Poll of the Day > still a virgin at 46.

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How did you meet your ex-girlfriend? How long ago was that? And how long did the relationship last?

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RCtheWSBC posted...

I don't know if I can teach you how to read social situations over the internet.

Lmaoooo please be a shitpost, this is so good.

I'm just saying, your issue seems to be one of semantics.

Trolling for pussy: Bad and objectifying.
Hitting on women: Acceptable.

I'm arguing that they're the same thing, but you seem to not think that, so I'm asking you to explain how my approach is different from whatever "hitting on women" is in your mind.

What is your actual approach though? Your OP questions seem like you had none. Just look up and down the bar and have your friends whisper to you on how to approach someone you point out?

Scrounging for pussy sounds immature as shit coming from some who claims to be 46. Hitting on women is more common of a phrase. Regardless, this plan sounds half-baked and doomed.

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SpeedDemon20 posted...

How did you meet your ex-girlfriend? How long ago was that? And how long did the relationship last?

We met on Tinder in 2015. We broke up in early 2017.

RCtheWSBC posted...

You didn't wake up 46 and dateless.

Wait wouldnt he be doing that every morning between his 46th birthday and his 47th??

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RCtheWSBC posted...

What is your actual approach though? Your OP questions seem like you had none. Just look up and down the bar and have your friends whisper to you on how to approach someone you point out?

Scrounging for pussy sounds immature as shit coming from some who claims to be 46. Hitting on women is more common of a phrase. Regardless, this plan sounds half-baked and doomed.

I have no approach, my friend will walk me through it.

That's probably not the most airtight strategy, but to call it "objectifying," them's fightin' words. Because I didn't use the right phrase? Is it because "scrounging for pussy" has the word "pussy" in it? I didn't use that phrase at first.

Greenfox111 posted...

Wait wouldnt he be doing that every morning between his 46th birthday and his 47th??

Greenfox, how you been?

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Could always go to Mustang ranch

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As you can see you were correct to renounce wimin.

FrothySolutions posted...

We met on Tinder in 2015. We broke up in early 2017.

Then why not just do that again? And why didn't you two have sex?

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Jen0125 posted...

Then why not just do that again? And why didn't you two have sex?

We couldn't meet in person as often as we liked, I was very busy. And I don't like Tinder. I wanna be with someone I meet in a bar or club who likes me for my body and will have sex with me that night.

Post pics of ur body

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FrothySolutions posted...

We met on Tinder in 2015. We broke up in early 2017.

You'll probably do fine then. You still have time and you're overthinking things a bit. Just be relaxed, listen, and share fun stories. Make sure this is something you want to do though, and not something you're doing because your friend is pressuring you into it.
:D

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Im a 30 year old virgin. It doesn't bother me and i know at some point ill naturally find somebody since i have a personality and my friends think im hilarious. If i told this to somebody and they acted super concerned id seriously wonder what their problem is because i don't care about the sex life or lack of one of anybody else

SunWuKung420 posted...

Any guy who stays in a relationship simply to continue having sex isn't a role model.

It sounds like the friend broke up with the girl, so I do my really see the problem...

RCtheWSBC posted...

I think the best advice is to start from within and asking yourself why you've been single for 46 years.

It sounds like he had a relationship. But not one that resulted in sex...

FrothySolutions posted...

We couldn't meet in person as often as we liked, I was very busy. And I don't like Tinder. I wanna be with someone I meet in a bar or club who likes me for my body and will have sex with me that night.

I wouldnt worry about how you met them. I dont see why it matters if you meet in a dating/hook-up app or on person first. And you can most definitely meet someone on an app or site that will like you body or have sex with you that night. It might even be easier, in some cases... But if Tinder worked before, it has a chance of working again. That would be a good place to start...
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LinkPizza posted...

I wouldnt worry about how you met them. I dont see why it matters if you meet in a dating/hook-up app or on person first. And you can most definitely meet someone on an app or site that will like you body or have sex with you that night. It might even be easier, in some cases... But if Tinder worked before, it has a chance of working again. That would be a good place to start...

Ehhh, it's gotta be at a bar/club though. In fact you're right, doing it on Tinder would probably be easier. Too easy. You go to Tinder in search of dick and/or pussy. You don't necessarily go to a bar/club for it. So if I go to a bar/club and find someone willing to have sex with me that night, it's better, because she's not prompted by the premise.

