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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 11:51:44 AM
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Disputed saying I wasn't diminishing or justifying domestic violence. It was upheld with no comment.

Earlier this week I got repeated modded for posting a Vietnamese name. Also upheld.

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Turbam
07/23/20 11:53:38 AM
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Just follow the vauge rules better.

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R1masher
07/23/20 11:56:53 AM
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thats it, its over for you...

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ASithLord7
07/23/20 11:57:29 AM
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mrgoatthief posted...
It feels like a minefield navigating CE lately.
He was talking about it being okay to lose control and hit your partner. How the fuck is that not clearcut

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MC_BatCommander
07/23/20 11:58:31 AM
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idk how you can say it's okay to lose control (in reference to someone who was physically abusing their partner) and also say abuse is not okay in the same sentence

It comes off as you justifying abuse when someone loses control, you might not have meant that but it's definitely how it looks to me.

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R1masher
07/23/20 11:59:47 AM
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Hmm, mr goat has me on block... found him guys, careful in that minefield

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IfGodCouldDie
07/23/20 12:00:19 PM
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Yea, losing control in that context is hitting your partner.

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CyricZ
07/23/20 12:00:37 PM
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ASithLord7 posted...
He was talking about it being okay to lose control and hit your partner.
That's all I needed to know. Thanks.

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BanHammer
07/23/20 12:06:25 PM
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ASithLord7 posted...
He was talking about it being okay to lose control and hit your partner. How the fuck is that not clearcut

yea there p. much 0 reason to ever hit ur partner whether u "lose control" or not.
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 12:07:48 PM
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I don't understand how saying it's not okay to abuse your partner = "he's saying it's okay to abuse your partner"

It's normal to lose control, but there are other ways to focusing your anger.
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Hexenherz
07/23/20 12:08:12 PM
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I think there are different levels of "losing control" - for me, "losing control" is the same as losing my patience and raising my voice. I don't like how that feels and then I go outside and smoke a cigarette and that's it.

edit: I don't know what the context was for the original comment but I don't automatically equate "losing control" as "hitting/physically abusing someone".

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YellowMustard69
07/23/20 12:10:04 PM
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IfGodCouldDie posted...
Yea, losing control in that context is hitting your partner.

The context appears to include a specific statement that it's not okay to hit your partner. Losing control means losing your temper.
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cuttin_in_farm
07/23/20 12:10:21 PM
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Are yall morons?

The op says its okay to lose control, but not abuse your partner.

If abuse =hitting, then he clearly doesnt mean fucking hitting them. Are yall not able to use logic?


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YellowMustard69
07/23/20 12:10:48 PM
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BanHammer posted...
yea there p. much 0 reason to ever hit ur partner whether u "lose control" or not.

Which is exactly what TC said.
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monkmith
07/23/20 12:12:45 PM
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R1masher posted...
Hmm, mr goat has me on block... found him guys, careful in that minefield
oh hey me to, i dont even know who he is or how i upset him...

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 12:26:01 PM
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I wonder how many were cancelled due to people taking what was said out of context. And then others just run with the mob like CyricZ posted...
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cuttin_in_farm
07/23/20 12:29:18 PM
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Out of context is a mods specialty.

Unable to use reading comprehension is their claim to fame.

Just so they can half-ass upholding moderations without even reading them.

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ASithLord7
07/23/20 12:43:55 PM
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cuttin_in_farm posted...
Are yall morons?

The op says its okay to lose control, but not abuse your partner.

If abuse =hitting, then he clearly doesnt mean fucking hitting them. Are yall not able to use logic?
Some of us saw the actual fucking post genius

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 12:48:34 PM
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ASithLord7 posted...
Some of us saw the actual fucking post genius
I'm not hiding anything. What in the actual post says it's okay to abuse your partner? The post you're referring to specifically says it's not okay.
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ASithLord7
07/23/20 12:49:52 PM
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sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
I'm not hiding anything. What in the actual post says it's okay to abuse your partner? The post you're referring to specifically says it's not okay.
Im not saying its okay to abuse, but let he who is without sin cast the first stone in a topic about a battered spouse, right after saying its okay to lose control?

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Hexenherz
07/23/20 12:51:41 PM
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oh that's not a good look wtf says that.

