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Glob 02/13/24 1:24:57 AM #1: |
Youve come to a wedding. Youve potentially travelled a very long way (about 6000 miles). The wedding itself is really nice and you really enjoy the trip, however, while there you learn that the bride and groom actually got legally married a year or two beforehand without any ceremony, and delayed the ceremony in order to make it more viable for certain people to be able to come. What would your thoughts be? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 02/13/24 1:26:35 AM #2: |
you're (supposed to be) already legally married before the wedding why would i care ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Guide 02/13/24 1:26:55 AM #3: |
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you're (supposed to be) already legally married before the wedding --- evening main 2.4356848e+91 https://youtu.be/Acn5IptKWQU ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dakimakura 02/13/24 1:27:13 AM #4: |
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R1masher 02/13/24 1:27:22 AM #5: |
0/10 is it chicken or fish for the reception?
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Glob 02/13/24 1:28:29 AM #6: |
ArsGoetia posted... you're (supposed to be) already legally married before the wedding Not where I come from, youre not. You do all the paperwork on the day normally. However, where I live now, youre normally legally married before the day but only for a few days at most. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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boxoto 02/13/24 1:29:01 AM #7: |
why would you even tell them?
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itachi15243 02/13/24 1:30:08 AM #8: |
ArsGoetia posted...
you're (supposed to be) already legally married before the wedding Yeah if anything, this actually looks good in my opinion? --- I do drawings and stuff https://www.fiverr.com/blueblitz ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArsGoetia 02/13/24 1:35:01 AM #9: |
boxoto posted... why would you even tell them? it happened to me tbh i got legally married in december 2013 because we wanted to file taxes as a married couple (we were planning on having the wedding later the next year anyways, so we figured why not) wife had a health crisis, wedding got delayed. since my wife wasnt working because of her health, my mom had to cosign on my mortgage with me. had to tell her then because it would have been perjury to say i wasnt married to the title office. she was pissed lol ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 02/13/24 1:40:38 AM #10: |
boxoto posted... why would you even tell them? To be honest, Id rather not but Im just thinking about what if it came out as certain people at the wedding would know. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LeoRavus 02/13/24 1:44:10 AM #11: |
I wouldn't go to the other side of the planet for a wedding unless someone else was paying for the ticket. In that case I wouldn't care about the scenario since I got a free trip.
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Glob 02/13/24 1:45:48 AM #12: |
LeoRavus posted... I wouldn't go to the other side of the planet for a wedding unless someone else was paying for the ticket. In that case I wouldn't care about the scenario since I got a free trip. Ill be paying for some peoples tickets, but not everybody. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hambo 02/13/24 1:46:39 AM #13: |
I clicked on this topic ready to just be angry about anything, but then it was a scenario that wasn't worth being mad about at all. 0/10.
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MabusIncarnate 02/13/24 3:15:32 AM #14: |
Not at all, it's still their wedding day, their official status beforehand doesn't matter. Some people get married and have a ceremony a year or two later when it's more feasible.
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ForsakenHermit 02/13/24 4:17:06 AM #15: |
My brother had to delay his wedding by a year for covid it happens.
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Cruciferous 02/13/24 4:34:08 AM #16: |
why are you getting mad at when two people choose to celebrate their special union?
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Glob 02/13/24 4:34:59 AM #17: |
Theres been a lot of reassuring responses. I appreciate it. I cant legally buy a house here until were married and Im at a point where I can almost buy a really nice one outright, but at the same time, well get better wedding attendance if we dont rush it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cruciferous 02/13/24 4:39:08 AM #18: |
its really not that uncommon
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boxoto 02/13/24 4:43:59 AM #19: |
oh, so you're planning on getting married soon and having the ceremony next year (or longer)?
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Glob 02/13/24 4:46:14 AM #20: |
Cruciferous posted... its really not that uncommon Ive never encountered it before. Maybe it depends where in the world you are? boxoto posted... oh, so you're planning on getting married soon and having the ceremony next year (or longer)? Thats the thinking, yeah. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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tankboy 02/13/24 5:05:31 AM #21: |
We got married at the courthouse six days before our two religious ceremonies and reception (so we were arguably married three times). Nobody cared, and everybody had fun at the reception. The only impact was that had it been over a week, The New York Times would have only mentioned the civil ceremony in their announcement. Apparently, they have a week cut-off for that. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Axiom 02/13/24 5:07:54 AM #22: |
Who would care about this besides uppity in-laws wanting to hold one over on you ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Rika_Furude 02/13/24 5:11:38 AM #23: |
What reason would I have to care? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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tripleh213 02/13/24 5:24:51 AM #24: |
I wouldn't care
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thisworld 02/13/24 6:03:16 AM #25: |
0/10. However... LeoRavus posted... I wouldn't go to the other side of the planet for a wedding Not to be a jerk to the bride and groom, but with that kind of distance the jet lag would kill me. I'd still have work to do after all. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 02/13/24 6:09:14 AM #26: |
thisworld posted... 0/10. However... In fairness, they arent American so they get a decent amount of time off each year. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Cruciferous 02/13/24 7:17:10 PM #27: |
Glob posted...
