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emblem boy
06/12/17 6:43:06 PM
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Last one hit 500.

Emblem boy being emblem boy, so nothing as expected.
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vbty3
06/12/17 7:06:45 PM
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I've been lurking this thread since its inception. Hit it off with someone on POF last September and have been with them since. I was even around long enough to see the entire Halloween girl saga.
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I4NRulez
06/12/17 7:10:07 PM
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I hate when i match with a girl on Tinder or something and they start pushing for my phone number or IG.

When i tell em no they just ghost me. I really dont trust those people
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emblem boy
06/12/17 7:11:54 PM
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I4NRulez posted...
I hate when i match with a girl on Tinder or something and they start pushing for my phone number or IG.

When i tell em no they just ghost me. I really dont trust those people


Never seen that happen
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Blue_Popo
06/13/17 9:44:58 PM
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I4NRulez posted...
I hate when i match with a girl on Tinder or something and they start pushing for my phone number or IG.

When i tell em no they just ghost me. I really dont trust those people


They think your pics are vague and want to see more and get an accurate picture of what you look like
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DoctorPiranha3
06/13/17 11:22:19 PM
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I've been chatting with a girl on OKC for the past few days. She reminds me almost exactly of my ex, and she seems real engaging and cool. Gonna ask her out tomorrow.
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EnragedSlith
06/14/17 12:17:01 PM
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Yeah, so this happened last night. The weird responses from me were because I thought she was a bot. And it's legit because I have her number and that pic is from her insta. I actually didn't know how to handle it because ahe came on super strong
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emblem boy
06/14/17 2:04:43 PM
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So match.com

There's​ this missed connection feature where it seems to tell you people you might have come into contact with, location based on your phone I guess. Like if you've been in the same street or general area.

That's... Kinda creepy right?
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Coolppl Owns
06/14/17 2:05:48 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
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Yi4UDhA

Yeah, so this happened last night. The weird responses from me were because I thought she was a bot. And it's legit because I have her number and that pic is from her insta. I actually didn't know how to handle it because ahe came on super strong


shes cray

but also smokin

go get em
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MegaTech
06/14/17 2:10:33 PM
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I just joined tinder for the first time a couple days ago and was super skeptical about all this. I matched with an Au pair from Amsterdam and we're supposed to get coffee tonight at 7. Do most girls on here think of it as a hook up app? Or what? I figure I'd try to probe during conversation to see how far to take this. She seems so non chalant.
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I4NRulez
06/14/17 2:12:55 PM
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Blue_Popo posted...
I4NRulez posted...
I hate when i match with a girl on Tinder or something and they start pushing for my phone number or IG.

When i tell em no they just ghost me. I really dont trust those people


They think your pics are vague and want to see more and get an accurate picture of what you look like


My pics arent vague, its a selfie of me, me with my friends, me with my dog, and me playing guitar.

Most girls dont do this, its like every so often i get a girl who will message me and then after like 20 mins of talking will be like "i dont wanna use this app, can i have your IG, Facebook, Snapchat, or phone number"
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Coolppl Owns
06/14/17 2:15:53 PM
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MegaTech posted...
I just joined tinder for the first time a couple days ago and was super skeptical about all this. I matched with an Au pair from Amsterdam and we're supposed to get coffee tonight at 7. Do most girls on here think of it as a hook up app? Or what? I figure I'd try to probe during conversation to see how far to take this. She seems so non chalant.


tinder seems to be used as both hookup and relationship app, but initially it was just for hookups

just feel out the date and see if you have chemistry
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MegaTech
06/14/17 2:21:40 PM
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Coolppl Owns posted...
MegaTech posted...
I just joined tinder for the first time a couple days ago and was super skeptical about all this. I matched with an Au pair from Amsterdam and we're supposed to get coffee tonight at 7. Do most girls on here think of it as a hook up app? Or what? I figure I'd try to probe during conversation to see how far to take this. She seems so non chalant.


tinder seems to be used as both hookup and relationship app, but initially it was just for hookups

just feel out the date and see if you have chemistry

Ah, aight. Figured as much. I'm sure I'll post bout it
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MegaTech
06/14/17 9:20:50 PM
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She def was not looking to hook up or a relationship. Felt it out and I read into this wrong. Talked for 2 hours and made a foreign friend though. On to the next
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Albel-Nox
06/14/17 9:47:20 PM
#16:


Really upset about what happened to me earlier today.

So, I'm sitting at a bench at a park that also has a pool. Minding my business of course, suddenly I'm interrupted from reading CE by a little boy. He starts to talk.

Boy: Is your name (insert random name)?

Me: Who?


A girl comes out of nowhere and sits at the same bench with the boy.

Me: You're babysitting?

Girl: Yeah.

Me: Special someone in your life?

Girl: No

Me: How old are you?

Girl: I'm turning 18 in two weeks.

Me: Oh. Well, I honesty am running behind. I hope this little monster is a nice one. See ya.



As a man who is closing on 30... Having a youthful spirit is a curse.
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mitsuruji gun
06/14/17 9:57:29 PM
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Albel-Nox posted...
Really upset about what happened to me earlier today.

