Current Events > Feminist mother ends up accidentally raising her son into an incel.

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Hoodroar 10/28/22 7:00:02 PM #1:	https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y0ss7o/the_patriarchy_hurts_men_but_they_blame_it_on/ The patriarchy hurts men, but they blame it on women. This toxic masculinity hurts women, kills women. We all know that, but it also hurts men and boys. As the mother of a boy, I raised him to be aware of his feelings and did my best to teach him healthy ways of dealing with and expressing them. Society and his father negated my teachings. Now he's unhappy and turning into an Incel at 25. He blames me. Until we have a major societal change, nothing your mother teaches you will stick. I'm sure, had my son been a daughter, everything I taught her would have also been negated. She'd have had the same chance of internalizing our sick society and blaming it on me, just as my son did. How do we fix this shit? I seriously thought teaching my son how to be a balanced human was the answer, but when the societal norms negate those teachings, it seems to make no difference. People don't get that a risk to raising a boy with "socially conscious" values is the possibility of stunting the growth of his ability to confidently approach women and not second guess himself. --- sigless user logic <cite>Hoodroar posted [p:969041328] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y0ss7o/the_patriarchy_hurts_men_but_they_blame_it_on/<quote>The patriarchy hurts men, but they blame it on women. This toxic masculinity hurts women, kills women. We all know that, but it also hurts men and boys.As the mother of a boy, I raised him to be aware of his feelings and did my best to teach him healthy ways of dealing with and expressing them. Society and his father negated my teachings. Now he's unhappy and turning into an Incel at 25. He blames me.Until we have a major societal change, nothing your mother teaches you will stick. I'm sure, had my son been a daughter, everything I taught her would have also been negated. She'd have had the same chance of internalizing our sick society and blaming it on me, just as my son did.How do we fix this shit? I seriously thought teaching my son how to be a balanced human was the answer, but when the societal norms negate those teachings, it seems to make no difference.</quote>People don't get that a risk to raising a boy with "socially conscious" values is the possibility of stunting the growth of his ability to confidently approach women and not second guess himself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cjsdowg 10/28/22 7:15:51 PM #4:	So it is everyone else fault but hers. Maybe not calling your son an incel might help. --- To be a poor man is hard, but to be a poor race in a land of dollars is the very bottom of hardships. W.E.B. Du Bois <cite>cjsdowg posted [p:969041595] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>So it is everyone else fault but hers. Maybe not calling your son an incel might help.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RiKuToTheMiGhtY 10/28/22 7:15:59 PM #5:	No accountability, no responsibility, no surprises here. --- doa-plus.com - We Press Forward. . . By Pressing Back. <cite>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted [p:969041599] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>No accountability, no responsibility, no surprises here.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heartomaton 10/28/22 7:17:14 PM #6:	Which CEman? --- https://www.youtube.com/user/Heartomaton Heartomaton for President 2028. <cite>Heartomaton posted [p:969041624] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Which CEman?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Shabriri 10/28/22 7:19:45 PM #8:	As the mother of a boy, I raised him to be aware of his feelings and did my best to teach him healthy ways of dealing with and expressing them. Society and his father negated my teachings. Now he's unhappy and turning into an Incel at 25. He blames me thonk --- MAY CHAOS TAKE THE WORLD <cite>Shabriri posted [p:969041683] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote><quote>As the mother of a boy, I raised him to be aware of his feelings and did my best to teach him healthy ways of dealing with and expressing them. Society and his father negated my teachings. Now he's unhappy and turning into an Incel at 25. He blames me</quote>thonk</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoesntMatter 10/28/22 7:21:07 PM #10:	Hoodroar posted... Society and his father negated my teachings. get a load of this society --- It don't matter. None of this matters. <cite>DoesntMatter posted [p:969041713] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Hoodroar posted... </cite><quote>Society and his father negated my teachings.</quote>get a load of this society</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Paragon21XX 10/28/22 7:21:24 PM #11:	lol reddit.com, more like fanfiction.net 2.0, amirite? --- Politicians are the weeds of the galaxy. <cite>Paragon21XX posted [p:969041717] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>lol reddit.com, more like fanfiction.net 2.0, amirite?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 10/28/22 7:23:23 PM #12:	[LFAQs-redacted-quote] --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:969041758] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote><cite>[LFAQs-redacted-quote]</cite> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hoodroar 10/28/22 7:27:07 PM #13:	Sulugnaz posted... Did you even read what you posted? Yes, the part where it's said her son blames her particularly stood out. I'm just guessing at why he'd do that. --- sigless user logic <cite>Hoodroar posted [p:969041841] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Sulugnaz posted...