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Smallville 06/07/17 8:31:39 AM #1:	Have you ever cheated? yes no View Results topic --- "I've always wanted there to be nothing between us. Now there's not"----smallville <cite>Smallville posted [p:880580344] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote> Have you ever cheated? yes no View Results topic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/07/17 8:33:17 AM #2:	What gf? --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:880580396] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>What gf?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smallville 06/07/17 8:36:30 AM #3:	wwinterj25 posted... What gf? have you ever had a g/f before? i'm not trying to disparage you. If you've never had one, does this piss you off that you've never had one? --- "I've always wanted there to be nothing between us. Now there's not"----smallville <cite>Smallville posted [p:880580513] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>What gf?</quote> have you ever had a g/f before? i'm not trying to disparage you. If you've never had one, does this piss you off that you've never had one?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Unbridled9 06/07/17 8:38:56 AM #4:	No. Firstly she said it was okay and wanted a threesome with me and her sister so it wouldn't have been 'cheating'. Secondly I refused and said I would remain eternally loyal to her and her alone. --- I am the gentle hand who heals, the happy smile who shields, and the foot that will kick your ***! - White Mage <cite>Unbridled9 posted [p:880580601] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>No. Firstly she said it was okay and wanted a threesome with me and her sister so it wouldn't have been 'cheating'. Secondly I refused and said I would remain eternally loyal to her and her alone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smallville 06/07/17 8:41:49 AM #5:	Unbridled9 posted... No. Firstly she said it was okay and wanted a threesome with me and her sister so it wouldn't have been 'cheating'. Secondly I refused and said I would remain eternally loyal to her and her alone. what a 3 some with her and her sister? I think that's really weird, she would see her sister nekked --- "I've always wanted there to be nothing between us. Now there's not"----smallville <cite>Smallville posted [p:880580714] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Unbridled9 posted...</cite> <quote>No. Firstly she said it was okay and wanted a threesome with me and her sister so it wouldn't have been 'cheating'. Secondly I refused and said I would remain eternally loyal to her and her alone.</quote> what a 3 some with her and her sister? I think that's really weird, she would see her sister nekked</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/07/17 8:45:54 AM #6:	Smallville posted... have you ever had a g/f before? Technically I've had several yes but I was very young so I don't count those all that much. Smallville posted... If you've never had one, does this piss you off that you've never had one? It doesn't piss me off no. I find my mind wonder "what if" now and then and at times find myself wanting/wishing I had a girlfriend, had sex, had kids and all that when it seems to be what "normal" people have. Then I hear/see their relationship problems, one night stands amount to nothing despite feelings, gals with kids with different dads and so on and this actually makes me feel happy I've never done any of those things. Sure I want all that one day but I don't drag myself down over things I can't change. All I do is try and live my life the best I can and try to fix things I can in my life. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:880580886] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Smallville posted...</cite> <quote>have you ever had a g/f before? </quote> Technically I've had several yes but I was very young so I don't count those all that much. <cite>Smallville posted...</cite> <quote>If you've never had one, does this piss you off that you've never had one?</quote> It doesn't piss me off no. I find my mind wonder "what if" now and then and at times find myself wanting/wishing I had a girlfriend, had sex, had kids and all that when it seems to be what "normal" people have. Then I hear/see their relationship problems, one night stands amount to nothing despite feelings, gals with kids with different dads and so on and this actually makes me feel happy I've never done any of those things. Sure I want all that one day but I don't drag myself down over things I can't change. All I do is try and live my life the best I can and try to fix things I can in my life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 06/07/17 9:05:19 AM #7:	Nope, I have a pretty good life, no need to go and muck it up. --- https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mead "I'm Mary Poppins ya'll!" <cite>Mead posted [p:880581621] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>Nope, I have a pretty good life, no need to go and muck it up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SmokeMassTree 06/07/17 9:10:09 AM #8:	I've actually cheated on every gf I've had :( First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. 