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gravy
06/19/17 7:40:32 AM
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:(

Last day of my old job was yesterday. I really like one of my coworkers from there and know she likes me. I was gonna talk to her/ask her out but never did and now well never see each other again. She said before I left that we should hang out soon but lol that won't happen cus I'm a miserable sack of shit.
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keyblader1985
06/19/17 7:52:27 AM
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Is there some reason you can't ask her out now?
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Mead
06/19/17 8:10:22 AM
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She might just want to be your friend but she probably wouldn't have said that if she wasn't interested in doing so. Give it a shot and see if she wants to do something casual like grab some lunch or go bowling or something. You can make it a group thing and invite other friends/coworkers if you want to take some of the pressure off.

Worst thing that can happen is she says no, and even if that happens you'll find other girls. They're everywhere.
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TheSlinja
06/19/17 9:21:35 AM
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just remember, if she says no you'd never have to see her again so it wouldnt get terribly awkward jusy go for it man
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gravy
06/19/17 9:23:05 AM
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keyblader1985 posted...
Is there some reason you can't ask her out now?

No idk. I feel weird doing it over text

Mead posted...
She might just want to be your friend but she probably wouldn't have said that if she wasn't interested in doing so. Give it a shot and see if she wants to do something casual like grab some lunch or go bowling or something. You can make it a group thing and invite other friends/coworkers if you want to take some of the pressure off.

Worst thing that can happen is she says no, and even if that happens you'll find other girls. They're everywhere.

Like, I know she likes me and have talked to one of her friends who told me she did so idk. I'm just a nervous wreck when it comes to that stuff

OneTimeBen posted...
Mey as well do not t now if you are that upset.

Huh? Lol
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OhhhJa
06/19/17 9:28:19 AM
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gravy posted...
No idk. I feel weird doing it over text

Are you really that scared of rejection? Man up
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OneTimeBen
06/19/17 9:28:50 AM
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gravy posted...
keyblader1985 posted...
Is there some reason you can't ask her out now?

No idk. I feel weird doing it over text

Mead posted...
She might just want to be your friend but she probably wouldn't have said that if she wasn't interested in doing so. Give it a shot and see if she wants to do something casual like grab some lunch or go bowling or something. You can make it a group thing and invite other friends/coworkers if you want to take some of the pressure off.

Worst thing that can happen is she says no, and even if that happens you'll find other girls. They're everywhere.

Like, I know she likes me and have talked to one of her friends who told me she did so idk. I'm just a nervous wreck when it comes to that stuff

OneTimeBen posted...
Mey as well do not t now if you are that upset.

Huh? Lol

Oh lol may as well do it now if you're that upset
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helIy
06/19/17 9:37:21 AM
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Mead posted...
or go bowling

is this still a thing people do
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RCtheWSBC
06/19/17 9:38:58 AM
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helIy posted...
Mead posted...
or go bowling

is this still a thing people do

Hell yeah, bowling is fun

But yeah TC you're no longer coworkers so if anything it should be easier to make something happen. Just grab lunch or something, damn.
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OhhhJa
06/19/17 9:41:04 AM
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Yeah, it's not like you can't just casually ask her to do something. You don't have to be like, "be my gf and open your legs, please"
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helIy
06/19/17 9:43:02 AM
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man, i don't even know where there's a bowling alley at here
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NameNotKnown
06/19/17 9:49:53 AM
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Mead posted...

Worst thing that can happen is she says no,



Worst thing that could happen is that she says yes, they go to hang out, and he fucks everything up between them forever or she has crabs or something.
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adjl
06/19/17 10:00:44 AM
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No idk. I feel weird doing it over text


Being like "I love you have my babies" over text would be weird, but you could certainly suggest going out for dinner or coffee or something.
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keyblader1985
06/19/17 10:06:35 AM
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I think asking if she wants to hang out/do some kind of activity would be the best route, so there isn't much pressure.

But I have zero (successful) experience in this field, so.
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Muffinz0rz
06/19/17 11:06:56 AM
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I mean, now that you're leaving your job, it's the best time to ask her out. If she says no, you don't have to see her at work going forward. You can just walk away free and clear without any awkward interactions.
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Smarkil
06/19/17 11:13:12 AM
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gravy posted...
No idk. I feel weird doing it over text


Wtf? Just do it dude. It's the easiest thing in the world.
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Muffinz0rz
06/19/17 11:17:23 AM
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Smarkil posted...
gravy posted...
No idk. I feel weird doing it over text


Wtf? Just do it dude. It's the easiest thing in the world.

