Current Events > Your 17 y/o son: "can my boyfriend please spend the night?"

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ZannoL
08/02/21 8:28:19 PM
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"We'll sleep on separate beds and leave the door open." Is that okay?


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Trumble
08/02/21 8:29:40 PM
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At 17, they can fuck if they want, I don't care.

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BloodMoon7
08/02/21 8:30:38 PM
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My house isn't a love hotel thank you.

If he wants some money to go to a hotel, that's fine.

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Ratchetrockon
08/02/21 8:32:01 PM
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Yes and id let them close and lock the door. It only fair cuz my parents used to let my ex gf sleepover with the doors closed & locked when i was 15 to 17 years old lol. Her parents were more strict and made us leave the door open tho when i was at her house

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ZannoL
08/02/21 8:32:47 PM
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Ratchetrockon posted...
Yes and id let them close and lock the door. It only fair cuz my parents used to let my ex gf sleepover with the doors closed & locked when i was 15 to 17 years old lol. Her parents were more strict and made us leave the door open tho when i was at her house
Good dad right here.

Trumble posted...
At 17, they can fuck if they want, I don't care.
Important to make sure to have that awkward but necessary talk, though.
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scorpion41
08/02/21 8:44:42 PM
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Id be wondering where I got a son from

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Flauros
08/02/21 8:44:46 PM
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Yes but they have to have a TV on with Mind of Mencia playing at full volume all night.

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Cheater87
08/02/21 8:45:23 PM
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Of course son. I'd love to meet him, he treating you right?

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pfh1001
08/02/21 8:47:19 PM
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scorpion41 posted...
Id be wondering where I got a son from


Me too. I assume he's living with his mother, so he can do whatever she lets him I guess.
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RedJackson
08/02/21 8:50:00 PM
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I didn't know you had a boyfriend -- you know you can tell me anything right?

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pikachupwnage
08/02/21 8:53:59 PM
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After I vet him well enough.

If he is a druggie(Like a dealer or on some of the worse shit. If he does weed or something fine long as he doesn't smoke indoors) or theif no

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ZannoL
08/02/21 8:54:46 PM
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Cheater87 posted...
Of course son. I'd love to meet him, he treating you right?

RedJackson posted...
I didn't know you had a boyfriend -- you know you can tell me anything right?

pikachupwnage posted...
After I vet him well enough.

If he is a druggie(Like a dealer or on some of the worse shit. If he does weed or something fine long as he doesn't smoke indoors) or theif no

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R_Jackal
08/02/21 8:57:57 PM
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I mean as long as he ain't a druggie or nothin. I'd be as cautious as I am with anyone I don't know in my house. Other than that idgaf at 17.
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ZannoL
08/02/21 9:00:33 PM
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Hambo the Hog
08/02/21 9:00:43 PM
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Son, all men are garbage. Every one. You two are free to fuck all you want, but you WILL use protection and you will NOT catch feels. You are a strong, independent gay man who don't need no man.

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Kajagogo
08/02/21 9:02:38 PM
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Why would I say no?

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HagenEx
08/02/21 9:05:33 PM
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Can I watch?

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ZannoL
08/02/21 9:10:09 PM
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Hambo the Hog posted...
Son, all men are garbage. Every one. You two are free to fuck all you want, but you WILL use protection and you will NOT catch feels. You are a strong, independent gay man who don't need no man.


Kajagogo posted...
Why would I say no?


HagenEx posted...
Can I watch?


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LeoRavus
08/02/21 9:11:36 PM
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I'd ask what the point is if they'll be in separate beds. Sounds suspect

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mooreandrew58
08/02/21 9:13:05 PM
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Yeah had my bf living with me when I was 16. Mother didnt know about me at the time and she worked 3rd shift so we slept together a lot.

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dj1200
08/02/21 9:13:08 PM
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Fuck no. And Id make sure he always had condoms.

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zombiexdeathx
08/02/21 9:17:30 PM
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dont have kids but if i did i would support them however i could

its unlikely to ever happen however

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RedJackson
08/02/21 9:19:07 PM
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I had a student tell me he didnt like going back home to his father and mother because they didnt like him painting his nails and hanging out with only girls

I honestly felt tears swelling in my eyes because I used to feel much like that, I didnt really know what to do or say but tell him to always be himself and that if he applied himself the whole world and a sea of people who want to see him express himself will always be there to root him on

Hope hes doing alright, he was kind of a troublemaker.. just wish I couldve done more to make his situation better, honestly this is why I drink sometimes

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ZannoL
08/03/21 2:41:44 PM
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RedJackson posted...
I had a student tell me he didnt like going back home to his father and mother because they didnt like him painting his nails and hanging out with only girls

I honestly felt tears swelling in my eyes because I used to feel much like that, I didnt really know what to do or say but tell him to always be himself and that if he applied himself the whole world and a sea of people who want to see him express himself will always be there to root him on

Hope hes doing alright, he was kind of a troublemaker.. just wish I couldve done more to make his situation better, honestly this is why I drink sometimes

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Doe
08/03/21 2:41:58 PM
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XxKrebsxX
08/03/21 2:45:29 PM
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I'm all for gay rights but I won't lie and say my son being gay won't bother me slightly.