</cite><quote>Did you even read what you posted?</quote>Yes, the part where it's said her son blames her particularly stood out. I'm just guessing at why he'd do that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shabriri 10/28/22 7:27:35 PM #14:	you seem like you can relate to the son thonk --- MAY CHAOS TAKE THE WORLD <cite>Shabriri posted [p:969041853] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>you seem like you can relate to the son thonk</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hoodroar 10/28/22 7:31:03 PM #16:	shockthemonkey posted... Yeah a misogynist would never unfairly blame a woman for his problems! The mom clearly says that she raised her son contrary to the societal standard. Maybe the standard is the standard because it's what works. Shabriri posted... you seem like you can relate to the son thonk No, I don't blame my mom for the state of my social life. --- sigless user logic <cite>Hoodroar posted [p:969041914] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite><quote>Yeah a misogynist would never unfairly blame a woman for his problems! </quote>The mom clearly says that she raised her son contrary to the societal standard. Maybe the standard is the standard because it's what works.Shabriri posted...</cite><quote>you seem like you can relate to the son thonk</quote>No, I don't blame my mom for the state of my social life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kakapo 10/28/22 7:32:45 PM #17:	Hoodroar posted... The mom clearly says that she raised her son contrary to the societal standard. Maybe the standard is the standard because it's what works. You are a very silly sausage --- I was born under clouds but when the pressure gets too much for me I bite 24 hour party parrot <cite>Kakapo posted [p:969041945] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Hoodroar posted... </cite><quote>The mom clearly says that she raised her son contrary to the societal standard. Maybe the standard is the standard because it's what works.</quote>You are a very silly sausage</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CyricZ 10/28/22 7:33:09 PM #19:	Hoodroar posted... The mom clearly says that she raised her son contrary to the societal standard. She did not use those words. Read the thing you're basing your entire argument upon again. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:969041956] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Hoodroar posted... </cite><quote>The mom clearly says that she raised her son contrary to the societal standard.</quote>She did not use those words. Read the thing you're basing your entire argument upon again.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EmbraceOfDeath 10/28/22 7:34:54 PM #21:	Sounds like a run of the mill bad parent who wants validation that they couldn't possibly be the problem. --- No more shall man have wings to bear him to paradise. Henceforth, he shall walk. <cite>EmbraceOfDeath posted [p:969041980] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Sounds like a run of the mill bad parent who wants validation that they couldn't possibly be the problem. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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IShall_Run_Amok 10/28/22 7:40:09 PM #23:	DoesntMatter posted... get a load of this society You best believe in societies. You're in one --- Dude, calm down. Dippy Fresh didn't do anything to you dawg. <cite>IShall_Run_Amok posted [p:969042068] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>DoesntMatter posted... </cite><quote>get a load of this society</quote>You best believe in societies.You're in one</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 10/28/22 7:42:51 PM #24:	Yeah there is ultimately very little information here. Near as I can find, the OP doesn't even respond to anyone or add any information. So the idea that one can sus out what the real problem is would be a bit... haughty. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:969042113] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Yeah there is ultimately very little information here.Near as I can find, the OP doesn't even respond to anyone or add any information.So the idea that one can sus out what the real problem is would be a bit... haughty.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ellis123 10/28/22 7:46:49 PM #25:	CyricZ posted... Yeah there is ultimately very little information here. Near as I can find, the OP doesn't even respond to anyone or add any information. So the idea that one can sus out what the real problem is would be a bit... haughty. TwoXChromosomes is the chud/incel forum for trolling. That's basically all the context needed. --- "A shouted order to do something of dubious morality with an unpredictable outcome? Thweeet!" My FC is in my profile. <cite>ellis123 posted [p:969042198] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite><quote>Yeah there is ultimately very little information here.Near as I can find, the OP doesn't even respond to anyone or add any information.So the idea that one can sus out what the real problem is would be a bit... haughty.