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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 5:31:26 PM #101: |
Prismsblade posted... She sounds like a vile toxic woman herself with zero respect or loyalty to long time freinds. You should have cut her off for good long ago. I wouldn't say toxic, but definitely psychologically perturbed and not particularly reliable. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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aurlen 07/25/22 5:34:09 PM #102: |
Prismsblade posted... She sounds like a vile toxic woman herself with zero respect or loyalty to long time freinds. You should have cut her off for good long ago.Vile seems a bit much. Some people just get wrapped up in the new and now. It is still shitty but doesn't make her vile. Thoughtless is perhaps a better descriptor ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jerry_Hellyeah 07/25/22 5:34:59 PM #103: |
Woman: *pulls away while entering a new relationship as men and women often do, in particular blocking a single guy giving unwanted relationship advice on Instagram* Internet people that totally respect women: Prismsblade posted... She sounds like a vile toxic woman herself with zero respect or loyalty to long time freinds. You should have cut her off for good long ago. --- This is a cool sig ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MajesticFerret 07/25/22 5:37:22 PM #104: |
I feel like their are far more advantages than disadvantages from moving in with a guy than not doing so. 1. You get to save money on rent. And if he breaks up with you, at least you saved all that rent money and get to use it to make finding another apt easier. The only mistake here is a lot of women go into bum mode and when the guy kicks them out they have no savings, but a part of me thinks that's kinda on them as they shouldn't be bums just because they're getting free rent and should be using this opportunity to level up their finances and are asking for the rig to pulled out from under them if they're leeches (not to mention not contributing to o rent in any capacity is a large reason for a lot of break ups). 2. It is FAR easier to cheat on a woman when you live apart than live together. If he plans on cheating on her, the LAST thing he should do is let her move in. Some guys will cheat anyways, but this is probably because a change of heart; any guy who plans to cheat from the get go will fight a woman tooth and nail to not move in with him for good reason. So yeah, I don't see the problem with moving in with the guy. If anything, there are far more downsides for the man than their are for the woman in most cases and I think her ex prob got sick and her or couldn't keep his dick in his pants and them moving in together likely had no correlation to their break up and isn't an intrinsic red flag. --- Sanity is a one trick pony, all you get with it is rational thought, but with crazy the sky's the limit. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarkBuster22904 07/25/22 5:43:32 PM #105: |
MajesticFerret posted... I feel like their are far more advantages than disadvantages from moving in with a guy than not doing so. I'll list a downside: 1. They've been on exactly one date, and have otherwise chatted on a dating app for a month. Meaning it's on about the same level as spontaneously moving in with some rando you met last night at the bar. If that sounds like a terrible and extremely dangerous idea, it's because it is. There's a big difference between "moving in with your boyfriend" and "moving in with someone you literally barely know." Its a bad idea for the same reason hitchhiking is a bad idea, and no amount of "you save money on a car/gas" will ever make hitchhiking NOT a terrible idea. --- Haven't had a good sig idea since 2006 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 07/25/22 5:44:56 PM #106: |
MajesticFerret posted... I feel like their are far more advantages than disadvantages from moving in with a guy than not doing so. Yeah after you've known a person. Its not like she's been with this guy for years. Its been one date lol. If you think its a good idea idk what to tell you --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrDrMan 07/25/22 5:47:45 PM #107: |
Flea_Plus posted... I'm not really trying to. Buddy get over yourself. The problem with people like you is you always act like the sky is falling then it never does so people get tired of you telling them what to do. It also comes off insincere because you claim to care yet you keep talking about your friend as if they are somehow incapable. Its not your place to judge people and Im sure if we started analyzing you youre not as perfect as you think. Let people live their lives. Youre not Superman and nobody ever asked you to be. --- Insert sig here ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VeggetaX 07/25/22 5:50:48 PM #108: |
MrDrMan posted... Its not your place to judge peoplePeople can be judged for who they are. --- Don't like it? Don't watch it. It's that simple Dictator of Nice Guys ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 5:56:03 PM #109: |
