Current Events > As A Black Man, I Find That Asian Women Aren't Attracted To Me. Is This Normal?

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I find it difficult, because the majority of Asian women i've ever met IRL or talked to online(like dating sites), were just not into me. While i've had better luck getting dates or having intimate relations with white, mixed, or hispanic women.

Huh?

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I don't know, actually. Probably they heard about black dudes' huge packages and was like fuck that.

maybe it's because of where I live (Sacramento, CA area), but this hasn't been my experience.

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Sadly, it is normal. Black men have to essentially jump though hoops to have a chance, and sometimes even that's not enough. For several reasons, Asian women are generally much more likely to hook up with White men, and there are likely far more White men vying for their attention so they definitely have the benefit of choice there.

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What about black women

Idk, post a pic. I am black and have messed with a few Asian women in my time.

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You sure it's not just most women?

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anyway, I feel like if you fetishize/focus on a group of people, it's going to lead to disappointment and possible connections with others you might have had, but didn't give a chance to, due to that tunnel vision

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What are the chances TC is actually black?

In India, it is a sin to marry a black person, unfortunately. My mom once told me an Indian couple who owned a small store selling Indian import goods had to close their business because their daughter accepted a proposal from a black man. The customers shamed them.

GeraldDarko posted...

What are the chances TC is actually black?

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Idk. About 5%

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I'm best friends with a Vietnamese dude, and from what he's told me Asians are pretty racist against blacks. I have no idea why that is.

His daughter also has a black boyfriend so I guess that family broke through the barrier. She was born and raised in America though.

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Black women don't like Asian men all that much too if that makes you feel any better, TC. At least according to an Asian friend of mine.

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Id say they are attracted to black men fine but there is a cultural stigma against them dating black men. I've encountered that a few times where I've been outright told that their family wouldn't allow it. And I'm talking first generation mostly. Big reason I broke up with my Korean ex was because she swore her parents would disown her if they found out about us. I couldn't take being hidden any longer if she wasnt going to confront it. I've heard this statement from asian female friends as well. It's unfortunate circumstances but I hope as time goes on it'll get better.

My current Indonesian gfs family is cool with me. On the first date I asked how her family views black people. She knew where I was coming from. Just have to find the person who is ok with bucking that xenophobic stance.

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find a qt blasian chick

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SSJ2GrimReaper posted...

find a qt blasian chick

My Asian friend also said Blasians don't like full Asians.

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It does seem to be normal TC. I always feel like it takes much more effort to try to get together with an Asian woman when you are Black. That is what I've noticed personally

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I think this is normal unfortunately. You will have to jump through hoops.

It might not be so much attraction, but bringing you home to their parents. Older generations are racist.


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I once had a friend (regular guy friend) in high school, who was like, "hey man, come ride our bus home so we can hang out"

so I ride the bus, and then he's like, "alright man, I'll see you tomorrow"

and I'm like, "wtf, I thought we were going to hang out"

and he's like, "sorry, my dad doesn't like black people"

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MegaTech posted...

Big reason I broke up with my Korean ex was because she swore her parents would disown her if they found out about us. I couldn't take being hidden any longer if she wasnt going to confront it.

Good, I would've done the same. I have no tolerance for xenophobic bullshit. If someone has a problem with me being black I'd preferred they let me know so I don't waste my time with them.

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Women of all backgrounds have a strong preference for white men, so yes it's normal.

(I'd post the image showing this but I can't find it right now)
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g0ldie posted...

I once had a friend (regular guy friend) in high school, who was like, "hey man, come ride our bus home so we can hang out"

so I ride the bus, and then he's like, "alright man, I'll see you tomorrow"

and I'm like, "wtf, I thought we were going to hang out"

and he's like, "sorry, my dad doesn't like black people"

There was an episode of Static Shock like this.

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AmericaTheBrave posted...

There was an episode of Static Shock like this.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8V7a2pxeNeE

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I actually only find Black women attractive

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Hey where did the tc go

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Could be cultural differences

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As an Asian man I only find black men attractive.

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It's because you capitalize every letter if your titles.
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Its not normal but that it is a reality.. yeah

I say this as a Latino too >_>

This takes me to this one time this girl in school once told me that she wanted someone that looked like Kurt Cobain, I was like wdym and she told me he had beautiful straight, blonde hair and blue eyes.. and a beautiful skin tone

I was like how the fuck am I ever supposed to look like that >_>


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But we aren't allowed to be bitter

trappedunderice posted...

Hey where did the tc go

I'm right here

Veggeta_MAX posted...

Black women don't like Asian men all that much too if that makes you feel any better, TC. At least according to an Asian friend of mine.

An old female coworker of mine is black/white mixed and engaged to an Asian dude. They're a pretty cute couple. Plus she's a total weeb which I think was part of the appeal tbh.

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RedJackson posted...

Its not normal but that it is a reality.. yeah

I say this as a Latino too >_>

This takes me to this one time this girl in school once told me that she wanted someone that looked like Kurt Cobain, I was like wdym and she told me he had beautiful straight, blonde hair and blue eyes.. and a beautiful skin tone

I was like how the fuck am I ever supposed to look like that >_>

I want a sexy bitch that looks like Red "Latino Heat" Jackson

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