIR
06/25/17 3:27:24 PM
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Why can't you both go out together on Friday nights? Why can't she have a girl's night on a different night?
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Dustin1280
06/25/17 3:28:17 PM
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Yes relationships are about compromise but this is not a compromise, it's completely selfish on her part.

If she wants time for a "girls night" SHE can leave the house for it. If she wants to host, then I am sure he can make himself scarce in the house SOMEWHERE that won't interfere.

In no world is what she is asking acceptable.
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Banana_Mana
06/25/17 3:30:35 PM
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Couples need space. Don't want to be living on top of each other or it will end badly.

Telling you not to come home is harsh, maybe ask her to go out with her mates?
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omega cookie
06/25/17 3:31:14 PM
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The fuck is wrong with you people. It's Philo.
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Romulox28
06/25/17 3:32:08 PM
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pinky0926 posted...
Dustin1280 posted...

It is 100% unreasonable. Asking for your S/O to come home later once in awhile is ok. But once a week, no no acceptable at all.

People in a "long term adult relationship." Don't set arbitrary rules like this...


It's not arbitrary if you're trying to set some expectations around things. Couples can agree to some rules that work for each other. Relationships are about compromise.

So, I'll say this. If she's saying "you need to clear out every friday", that's not fair. Saying "Can you make yourself scarce for like a couple of hours one night on a tuesday or something", I think that's fine. 8pm is not late anyway. I can't imagine myself being home often enough that early for it to be a problem.

lmao i know you're trying to be reasonable but come on pinky
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Banana_Mana
06/25/17 3:35:48 PM
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Romulox28 posted...
pinky0926 posted...
Dustin1280 posted...

It is 100% unreasonable. Asking for your S/O to come home later once in awhile is ok. But once a week, no no acceptable at all.

People in a "long term adult relationship." Don't set arbitrary rules like this...


It's not arbitrary if you're trying to set some expectations around things. Couples can agree to some rules that work for each other. Relationships are about compromise.

So, I'll say this. If she's saying "you need to clear out every friday", that's not fair. Saying "Can you make yourself scarce for like a couple of hours one night on a tuesday or something", I think that's fine. 8pm is not late anyway. I can't imagine myself being home often enough that early for it to be a problem.

lmao i know you're trying to be reasonable but come on pinky


Nah. Pinky is on the money here.
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Go_Totodile
06/25/17 3:37:29 PM
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omega cookie posted...
The fuck is wrong with you people. It's Philo.
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Itachi157
06/25/17 3:37:59 PM
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Like others said I don't understand how you can't even be home at all.

It'd be fine to say "Hey don't plan anything for Friday evenings/leave the living room open for me because I'm doing stuff with my friends" but having to actually be physically gone is weird.

Why can't you just come home, say hi, then just go into a different room?
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Romulox28
06/25/17 3:39:59 PM
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Banana_Mana posted...
Romulox28 posted...
pinky0926 posted...
Dustin1280 posted...

It is 100% unreasonable. Asking for your S/O to come home later once in awhile is ok. But once a week, no no acceptable at all.

People in a "long term adult relationship." Don't set arbitrary rules like this...


It's not arbitrary if you're trying to set some expectations around things. Couples can agree to some rules that work for each other. Relationships are about compromise.

So, I'll say this. If she's saying "you need to clear out every friday", that's not fair. Saying "Can you make yourself scarce for like a couple of hours one night on a tuesday or something", I think that's fine. 8pm is not late anyway. I can't imagine myself being home often enough that early for it to be a problem.

lmao i know you're trying to be reasonable but come on pinky


Nah. Pinky is on the money here.

lmao ok enjoy sitting in your car for 3 hours after work because your gf cant handle you co-existing in her space, sounds like this relatioship is going places (even tho this is a troll topic anyway)
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pinky0926
06/25/17 4:03:37 PM
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Romulox28 posted...
lmao ok enjoy sitting in your car for 3 hours after work because your gf cant handle you co-existing in her space, sounds like this relatioship is going places (even tho this is a troll topic anyway)


You couldn't think of anything to do at all with your life to make yourself busy for like, 2 hours once a week? Personally if I get home before 7 on any given day I consider that a win, so maybe this is just a perspective thing.
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Dustin1280
06/25/17 4:05:53 PM
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Or you know you could not be a complete pussy and just make yourself scarce in said house on "girls nights."
For her to request that you absolutely not be home at all during her girls nights is asinine and completely unacceptable.