So, I'm sitting at a bench at a park that also has a pool. Minding my business of course, suddenly I'm interrupted from reading CE by a little boy. He starts to talk.

Boy: Is your name (insert random name)?

Me: Who?


A girl comes out of nowhere and sits at the same bench with the boy.

Me: You're babysitting?

Girl: Yeah.

Me: Special someone in your life?

Girl: No

Me: How old are you?

Girl: I'm turning 18 in two weeks.

Me: Oh. Well, I honesty am running behind. I hope this little monster is a nice one. See ya.



As a man who is closing on 30... Having a youthful spirit is a curse.



LMBO. I feel you man. If only she could of waited for 2 weeks and one day. But seriously, doesn't anybody read the age or profiles after connecting?
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Blue_Popo
06/16/17 1:05:46 AM
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Uhhh so I've been off the apps for a bit because I feel like I have a solid roster of girls I see often.

Anyways the one girl I liked the most and had raw sex for the first time told me a "funny" story. It was intended to make me laugh but she told me about how the guy she used to have sex with before me tried killing an STI by putting lysol on his thing and complaining about it burning...I told her I'm getting tested right away, she got mad that I implied she is dirty :/
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KogaSteelfang
06/16/17 1:14:06 AM
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I'm feeling tempted to try again myself. Last year I promised myself I'd get 1 date before summer ended... I halfway feel I shouldn't even bother to try again. I have an okcupid profile, and tinder (which I used just to see if I could actually match with anyone). Now I can't even open tinder because it crashes, I wanted to delete my account.

I really wish I could just meet someone irl and hit it off.
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EnragedSlith
06/16/17 3:41:51 PM
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So found out the guy I pushed my ex towards is pathetic with women, she isn't interested, and she's still fucking me instead while he texts her constantly with cringey shit like "I'll tell you you're beautiful every day"

I almost feel bad. He's a cool dude and decent looking and definitely old enough to know better

But I don't feel bad because I'm the shit, have a big dick, and attractive women fucking me while a horde of beta satellites clamor for their attention nourishes me
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emblem boy
06/16/17 3:53:09 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
So found out the guy I pushed my ex towards is pathetic with women, she isn't interested, and she's still fucking me instead while he texts her constantly with cringey shit like "I'll tell you you're beautiful every day"

I almost feel bad. He's a cool dude and decent looking and definitely old enough to know better

But I don't feel bad because I'm the shit, have a big dick, and attractive women fucking me while a horde of beta satellites clamor for their attention nourishes me


Someone's feeling alpha today
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emblem boy
06/16/17 5:02:08 PM
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I went dancing last night and got a girl's number. I'm nervous about texting though. Ask her to hangout I guess.
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emblem boy
06/18/17 4:06:06 AM
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Bump
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ArchiePeck
06/18/17 5:29:37 AM
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emblem boy posted...
I went dancing last night and got a girl's number. I'm nervous about texting though. Ask her to hangout I guess.


If she gave you her number she was at least interested in the potential for going on a date. Be assertive and ask for a date, not a vague "we should hang out sometime".
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emblem boy
06/19/17 11:13:58 PM
#28:


Bump
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gna647
06/21/17 12:41:09 AM
#29:


What does it mean if she has a lot of gay guy friends

Got to hang with Halloween girl a bit more usually drinks
And everytime she invited me out with her friends...

The guys that are there are almost always gay and flamboyant. It's like I'm her only straight guy friend
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DarthAragorn
06/21/17 2:02:15 AM
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i got a match but havent messaged her yet because im a wuss
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emblem boy
06/21/17 2:28:59 AM
#31:


DarthAragorn posted...
i got a match but havent messaged her yet because im a wuss


Anything good in her profile you can use as an ice breaker?

gna647 posted...
What does it mean if she has a lot of gay guy friends

Got to hang with Halloween girl a bit more usually drinks
And everytime she invited me out with her friends...

The guys that are there are almost always gay and flamboyant. It's like I'm her only straight guy friend


I hope you aren't catching feelings again
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DarthAragorn
06/21/17 2:29:49 AM
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her bio not really, one of her pics has chris pratt and dinosaurs photoshopped into it so maybe just ask about jurassic world, idk
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emblem boy
06/21/17 2:31:38 AM
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DarthAragorn posted...
her bio not really, one of her pics has chris pratt and dinosaurs photoshopped into it so maybe just ask about jurassic world, idk


Ask her if she liked Chris Pratt better as a guardian or as a dinosaur trainer.

Then whichever one she answers, invite her to come watch that movie at your place.

Na, don't do that..
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gna647
06/21/17 10:36:22 AM
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emblem boy posted...
DarthAragorn posted...
i got a match but havent messaged her yet because im a wuss


Anything good in her profile you can use as an ice breaker?

gna647 posted...
What does it mean if she has a lot of gay guy friends

Got to hang with Halloween girl a bit more usually drinks
And everytime she invited me out with her friends...

