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Arcanine2009
03/07/24 9:40:12 PM
#51:


Way too long to read. Can you condense it?

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WingsOfGood
03/07/24 9:40:59 PM
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if you come off as too clingy she will distance herself because of that

do you know the meme?
"pls respond"

you are being too anxious
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falayyou01
03/07/24 9:53:40 PM
#53:


This will not end well for you if youre this neurotic. Sounds like youve got anxious attachment issues.

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ryudo500
03/07/24 10:45:03 PM
#54:


WingsOfGood posted...
if you come off as too clingy she will distance herself because of that

do you know the meme?
"pls respond"

you are being too anxious
I felt that way through texts but idk, how do you make those texts? thats why eve if she does respond toniht which I dont think she will, I will wait a few days

idk the no response from her just makes me feel sad but I assume is no big deal and convos can end liek wat was said earlier


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ryudo500
03/07/24 10:50:44 PM
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bsp77 posted...
Maybe a wait a day or two and then just ask how she is feeling. Don't pressure her into meeting again yet. If she is interested, she will tell you when ready.
base don my last text its not a big deal if she doesn't respond to that in your eyes? same like I said above

@bsp77
I will text her sunday with a simple hey how are you feeling or hey how was your weekend text

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ryudo500
03/08/24 1:18:31 AM
#56:


falayyou01 posted...
This will not end well for you if youre this neurotic. Sounds like youve got anxious attachment issues.
I disagree about attachment issues but yes I am neurotic

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ryudo500
03/08/24 10:30:56 AM
#57:


she texted me back this morning 24 hours after

just saying thank you, sick of being sick its hurting less each day and her job has some cons

I take it as a good sign in just not sure what to text back now??

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NO2_Fiend
03/08/24 10:51:36 AM
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You can feel the desperation bleeding threw your texts like it's OK to say you miss someone and want to see them but when every text has the subtext of I want to see you now when she clearly wants space for her sickness or whatever reason then its not going to end good. Desperation is useless it gains you nothing just turns people off and makes you look like you feel you have nothing to offer.

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ArkhamOrigins
03/08/24 11:19:54 AM
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Ask her to marry you!

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bsp77
03/08/24 11:23:15 AM
#60:


ryudo500 posted...
she texted me back this morning 24 hours after

just saying thank you, sick of being sick its hurting less each day and her job has some cons

I take it as a good sign in just not sure what to text back now??
Stop making things complicated. I would say, "Yeah, being sick sucks. At least you are slowly getting better now." Maybe (depending on your texting and history) add, "Once you are better, I will take you to your favorite restaurant". But don't put a timetable on it. Let her respond, let her pick the time.

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03/08/24 1:02:44 PM
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ryudo500
03/08/24 2:01:16 PM
#61:


bsp77 posted...
Stop making things complicated. I would say, "Yeah, being sick sucks. At least you are slowly getting better now." Maybe (depending on your texting and history) add, "Once you are better, I will take you to your favorite restaurant". But don't put a timetable on it. Let her respond, let her pick the time.

@bsp77

i like the short sweet response about being sick sucks

I prolly will text back just that but idk about the restersunt part idk what else to say I dont want to come across pushy about meeting when shes better since I said it already the other week but you gave me an idea to say something else besides restersunt


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ryudo500
03/08/24 2:01:52 PM
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NO2_Fiend posted...
You can feel the desperation bleeding threw your texts like it's OK to say you miss someone and want to see them but when every text has the subtext of I want to see you now when she clearly wants space for her sickness or whatever reason then its not going to end good. Desperation is useless it gains you nothing just turns people off and makes you look like you feel you have nothing to offer.

is that what you get from those texts? I would not disagree but yeah just being more chill like others said, I just really fucking like her which is why this cringe topic


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ArkhamOrigins
03/08/24 2:07:46 PM
#63:


ryudo500 posted...
is that what you get from those texts? I would not disagree but yeah just being more chill like others said, I just really fucking like her which is why this cringe topic

you should tell her how much you like her right now. she may not know

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falayyou01
03/08/24 2:09:34 PM
#64:


ArkhamOrigins posted...
you should tell her how much you like her right now. she may not know
This is the last thing you should be doing. Never ever under threat of death tell a girl you like her.