Yeah as much as I hate asking people out via text, it's 2017, and we live in a world where people get to know each other by swiping left and right based on attractiveness. People aren't expecting any grand romantic gestures or even a knock on the door anymore. If anything, these acts can come across as creepy these days.
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gravy
06/21/17 4:51:45 PM
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keyblader1985 posted...
I think asking if she wants to hang out/do some kind of activity would be the best route, so there isn't much pressure.

But I have zero (successful) experience in this field, so.

Im bad at texting tho. Do i just flat out ask to do something, or make small talk first?

adjl posted...
Being like "I love you have my babies" over text would be weird,

I said that to her one time when we were drunk and she still talks to me so maybe itd work lol

Muffinz0rz posted...
I mean, now that you're leaving your job, it's the best time to ask her out. If she says no, you don't have to see her at work going forward. You can just walk away free and clear without any awkward interactions.

I know but she was also going on and on about how we wont see eachother anymore and how sad it was gonna make her once i left for like the last two or three weeks that i was there so idk
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RCtheWSBC
06/21/17 4:57:23 PM
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gravy posted...
I know but she was also going on and on about how we wont see eachother anymore and how sad it was gonna make her once i left for like the last two or three weeks that i was there so idk

Dude she obviously wants to keep talking and hanging out.

Text her. "Hey, hope you're doing well since I left! How are things at work?"
-blahblah back and forth-
"Want to catch up over lunch or drinks sometime next week?"
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Snuggletoof
06/21/17 5:10:20 PM
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I'm going through some sort of similar shit right now, but you have it so much easier. For one, you actually have an established relationship already, but also you know she likes you. She's already said she wants to hang out. You have nothing to lose here.

RCtheWSBC posted...
Dude she obviously wants to keep talking and hanging out.

Text her. "Hey, hope you're doing well since I left! How are things at work?"
-blahblah back and forth-
"Want to catch up over lunch or drinks sometime next week?"


Exactly this, right now!
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SunWuKung420
06/21/17 5:11:18 PM
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Don't text her. Call her.
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keyblader1985
06/21/17 5:11:46 PM
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Yeah, you've definitely got a chance here.

I couldn't give any specific conversation tips though because I suck eggs.
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Snuggletoof
06/21/17 5:13:40 PM
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Not just a chance, a guarantee.
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OhhhJa
06/21/17 5:13:56 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
Don't text her. Call her.

Ummm idk. It's 2017 and a lot of people hate talking on the phone now. A text will suffice. A phone call may actually come across as awkward and weird nowadays
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gravy
06/21/17 5:43:26 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
Dude she obviously wants to keep talking and hanging out.

Text her. "Hey, hope you're doing well since I left! How are things at work?"
-blahblah back and forth-
"Want to catch up over lunch or drinks sometime next week?"

Im nervous to, we dont text much as it is. Like, we'll snapchat eachother a few times a day but thats it.

OhhhJa posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
Don't text her. Call her.

Ummm idk. It's 2017 and a lot of people hate talking on the phone now. A text will suffice. A phone call may actually come across as awkward and weird nowadays

Weve only talked on the phone a few times. Its annoying cus shell usually call me at like 130 or 2 in the morning saying to hang out and im like "no its so late lol, talk to you in the morning"
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RCtheWSBC
06/21/17 5:44:54 PM
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gravy posted...
Im nervous to, we dont text much as it is. Like, we'll snapchat eachother a few times a day but thats it.

Then do it over snapchat, same difference! Respond to some shit she posted to her story to strike up conversation.

You're making a mountain out of a molehill for whatever reason. Like it's already established that you two communicate so.... just do that.
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keyblader1985
06/21/17 5:50:16 PM
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Don't keyblader out on me here; just do it.
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gravy
06/22/17 9:52:45 AM
#30:


Ok im gonna text her later today. I have it typed and saved in drafts already, but i dont wanna bother her too early in the morning
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Shaneariffic
06/22/17 12:25:15 PM
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gravy posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...
Dude she obviously wants to keep talking and hanging out.

