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pinky0926 04/09/24 11:56:33 AM #1: |
Ever notice how people who are enthusiasts in a hobby - any hobby - have a really poor understanding of how much you - a layperson outside of that hobby - simply don't give a shit, and how much they overestimate the effort/time/money you are prepared to consider reasonable? It's like there's a really big gulf between what you consider normal and what they consider normal behaviour in regards to that special interest, and there's not much understanding between either group of how the other person sees it.
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And then from the other side of the fence, maybe you don't understand how someone thinks what you're doing is a big deal because it's so simple and cost-effective from your perspective.
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pinky0926 04/10/24 4:25:57 AM #2: |
no?
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Vampire_Chicken 04/10/24 4:33:15 AM #3: |
"Enthusiasts with large disposable incomes".
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pikakaeru 04/10/24 4:35:05 AM #4: |
i just assume im built different or havent found something i can be passionate about
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pinky0926 04/10/24 4:37:17 AM #5: |
Vampire_Chicken posted...
"Enthusiasts with large disposable incomes". I'm wondering if there's an actual name to the phenomena, like "dunning-kruger effect" or similar --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Vampire_Chicken 04/10/24 4:38:47 AM #6: |
Nah, I see what he's getting at: the kind of people who think you're somehow an idiot or crazy for not throwing your life or shitloads of your money into what they like, the way they do. "You're doing it all wrong! This is what you need to do..."
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xGhostchantx 04/10/24 5:09:58 AM #7: |
I too dislike when friends share their interests with me.
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pinky0926 04/10/24 5:50:01 AM #8: |
xGhostchantx posted...
I too dislike when friends share their interests with me. annoying isnt it --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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tankboy 04/10/24 6:03:02 AM #9: |
It's very similar to a purity spiral. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CountCorvinus 04/10/24 6:15:22 AM #10: |
You don't understand why anyone would spend $500 for a games console when they could build a PC for around that and get extra functionality etc. Not even close to the same thing. --- "i genuinely hate people like you. you're as bad as they come. awful, just awful." - Mecha_Sonic (THEY/THEM) ... Copied to Clipboard!
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sfcalimari 04/10/24 6:22:33 AM #11: |
pinky0926 posted...
You don't understand why anyone would spend $500 for a games console when they could build a PC for around that We'd spend more like $1500 but it would be worth it because it would last at least two console cycles with minor upgrades, and play ALL the games. --- "Tether even a roasted chicken." - Yamamoto Tsunetomo ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 04/10/24 6:23:54 AM #12: |
sfcalimari posted...
We'd spend more like $1500 but it would be worth it because it would last at least two console cycles with minor upgrades, and play ALL the games. *if you are a games enthusiast --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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fakefire 04/10/24 7:33:49 AM #13: |
I just filter out what I can based on my own needs. But it is def annoying when you are researching an Amazon product or something and you basically have a PhD on the subject by the end of it because of all the mixed reviews on everything. I think you were the one who may have said something similar some time ago ... Copied to Clipboard!
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thisworld 04/10/24 7:34:13 AM #14: |
I believe it's confirmation bias at play. Let me explain. People don't have limitless mental capacity. When we make judgment, it's mentally tiring to evaluate every single thing every single time. So we set up some short of mental shortcut to help us evaluate things. But this shortcut by nature is prone to error & bias. We call this cognitive bias. For example, the mentioned Dunning-Kruger effect is a type of cognitive bias where we overestimate our own abilities. Confirmation bias is a type of cognitive bias where we favor information that reinforces our belief. Because of this the exact same story can be interpreted differently by people. A = We need <$1,000 for gaming rig (cheap club) B = We need >$3,000 for gaming rig (expensive club) B says "I have $4,000 gaming rig. I can play game X at 4K / Ultra / 120fps"
pinky0926 posted... there's not much understanding between either group of how the other person sees it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 04/10/24 7:37:50 AM #15: |
fakefire posted...
I just filter out what I can based on my own needs. But it is def annoying when you are researching an Amazon product or something and you basically have a PhD on the subject by the end of it because of all the mixed reviews on everything. I think you were the one who may have said something similar some time ago I'm completely incapable of just buying a thing I like. I need to research it as much as possible to find out if it's the thing I want or if I need a slightly different version. Sometimes this works out well, a lot of the time it just creates a lot of unnecessary stress. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 04/10/24 7:38:56 AM #16: |
thisworld posted...
I believe it's confirmation bias at play. Let me explain. Good post. It does seem like a sort of confirmation bias. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pinky0926 04/10/24 7:41:37 AM #17: |
Ooh may have found it - look up expertise bias, or "the curse of knowledge".
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