The guys that are there are almost always gay and flamboyant. It's like I'm her only straight guy friend


I hope you aren't catching feelings again


I'm trying not to
And if it helps she's been acting real "friendzoney"
around me. Like idk, she's texting me first now. Idk if it's her way to get to know a guy but I'm not putting my hopes up. Basically if she does see me more than a friend I'm letting her make the first move.
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DarthAragorn
06/21/17 4:13:06 PM
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I've been through all the profiles in my age range within 50 miles and have two matches

If those two don't work out I guess delete account and restart with better pics? <_<
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gna647
06/21/17 9:35:48 PM
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EnragedSlith posted...
So found out the guy I pushed my ex towards is pathetic with women, she isn't interested, and she's still fucking me instead while he texts her constantly with cringey shit like "I'll tell you you're beautiful every day"




Lmaooooo

I used to be that cringey but I learned


It's better trying to get the girl to laugh than anything. Like halloween girl and I send memes back and forth
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mrtopgoon327
06/21/17 9:36:22 PM
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Can't stand women that text wyd
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vbty3
06/21/17 9:53:00 PM
#38:


gna647 posted...
EnragedSlith posted...
So found out the guy I pushed my ex towards is pathetic with women, she isn't interested, and she's still fucking me instead while he texts her constantly with cringey shit like "I'll tell you you're beautiful every day"




Lmaooooo

I used to be that cringey but I learned


It's better trying to get the girl to laugh than anything. Like halloween girl and I send memes back and forth

Yet you're still in the same boat as that guy.
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gna647
06/22/17 11:36:30 AM
#39:


Okay
Yeah I do assume most attractive single women are sleeping with someone or have a fuckbuddy deal going on, or at least doing one night stands


So yeah sometimes I do think halloween girl is fucking other dudes, and maybe I'm the beta she talks to for kicks.


But I don't think about that because it's toxic, and I can't be mad at that because I've been sleeping with other women too since I met her.

What's strange is, she posts a lot of "don't need no man" stuff on her Tumblr. Or she writes posts about how she feels lonely
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vbty3
06/22/17 12:48:41 PM
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It's very hard to lose attachment. Really, the only way to get her out of your head is to find someone better. Which is difficult if she's already so amazing in your eyes. It took me years to get over someone I had a huge crush on :/
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DarthAragorn
06/22/17 10:01:07 PM
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I have like 4 matches now and I don't know what to say to any of them
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gna647
06/22/17 10:08:28 PM
#42:


vbty3 posted...
. Really, the only way to get her out of your head is to find someone better. Which is difficult if she's already so amazing in your eyes.



I feel like this is the problem. I met this girl just as I was getting over street racer.

things went extremely well at first. And on our first date we got physically intimate, so I got excited. Which i guess was my fault. I think I came off strong and built this idea of a relationship with this chick when I shoulda just played it cool and had fun.

But now we're talking casually and hanging out so its not like shes creeped out by me or anything. Shes texting me first, shes liking my stuff on social media. Inviting me to hang out etc.

But i feel like the best way to get over anyone is just let time pass and take a break from dating and not develop feelings for anyone. Just let it kinda die naturally.

which im kinda doing the opposite of right now lol. But whatever, im having fun hanging with this chick. And i kinda learned how to control myself and not put my focus on her.
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MarkIngramTD
06/22/17 10:30:57 PM
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What kind of chicks go on Tinder?
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MarkIngramTD
06/22/17 10:32:13 PM
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She's in my head but it's slowly dieing.
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gna647
06/22/17 10:34:46 PM
#45:


MarkIngramTD posted...
What kind of chicks go on Tinder?


Socially anxious girls

Forever alone anime-watching cat ladies

Model looking girls that are on there to increase their Instagram follow count or scam guys into giving them money

Girls looking to fuck

Girls that just got out of a relationship

Girls that are on there for the shits and giggles

And rarely...single normal girls
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DarthAragorn
06/23/17 10:14:35 PM
#46:


Matched with a cute girl, asked her if she's from around here but she said she's just visiting a friend and idk how to respond to that. I don't really want to hit and quit
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emblem boy
06/23/17 11:26:38 PM
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DarthAragorn posted...
Matched with a cute girl, asked her if she's from around here but she said she's just visiting a friend and idk how to respond to that. I don't really want to hit and quit


...yes you do.
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DarthAragorn
06/23/17 11:40:37 PM
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Nah I really don't, plus I wouldn't know what to do

I mean, I don't know what to do either way. But whatevs.
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budda121
06/24/17 12:02:21 AM
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Okay so I recently came out of a five year relationship and decided to give OKC/POF a try. How do you fellas go about initiating a conversation online, lol?

Like idk why but it just feels weird or creepy if i approach her with some info from her profile and try to use that as a stepping stone to a conversation with her. Any tips?
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DoctorPiranha3
06/24/17 12:50:03 AM
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JustMyOpinion posted...
DoctorPiranha3 posted...
I've been chatting with a girl on OKC for the past few days. She reminds me almost exactly of my ex, and she seems real engaging and cool. Gonna ask her out tomorrow.



Tag for future lulz.

Well the lulz are on you, JustMyOnion, because I have a date with her in Sunday.

She's been texting me, and there's another one that's been texting me like crazy and calls me pet names, and she lives closer. Suddenly having options, after a dry spell with this online dating thing. It's odd, but feels good I guess.
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