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| Muffinz0rz 06/07/17 12:08:42 PM #28: | Smallville posted... Muffinz0rz posted...I don't know what kind of scumbag cheats on his/her partner instead of just breaking up first Which is fine, but there's a difference between cheating vs. polyamory. SomeUsername529 posted... Depends on how invested you are in the relationship If both parties have agreed to terms of exclusivity, then one's level of investedness (not a word, I know) shouldn't matter. That's the point when it becomes cheating. One could argue that, in casual dating, i.e. going to dinner once or twice and maybe hooked up but haven't really "Defined the relationship," it wouldn't be considered cheating if either party went out and hooked up with someone else. SomeUsername529 posted... how likely you think it is you'll get caught I just think that if either party even thinks this, it means that said party knows what they're doing is wrong. It's like when you want to shoplift a candy bar - you don't just pick it up and walk out. You look around first, survey the area, think to yourself, "is it likely I'll get caught?" based on employees walking around, good samaritans, etc - you know what you're doing is wrong if you have to think about your odds of getting caught. SomeUsername529 posted... If you're the sort of person to collect notches then that ability/desire doesn't die just because you've found a woman worth dating. I agree. But that person shouldn't (and likely wouldn't) be dating anyone if they're just looking for notches. --- Not changing this sig until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) BRAVELY DEFAULT: 1075 - 0844 - 9134 + FS: Pumkaboo, Lampent, Dusclops. ... Copied to Clipboard! |
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