Current Events > as a PUA/engineer, here's the math formula to determine if a girl will bang you

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A girl will bang you when:

X=(Attraction+Logistics)

Where X is the threshold for how willing a girl is to fuck. This is dependent on many variables, such as: her horniness, loneliness, other feelings, how preoccupied her mind is with personal matters, how attached to her friends she is, openess to meeting new people, etc. Note that X is not a tangible number and it is also not fixed, as the X threshold can (and often will) change depending on how your interaction with her is going

Attraction=(Value+Comfort)

Where Value is the things she finds attractive in a partner. Value has many components including the most heavily weighed one in this entire formula: Physical looks. The reason physical looks is so important is that it is the one immediate aspect of value that girls (literally) see and you can't (really) lie about it. The Value components will vary depending on the girl (and her X threshold at that moment). Other common components of value include: humor, social status, earning potential, etc.

Comfort=(0.2*Value*Time)

Comfort is self explanatory in its definition: it's how comfortable a girl is with you. However, the formula gets a bit complicated as most people don't know how to build that comfort. To oversimplify: Comfort is the slow conveyance of value over time (hence the 0.2 multiplier). The more time a girl spends with you, the more she'll feel comfortable with you...but you do need to continue to provide that moderate supply of Value, because Comfort without Value results in Friendzoning.

Time: Variable, I've slept with girls after 10 minutes and after 8 hours, the sweet spot for me is 1-3 hours. Sometimes you simply wouldn't be able to get the amount of time you need with a girl to reach X due to her (or your) logistics

Logistics: is everything else going on around the two of you. You could be at her X threshold...but if she's the DD and maid of honor for a bachelorette party, you're probably not gonna bang. remember that you have a heavy influence over your own logistics: if you live 2 hours away and don't have a room, those poor logistics will often not lead to good results. at the same time, leading is also a part of logistics, you can have a room right next to the club...but if you don't invite her over, those logistics may as well be 0.

Now, because the X value is constantly in flux, many weird things can happen. You can reach her X threshold...and then lose it by screwing something up. You can start way off her threshold, play everything perfectly and end up hitting it (pun intended). Or entire factors can zero out (if a 4 is super DTF and a Chad asks her to bang in the bathroom, p much everything zeroes out except the physical attractiveness factor).

Sidenote: this formula does NOT encourage looking at girls as numbers. rather it is useful for knowing where you are in an interaction with a girl. you can determine how much she likes, which factors you need to strengthen, etc. IE, if you are spending a lot of time with the girl, but you haven't offered much value in a while (this can happen when you fall into interview mode and ask too many questions), you'll know that you need to offer up some value; so maybe it's time to share a story about an adventure you went on recently, etc

There, the secret of seduction; literally all of pick up is based on this simple formula and now you know it. You're welcome!
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Does this somewhat apply to men as well?

Bullet_Wing posted...

You put waaaaaaaaaaay too much thought into this

i put waaaaaaay too much time into figuring out the oldest question known to man: what do women want

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i've solved one of the greatest "mysteries" in the universe bud, it was worth every minute of the last 10 years it took me
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Yeah no gonna read that.

I just live by a good ol' saying my grandfather taught me.

"El que coje feas coje el doble. El que coje gordas, coje el triple"

Basically the guy that fucks the ugly ones, fucks twice. The guy that fucks the fat ones, fucks thrice.

It just works for me.

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Humble_Novice posted...

Does this somewhat apply to men as well?

somewhat yes, however for men, the X is more of a binary number, either it's on or it isn't (after a bit of time). whereas women take some time to get there

either way, what anyone wants in a partner is: the partner they don't feel like they deserve but they feel like they earned
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HagenEx posted...

Yeah no gonna read that.

I just live by a good ol' saying my grandfather taught me.

"El que coje feas coje el doble. El que coje gordas, coje el triple"

Basically the guy that fucks the ugly ones, fucks twice. The guy that fucks the fat ones, fucks thrice.

It just works for me.

that's in my formula!
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I dropped a note in a bottle to a long legged model
And I traded it in for a whole other world
A pirate flag and an island girl

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I disagree with paragraph 2. Most men who have money will make this extremely blaring to the senses. Guys can lie about it, but that can be easily sniffed out because most men will want to get paid ASAP. And they can achieve that by making it obvious that they have money. Money > looks.

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8-bit_Biceps posted...

I disagree with paragraph 2. Most men who have money will make this extremely blaring to the senses. Guys can lie about it, but that can be easily sniffed out because most men will want to get paid ASAP. And they can achieve that by making it obvious that they have money. Money > looks.

the thing about money is, there is no way to smoothly broach the subject with a girl. you're not paying her directly for sex (and if you are, this formula just flat out doesn't apply). you're not flying her off to somewhere impressive like paris (because most girls, especially very attractive girls) will find that creepy and worry about their safety. if you're buying her dinner, going shopping with her etc, you're giving away a lot of your power and value, and you've already given the girl what she wants without her sleeping with you...so she has no incentive to do so any more; she'd rather keeping you hanging and on the hook. now, money can be used extremely effectively...but from what i've seen it's usually done in the sub-conveyance of status, and that's what turns the girls on. but think about it...how much money would you need to convey that much status? how many people with that much money know how to subtly convey that status without turning off the girls?

don't get me wrong, money is important and it never hurts to have it; it's a major turn off to nitpick with a girl over the bill at dinner....but the #1 reason girls will sleep with a guy is looks. in my personal experience, girls will way more often go home with a guy because they think he's hot than because he's rich. girls will sleep with poor guys if they think the guy is a 10/10 and the girl is horny. when girls go out looking to get laid, they don't think "let me find a rich guy", they think "let me find a hot guy". that is why looks is and always will be the #1 factor.

oh and money is in the formula, it's under earning potential

tl;dr: girls sleep with guys because of the status that comes with money, not the money itself; making looks more valuable (in terms of getting girls)
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Edit: I didnt mean to say get paid ASAP. I meant to say most men will want to show that they have money ASAP or just expose their wealth by chance.

So my point is that its easy to see through someones lies if theyre lying about having money.

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Is this a copypasta?

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I.. guess you're putting more effort into this gimmick at least?

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lemme simplify your math

a guy should just take his attractiveness out of ten, square it, and divide it by ten

that's the max attractiveness of women he should expect to generally get with unless he's rich, famous, or charismatic

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8-bit_Biceps posted...

Edit: I didnt mean to say get paid ASAP. I meant to say most men will want to show that they have money ASAP or just expose their wealth by chance.

So my point is that its easy to see through someones lies if theyre lying about having money.

doesn't matter, i've already explained why money isn't the most important factor

joe40001 posted...

Is this a copypasta?

no, i'm an expert of seduction

TheMikh posted...

lemme simplify your math

a guy should just take his attractiveness out of ten, square it, and divide it by ten

that's the max attractiveness of women he should expect to generally get with unless he's rich, famous, or charismatic

so, what you're saying is "use my formula"?
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You're a Pandemic Unemployment Assistance engineer?

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DoctorVader posted...

You're a Pandemic Unemployment Assistance engineer?

i'm an engineer by day and a pick up artist by night
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Bump
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No_U_L7 posted...

i'm an expert of seduction

This is what came to mind

https://i.imgur.com/uisgHKA.jpg
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