</quote>TwoXChromosomes is the chud/incel forum for trolling. That's basically all the context needed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hoodroar 10/28/22 7:47:16 PM #26:	shockthemonkey posted... How is this even supposed to be a response to what I said and not just a stupid dogwhistle about how misogyny is good We don't even know if the dude is a misogynist. She said he blamed her, not all women in general. CyricZ posted... She did not use those words. Read the thing you're basing your entire argument upon again. How can society "negate" her teachings if the teachings match society's? Sulugnaz posted... So you didnt read the whole part where he doesnt actually enshrine her teachings... yet youre passing it off as if its her teachings that causes this, but ok. She said that society negated the teachings, not that he himself negated them. Societal contradictions came before any rejection on his own part. Gladius_ posted... Hm, weird. There are many men on CE alone that don't adhere to the standard and are fine. My husband doesn't adhere to the "Standard" either. Neither do "I" but we have successful careers and a happy marriage. Maybe people don't neatly fit into boxes. That seems like exceptions to a trend, though. --- sigless user logic <cite>Hoodroar posted [p:969042204] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>shockthemonkey posted...</cite><quote>How is this even supposed to be a response to what I said and not just a stupid dogwhistle about how misogyny is good </quote>We don't even know if the dude is a misogynist. She said he blamed her, not all women in general.CyricZ posted...</cite><quote>She did not use those words. Read the thing you're basing your entire argument upon again.</quote>How can society "negate" her teachings if the teachings match society's?Sulugnaz posted...</cite><quote>So you didnt read the whole part where he doesnt actually enshrine her teachings... yet youre passing it off as if its her teachings that causes this, but ok.</quote>She said that society negated the teachings, not that he himself negated them. Societal contradictions came before any rejection on his own part.Gladius_ posted...</cite><quote>Hm, weird. There are many men on CE alone that don't adhere to the standard and are fine. My husband doesn't adhere to the "Standard" either. Neither do "I" but we have successful careers and a happy marriage. Maybe people don't neatly fit into boxes.</quote>That seems like exceptions to a trend, though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 10/28/22 7:50:37 PM #27:	ellis123 posted... TwoXChromosomes is the chud/incel forum for trolling. That's basically all the context needed. What's TC doing there? Hoodroar posted... How can society "negate" her teachings if the teachings match society's? By erasure and supplanting with new teachings. There's no diametric opposition necessary. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:969042273] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>ellis123 posted... </cite><quote>TwoXChromosomes is the chud/incel forum for trolling. That's basically all the context needed.</quote>What's TC doing there?Hoodroar posted... </cite><quote>How can society "negate" her teachings if the teachings match society's?</quote>By erasure and supplanting with new teachings. There's no diametric opposition necessary.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
coolguyjimmy 10/28/22 7:51:20 PM #28:	"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti <cite>coolguyjimmy posted [p:969042297] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." - Jiddu Krishnamurti</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Antifar 10/28/22 7:53:30 PM #29:	Topic's not great --- kin to all that throbs <cite>Antifar posted [p:969042335] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Topic's not great </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NeonOctopuses 10/28/22 7:54:02 PM #31:	The tighter you grip water, the harder it squirts away from you. - Albert Einstein - Michael Scott --- https://imgur.com/aMaI3hj https://imgur.com/7PsdJNc https://imgur.com/eK8vZVn https://imgur.com/u2HR4nG https://imgur.com/nQGM5cZ <cite>NeonOctopuses posted [p:969042347] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>The tighter you grip water, the harder it squirts away from you. - Albert Einstein - Michael Scott</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 10/28/22 7:54:32 PM #32:	TC has been a troll for a long time he just acts like he isn't --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:969042355] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>TC has been a troll for a long time he just acts like he isn't</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ellis123 10/28/22 7:54:54 PM #33:	CyricZ posted... What's TC doing there? Confirming his bias'. --- "A shouted order to do something of dubious morality with an unpredictable outcome? Thweeet!" My FC is in my profile. <cite>ellis123 posted [p:969042362] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite><quote>What's TC doing there?</quote>Confirming his bias'.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VampireCoyote 10/28/22 7:56:58 PM #35:	true story from an actual person that actually happened --- She/her <cite>VampireCoyote posted [p:969042402] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>true story from an actual person that actually happened</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
