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Conflict posted...

This topic is literally made for you Tadamoto lmao nobody forgot about your cringy incel topics

I don't know what your problem is. But I'm not Tadamoto. I'm not a virgin. I've never made incel topics.

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tremain07 posted...

I have a legit question, how do you know if you're autistic? like are their any online tests to take for it for those of use who dont have money or transportation to get face time with a doctor?

sorry I did not see this

I got diagnosed by a doctor, as a child. when I was like 12 or something. That's the only way to know for sure.

wow no wonder most people on CE have awful opinions lmao. It all makes sense. You're too afraid to even talk to a girl. Can't imagine all the other stuff you people are terrified of lmao.

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Low self-esteem was most definitely a thing for me. I also ended up losing interest in it which is kinda weird. I started to get my life together, I'm still trying to do that, and opportunities started to open up. However, I ended up declining them. I just wasn't interested. Maybe one day I'll meet someone that interests me. As of now, I'm more focused on making myself a better person and improving my life. After that, maybe I'll go back to trying to find someone. I haven't really tried to find someone since I started college. I guess the few girls I asked out in highschool, which I was shut down, played a significant role in me not looking for a partner? I guess? Maybe I should see a psychiatrist about it. I feel perfectly fine but it might not be normal? I guess?

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I will admit I am VERY surprised by the honest responses in this topic. I always just assumed GameFaqs grew up and become stable adults. I guess the majority of the "normied" or whatever migrated over to Reddit or Social Media with age increase. So GameFaqs was left to the "underground" or whatever.

I don't know. I'm just surprised is all.

I've been talking to several users in private who have DM'ed me looking for advice, and I just don't have anything that is a mircale drug or whatever. Life isn't "6 minute abs" it takes work - but it all starts with self-love, self-respect. The world is NOT going to change, so you need to change yourself. However, when doing this one needs to realize that YOU are NOT the problem - it is the world that is the problem. It feeds you lies, and tells you to behave a certain way in order to suceed - but its all bullshit. If you do what the world tells you to do, you'll be forever a doormat.

It is a strange concept, because you are both accepting responsibility and displacing the blame at the same time. Typically when somebody gives somebody else the whole "self improvement" schtick, it involves accepting responsibility for one's actions, to look at one's life, and be like I am the reason I am unhappy - this is my fault. That is true to an extent, but it doesn't build self-esteem, it doesn't build self-worth, and is also frankly pathetic, beta, and unattractive.

Recognizing the the world has been feeding you lie. All that shit it tells you makes for a well adjusted, well respectful, successful, attracted person...it is all bullshit. If you recognize the BS for what it is, then you can actually change yourself for the better. Take responsibility for yourself, and legitimately self-improve, and take the steps necessary to give you the best chance at success/happiness...but don't ever blame yourself. Recognizing that nobody else is going to change for you, and you are going to have to rescue yourself is NOT the same as accepting responsibility for your current predicament. All you are doing is finally seeing the light. You are finally seeing the world as it is - in the terms of the Matrix you are taking the red pill.

You are NOT worthless. You have a lot to offer. You have talents that other people do not. These talents can and should make you money. You would make a great boyfriend, husband, and father! The only reason you don't have these things is because you did NOT know how to get them. You were not properly taught how to conquer the real world. You were fed lies by society, and you paid the price for it. However, NOT anymore. You are going to self-improve, get your shit together, and conquer life like a fucking alpha gorilla!

It starts with NOT giving a fuck about anyone but yourself (that's hyperbole, but always put yourself first, no matter what) - you are going to get in the gym and get yourself in shape, you are going to save your money, you are going spend that money on yourself to improve your image, and you are going to find out what you are good at, and find a way to make money out of it.

If you need to move someplace else in order to give yourself a fresh start, then that's what you are going to do. If you need to delete your Facebook and start over with new friends who don't know your oneself then that's what you are going to do. if you need to change your name to keep you from identifying w/ the failures of your past self, well fuck, that's why we have three names; drop your first or last and substitute it w/ your middle. If you are too physically meek, and need to learn how to fight to be confident around others, then by fucking golly you are going to join a jiu jitsu gym and fucking learn how to choke people out.