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Consayblue22
03/08/24 2:20:36 PM
#65:


Christ TC chill the fuck out. Girls love space for one and when you give them space and show them you're relaxed it makes you more attractive in their eyes.

Overthinking doesn't help anyone least of all you. Go out and get some fresh air or do some exercise and just chill out.

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ryudo500
03/08/24 2:32:12 PM
#67:


Consayblue22 posted...
Christ TC chill the fuck out. Girls love space for one and when you give them space and show them you're relaxed it makes you more attractive in their eyes.

Overthinking doesn't help anyone least of all you. Go out and get some fresh air or do some exercise and just chill out.

agree I just dont want to mess anything up or send a bad text

like text what you feel right but with her last text I was gonna talk about good and bad job since she said her job has its downs thats for sure

instead Ill say what bsp said its short and sweet

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falayyou01
03/08/24 2:42:59 PM
#68:


ryudo500 posted...
agree I just dont want to mess anything up or send a bad text

like text what you feel right but with her last text I was gonna talk about good and bad job since she said her job has its downs thats for sure

instead Ill say what bsp said its short and sweet
all that crap they tell you about be yourself is BS. Especially if youre clingy and neurotic. Youre better off embodying another persona by pulling back, being mysterious, a bit selfish and mirroring her energy. If she backs off, you back off. The key thing to remember is to be ready to walk at any point if she gives you shit you dont like - ever. Never ever over invest in anyone but yourself and just chill out. She will start to wonder about you and chase you. Its mad but thats human psychology.

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Consayblue22
03/08/24 3:39:00 PM
#69:


ryudo500 posted...
agree I just dont want to mess anything up or send a bad text

like text what you feel right but with her last text I was gonna talk about good and bad job since she said her job has its downs thats for sure

instead Ill say what bsp said its short and sweet

Okay just don't freak out if she doesn't message for a few hours. People are busy they have other shit going on.

Go and do something productive until she does message back.

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ryudo500
03/08/24 3:58:09 PM
#70:


Consayblue22 posted...
Okay just don't freak out if she doesn't message for a few hours. People are busy they have other shit going on.

Go and do something productive until she does message back.


i get tha but the one or two times she takes 24 hrs or two weeks ago it was two days almost that really made me depressed its distancing herself any way you put it but we still hung out (last time we did)

then the next week same thing two days almost to respond one time

also here is my next text to her tonightb

you have a good job! You would know more but thing that seem rough are the people calling off and also hands getting physicls time to time!

then text what @bsp77 said which is being sick sucks I feel you! When you feel better Ill take you out to eat

aby thoughts on those two messages ?


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ironman2009
03/08/24 3:59:27 PM
#71:


ironman2009 posted...
Come on buddy


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ryudo500
03/08/24 3:59:37 PM
#72:


^
@NoxObscuras

your thoguhts on that msg ill send too?

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ryudo500
03/08/24 9:20:47 PM
#73:


Anyone else have any comments?

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FinalBraveNUT
03/08/24 9:45:05 PM
#74:


Yeah. Your overthinking? Have u had even "relations" with this chick

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ryudo500
03/08/24 9:56:19 PM
#76:


FinalBraveNUT posted...
Yeah. Your overthinking? Have u had even "relations" with this chick

FinalBraveNUT posted...
Yeah. Your overthinking? Have u had even "relations" with this chick


what do you mean?


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FinalBraveNUT
03/08/24 10:48:51 PM
#77:


ryudo500 posted...
what do you mean?

Kiss? Hold hands? More?

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ryudo500
03/08/24 11:06:44 PM
#78:


FinalBraveNUT posted...
Kiss? Hold hands? More?
Any reason that matters or whats your answer with heavy kissing each time or none at all??