haloiscoolisbak 10/28/22 7:59:32 PM #36:	I mean, I'd need two sides of the story before taking a side here. Parents can absolutely fuck their kids up. Trauma is contagious --- Started from the bottom now we here <cite>haloiscoolisbak posted [p:969042458] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>I mean, I'd need two sides of the story before taking a side here. Parents can absolutely fuck their kids up. Trauma is contagious </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dakimakura 10/28/22 8:23:55 PM #38:	RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... No accountability, no responsibility, no surprises here. Jail the incels! That will teach them. --- This is signature Not waste of data at all <cite>Dakimakura posted [p:969042986] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted... </cite><quote>No accountability, no responsibility, no surprises here.</quote>Jail the incels! That will teach them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 10/28/22 8:27:47 PM #39:	i too am a mother old enough to have a 25 year old son and i also know and regularly use internet terms like incel derogatorily toward my child. i too haunt reddit despite being a mother and wife to complain about my family, for i am a real person and not made up, as are my posts real, and not made up --- The stone that fell is still falling, so let that stone be a wondrous thing <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:969043063] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>i too am a mother old enough to have a 25 year old son and i also know and regularly use internet terms like incel derogatorily toward my child. i too haunt reddit despite being a mother and wife to complain about my family, for i am a real person and not made up, as are my posts real, and not made up</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MedeaLysistrata 10/28/22 8:28:52 PM #40:	Posted by Bebe Marsh --- Please join the 100 Presidents community board and contribute to the project! Check back for updates! https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1568-100-presidents <cite>MedeaLysistrata posted [p:969043086] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Posted by Bebe Marsh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Romulox28 10/28/22 8:29:08 PM #41:	If my mom had a Reddit account and was posting about how I get no pussy I would probably blow my brains out --- http://i.imgur.com/LhwwG.gif <cite>Romulox28 posted [p:969043093] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>If my mom had a Reddit account and was posting about how I get no pussy I would probably blow my brains out </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Shabriri 10/28/22 8:30:20 PM #42:	Romulox28 posted... If my mom had a Reddit account and was posting about how I get no pussy I would probably blow my brains out lmao irl --- MAY CHAOS TAKE THE WORLD <cite>Shabriri posted [p:969043112] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Romulox28 posted... </cite><quote>If my mom had a Reddit account and was posting about how I get no pussy I would probably blow my brains out</quote>lmao irl </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 10/28/22 8:30:46 PM #43:	lmao "that" subreddit. <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:969043126] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>lmao "that" subreddit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hoodroar 10/28/22 8:45:04 PM #45:	CyricZ posted... By erasure and supplanting with new teachings. There's no diametric opposition necessary. Perhaps. thronedfire2 posted... TC has been a troll for a long time he just acts like he isn't Nope. These are my honest thoughts. --- sigless user logic <cite>Hoodroar posted [p:969043474] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted...</cite><quote>By erasure and supplanting with new teachings. There's no diametric opposition necessary.</quote>Perhaps.thronedfire2 posted...</cite><quote>TC has been a troll for a long time he just acts like he isn't</quote>Nope. These are my honest thoughts.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChocoboMogALT 10/28/22 8:46:24 PM #46:	Sometimes, probably quite often, kids don't exhibit the values their parents try to instill in them. Sometimes it's a failure of parenting, sometimes it's just essentially random. You have parents who teach conservative values, and parents who teach progressive values, and both have children who rebel and live contrary to their upbringing. But damn is TC inserting a hell of a lot of his own reality into a small reddit post. --- "We live in a country Hasire.." ~ yosouf06 REVOLVER STAKE! http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v717/ChocoboMog123/AltEisenRChocoboMog.png <cite>ChocoboMogALT posted [p:969043506] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>Sometimes, probably quite often, kids don't exhibit the values their parents try to instill in them. Sometimes it's a failure of parenting, sometimes it's just essentially random. You have parents who teach conservative values, and parents who teach progressive values, and both have children who rebel and live contrary to their upbringing.But damn is TC inserting a hell of a lot of his own reality into a small reddit post.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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silverpine 10/28/22 10:05:42 PM #48:	honestly it seems like parents just don't have control over their kids anymore now that the internet exists. you just birth them and feed them and they just stare into the screen and become what social media tells them to become. it's fucked up and scary bro <cite>silverpine posted [p:969045193] in Feminist m... [t:80213648]...</cite> <quote>honestly it seems like parents just don't have control over their kids anymore now that the internet exists. you just birth them and feed them and they just stare into the screen and become what social media tells them to become. it's fucked up and scary bro </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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