2nd gf was multiple times with one girl I used to work with. We always had a flirty relationship, but when I got a gf she cranked it up to the next level. Started with showing me random nudes at work, escalated to texting/sexting, hooked up at work in the paint room (the room we stored spray paint cans in), started hooking up outside of work, ended when she moved on to a married dude. There was also another girl during this time. Just a one time hookup from a bar. Kinda funny that this was the most real relationship I've had and the one I always think about. She cheated on me near the end tho so I don't feel that bad about it. 3rd and most recent gf was three times with a girl I was talking to/hooking up with before I stated dating this one. Started with a booty text randomly on a weekday. I'm a dog =( --- A.K. 2/14/10 T.C.P. Victorious Champion of the 1st Annual POTd Hunger Games. <cite>SmokeMassTree posted [p:880581812] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>I've actually cheated on every gf I've had :( First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. 2nd gf was multiple times with one girl I used to work with. We always had a flirty relationship, but when I got a gf she cranked it up to the next level. Started with showing me random nudes at work, escalated to texting/sexting, hooked up at work in the paint room (the room we stored spray paint cans in), started hooking up outside of work, ended when she moved on to a married dude. There was also another girl during this time. Just a one time hookup from a bar. Kinda funny that this was the most real relationship I've had and the one I always think about. She cheated on me near the end tho so I don't feel that bad about it. 3rd and most recent gf was three times with a girl I was talking to/hooking up with before I stated dating this one. Started with a booty text randomly on a weekday. I'm a dog =(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SomeUsername529 06/07/17 9:18:39 AM #9:	SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? <cite>SomeUsername529 posted [p:880582187] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Tropic_Sunset 06/07/17 9:20:17 AM #10:	SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? No, his GF wasn't there. --- "Nostalgia is a hell of a drug." -Magus 10 <cite>Tropic_Sunset posted [p:880582259] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> No, his GF wasn't there.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smallville 06/07/17 9:25:27 AM #11:	Tropic_Sunset posted... SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? No, his GF wasn't there. dude you had a 3 some with another guy? did he touch you at all? I would go for girl girl guy but not guy guy girl --- "I've always wanted there to be nothing between us. Now there's not"----smallville <cite>Smallville posted [p:880582482] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> No, his GF wasn't there.</quote> dude you had a 3 some with another guy? did he touch you at all? I would go for girl girl guy but not guy guy girl</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darth_CiD 06/07/17 9:27:20 AM #12:	This topic is already filled with things that definitely happened, can't wait for other things that definitely happened other people will post. --- My official prediction for next generation as of 10th Sept 2016 11:12 am The headline buzz words will be "we have more flops than the other guys". <cite>Darth_CiD posted [p:880582555] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>This topic is already filled with things that definitely happened, can't wait for other things that definitely happened other people will post.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thecolorgreen 06/07/17 9:36:46 AM #13:	look, when i started dating the girl following my ex, my ex was suddenly more attracted to me >_> --- :wq <cite>thecolorgreen posted [p:880582961] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>look, when i started dating the girl following my ex, my ex was suddenly more attracted to me >_></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 06/07/17 10:00:04 AM #14:	Mead posted... Nope, I have a pretty good life, no need to go and muck it up. This and I'm very attracted to my boyfriend so I don't really look at men that way. I mean I can obviously tell if a man is attractive but it doesn't get me all riled up anymore. Plus my boyfriend is real good at laying pipe so it'd be pretty stupid for me to go bang some shlub. --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:880584070] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>Nope, I have a pretty good life, no need to go and muck it up.</quote> This and I'm very attracted to my boyfriend so I don't really look at men that way. I mean I can obviously tell if a man is attractive but it doesn't get me all riled up anymore. Plus my boyfriend is real good at laying pipe so it'd be pretty stupid for me to go bang some shlub.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/07/17 10:05:04 AM #15:	Darth_CiD posted... This topic is already filled with things that definitely happened, can't wait for other things that definitely happened other people will post. I've yet to see anything posted here that's unbelievable tbh. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:880584287] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darth_CiD posted...</cite> <quote>This topic is already filled with things that definitely happened, can't wait for other things that definitely happened other people will post.</quote> I've yet to see anything posted here that's unbelievable tbh.