My fiance likes her girls nights too, sometimes she goes out, sometimes she hosts.

But she would never ask that I completely avoid being home during those times.

At most she would request I make myself scarce somewhere within the household.
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Anteaterking
06/25/17 4:08:57 PM
#29:


Flasbangs posted...
It's never reasonable to not be allowed in your own home.


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E32005
06/25/17 4:09:33 PM
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why is this cuck gimmick getting fed?
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Dustin1280
06/25/17 4:12:52 PM
#31:


E32005 posted...
why is this cuck gimmick getting fed?

because pinky
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pinky0926
06/25/17 4:14:06 PM
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E32005 posted...
why is this cuck gimmick getting fed?


Well I didn't know it was a gimmick to start with and then I got into a philosophical argument with someone else, so that
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E32005
06/25/17 4:18:36 PM
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pinky0926 posted...
E32005 posted...
why is this cuck gimmick getting fed?


Well I didn't know it was a gimmick to start with and then I got into a philosophical argument with someone else, so that

any "relationship" topic that involves some hint of cuckoldry is a gimmick.
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stone
06/25/17 4:22:35 PM
#35:


E32005 posted...
pinky0926 posted...
E32005 posted...
why is this cuck gimmick getting fed?


Well I didn't know it was a gimmick to start with and then I got into a philosophical argument with someone else, so that

any "relationship" topic that involves some hint of cuckoldry is a gimmick.

Any relationship topic from Philoktetes is a "this happened" gimmick.
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E32005
06/25/17 4:23:33 PM
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stone posted...
E32005 posted...
pinky0926 posted...
E32005 posted...
why is this cuck gimmick getting fed?


Well I didn't know it was a gimmick to start with and then I got into a philosophical argument with someone else, so that

any "relationship" topic that involves some hint of cuckoldry is a gimmick.

Any relationship topic from Philoktetes is a "this happened" gimmick.

he's the new no_u_l7 guy
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Caution999
06/25/17 4:24:05 PM
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Why is she hosting every week? This doesn't make sense.
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Tier777
06/25/17 4:24:58 PM
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Iodine
06/25/17 4:25:58 PM
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Itachi157 posted...
Like others said I don't understand how you can't even be home at all.

It'd be fine to say "Hey don't plan anything for Friday evenings/leave the living room open for me because I'm doing stuff with my friends" but having to actually be physically gone is weird.

Why can't you just come home, say hi, then just go into a different room?

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Drasilor
06/25/17 4:26:20 PM
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Loose getting dicked
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MotaroRIP619
06/25/17 4:26:40 PM
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DaTwistedGuns posted...
I would agree, wait a few minutes up to an hour and go in. Warning, you might not like what you see.

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stone
06/25/17 6:17:27 PM
#42:


E32005 posted...
stone posted...
E32005 posted...
pinky0926 posted...
E32005 posted...
why is this cuck gimmick getting fed?


Well I didn't know it was a gimmick to start with and then I got into a philosophical argument with someone else, so that

any "relationship" topic that involves some hint of cuckoldry is a gimmick.

Any relationship topic from Philoktetes is a "this happened" gimmick.

he's the new no_u_l7 guy

No idea who that is. But Philoktetes is infamous on LUE, he shitposts on here once in a while 'cause he know these topics wouldn't work over there.
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Philoktetes
06/25/17 6:20:42 PM
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I choose to post on ce as well as lue because lue is too slow
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