Text her. "Hey, hope you're doing well since I left! How are things at work?"
-blahblah back and forth-
"Want to catch up over lunch or drinks sometime next week?"

Im nervous to, we dont text much as it is. Like, we'll snapchat eachother a few times a day but thats it.

OhhhJa posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
Don't text her. Call her.

Ummm idk. It's 2017 and a lot of people hate talking on the phone now. A text will suffice. A phone call may actually come across as awkward and weird nowadays

Weve only talked on the phone a few times. Its annoying cus shell usually call me at like 130 or 2 in the morning saying to hang out and im like "no its so late lol, talk to you in the morning"

She wants the gravy dick so bad, just saying
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OhhhJa
06/22/17 2:40:39 PM
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Just make sure not to give her a wall of text
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gravy
06/22/17 4:19:23 PM
#33:


help! how many back and forth texts do i send before asking to hang out???
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OhhhJa
06/22/17 4:20:55 PM
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Depends on the flow of the conversation but I'd do it when the conversation seems to be close to coming to a close
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gravy
06/22/17 4:23:04 PM
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OhhhJa posted...
Depends on the flow of the conversation but I'd do it when the conversation seems to be close to coming to a close

what if its after the first text? i suck at texting :(
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RCtheWSBC
06/22/17 4:23:37 PM
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At least give her some time to reply, damn >_>

We can't answer this without more context of what's been said.
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gravy
06/22/17 4:24:07 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
At least give her some time to reply, damn >_>

We can't answer this without more context of what's been said.

i asked whats up/whats new

she replied that shes leaving work

i havent replied
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RCtheWSBC
06/22/17 4:28:03 PM
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Well, are you free tonight? Because you could try to segway into asking her if she wanted to meet for a happy hour or coffee (whatever you think y'all would both enjoy).

If you don't feel comfortable doing that, then ask her how her day was.
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Smarkil
06/22/17 4:30:38 PM
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gravy posted...
Weve only talked on the phone a few times. Its annoying cus shell usually call me at like 130 or 2 in the morning saying to hang out and im like "no its so late lol, talk to you in the morning"


What the fuck? You've been getting booty calls and you ain't ever cashed in on that? The fuck is wrong with you?

RCtheWSBC posted...
Well, are you free tonight? Because you could try to segway into asking her if she wanted to meet for a happy hour or coffee (whatever you think y'all would both enjoy).


v3uZAkz

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gravy
06/22/17 4:30:39 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
If you don't feel comfortable doing that, then ask her how her day was.

i made a bad joke, and then asked how work's been

RCtheWSBC posted...
Well, are you free tonight?

lol, yeah... :'( i'm always free...

if she responds i'll ask her to do something later, but idk if she will :( i have no self confidence and am actually surprised she replied in the first place
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gravy
06/22/17 4:31:24 PM
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Smarkil posted...
What the fuck? You've been getting booty calls and you ain't ever cashed in on that? The fuck is wrong with you?

what's a booty call
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RCtheWSBC
06/22/17 4:32:00 PM
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Oh, you sweet summer child...
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gravy
06/22/17 5:11:44 PM
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welp, i'm gonna guess that she won't reply :(

this sucks, she's probably the coolest person i've met recently and i'm an idiot for not being more direct sooner.
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keyblader1985
06/22/17 5:13:57 PM
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Calling me in the middle of the night? *I* would have jumped on that by now.
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mastermix3000
06/22/17 5:17:51 PM
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protip: If a chick is texting you at 1AM you sorta need to allude to "coming over" either her place or yours. you literally gain a lot more than you lose

Drop the confidence excuse, you're just shy. Get over it by trying new things. Like I said you really don't have much tp lose even if she isn't interested (you actually save yourself time)
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gravy
06/22/17 7:14:46 PM
#46:


we're getting drinks in like 20 min :)
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keyblader1985
06/22/17 7:26:44 PM
#47:


Yay

I'm not sure what the better approach would be. If you don't drink too much then you could keep your wits about you and avoid making any big blunders. Or you could drink a lot and loosen your inhibitions that have inspired this topic.

I don't even know why I'm posting since I don't have any advice. But all my best judgment says you're already in anyway.
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RCtheWSBC
06/22/17 7:32:23 PM
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gravy posted...
we're getting drinks in like 20 min :)

Goddamn finally!
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