He can do whatever he wants after he moves out with my full support. He will not be engaging in gay sex under my roof. I know, it's hypocritical that I won't hold a straight son to the same standard but it is what it is..
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skermac
08/03/21 2:47:29 PM
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lol

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skermac
08/03/21 2:48:00 PM
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dj1200 posted...
Fuck no. And Id make sure he always had condoms.

why? neither of them can get pregnant

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mooreandrew58
08/03/21 2:49:31 PM
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skermac posted...
why? neither of them can get pregnant

Stds

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spikethedevil
08/03/21 2:50:37 PM
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skermac posted...
why? neither of them can get pregnant

You know about STDs right? While yes his post is problematic with the whole having issues with his sons boyfriend coming round unless they both know for the 100% the other is clean safe sex is always a good idea.

@skermac

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Turbam
08/03/21 2:51:09 PM
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"Fuck no. Sleep in the same bed, I didn't raise a fucking dweeb."

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I4NRulez
08/03/21 2:52:08 PM
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"Use protection and dont let me hear it"

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philsov
08/03/21 3:02:15 PM
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We'll sleep on separate beds


Son, why the fuck do you think I left a second bed in that room in the first place, if not for this purpose?!?
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CobraGT
08/03/21 3:04:08 PM
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The separate beds and open door protect me from locoparentis repercussions if the other parents are not ok with this. I would guide them through getting tested for std's tho.

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Funkydog
08/03/21 3:05:50 PM
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I4NRulez posted...
"Use protection and dont let me hear it"


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Smackems
08/03/21 3:07:04 PM
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Trumble posted...
At 17, they can fuck if they want, I don't care.
I semi agree with this, but I don't want them doing it in my house

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WashYourHands
08/03/21 3:10:25 PM
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HagenEx posted...
Can I watch?
Im sure there are websites to satisfy your craving to watch your son have sex..

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Duncanwii
08/03/21 3:11:51 PM
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Not sure.

Now if my daughter had a girl over that may be different.
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spikethedevil
08/03/21 4:05:59 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
Not sure.

Now if my daughter had a girl over that may be different.

Implications of this post are disturbing.

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ZannoL
08/03/21 6:40:04 PM
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spikethedevil posted...
Implications of this post are disturbing.
Its Duncan. Need I say more?
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Lost_All_Senses
08/03/21 6:42:37 PM
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My kids not fuckin in the next room from me regardless of sexes lol. I don't wanna hear or think about that. They can go somewhere else, but I'm not setting it up. Plus, it will be extra motivation for him to actually move out in the next couple years.

Id never even of asked my mom for a girl to stay over when I lived with her. I did everything out of house.


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dj1200
08/03/21 7:13:19 PM
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skermac posted...
why? neither of them can get pregnant

That's the type of attitude that will have you contracting any one of the STD/STIs. Condomless anal sex, which some gay males engage in is a very high risk activity for transmitting an STD/STI.

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Duncanwii
08/03/21 7:24:57 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Id never even of asked my mom for a girl to stay over when I lived with her. I did everything out of house.

I wish I had the freedom to do this.
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Doe
08/03/21 7:27:21 PM
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Duncanwii posted...
I wish I had the freedom to do this.
How old are you

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meralonne
08/03/21 7:28:08 PM
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Sorry, nope. The only people that fuck in my house are me and my wife. And my actual 17y/o bisexual son already knows this rule. lol

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Lost_All_Senses
08/03/21 7:33:26 PM
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meralonne posted...
Sorry, nope. The only people that fuck in my house are me and my wife. And my actual 17y/o bisexual son already knows this rule. lol

Im super close to my niece. Hang out like 4-5 times a week and we have game nights where we game until the sun comes up. We talk about pretty much everything. But she's 15 and I feel like I'm never gonna be comfortable to hear about any sexual experience or know at the time it's happening. Like, Ill be super invested in how she's being treated by people she dates and all that, but I want to keep that innocence intact for as long as possible. Even if it's disappearing out of my sight lol. I respect people who can have those talks, but that's not me. Also being opposite sexes does have something to do with it, even if she dates women. Cause she does identify as pansexual. Which Im fine with that information, but that's enough digging for me lol.

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neccis
08/03/21 7:36:55 PM
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Hambo the Hog posted...
Son, all men are garbage. Every one. You two are free to fuck all you want, but you WILL use protection and you will NOT catch feels. You are a strong, independent gay man who don't need no man.
You should get right in there and ref

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Hambo the Hog
08/03/21 7:49:14 PM
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neccis posted...
You should get right in there and ref
Eww. I ain't about to watch my own kid fucking. Plus if he's somehow my biological son and he looks like me at all then that's even nastier.

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neccis
08/03/21 7:51:35 PM
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Hambo the Hog posted...
Eww. I ain't about to watch my own kid fucking. Plus if he's somehow my biological son and he looks like me at all then that's even nastier.
Maybe a simple, hit a home run Bobby then?

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