Just because you "shouldn't" have to go through all of this reinvention bullshit to be happy, doesn't mean that you won't. You still will go through it. You still will play society's petty game, and confirm to it's views of attractiveness to get ahead. You will do it - but you will also keep taking the red pill, and realize that society and its social structures are full of shit. You won't lose the soul of what makes you who you are, but you will be placing that soul into a new image, and you will be living a different life.

You will be happy. Go fucking do it Gamefaqs.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill

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I was agreeing with all of that, right up to the link, lol

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The_Creep_2020 posted...

I was agreeing with all of that, right up to the link, lol

I can only do so much. Might as well link to a place full of people who were once incel virgins, and are now living their best life. If somebody wants to change, that's a good place to go to read stories on how other people have done it. A good portion of it is indeed misogynistic, but like, pick and choose your poison here. You want to die a virgin, or start developing some misogynistic techniques in order to self-improve and attract women.

There are a bit of darkness w/ the light. That's the essence of life. The Yin cannot exist without the Yang.

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The_Creep_2020 posted...

I was agreeing with all of that, right up to the link, lol

Really? The second he mentioned "red pill" in the middle of the post should have let you know what was going down. lol

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Ryangrad posted...

Really? The second he mentioned "red pill" in the middle of the post should have let you know what was going down. lol

Whatever it is, its gotta be better than whatever the 97 virgins over the ages of 30 currently have going on.

Honestly, I don't want to believe there are a hundred or more virgins on this site who are that old.

Ryangrad posted...

Really? The second he mentioned "red pill" in the middle of the post should have let you know what was going down. lol

I mean. If you are a 40 year old virgin it's time to change and exhaust your resources right? In regards to searching for self help groups there are really only three options available.

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Incel Groups - 30+ virgins who accept they'll never have sex, don't try to self improve and instead embark on a quest some sort of mixture between misogynistic trolling & domestic terrorism. These guys legitimately hate women - they don't blame neither society (properly) nor themselves, they just blame women. It's borderline prejudice.

They feel they've been dealt a poor hand in life, and there is nothing they can do about it - they are ugly, awkward, and generally unattractive and women should just "love them for they are" and because they don't, then women are selfish evil demons who deserve to be "purged"

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General Relationship Advice Groups - there are commonly said to be three types of these groups (advice by women for men, advice by men for men, and advice by anybody for anybody) but in reality they are all the same. It's a politically correct way for women to give advice to both men & women on how to ensure that women "get whatever it is they desire." Which typically backfires, because the type of men they date (the alpha men) don't listen to this advice, and the men that do just end up making themselves more unattractive.

All advice outlets basically marginalizes men, and turns then into doormats. If men follow this advice they will NOT attract more women, they will only friendzone themselves.

This is due to multiple reasons, but mainly women are attracted to alpha men, and the modern interpretation of what misogyny is, pretty much defined by these men. Basically women ideally only seek to date a small percentage of the overall male population, and thus these are the men who tend to cause women heartbreak & generally piss then off. As such these men are called "misogynistic" and any realtionship advice given is basically a disguised rant by women complaining about the men they've been dating.

So ironically enough the advice women tend to give is "don't behave like the men I date and am attracted too" instead "behave like the men I don't date and am not attracted too." So if some misguides love struck fools follows the advice of a woman, they are just making themselves unattractive.

Men who give relationship advice have to give out advice that is politically correct and abides by the "anti misogynistic" stance, if they don't they'll be cancelled. It's also a power play on their part - reciting politically correct advice to other men makes the author appear in a position of power, so as long as he doesn't actually take his own advice, he'll appear alpha and attract women.

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Red Pill Groups - these groups are either comprised of already alpha men, or beta men wishing to become alphas. They preach the hypocrisy of the above two groups. They hate incels because they refuse to take the necessary actions to improve themselves...and because they are generally hateful bigots. They also hate the societal structures in place that lead to the political correct bullshit relationship advice given by most outlets.

The Red Pill basically revolves around smashing the ceilings associated with both of the previous groups, and seeing the world how it truly is. Recognizing what's bullshit and what isn't. Seeing what women, and society as a whole, finds attractive, desirable, and successful - and also what they don't. The end result is seeing how shallow the world really is...

