Current Events > Have you ever seen kids that were really mean to you in school, as adults?

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i mean like a bully but you seen them recently. Has this ever happened to you? I mean did you just try to avoid them?

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No, I assume they died from drugs.

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Irony posted...

No, I assume they died from drugs.

why do you assume that? maybe it was just a phase and they grew out of it and became good adults

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Smallville posted...

why do you assume that? maybe it was just a phase and they grew out of it and became good adults

Where do you think we are

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No. I moved to a college town after high school. Occasionally saw one or two people I went to high school with, but only for brief moments and no one who was a bully to me. Moved even further away after graduation. Literally have not seen anyone from my hometown since then.

Most of the people who were shitty to me peaked in high school and didn't move out of our small town. Looking on Facebook, they've generally gotten extremely fat (men and women) and popped out ugly kids. They're actually planning our ten year reunion and I'm trying to think of excuses to not show up.

There were four kids who were mean to me.

One is dead. Overdose.
One has 6 kids from 6 guys, no clue which 6 guys cause none of them are with her.
One is in prison.
One is the night manager at the same Taco Bell that he worked at when we were in high school. We graduated 10 years ago.

Taco Bell guy's pretty cool now. He gives me free food.

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No. I moved away and I lost contact with everyone I ever went to school with

You dont need any excuse to go to a reunion, just say no, youre busy.

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no, dont remember them exactly but i bet they're not on CE

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MT_TRAEH posted...

no, dont remember them exactly but i bet they're not on CE

but why wouldn't they be on CE?

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Tired-Insomniac posted...

There were four kids who were mean to me.

One is dead. Overdose.
One has 6 kids from 6 guys, no clue which 6 guys cause none of them are with her.
One is in prison.
One is the night manager at the same Taco Bell that he worked at when we were in high school. We graduated 10 years ago.

Taco Bell guy's pretty cool now. He gives me free food.

Wow, that's literally every stereotype in a row lol


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Yeah I've seen a few of them. Some of them grew up and a couple others died.

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I haven't seen anyone from high school since I graduated. I forgot about my 10 year reunion too (I did want to go just to see what everyone was doing). I literally just talk to one guy from HS and that's it >_>

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NeonOctopus posted...

Wow, that's literally every stereotype in a row lol

There were actually a few more but their lives turned out okay or far better than my own

Edit: also I just found out the one in prison is no longer in prison, has a wife and kid, and is apparently doing pretty well as a luxury car salesman...eh, good for him.

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yeah. he was really overweight and wearing a hoodie sweater, still going to class at a university while i was graduating

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Smallville posted...

but why wouldn't they be on CE?

first, i'm not from america
second, i'm one of the few kids who got hands on video games back then
third, i'm one of the few who could afford to be a god damn neet

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Funny enough, I recently stumbled across this article from 2018:

https://www.humbletx.com/msg/humble-man-arrested-illegal-gummy.php?p=1216771

I went to school with that dude lmfao. From what I remember of him, this isn't surprising, but I still yelled out, "Oh shit!," followed by prolonged laughter.
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I met one bully from middle school after I had graduated college. It was at the gym.

I didnt hold a grudge or anything, but I found it kind of weird that he tried to approach me Hey Alis, whats up? Like we were close, lol.

I really didnt know what to say, since we had literally no positive history together, so I just mumbled awkwardly the same I would with any overly-friendly stranger. >_>

from what I can tell, hes a pretty cool guy these days. I cant even remember what we didnt like about each other tbh

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bumpers

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idk if it counts but there was a girl that bullied me in middle school and high school, and a couple years after graduation we dated for a brief period of time.

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One.

He mellowed out a bit.

Is still essentially an asshole.

You can see his conflict between thinking he's better than everyone else and realizing at forty he's done really nothing with his life.

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Hexenherz posted...

idk if it counts but there was a girl that bullied me in middle school and high school, and a couple years after graduation we dated for a brief period of time.

hot

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Choco posted...

hot

Yeah she was gorgeous but her personality didn't improve at all. Whole week that I spent with her/her family was a total wreck.

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Not really a bully but definitely someone I strongly disliked, he started working for his dad immediately after college (don't think he graduated even) and still does, has some kids and is still living his life as a dollar store Kenny Chesney.

Guess his MLB plans never panned out LOL.

_Rinku_ posted...

They're actually planning our ten year reunion and I'm trying to think of excuses to not show up.

You don't need an excuse tbh. Although it can be more fun to have one that shows people how little the reunion means. My excuse was that I was going to DC for a smash tournament.

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Just the one who accused me of rape
She is a heroin addict on the streets the last time I saw her about 10 years ago

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Well I saw some kids that bullied/were mean to me in middle school when I was 18, if that counts.

I pretended we were friends but I was totally still bitter.

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Actually there was a third, come to think of it. I was maybe 21 or so, also a kid from middle school. He wasn't the worst, but I mean, in middle school everyone picked on me except the emo skater crowd and a few band kids.

He happened to wait my table at a restaurant. I couldn't tell if he was just super busy or if he still didn't like me, but I left him literally a 100% tip. Just seemed like a way to say all is forgiven without actually bringing it up.

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Looks like my main antagonist actually turned his life around, grew up and has a nice family. We were friends in early middle school but then he started becoming a delinquent and getting sent to juvenile hall/boot camp frequently.

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No I've not had this encounter but I kind of wish I did. Someone attempted to bully me for a total of one day out of my entire schooling experience and everyone (including people that would bully others) stood up for me and told him to fuck off basically because

1.) he was new
2.) i'd been there forever at that point, 2nd grade - 7th grade

He never tried to bully me again and I don't know what he's up to today but from what I gather he probably had a rough family life and was getting bumped around different schools often. It would be interesting to see how he turned out.

That said the most prominent person I can think of that did bully others is spending much of his life behind bars after making a habit out of vehicular theft and repeatedly doing it.


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bump

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haven't really bothered checking in on them

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Nope. Everyone I knew in high school scattered to the winds after graduation. I haven't lived in St. Pete since 2011.


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Nobody was really mean to me all that much really. I got teased a little bit as "computer boy" by some older black kids that I have seen later in life (went to my church school) but I think back on it as more teasing and I was just too sensitive.

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Most of them didn't go to college or at least didn't finish college which surprised me because they weren't necessarily stupid. Like one guy I was friends with for awhile who became a total shithead to me dropped out of college when he was like one or two years away from finishing and now he lives in some random town in Texas working at a Target.

I feel like a lot of these people still think they are cool but in a few years/decades they are going to realize the screwed up and end up being poor for the rest of their lives.

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