MrDrMan posted... Buddy get over yourself. I think you should get over yourself; I'm the one trying to have a conversation, while you're projecting and getting easily triggered. Can't take the heat? Go away. You'll get zero apologies from me. In fact, if you want, I'd be happy to repeat the stuff I just said even louder. Want me to? MrDrMan posted... Its not your place to judge people and Im sure if we started analyzing you youre not as perfect as you think. I know I'm not perfect. The fact that you think I said or implied that is a you problem, not a me problem. If you have specific questions about my demeanor, you can actually try asking about them instead of assuming, getting upset, and then coming to conclusions that aren't rational. MrDrMan posted... Youre not Superman and nobody ever asked you to be. kek ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 5:59:03 PM #110: |
Like, no clue wtf you're on about, and I don't think anyone else does either. Go take a Xanax or something. Nobody is taking this as seriously as you are. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MajesticFerret 07/25/22 6:06:54 PM #111: |
I4NRulez posted... Yeah after you've known a person. Its not like she's been with this guy for years. Its been one date lol. Tbf, there is a lot of intrinsic danger to dating as a woman period. You say it's dangerous to move in with a guy after one date, but it is equally if not more dangerous to go home and fuck a guy you just met, but that's what a lot of modern dating has turned into. It's pretty obvious this chick put out on the first date if she's willing to block you over a guy she dated once, but chances are she's already seen his place and if he wanted to serial kill her then, he would have done so (not to mention the probability of being serial killed is extremely low and is overwhelmingly an irrational fear in dating). So yeah, I think moving in after one date is moving pretty fast, but so is fucking on the first date and I'm like 99% sure that happened if this guy is already proposing she move in and she is already down with it. For better or worse, that's how women operate. I know girls who I had a fling with one time and they would probably trust me to let them stay at my place or vice versa while I've seen guys in the friend zone for years that women wouldn't let stay over even if you paid them lol. It's probably because once sex has been established, women kinda already know there isn't a lot to lose. 99.99% of guys aren't murderers and just want sex, and once a woman has decided she is willing to submit to a dude and provide said sex, most of the intrinsic danger behind a man is eliminated. --- Sanity is a one trick pony, all you get with it is rational thought, but with crazy the sky's the limit. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Phenomenal_one 07/25/22 6:10:40 PM #112: |
You know how these bitches are --- I am what I am and that is all that I am and I am it ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AgentCoulson 07/25/22 6:12:29 PM #113: |
In a few months, when you get that friendly DM that makes no mention of her blocking you or Mr. Red Flag, do yourself a favor: delete it, block her and go on with your life. --- I haven't set a signature for the message boards yet ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 07/25/22 6:13:31 PM #114: |
MajesticFerret posted... Tbf, there is a lot of intrinsic danger to dating as a woman period. what lol --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MajesticFerret 07/25/22 6:19:29 PM #115: |
I4NRulez posted...
I'm explaining to you female psychology on why she is willing to move in with a guy after one date. Once a guy has hit it, a lot of the "stranger danger" element is over. They almost certainly fucked, her brain is full of dopamine and oxytocin, she "might love him", yadda yadda, and that's that homie. --- Sanity is a one trick pony, all you get with it is rational thought, but with crazy the sky's the limit. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 07/25/22 6:36:14 PM #117: |
MajesticFerret posted... I'm explaining to you female psychology on why she is willing to move in with a guy after one date. Once a guy has hit it, a lot of the "stranger danger" element is over. It wasn't a what in "i don't understand" it was a what in "what is this nonsense youre spouting" --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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WingsOfGood 07/25/22 6:43:35 PM #118: |
MajesticFerret posted... I'm explaining to you female psychology on why she is willing to move in with a guy after one date. Once a guy has hit it, a lot of the "stranger danger" element is over. The danger is abuse and other such things. Other such things are more in the realm of money than relationship stuff. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 6:51:54 PM #120: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] Uh, no it doesn't. Not always. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 7:02:25 PM #122: |
[LFAQs-redacted-quote] I mean, you don't know either one very well in the scenarios outlined here, so I'd say you're in inherent danger either way. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrDrMan 07/25/22 7:42:15 PM #123: |