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SmokeMassTree 06/07/17 10:56:38 AM #17:	SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? My gf at the time was passed out. It was me, girl, guy No homo, we didn't touch or exchange eye contact --- A.K. 2/14/10 T.C.P. Victorious Champion of the 1st Annual POTd Hunger Games. <cite>SmokeMassTree posted [p:880586677] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> My gf at the time was passed out. It was me, girl, guy No homo, we didn't touch or exchange eye contact</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SmokeMassTree 06/07/17 10:59:39 AM #18:	Smallville posted... Tropic_Sunset posted... SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? No, his GF wasn't there. dude you had a 3 some with another guy? did he touch you at all? I would go for girl girl guy but not guy guy girl It's a good bonding experience I've had 5 guy girl guy threesomes (three were with the same dude/different girl) Only 1 girl me girl No homo for any of them. --- A.K. 2/14/10 T.C.P. Victorious Champion of the 1st Annual POTd Hunger Games. <cite>SmokeMassTree posted [p:880586808] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Smallville posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tropic_Sunset posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> No, his GF wasn't there.</quote> dude you had a 3 some with another guy? did he touch you at all? I would go for girl girl guy but not guy guy girl</quote> It's a good bonding experience I've had 5 guy girl guy threesomes (three were with the same dude/different girl) Only 1 girl me girl No homo for any of them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smallville 06/07/17 11:00:52 AM #19:	but don't you prefer doing it with 2 girls than one other guy? --- "I've always wanted there to be nothing between us. Now there's not"----smallville <cite>Smallville posted [p:880586858] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>but don't you prefer doing it with 2 girls than one other guy?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SmokeMassTree 06/07/17 11:02:13 AM #20:	Ehhh not really honestly, it's more work than I'm willing to put in It's also harder to set up Guy girl guy just sorta happens sometimes --- A.K. 2/14/10 T.C.P. Victorious Champion of the 1st Annual POTd Hunger Games. <cite>SmokeMassTree posted [p:880586927] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>Ehhh not really honestly, it's more work than I'm willing to put in It's also harder to set up Guy girl guy just sorta happens sometimes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SomeUsername529 06/07/17 11:02:39 AM #21:	SmokeMassTree posted... SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? My gf at the time was passed out. It was me, girl, guy No homo, we didn't touch or exchange eye contact Ah okay. I don't know why I couldn't read that properly. <cite>SomeUsername529 posted [p:880586950] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> My gf at the time was passed out. It was me, girl, guy No homo, we didn't touch or exchange eye contact</quote> Ah okay. I don't know why I couldn't read that properly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smallville 06/07/17 11:04:07 AM #22:	yeah i agree that two guys is easier to set up, i think most women aren't into that stuff, did the other dude ever touch you? and if he did did it bother you? --- "I've always wanted there to be nothing between us. Now there's not"----smallville <cite>Smallville posted [p:880587029] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>yeah i agree that two guys is easier to set up, i think most women aren't into that stuff, did the other dude ever touch you? and if he did did it bother you?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 06/07/17 11:04:36 AM #23:	SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? My gf at the time was passed out. It was me, girl, guy No homo, we didn't touch or exchange eye contact Ah okay. I don't know why I couldn't read that properly. Probably the way he typed it. I thought he meant his girlfriend was in the act and there was four people. I'd never heard the phrase devils threesome --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:880587044] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> My gf at the time was passed out. It was me, girl, guy No homo, we didn't touch or exchange eye contact</quote> Ah okay. I don't know why I couldn't read that properly.</quote> Probably the way he typed it. I thought he meant his girlfriend was in the act and there was four people. I'd never heard the phrase devils threesome</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SmokeMassTree 06/07/17 11:10:19 AM #24:	I'm 96% sure my dude and I can talk any girl into a devil's threesome, especially if we've all been drinking. They want it There has never been/will never be intentional touching, well maybe a high five or two during but nothing sexual. I don't know how I would react if a dude intentionally touched me, depending on my mood I might just go with it but I definitely wouldn't bottom/suck anything. --- A.K. 2/14/10 T.C.P. Victorious Champion of the 1st Annual POTd Hunger Games. <cite>SmokeMassTree posted [p:880587344] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>I'm 96% sure my dude and I can talk any girl into a devil's threesome, especially if we've all been drinking. They want it There has never been/will never be intentional touching, well maybe a high five or two during but nothing sexual. I don't know how I would react if a dude intentionally touched me, depending on my mood I might just go with it but I definitely wouldn't bottom/suck anything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 06/07/17 11:34:00 AM #25:	I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first --- Not changing this sig until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) BRAVELY DEFAULT: 1075 - 0844 - 9134 + FS: Pumkaboo, Lampent, Dusclops. