Current Events > What's less desirable to women: Skinny guys or fat guys?

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cuttin_in_farm
01/19/21 10:48:29 AM
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Hopefully actual women answer.


I just moved to a new city, and was gonna try online dating. I realized Im not the biggest guy. Weighing in at 143ish at 59.

But I always thought how easier it would be to be attractive as a woman which basically comes down to dont be fat.

I feel women dont like skinny guys more than overweight guys. Though I could be wrong.

I wonder how folks think.

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WingsOfGood
01/19/21 10:50:11 AM
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Kinda feel like it is skinny guys.

Like Jinny on twitch bf is some big fat guy.
Lots of girls get with fat guys.
Why? Fat guys often tend to be bigger than them, despite being out of shape.
Skinny dude's arm is same size as the girls.
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darkphoenix181
01/19/21 10:56:02 AM
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Anecdotally, when I was in middle school and highschool I got hit on by women quite alot, had them approach me and ask for my number.

By college I didn't find much attention from them. By then I learned I had a disease and at the time didn't realize I was super underweight. Was just 120-130 lbs. Looking back at old photos is a shock.

After a few years I am now about 170 and have been noticing more attention.
However, this one girl I really liked didn't like me back and I suspect it is cause she wants a bigger dude (not fat but not skinny). Otherwise we got along super well, vibes well, enjoyed each other company. But that is just a guess.

So it matters what stage of life. If you are younger, I feel it is more ok to be skinny.
As you age, you need to bulk a bit or your will be a ghost. At least anecdotally that is what it seems like.

But boogie size fat dudes, undesirable...
Then again, he did have a wife...

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Cerealmilk
01/19/21 10:57:22 AM
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depends on how skinny and how fat
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DocDelicious
01/19/21 10:57:33 AM
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Skinny.

There are plenty of chicks that love big guys (though there's a limit).

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Artillatron8
01/19/21 10:57:56 AM
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SquirtleSkwad
01/19/21 10:59:19 AM
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Skinny.

No one feels safe with a bird chest as their protector.

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cuttin_in_farm
01/19/21 10:59:37 AM
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Cerealmilk posted...
depends on how skinny and how fat

How would your order be for:

-Very underweight
-Slightly underweight
-chubby
-Overweight

I feel women go by mass more than strength too. Im small, sure, but I reckon Im stronger than a lot of untrained folks. Unless Im going sleeveless, people cant really tell Im not completely a twig.

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Ruvan22
01/19/21 11:07:29 AM
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Aeriis posted...
I don't know any girls who like fat guys over skinny guys
Doesn't TeaMilk?
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MedeaLysistrata
01/19/21 11:08:32 AM
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how fat

i feel like there are less degrees of skinny than degrees of fat

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WingsOfGood
01/19/21 11:13:21 AM
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Aeriis posted...
I don't know any girls who like fat guys over skinny guys

What do girls think if a dude forearms not much bigger than theirs?
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cuttin_in_farm
01/19/21 11:18:13 AM
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Aeriis posted...
I don't know any girls who like fat guys over skinny guys

Well this is good to hear lol.

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SDBZ
01/19/21 11:18:33 AM
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WingsOfGood posted...
Like Jinny on twitch bf is some big fat guy.

Whos the bf? And is there proof?

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WingsOfGood
01/19/21 11:19:39 AM
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SDBZ posted...
Whos the bf? And is there proof?

He been on stream many times.

https://m.twitch.tv/jinnytty/clip/DeadWimpyCobraAliens
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WingsOfGood
01/19/21 11:21:01 AM
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Oh that is the esfand dude who is sheriff cornwood, didn't realize that.
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WingsOfGood
01/19/21 11:26:14 AM
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Aeriis posted...
I think height is more important

Cutoff at 5'10

Or 6 feet?
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Tenlaar
01/19/21 11:27:54 AM
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One of my friends is into chubsters but I don't know what her cut off is for moving from appealing to not.
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WingsOfGood
01/19/21 11:30:02 AM
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Aeriis posted...
my friends and I just like guys who are at least like, ~3 inches taller

This makes more sense.

So 5'3 woman would be ok with 5'6 guy
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Slayerblade11
01/19/21 11:30:50 AM
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Guys who are legit twigs don't do well unless they have crazy social skill /height/face or oter things to compensate whereas I see plenty of overweight guys do well
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Artillatron8
01/19/21 11:35:49 AM
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Aeriis posted...
yeah, I think most would be!
Omg! Hermiione! Haven't seen you in forever. How you been?

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Artillatron8
01/19/21 11:39:31 AM
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Aeriis posted...
I've been good :) just busy with work and school! how are you?
I've been alright. Busy working too. How old are you now?

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SDBZ
01/19/21 12:23:58 PM
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WingsOfGood posted...
He been on stream many times.

https://m.twitch.tv/jinnytty/clip/DeadWimpyCobraAliens

I've seen him before. But where's the proof they're together? Was it confirmed somewhere?

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Prestoff
01/19/21 12:31:35 PM
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The only way for a fat guy to have any luck with woman more than skinny guys is if he has money, fame, or confident enough to speak to woman better than the competition. I'm only going by anecdotal evidence again, but a lot of my friends who are single, overweight, and still living with their parents are the ones with no luck when it comes to the ladies.

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WingsOfGood
01/19/21 3:32:14 PM
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SDBZ posted...
I've seen him before. But where's the proof they're together? Was it confirmed somewhere?

They literally doing couples yoga in that clip.
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SauI_Goodman
01/19/21 3:33:28 PM
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If you believe what you read on the internet girls suddenly love fat guys with dad bods. dont believe what you read on the internet.

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Smackems
01/19/21 3:33:38 PM
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Don't even talk to a girl unless you have

A 9 inch penis

Million dollars

7 feet tall

200 pounds of muscle

A chin the shape of a cinder block

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