Flea_Plus posted... Like, no clue wtf you're on about, and I don't think anyone else does either. Go take a Xanax or something. Nobody is taking this as seriously as you are. Stop trying to rope everyone else into your bad opinions. --- Insert sig here ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AeroFlash15 07/25/22 7:46:53 PM #124: |
Jerry_Hellyeah posted... I dunno why anyone would think a girl's relationship I4NRulez posted... I mean it was a little intrusive but i dont think it was too far out of line. I didn't tell her "remember your abusive ex?!?" or anything of that nature. --- Never stop ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 07/25/22 7:50:10 PM #125: |
you didnt prove his point lol. I never brought up her past to her. I only mentioned it in this topic to give context to why i think she should be more careful about the red flags. --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 7:51:35 PM #126: |
MrDrMan posted... Stop trying to rope everyone else into your bad opinions. triggered ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AeroFlash15 07/25/22 7:51:42 PM #127: |
I4NRulez posted... you didnt prove his point lol.? --- Never stop ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarkBuster22904 07/25/22 7:53:21 PM #128: |
I4NRulez posted... you didnt prove his point lol.They weren't proving his point, they were trying to refute it. --- Haven't had a good sig idea since 2006 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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I4NRulez 07/25/22 7:54:46 PM #129: |
DarkBuster22904 posted... They weren't proving his point, they were trying to refute it. AeroFlash15 posted... ? Sorry thought you bolded that part insinuating his point. My mistake --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 7:56:50 PM #130: |
MrDrMan posted... Stop trying to rope everyone else into your bad opinions. Also, if they're bad, can you refute them? No you can't. You got pwned. Go hide in a corner. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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aurlen 07/25/22 7:59:12 PM #131: |
Wait...nobody says pwned anymore ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Flea_Plus 07/25/22 8:00:04 PM #132: |
aurlen posted... Wait...nobody says pwned anymore Bitch slapped, then? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AeroFlash15 07/25/22 8:00:30 PM #133: |
I4NRulez posted... Sorry thought you bolded that part insinuating his point. My mistakehttps://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/7/6/2/AAa1ysAADfky.png --- Never stop ... Copied to Clipboard!
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aurlen 07/25/22 8:01:02 PM #134: |
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/3/7/8/AAfTb_AADdCi.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sticky_Derp 07/25/22 8:03:26 PM #135: |
I think pointing out that it's worth evaluating as sudden is worthwhile, but forcing it to be a red flag is sort of a mistake People usually don't like being told answers, even if they're probably right - but especially if there's a chance the answer is wrong Next time I'd say just ask, "Why do you think they want you to move in?" "Why do you think moving in already could be a good idea?" Questions that make people come up with their own answers always work better than giving them answers with things like this. They'll still make mistakes but you can be friends through it and be better primed to help later on That said, don't stress; if people be making bad life choices and being negative on a consistent basis, don't waste your time, make new friends --- https://youtu.be/_zoRoEh-kOA ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AgentCoulson 07/25/22 8:03:30 PM #136: |
aurlen posted... Wait...nobody says pwned anymore And that's sad. Means I'm getting old. --- I haven't set a signature for the message boards yet ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrDrMan 07/25/22 8:10:49 PM #137: |
aurlen posted... Wait...nobody says pwned anymore So out of touch. Lmao --- Insert sig here ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MrDrMan 07/25/22 8:12:23 PM #138: |
Sticky_Derp posted... I think pointing out that it's worth evaluating as sudden is worthwhile, but forcing it to be a red flag is sort of a mistake Basically what Ive been trying to say. Let people come to their own conclusions. Its like Inception. It will never work unless people perceive it as their own thought. --- Insert sig here ... Copied to Clipboard!
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aurlen 07/25/22 8:20:28 PM #139: |
MrDrMan posted... So out of touch. LmaoThat's a little much ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Yazarogi 07/25/22 8:21:10 PM #140: |
anytime a dude wants to move in with a chick super quickly after meeting they are usually a hobosexual. Someone who just dates women to couch surf / see how much they can put up with before finally being "broken up" with and made to leave. --- "There will be nothing to show that we were ever here... but stardust." - Pinbacker ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Onimusha 07/25/22 8:22:09 PM #141: |
More flags more fun --- You haven't set a signature for the message boards yet ... Copied to Clipboard!
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