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:880588563] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smallville 06/07/17 11:38:46 AM #26:	Muffinz0rz posted... I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first maybe the dude wants 2 or 3 women at once --- "I've always wanted there to be nothing between us. Now there's not"----smallville <cite>Smallville posted [p:880588824] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first</quote> maybe the dude wants 2 or 3 women at once</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SomeUsername529 06/07/17 11:57:53 AM #27:	Muffinz0rz posted... I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first Depends on how invested you are in the relationship and how likely you think it is you'll get caught. If you're the sort of person to collect notches then that ability/desire doesn't die just because you've found a woman worth dating. <cite>SomeUsername529 posted [p:880589923] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first</quote> Depends on how invested you are in the relationship and how likely you think it is you'll get caught. If you're the sort of person to collect notches then that ability/desire doesn't die just because you've found a woman worth dating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 06/07/17 12:08:42 PM #28:	Smallville posted... Muffinz0rz posted... I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first maybe the dude wants 2 or 3 women at once Which is fine, but there's a difference between cheating vs. polyamory. SomeUsername529 posted... Depends on how invested you are in the relationship If both parties have agreed to terms of exclusivity, then one's level of investedness (not a word, I know) shouldn't matter. That's the point when it becomes cheating. One could argue that, in casual dating, i.e. going to dinner once or twice and maybe hooked up but haven't really "Defined the relationship," it wouldn't be considered cheating if either party went out and hooked up with someone else. SomeUsername529 posted... how likely you think it is you'll get caught I just think that if either party even thinks this, it means that said party knows what they're doing is wrong. It's like when you want to shoplift a candy bar - you don't just pick it up and walk out. You look around first, survey the area, think to yourself, "is it likely I'll get caught?" based on employees walking around, good samaritans, etc - you know what you're doing is wrong if you have to think about your odds of getting caught. SomeUsername529 posted... If you're the sort of person to collect notches then that ability/desire doesn't die just because you've found a woman worth dating. I agree. But that person shouldn't (and likely wouldn't) be dating anyone if they're just looking for notches. --- Not changing this sig until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) BRAVELY DEFAULT: 1075 - 0844 - 9134 + FS: Pumkaboo, Lampent, Dusclops. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:880590575] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Smallville posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first</quote> maybe the dude wants 2 or 3 women at once</quote> Which is fine, but there's a difference between cheating vs. polyamory. <cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote>Depends on how invested you are in the relationship</quote> If both parties have agreed to terms of exclusivity, then one's level of investedness (not a word, I know) shouldn't matter. That's the point when it becomes cheating. One could argue that, in casual dating, i.e. going to dinner once or twice and maybe hooked up but haven't really "Defined the relationship," it wouldn't be considered cheating if either party went out and hooked up with someone else. <cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote>how likely you think it is you'll get caught</quote> I just think that if either party even thinks this, it means that said party knows what they're doing is wrong. It's like when you want to shoplift a candy bar - you don't just pick it up and walk out. You look around first, survey the area, think to yourself, "is it likely I'll get caught?" based on employees walking around, good samaritans, etc - you know what you're doing is wrong if you have to think about your odds of getting caught. <cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote>If you're the sort of person to collect notches then that ability/desire doesn't die just because you've found a woman worth dating.</quote> I agree. But that person shouldn't (and likely wouldn't) be dating anyone if they're just looking for notches.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MICHALECOLE 06/07/17 12:18:02 PM #29:	Not my current girlfriend, but many of the past ones <cite>MICHALECOLE posted [p:880591146] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>Not my current girlfriend, but many of the past ones</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 06/07/17 12:22:58 PM #30:	SmokeMassTree posted... well maybe a high five or two during That's one bromance you have there man. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - http://i.imgur.com/kDysIcd.gif <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:880591410] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>well maybe a high five or two during </quote> That's one bromance you have there man.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Black_Crusher 06/07/17 12:37:06 PM #31:	SomeUsername529 posted... SmokeMassTree posted... First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater? Im getting a "Baker's Dozen" vibe here. --- The DXF Games Insanity Bundle on Steam! http://store.steampowered.com/bundle/3314 <cite>Black_Crusher posted [p:880592219] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>SomeUsername529 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SmokeMassTree posted...</cite> <quote>First gf was a devil's threesome with her best friend and some dude at a party, I let him have her mouth so it wasn't a one on one thing. That's the only time I cheated on her. </quote> I don't understand this sentence. So there was you, your gf, her best friend, and a fourth guy that she sucked off during the event? And you were the cheater?