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A girl will bang you when:

X=(Attraction+Logistics)

Where X is the threshold for how willing a girl is to fuck. This is dependent on many variables, such as: her horniness, loneliness, other feelings, how preoccupied her mind is with personal matters, how attached to her friends she is, openess to meeting new people, etc. Note that X is not a tangible number and it is also not fixed, as the X threshold can (and often will) change depending on how your interaction with her is going

Attraction=(Value+Comfort)

Where Value is the things she finds attractive in a partner. Value has many components including the most heavily weighed one in this entire formula: Physical looks. The reason physical looks is so important is that it is the one immediate aspect of value that girls (literally) see and you can't (really) lie about it. The Value components will vary depending on the girl (and her X threshold at that moment). Other common components of value include: humor, social status, earning potential, etc.

Comfort=(0.2*Value*Time)

Comfort is self explanatory in its definition: it's how comfortable a girl is with you. However, the formula gets a bit complicated as most people don't know how to build that comfort. To oversimplify: Comfort is the slow conveyance of value over time (hence the 0.2 multiplier). The more time a girl spends with you, the more she'll feel comfortable with you...but you do need to continue to provide that moderate supply of Value, because Comfort without Value results in Friendzoning.

Time: Variable, I've slept with girls after 10 minutes and after 8 hours, the sweet spot for me is 1-3 hours. Sometimes you simply wouldn't be able to get the amount of time you need with a girl to reach X due to her (or your) logistics

Logistics: is everything else going on around the two of you. You could be at her X threshold...but if she's the DD and maid of honor for a bachelorette party, you're probably not gonna bang. remember that you have a heavy influence over your own logistics: if you live 2 hours away and don't have a room, those poor logistics will often not lead to good results. at the same time, leading is also a part of logistics, you can have a room right next to the club...but if you don't invite her over, those logistics may as well be 0.

Now, because the X value is constantly in flux, many weird things can happen. You can reach her X threshold...and then lose it by screwing something up. You can start way off her threshold, play everything perfectly and end up hitting it (pun intended). Or entire factors can zero out (if a 4 is super DTF and a Chad asks her to bang in the bathroom, p much everything zeroes out except the physical attractiveness factor).

Sidenote: this formula does NOT encourage looking at girls as numbers. rather it is useful for knowing where you are in an interaction with a girl. you can determine how much she likes, which factors you need to strengthen, etc. IE, if you are spending a lot of time with the girl, but you haven't offered much value in a while (this can happen when you fall into interview mode and ask too many questions), you'll know that you need to offer up some value; so maybe it's time to share a story about an adventure you went on recently, etc

There, the secret of seduction; literally all of pick up is based on this simple formula and now you know it. You're welcome!
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