Ive never encountered it before. Maybe it depends where in the world you are?sorry I was blinded by my patriotism and forgot the rest of the world exists Yeah in America its not that uncommon I guess, couldn't speak for the rest of the world! --- everything is going to b o k ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mibahlzitch 02/13/24 7:18:35 PM #28: |
Complete indifference
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ItsNotA2Mer 02/13/24 7:20:26 PM #29: |
I see nothing to be pissed about with this.
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Kim_Seong-a 02/13/24 7:22:17 PM #30: |
Depends on how good the food is. If I travelled 6000 miles for shitty food I'll be pissed.
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NoxObscuras 02/13/24 7:30:34 PM #31: |
That's a 1/10 for me. I wouldn't be mad at all. The wedding is their day to celebrate their marriage with all their friends and family. I'm just there to celebrate with them.
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pjnelson 02/13/24 7:33:29 PM #32: |
Glob posted...
Not where I come from, youre not. You do all the paperwork on the day normally. The wedding ceremony is just fluff. It doesn't actually mean anything. All that officially matters is the paperwork. You can do paperwork and no ceremony and still be legally married, but if you have a ceremony but no paperwork it was all worthless because the ceremony doesn't mean shit. It's like a birthday party. Even if you don't have any party at all you still aged a year. Your birthday can be on Tuesday but your party on Friday, but you still aged a year on Tuesday. The party means nothing. --- I'm not here for friends. I'm here for the truth to the best of my knowledge of it, even if it's not what people want to hear. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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foxhound101 02/13/24 9:55:57 PM #35: |
Honestly I wouldn't go. But if for some reason I did end up going to a wedding then I wouldn't care if there was a delay between the marriage and celebration. Especially if there were good reasons for the delay.
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DD_Divine 02/13/24 9:56:29 PM #36: |
My wife and I got married two years before our actual wedding. My wife needed insurance so we got government married in 2017 then just did a destination wedding in Vegas (where we live but we knew family would come to Vegas). We only told a few people and ended up just doing the reception. No bullshit ceremony or vows just a party.
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GiftedACIII 02/13/24 9:57:48 PM #37: |
The point of weddings is the food and meeting up with people
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Glob 02/13/24 10:23:51 PM #38: |
foxhound101 posted... Honestly I wouldn't go. But if for some reason I did end up going to a wedding then I wouldn't care if there was a delay between the marriage and celebration. Especially if there were good reasons for the delay. You wouldnt go to any wedding? Or just wouldnt go to one far away? DD_Divine posted... My wife and I got married two years before our actual wedding. My wife needed insurance so we got government married in 2017 then just did a destination wedding in Vegas (where we live but we knew family would come to Vegas). We only told a few people and ended up just doing the reception. No bullshit ceremony or vows just a party. Yeah, our motivations are slightly different to yours but I think the premise is more or less the same. GiftedACIII posted... The point of weddings is the food and meeting up with people I tend to think so too, but not everybody does. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cjsdowg 02/13/24 10:30:58 PM #39: |
Like nothing..at all.
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Prototypic 02/13/24 10:32:19 PM #40: |
I guess I would be annoyed if it was deliberately hidden without good reason, but most of the time something like this happens, it's not a secret the couple is already married.
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Ifrit 02/13/24 10:33:26 PM #41: |
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LoveLikeJazz 02/13/24 10:33:54 PM #42: |
10/10 fucking fuming I'd push the bride into a nearby fountain and pants the groom.
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foxhound101 02/14/24 12:33:45 AM #43: |
Glob posted...
You wouldnt go to any wedding? Or just wouldnt go to one far away? I've been to a couple weddings, but they aren't something that really appeal to me. So the further away it was the less I'd go. My boyfriend and I aren't planning to get married even though we've been together for 10 years so it's not a thing that matters to us lol. --- There are a ton of misconceptions about recycling. Learn how to better at recycling: https://onbetterliving.com/simplify-recycling/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 02/14/24 12:35:21 AM #44: |
foxhound101 posted... I've been to a couple weddings, but they aren't something that really appeal to me. So the further away it was the less I'd go. My boyfriend and I aren't planning to get married even though we've been together for 10 years so it's not a thing that matters to us lol. My previous partner and I lived together for 11 years and never had any intention of getting married. It makes a lot more sense to in this instance as Im an immigrant, so being married to a Vietnamese national allows me certain privileges. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LzOmega 02/14/24 12:36:45 AM #45: |
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ArkhamOrigins 02/14/24 1:11:10 AM #46: |
Literally a nothing burger
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NeonTentacles 02/14/24 3:30:44 PM #48: |
Literally 0. What is this question? People do that all the time
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Glob 02/14/24 7:17:18 PM #49: |
NeonTentacles posted... Literally 0. What is this question? People do that all the time As Ive stated several times in the topic, not in the culture Im used to, they dont. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WilliamPorygon 02/14/24 7:28:54 PM #50: |
9, I only came to bitch during the "speak now or forever hold your peace" segment
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