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Kineth
06/03/17 7:33:58 AM
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I wonder how many of my dedicated bellyachers will ignore this or not believe it.

Anyway, it's about 1:52 AM which is last call at the bar for sure. I just got done doing kamikaze karaoke and thank goodness that the KJ chose Cumbersome by Seven Mary Three. We ended up harmonizing because I couldn't quite get the melody.

Anyway, I go outside to smoke a cigarette and decompress with my alcohol there's a couple of chubby girls, one black and the other white, talking about race stuff. They're not being ridiculous, but I just didn't want to be anywhere near them in case they suddenly decide to start hitting on me, so I walk over the the street side of the patio. This is when I pass a small black girl and a tall white guy having a relatively heated argument involving race. I have no clue what precipitated any of it and I just didn't want to be near that shit. Luckily, the KJ (karaoke jockey) was on the other side of them so I found a place to just shoot the shit and decompress... until he eventually has to finish up doing his job.

Being the guy I am, I just can't not say something if I hear people spouting stupid shit. By this point, it was clear that the guy was taking the position of "people cry racism too much and it's a crutch that..." and she obviously had either called him a racist or had been blaming some issues in her life on racism, but either way, neither was really... talking to each other, they were just saying shit. When the guy said that again, I interrupted and basically said "hey man, it's unfair to characterize every complaint of racism as being whining and ultimately, false. Not that there aren't cases where that isn't the case, but it just isn't a good way to engage the situation."

This is when the girl says something to the effect of "right? You know rich white dudes can't understand..." and I just couldn't step on that shit fast enough. Much like in the way it isn't fair to judge someone's complaints about stuff as being unfair or illegitimate (which I think was the word I used), I said something like "look, that isn't right. How are you hoping to have good dialogue if you're gonna just judge him like that without hearing him out?" I honestly don't remember what it was that I said exactly, but I did say that that doesn't make him a racist at all.

The girl eventually walked off and the guy basically said something to the effect of "thanks man, I really wanted to bang her until all that shit." He did play a little bit of the victim card by saying "is that not racist? I mean, I'm not even rich" in regards to her calling him a rich white guy. Hell, he pointed to his 30 year old pickup truck, which got a good laugh out of me. As an answer to his question, I mean.. I guess so, but it turns out that the girl had been bitching about an ex-boyfriend, who was white, and he just took it a little too personally.

Still, it was pretty funny. We got to shooting the shit and yucking it up for a little bit before it was time to gtfo.

Anyway, sort of an odd vignette, but given how this board is, I figured it was worth sharing.

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Hexenherz
06/03/17 7:35:09 AM
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Is there like a summary, your first intro line didn't really grab my attention and then I saw a doctorate's thesis about something.
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Kineth
06/03/17 7:37:05 AM
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Hexenherz posted...
Is there like a summary, your first intro line didn't really grab my attention and then I saw a doctorate's thesis about something.


tl;dr: Young black girl was calling a young white guy a racist and was berating him about privilege. I jumped in the conversation when he started painting all complaints of racism as illegitimate and was actually listening. Girl started jabbering and walked off when I pointed out how she's fucking up much more at the moment and didn't need to be acting racist, which was apparently because she was sour about her ex-bf. Him and I laughed and had some good conversation afterward. I personally think the guy took offense over a girl whining about men.
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spikethedevil
06/03/17 7:38:06 AM
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You got involved without knowing what was said before you heard them?
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Coolppl Owns
06/03/17 7:38:48 AM
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Good story
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DanShields
06/03/17 7:39:13 AM
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Cant wait till the film version of this.
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Kineth
06/03/17 7:39:40 AM
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spikethedevil posted...
You got involved without knowing what was said before you heard them?


Eh, I had listened to the 10 minutes of conversation prior and it was clearly irrelevant and it's not like she couldn't have stated something if I was misjudging the situation.
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thelovefist
06/03/17 7:42:38 AM
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This happened
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Kineth
06/03/17 7:44:45 AM
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thelovefist posted...
This happened


Hey, dedicated bellyacher #1. Here to forecast a meltdown and be Cap'n Negativity?
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ShinigamiSoul
06/03/17 7:46:11 AM
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Don't smoke or drink, Kineth

It's not good for you
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Kineth
06/03/17 7:46:33 AM
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What are you, my mom?
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Kineth
06/03/17 7:54:57 AM
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kewldude475 posted...
Captain Kineth. What were you sippin on?


Fireball, because I like drink specials and shots that are bought for me.
Jim Bean because I'd rather have a drink of real liquor if I'm going to drink liquor
Lakewood Temptress https://lakewoodbrewing.com/year-round/ It's the second one.
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Twin3Turbo
06/03/17 7:57:56 AM
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Same bar as last time? I'm surprised you went out cause it was raining like hell out here last night
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Kineth
06/03/17 7:59:11 AM
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Twin3Turbo posted...
Same bar as last time? I'm surprised you went out cause it was raining like hell out here last night


Hahaha yeah. What can I say, I love karaoke. I also like young attractive women.
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Twin3Turbo
06/03/17 8:00:49 AM
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Kineth posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
Same bar as last time? I'm surprised you went out cause it was raining like hell out here last night


Hahaha yeah. What can I say, I love karaoke. I also like young attractive women.