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 12:53:57 PM
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ASithLord7 posted...
Im not saying its okay to abuse, but let he who is without sin cast the first stone in a topic about a battered spouse, right after saying its okay to lose control?
I said people who are acting like losing control is not normal should cast the first stone. I specified abuse is not okay.
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lolife67
07/23/20 12:54:07 PM
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What does TC think "lose control" means?
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 12:54:49 PM
#28:


lolife67 posted...
What does TC think "lose control" means?
Are you asking me, or asking what others think of me
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cuttin_in_farm
07/23/20 12:57:10 PM
#29:


ASithLord7 posted...
Some of us saw the actual fucking post genius

Are you telling me the words in the op wasnt the post, Sherlock?

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Bananana
07/23/20 12:57:18 PM
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ASithLord7 posted...
Im not saying its okay to abuse, but let he who is without sin cast the first stone
jfc tc

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kingdrake2
07/23/20 12:58:07 PM
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at this point. it's better to take the L on this moderation we can't win them all.
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 12:58:50 PM
#33:


Bananana posted...
jfc tc
I didn't say that. This is bullshit
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Herodopus
07/23/20 1:01:55 PM
#34:


What on earth would compel you to defend domestic abusers, even passively
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ASithLord7
07/23/20 1:02:34 PM
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sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
I didn't say that. This is bullshit
Anyone can see it verbatim on that site lmao

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ToPoPO
07/23/20 1:02:56 PM
#36:


What was the topic title of the modded post in question?
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MC_BatCommander
07/23/20 1:03:47 PM
#37:


sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
I didn't say that. This is bullshit

lol you definitely did make that comment about casting the first stone


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ASithLord7
07/23/20 1:04:24 PM
#38:


ToPoPO posted...
What was the topic title of the modded post in question?
Amber Heard admits to beating up Johnny Depp. Mocks him too

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 1:04:44 PM
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MC_BatCommander posted...
lol you definitely did make that comment about casting the first stone

sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
I said people who are acting like losing control is not normal should cast the first stone. I specified abuse is not okay.

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 1:06:28 PM
#40:


ToPoPO posted...
What was the topic title of the modded post in question?
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/78860151

ASithLord7 posted...
Anyone can see it verbatim on that site lmao
Post it verbatim. I would gladly except the mods already got me.

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Tmaster148
07/23/20 1:07:50 PM
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sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/78860151

So I saw post #31 quoted your post and that's a yikes. Really should just accept your moderation since that didn't even result in a warning.

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cuttin_in_farm
07/23/20 1:10:09 PM
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God fucking damnit, TC. You got me in here trying to defend you when you legit just said stupid shit.

Just accept the moderation.

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ToPoPO
07/23/20 1:10:41 PM
#43:


Post #31 is the entire quoted post and yeah I don't know how you can argue that wasn't what you said

https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/78860151/942364911
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 1:11:00 PM
#44:


Tmaster148 posted...
So I saw post #31 quoted your post and that's a yikes. Really should just accept your moderation since that didn't even result in a warning.
Post #31 is missing the specific quote that I was replying to. See where I say this is normal? I am responding to a quote saying "I lose control sometimes".
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Austin_Era_II
07/23/20 1:12:37 PM
#45:


It's a gaming forum...stop complaining about moderations and move on with your life. Or make a damn Youtube video about it. LMFAO.

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cuttin_in_farm
07/23/20 1:13:08 PM
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sLaCkEr408___RJ posted...
Post #31 is missing the specific quote that I was replying to. See where I say this is normal? I am responding to a quote saying "I lose control sometimes".

Bro, your post (28), is the only one missing. Theres no missing context.

Shut the fuck up.

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Herodopus
07/23/20 1:13:17 PM
#47:


Herodopus posted...
What on earth would compel you to defend domestic abusers, even passively

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Turbam
07/23/20 1:16:05 PM
#48:


ASithLord7 posted...
He was talking about it being okay to lose control and hit your partner. How the fuck is that not clearcut
Oh, nevermind what I said :V

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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 1:17:38 PM
#49:


cuttin_in_farm posted...
Bro, your post (28), is the only one missing. Theres no missing context.

Shut the fuck up.
It's the first post that I quoted:

ZannoL posted...
I f***ing sometimes get so mad, I lose it.
I quoted this then wrote: This is normal. People acting like they don't lose control is whack. Not saying it's okay to abuse your partner, but let s/he without sin throw the first stone.

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Herodopus
07/23/20 1:21:19 PM
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coward
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sLaCkEr408___RJ
07/23/20 1:24:35 PM
#51:


Herodopus posted...
coward
You calling me a coward for what reason
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