...but once this is done, once the light is seen, then proper self improvement can take place. The world isn't going to suddenly change to become less shallow, so men need to adapt to it in order to find happiness. This means changing themselves.

Of the alphas that exist about a quarter of them are men who have always been ladies man alpha types (Chad's) and are generally trying to help other men live their best lives. The other 75% of alphas are compromised of former betas - men who were long-term virgins, full of self-esteem issues, who suffered from hopelessness and depression, many of which were suicidal. However, now they are happy, and living their best lives.

Is the group misogynistic? Yes. But mostly just because what society defines as misogynistic are alpha men - the ones women find attractive. Is the group comprised of sexist women haters? No. The men in this group transform to become loving boyfriends, husbands, and fathers.

Seeing the world for it's shallowness doesn't equate to thinking all people of an opposite sex are dumb or whatever the fuck others accuse Red Pill men of. The group is indeed rightfully accused of spreading/teaching toxic masculinity though. However, even though the group teaches it, they don't actually advocate for it...meaning they don't actually like behaving in such a way.

One forgets that in order to even become a father, one must be able to first attract a mate. This is why boys are taught "toxic masculinity" or portions of it - cuz it works. Nobody really like toxic masculinity, bullying, and peacocking and all that bullshit...it's stupid, but it's done because it gets women. Taking that into account, the essence if red pill is basically "if you can't beat em, then join em."

But yeah, there are some general bad apples there. Most of the overtly disgusting posters are just betas trying to be alphas, and behaving what they view as alpha behavior - which is typically something skin to a charicature of an 80's high school bulky. They are "try hards" and it shows. The blatant women hating goes away as they transform into actual Alphas, if they don't then they'll eventually migrate over to the incel groups.

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Conclusion:
Pick your poison. Or just continue doing nothing. Those are you options.

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Bump, because I want all the virgins in this topic to seriously consider their options. Don't just accept defeat.

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After that hope filled Biden speech maybe so

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STEROLIZER posted...

Bump, because I want all the virgins in this topic to seriously consider their options. Don't just accept defeat.

methinks you're just horny for male virgins, STEROLIZER

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MedeaLysistrata posted...

methinks you're just horny for male virgins, STEROLIZER

Just empathetic.

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Here is a place you can go to help:
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1061-1061-sex-and-sexuality

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STEROLIZER posted...

Or just continue doing nothing.

doing something didn't work, so now I'll do nothing because I'd rather enjoy life than chase something I'll never have
don't get me wrong, I'm way fucked up psychologically and emotionally by being separated from the majority of humans and society, but I'm trying to have a good attitude and just enjoy what I CAN enjoy. videogames work really well for me

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nfearurspecimn posted...

doing something didn't work, so now I'll do nothing because I'd rather enjoy life than chase something I'll never have
don't get me wrong, I'm way fucked up psychologically and emotionally by being separated from the majority of humans and society, but I'm trying to have a good attitude and just enjoy what I CAN enjoy. videogames work really well for me

You are wrong. You CAN have it.

It just takes effort in your part. Expecting a woman to come along and "love you for who you are" is a pipe dream. You need to improve yourself to become more desirable - physical & socially...but mainly socially.

Improving oneself doesn't mean giving up the core of what makes you...well...you. I mean, your soul is still intact. But you find and work towards a more attractive way of displaying that bit of you to the world.

Never give up. Never surrender.

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nah I'm literally too messed up now. I'm 35. my perceptions of people and women are warped beyond repair. all I can do is keep myself in check and not harm others while sticking up for myself for what I want and need in life. I will always have trust issues and not trust others, but I can choose to not always make that other people's problem. this is my life.

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nfearurspecimn posted...

nah I'm literally too messed up now. I'm 35. my perceptions of people and women are warped beyond repair. all I can do is keep myself in check and not harm others while sticking up for myself for what I want and need in life. I will always have trust issues and not trust others, but I can choose to not always make that other people's problem. this is my life.

You are speaking like an incel. Don't do that man. Each day you deny yourself the happiness you deserve you sink deeper & deeper into the quicksand that is loneliness & despair...and that's the path to the dark side.

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STEROLIZER posted...