</quote> Im getting a "Baker's Dozen" vibe here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SomeUsername529 06/07/17 1:07:29 PM #32:	Muffinz0rz posted... both parties have agreed to terms of exclusivity, then one's level of investedness (not a word, I know) shouldn't matter. That's the point when it becomes cheating. One could argue that, in casual dating, i.e. going to dinner once or twice and maybe hooked up but haven't really "Defined the relationship," it wouldn't be considered cheating if either party went out and hooked up with someone else. I guess so. Giving a false impression that you're in an exclusive relationship is needlessly hurtful but I haven't always gone out of my way to establish that I will not maintain interest if significant effort and exclusivity are required from me. Muffinz0rz posted... I just think that if either party even thinks this, it means that said party knows what they're doing is wrong. It's like when you want to shoplift a candy bar - you don't just pick it up and walk out. You look around first, survey the area, think to yourself, "is it likely I'll get caught?" based on employees walking around, good samaritans, etc - you know what you're doing is wrong if you have to think about your odds of getting caught. That's not necessarily the case. Knowing it would be hurtful and actually thinking it's unjustifiable are different things. No player cares for everyone they have sex with but everyone cares for someone they're dating to at least some degree. Not wanting to hurt them is natural and people keep all kinds of secrets. Not all cheating is a scheduled affair that requires a lot of logical decisions either. Muffinz0rz posted... I agree. But that person shouldn't (and likely wouldn't) be dating anyone if they're just looking for notches. Notch hunting and fulfilling companionship aren't opposing instincts or desires. Some people game hard because they can't form meaningful relationships with the opposite sex but that's not everyone. But banging around is really fun and monogamy is hard and kind of unnatural. <cite>SomeUsername529 posted [p:880594056] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>both parties have agreed to terms of exclusivity, then one's level of investedness (not a word, I know) shouldn't matter. That's the point when it becomes cheating. One could argue that, in casual dating, i.e. going to dinner once or twice and maybe hooked up but haven't really "Defined the relationship," it wouldn't be considered cheating if either party went out and hooked up with someone else.</quote> I guess so. Giving a false impression that you're in an exclusive relationship is needlessly hurtful but I haven't always gone out of my way to establish that I will not maintain interest if significant effort and exclusivity are required from me. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>I just think that if either party even thinks this, it means that said party knows what they're doing is wrong. It's like when you want to shoplift a candy bar - you don't just pick it up and walk out. You look around first, survey the area, think to yourself, "is it likely I'll get caught?" based on employees walking around, good samaritans, etc - you know what you're doing is wrong if you have to think about your odds of getting caught.</quote> That's not necessarily the case. Knowing it would be hurtful and actually thinking it's unjustifiable are different things. No player cares for everyone they have sex with but everyone cares for someone they're dating to at least some degree. Not wanting to hurt them is natural and people keep all kinds of secrets. Not all cheating is a scheduled affair that requires a lot of logical decisions either. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>I agree. But that person shouldn't (and likely wouldn't) be dating anyone if they're just looking for notches.</quote> Notch hunting and fulfilling companionship aren't opposing instincts or desires. Some people game hard because they can't form meaningful relationships with the opposite sex but that's not everyone. But banging around is really fun and monogamy is hard and kind of unnatural.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gravy 06/07/17 1:21:05 PM #33:	nope, but i have been cheated on. I couldn't do that to someone. <cite>gravy posted [p:880594875] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote>nope, but i have been cheated on. I couldn't do that to someone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TsC_PoLiTiKz 06/07/17 1:24:59 PM #34:	Jen0125 posted... Mead posted... Nope, I have a pretty good life, no need to go and muck it up. This and I'm very attracted to my boyfriend so I don't really look at men that way. I mean I can obviously tell if a man is attractive but it doesn't get me all riled up anymore. Plus my boyfriend is real good at laying pipe so it'd be pretty stupid for me to go bang some shlub. Pretty much nailed what I was going to say. --- Currently Playing: Overwatch (XONE); Splatoon (Wii U); Super Mario Run (Android) <cite>TsC_PoLiTiKz posted [p:880595124] in Have you e... [t:75431534]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>Nope, I have a pretty good life, no need to go and muck it up.</quote> This and I'm very attracted to my boyfriend so I don't really look at men that way. I mean I can obviously tell if a man is attractive but it doesn't get me all riled up anymore. Plus my boyfriend is real good at laying pipe so it'd be pretty stupid for me to go bang some shlub.</quote> Pretty much nailed what I was going to say.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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