Is Friday busier than Saturday nights?
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Sada_Pop
06/03/17 8:00:56 AM
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Do people just randomly hit on you or something?
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Kineth
06/03/17 8:03:06 AM
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Twin3Turbo posted...
Kineth posted...
Twin3Turbo posted...
Same bar as last time? I'm surprised you went out cause it was raining like hell out here last night


Hahaha yeah. What can I say, I love karaoke. I also like young attractive women.


Is Friday busier than Saturday nights?


I'm honestly not sure. It's relatively random, but I would wager that Saturday night will be busier as long as it isn't raining.

Sada_Pop posted...
Do people just randomly hit on you or something?


Sometimes? Not with any regularity or notable frequency. It's sporadic. Sometimes I can't buy a bucket, sometimes I can't turn them away fast enough. But I tend to do what I did at the start, which was separate myself and be a wallflower and just chat with my friends.
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Mr_Legendia
06/03/17 8:15:07 AM
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Kineth posted...
P.S. I know I'm not a good storyteller.

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Kineth
06/03/17 8:36:04 AM
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Mr_Legendia posted...
Kineth posted...
P.S. I know I'm not a good storyteller.


Well, yeah. That's why I said that.

kewldude475 posted...
Never had any of those, but you seem cultured or whatever I guess. Shoot you coulda got her number instead if you had stayed on her side, but you stayed true to your morals and beliefs who would do such a thing


Yeah, I coulda easily got her number, but I really wasn't feeling it. I honestly only stepped in that conversation because I wanted them to shut up so I could relax.
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Mike_Stanton
06/03/17 8:45:42 AM
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Kineth posted...
Anyway, I go outside to smoke a cigarette

dude ur so cool

I (Butters) smoke and drink too, but do you see me going out of my way to say "HEY LOOK AT ME GUYS! I SMOKE! AND DRINK!"

Oh, and it's so obvious that you made this topic to save face for getting stomped out in my affirmative action topic. lol your glorious tears are glorious
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Albel-Nox
06/03/17 8:46:25 AM
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Who says dialogue, tho?
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Kineth
06/03/17 8:48:02 AM
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Mike_Stanton posted...
I have poor reading skills.


Yeah, you didn't need to be redundant.
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SSJGrimReaper
06/03/17 8:56:22 AM
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did you leave out the part where the guy took you home and pounded ur bhole until the sun came up
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Kineth
06/03/17 8:57:31 AM
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SSJGrimReaper posted...
did you leave out the part where the guy took you home and pounded ur bhole until the sun came up


XD

I was wondering if someone was gonna go there. No, I didn't leave it out because that didn't happen.
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ShinigamiSoul
06/03/17 9:13:07 AM
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Kineth posted...
SSJGrimReaper posted...
did you leave out the part where the guy took you home and pounded ur bhole until the sun came up


XD

I was wondering if someone was gonna go there. No, I didn't leave it out because that didn't happen.

So you thought about it then huh Kin
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Mike_Stanton
06/03/17 9:15:03 AM
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Kineth posted...
Mike_Stanton posted...
I have poor reading skills.


Yeah, you didn't need to be redundant.

Kineth posted...
P.S. I know I'm not a good storyteller

lmfao
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MrPeppers
06/03/17 9:38:14 AM
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What city is this in?
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Kineth
06/03/17 9:53:12 AM
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MrPeppers posted...
What city is this in?


Dallas.
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Kineth
06/03/17 11:38:24 AM
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Meh, may as well bump this before I get going.
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KYOJIROKAGENUMA
06/03/17 12:00:42 PM
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Kineth posted...
I wonder how many of my dedicated bellyachers will ignore this or not believe it.

Anyway, it's about 1:52 AM which is last call at the bar for sure. I just got done doing kamikaze karaoke and thank goodness that the KJ chose Cumbersome by Seven Mary Three. We ended up harmonizing because I couldn't quite get the melody.

Anyway, I go outside to smoke a cigarette and decompress with my alcohol there's a couple of chubby girls, one black and the other white, talking about race stuff. They're not being ridiculous, but I just didn't want to be anywhere near them in case they suddenly decide to start hitting on me, so I walk over the the street side of the patio. This is when I pass a small black girl and a tall white guy having a relatively heated argument involving race. I have no clue what precipitated any of it and I just didn't want to be near that shit. Luckily, the KJ (karaoke jockey) was on the other side of them so I found a place to just shoot the shit and decompress... until he eventually has to finish up doing his job.

Being the guy I am, I just can't not say something if I hear people spouting stupid shit. By this point, it was clear that the guy was taking the position of "people cry racism too much and it's a crutch that..." and she obviously had either called him a racist or had been blaming some issues in her life on racism, but either way, neither was really... talking to each other, they were just saying shit. When the guy said that again, I interrupted and basically said "hey man, it's unfair to characterize every complaint of racism as being whining and ultimately, false. Not that there aren't cases where that isn't the case, but it just isn't a good way to engage the situation."