You are speaking like an incel. Don't do that man. Each day you deny yourself the happiness you deserve you sink deeper & deeper into the quicksand that is loneliness & despair...and that's the path to the dark side.

What I need to be a person doesn't matter to other people. I will always have to keep my anger and pain in check. It's just the way it is.

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nfearurspecimn posted...

It's just the way it is.

What is?

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That it will always be this way. I will always be an outsider.

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I have never felt connected to other people my whole life. This is just how it is for me.

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I was in my mid 20's without literally having any physical contact with a woman ever. Thought I would hit 40 without being laid. Met someone at work asked her out (not sure where the courage came from, maybe I was tired of nothing happening.) We dated and eventually one thing lead to another and bam. She was my first for everything. I too have confidence issues. I'm short 5ft2in. But hey I managed to do it.

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nfearurspecimn posted...

I have never felt connected to other people my whole life. This is just how it is for me.

That's fine. You can still enjoy the finer things in life. Like sex, wealth, and status. You can even father children if you like...all while feeling like an outsider.

It you want those things, then go get it. Don't give yourself excuses as to why you shouldn't pursue it.

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STEROLIZER posted...

Here is a place you can go to help:
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1061-1061-sex-and-sexuality

This is not the place to go. They will not welcome virgins on that board.

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You've been there before?

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tremain07 posted...

You've been there before?

Yes.

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What'd they say?

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tremain07 posted...

What'd they say?

Was told that I wasn't welcome there. That virgins have no place on that board.

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How dare they! I'll show them!

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KogaSteelfang posted...

This is not the place to go. They will not welcome virgins on that board.

The fuck are you talking about? I've seen you get really great support on there.

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Koga you fibbin on me?

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ZayKayWill posted...

The fuck are you talking about? I've seen you get really great support on there.

Been told by at least 2 different posters there to leave. When I brought it up in a topic later, I was told that the general consensus is that virgins have no place there. That they're tolerated when they keep quiet, but otherwise have nothing to contribute to the focus of the board and shouldn't be posting. Then quite a few others agreed, and wondered by any of us would even think to visit that board.

I told them I was free to post if I wanted, and was told that I shouldn't expect to be treated kindly if I do. So I've made myself scarce.

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tremain07 posted...

Koga you fibbin on me?

Nope.

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KogaSteelfang posted...

This is not the place to go. They will not welcome virgins on that board.

Woah Im a virgin and they dont mind me?

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Kanaya413 posted...

Woah Im a virgin and they dont mind me?

Guess it's just me then,band they were sugar coating it.

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KogaSteelfang posted...

Guess it's just me then,band they were sugar coating it.

I'm not really familiar with you nor that board. Prior to linking to it I had only been there once seeking advice, and i got it in droves. The topic I made there last night mentions you, and everybody seems to be supportive and wanting to help. I think you should just open up and be willing to take in the advice/support.

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Jesus Christ, this thread is depressing.
Please, people, hire a hooker already. Just to check the experience off your bucket list.

Conflict posted...

A hooker is not gonna help someone in this position who wants companionship lol we've already been over this

Oh, I was under the impression that some of these cats just wanna get laid lol

Yes, I am.

I am 34 years old. I don't see it ever changing unless I pay for it, which I don't intend to do.

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I think if youre a virgin over 30, you should start to seriously consider escorts. Id guess in todays society more than ever theyd fill a niche if you just cant deal with the social aspects of dating or hooking up.

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NOM posted...

Yes, I am.

I am 34 years old. I don't see it ever changing unless I pay for it, which I don't intend to do.

You should just pay for it, unless you can't afford to. There's no shame in paying for sex.

l0gic posted...

You should just pay for it, unless you can't afford to. There's no shame in paying for sex.

Nah, I feel like if I pay for it, I am so deeply flawed personality and/or body-wise, that I really don't deserve it. And I shouldn't risk passing on my toxic genes, no matter how small the risk.

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NOM posted...

Nah, I feel like if I pay for it, I am so deeply flawed personality and/or body-wise, that I really don't deserve it. And I shouldn't risk passing on my toxic genes, no matter how small the risk.

Dude. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to pass on your genes and become a good father. Everything you juust said is bullshit.

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