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ryudo500
03/09/24 2:25:21 AM
#79:


sent two texts

one about her job then a seocnd right after with what bsp said

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ryudo500
03/09/24 10:36:02 AM
#80:


Didnt give her much to respond to, if she doesnt ill shoot her a text sunday night or Monday morning askin how her weekend was and how shes feeling

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ironman2009
03/09/24 11:15:54 AM
#81:


ironman2009 posted...
Come on buddy


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falayyou01
03/09/24 3:20:06 PM
#83:


[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

Dont do this.

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SrRd_RacinG
03/09/24 4:08:30 PM
#85:


An anxious style attachment is an insecure attachment and is usually only tolerated by another person who has an anxious style attachment.

Attachment style psychology is wonderful and should be studied by everyone.

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ryudo500
03/09/24 4:59:39 PM
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[LFAQs-redacted-quote]

this is accurate and the fact I never had anything remotely serious

you are right about the ebb and flow. just felt she was a bit more serious about me the first few weeks we met in december and I keep basing it off that for some stupid reason

at the end of the day if she still says shes too sick to meet end of next week then I guess we know where I stand : /

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ryudo500
03/09/24 7:07:27 PM
#87:


you guys should I not text back until she texts ack?

I was gonna send a text two days from now asking hose shes feeling but I feel after my last text just leave it be or what?

I didnt give her much to respond to

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ryudo500
03/09/24 8:02:16 PM
#89:


@Crono99

I only text her once a day or twice a day at most

you think its best to wait till she texts me back then? even tho my last text didnt give her anything to really resond bck to

you think 2 days is too little? I agree with what youre saying

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ryudo500
03/09/24 9:41:22 PM
#90:


anyoneelse have thoughts

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BloodMoon7
03/09/24 9:43:17 PM
#91:


ryudo500 posted...
anyoneelse have thoughts
I think mayonnaise is kinda nasty

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ryudo500
03/09/24 9:57:09 PM
#92:


BloodMoon7 posted...
I think mayonnaise is kinda nasty
she loves mayo
I hate it XD

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BloodMoon7
03/09/24 9:58:14 PM
#93:


ryudo500 posted...
she loves mayo

*wiggles eyebrows*

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Anteaterking
03/09/24 9:59:28 PM
#94:


TC, you should know the situation well enough between the previous topic and now to know that

if this relationship falls apart, it will not be because you didn't text back frequently enough.

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ryudo500
03/09/24 10:13:48 PM
#95:


@Anteaterking

I agree with all I need to chill, the fact this is first time I have caught actual true feelligns does have me very rattled but everyone is right. I need to chill

IF IT is over, I would reallly like to know what happened? was I too clingy, too strong, she just lost interest due to x? I wouldn't mind texting her and asking her that question if it is indeed over just to know what I did wrong

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solosnake
03/09/24 10:23:26 PM
#96:


Do you guys ever talk on the phone?

Or is it just texting hours apart?


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Anteaterking
03/09/24 10:24:22 PM
#97:


ryudo500 posted...
IF IT is over, I would reallly like to know what happened? was I too clingy, too strong, she just lost interest due to x? I wouldn't mind texting her and asking her that question if it is indeed over just to know what I did wrong

Well wait until she says it's over before doing that.

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solosnake
03/09/24 10:26:12 PM
#98:


ryudo500 posted...
IF IT is over, I would reallly like to know what happened? was I too clingy, too strong, she just lost interest due to x? I wouldn't mind texting her and asking her that question if it is indeed over just to know what I did wrong

Girls can kind of sense that insecurity man. Try to put yourself in her shoes for a second. You re probably making her feel a lot of pressure that isnt needed.

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ryudo500
03/09/24 10:28:55 PM
#99:


solosnake posted...
Do you guys ever talk on the phone?

Or is it just texting hours apart?
brotehrs fiance say to facetime but we never ave its been meeting person or texting, sometimes I respading hours apart other times its her. ben this way for a month maybe close to 2 now. just how it is

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ryudo500
03/09/24 10:29:29 PM
#100:


solosnake posted...
Girls can kind of sense that insecurity man. Try to put yourself in her shoes for a second. You re probably making her feel a lot of pressure that isnt needed.
@solosnake

dont you think my last text is chill? i agree with some others

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