This is when the girl says something to the effect of "right? You know rich white dudes can't understand..." and I just couldn't step on that shit fast enough. Much like in the way it isn't fair to judge someone's complaints about stuff as being unfair or illegitimate (which I think was the word I used), I said something like "look, that isn't right. How are you hoping to have good dialogue if you're gonna just judge him like that without hearing him out?" I honestly don't remember what it was that I said exactly, but I did say that that doesn't make him a racist at all.

The girl eventually walked off and the guy basically said something to the effect of "thanks man, I really wanted to bang her until all that shit." He did play a little bit of the victim card by saying "is that not racist? I mean, I'm not even rich" in regards to her calling him a rich white guy. Hell, he pointed to his 30 year old pickup truck, which got a good laugh out of me. As an answer to his question, I mean.. I guess so, but it turns out that the girl had been bitching about an ex-boyfriend, who was white, and he just took it a little too personally.

Still, it was pretty funny. We got to shooting the shit and yucking it up for a little bit before it was time to gtfo.

Anyway, sort of an odd vignette, but given how this board is, I figured it was worth sharing.

P.S. I know I'm not a good storyteller.

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ShinigamiSoul
06/03/17 1:10:17 PM
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Kineth posted...
Meh, may as well bump this before I get going.

Where you going

It better not be to buy more drink and smokes young man
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SSJGrimReaper
06/03/17 1:20:06 PM
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ShinigamiSoul posted...
Kineth posted...
Meh, may as well bump this before I get going.

Where you going

It better not be to buy more drink and smokes young man

Obviously he's going to go see that guy again
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Kineth
06/03/17 11:03:25 PM
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lol, shut up
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eggcorn
06/03/17 11:08:04 PM
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Kineth posted...
P.S. I know I'm not a good storyteller.

You're not bad
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Baneposting
06/03/17 11:09:55 PM
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So basically kineth is just a massive racist online and like most racists, is cowardly in person and pretends not to be racist?

That's good, actually. Glad he didn't get punched for it.
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ShinigamiSoul
06/03/17 11:55:03 PM
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Kineth got himself a tall white boyfriend now so i doubt he racist
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Kineth
06/04/17 7:30:21 AM
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ShinigamiSoul posted...
Kineth got himself a tall white boyfriend now so i doubt he racist


Well I guess the jury is still out because I don't have a tall, white boyfriend. I do have a tall, white best friend and a short, white best friend though.
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Kineth
06/04/17 10:45:31 PM
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Looks like a lot of the jackals were warned when this topic was up.
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06/04/17 11:05:23 PM
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Kineth
06/06/17 11:32:05 PM
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-_-
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ReignFury
06/06/17 11:36:43 PM
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Dont bump your trash, let it die
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Kineth
06/07/17 5:57:59 AM
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ReignFury posted...
Dont bump your trash, let it die


What's trash about this topic?

Also, you shouldn't throw stones since you do it regularly
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DanHaren-
06/07/17 8:13:09 AM
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Kineth posted...
Hexenherz posted...
Is there like a summary, your first intro line didn't really grab my attention and then I saw a doctorate's thesis about something.


tl;dr: Young black girl was calling a young white guy a racist and was berating him about privilege. I jumped in the conversation when he started painting all complaints of racism as illegitimate and was actually listening. Girl started jabbering and walked off when I pointed out how she's fucking up much more at the moment and didn't need to be acting racist, which was apparently because she was sour about her ex-bf. Him and I laughed and had some good conversation afterward. I personally think the guy took offense over a girl whining about men.


Can we get a summary of this? Thanks.
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BoyOfBattle
06/07/17 8:52:52 AM
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this def happened
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SSJGrimReaper
06/07/17 9:01:13 AM
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Kineth posted...
Hexenherz posted...
Is there like a summary, your first intro line didn't really grab my attention and then I saw a doctorate's thesis about something.


tl;dr: Young black girl was calling a young white guy a racist and was berating him about privilege. I jumped in the conversation when he started painting all complaints of racism as illegitimate and was actually listening. Girl started jabbering and walked off when I pointed out how she's fucking up much more at the moment and didn't need to be acting racist, which was apparently because she was sour about her ex-bf. Him and I laughed and had some good conversation afterward and I took him home and gave him the deep six. I personally think the guy took offense over a girl whining about men.

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Veggeta X
06/07/17 9:16:50 AM
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Gonna copy and paste this on other boards to gain e-game and attention. Hopa ya don't mind.
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Kineth
06/07/17 9:40:17 AM
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Veggeta X posted...
Gonna copy and paste this on other boards to gain e-game and attention. Hopa ya don't mind.


lol.. I guess I can deal with that. May as well get copypasta notoriety.

BoyOfBattle posted...
this def happened


I don't get what's so unbelievable about the situation.
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06/07/17 9:43:30 AM
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