FrothySolutions posted...

Ehhh, it's gotta be at a bar/club though. In fact you're right, doing it on Tinder would probably be easier. Too easy. You go to Tinder in search of dick and/or pussy. You don't necessarily go to a bar/club for it. So if I go to a bar/club and find someone willing to have sex with me that night, it's better, because she's not prompted by the premise.

Not necessarily. I mean, youre going to the bar/club in search of a hook-up. Whats to say the person you find wasnt there for the same reason? Many people go there for that reason alone... So, thats not really a good reason, or reason at all.

Not to mention, some people are super flirty, and might go home with you, but then change their mind. And then you cant continue. Meaning that if you dont plan on seeing them again, youve wasted a night and and probably money. But in the app, you guys both know what you want. Which is good. Not to mention, people cant technically consent when drunk. Which will almost definitely happen at clubs and bars, but may not with an app/site hook-up...
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this entire topic

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If you have not had sex till this point, there is probably a reason, is it something you really want to do? Perhaps your more like me and enjoy sex, but only with a person you have an emotional attachment to, it's about the fun and joy you can share with another person, not just the physical act.

If that is the case, don't just go out and have sex, yeah it's a big part of many guys lives in their 20's and 30's, but your heading towards 50 fast man, no real point starting to date at this point if it hasn't been a big part of your life so far.

Many couples post 50 don't have sex at all, and it's certainly not wrong to want to be in a relationship, but not really be interested in sex either.

If it's something your missing or always wanted to try, then yeah, go out there and have some fun (But be safe, kinda sad ifyou got an STD at 46 after having no sex for your whole life).

Everyone is different but it's certainly been at least 5 years since I have had any "sexy" dreams and I was younger than you at that point. My motivation to possibly date is for company, not booty time at this point. So yeah, just starting to get out there at 46.....it would certainly be a different experience then most have for their first time.

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LinkPizza posted...

Not necessarily. I mean, youre going to the bar/club in search of a hook-up. Whats to say the person you find wasnt there for the same reason? Many people go there for that reason alone... So, thats not really a good reason, or reason at all.

I'm sure the person I meet will probably be there looking to hook up too, but it's the environment, I mean. Bars & clubs themselves aren't for matchmaking. Tinder is only for matchmaking.

wolfy42 posted...

If you have not had sex till this point, there is probably a reason, is it something you really want to do? Perhaps your more like me and enjoy sex, but only with a person you have an emotional attachment to, it's about the fun and joy you can share with another person, not just the physical act.

If that is the case, don't just go out and have sex, yeah it's a big part of many guys lives in their 20's and 30's, but your heading towards 50 fast man, no real point starting to date at this point if it hasn't been a big part of your life so far.

Many couples post 50 don't have sex at all, and it's certainly not wrong to want to be in a relationship, but not really be interested in sex either.

If it's something your missing or always wanted to try, then yeah, go out there and have some fun (But be safe, kinda sad ifyou got an STD at 46 after having no sex for your whole life).

Everyone is different but it's certainly been at least 5 years since I have had any "sexy" dreams and I was younger than you at that point. My motivation to possibly date is for company, not booty time at this point. So yeah, just starting to get out there at 46.....it would certainly be a different experience then most have for their first time.

It's definitely something I want to do. In fact, you're right about how older people tend to have less sex. That was probably what drove my last relationship apart. We were both about the same age. And being as old as we are, we just didn't do any of the fun hand-holdy stuff young couples do. And I probably resented the relationship for that. Resented this worthless old age, where there's nothing but waiting for death. I need to do something fun, like have sex with someone from a bar or club.

don't forget to groom

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FrothySolutions posted...

I'm sure the person I meet will probably be there looking to hook up too, but it's the environment, I mean. Bars & clubs themselves aren't for matchmaking. Tinder is only for matchmaking.

Also not true. Tinder (as well as other sites), can be used for many things. Some of the people there even say they are there for networking. Or meeting friends. Especially on certain apps and sites. Ive made plenty of friends to talk to on those sites. Some which Ive never met in person. And some Ive met, but havent done anything with.

And not all bars and clubs are for matchmaking. But some definitely are. Even if its not what the main purpose was suppose to be.

In the end, I never said you couldnt go. But if youre serious about finding a hook-up (and possibly a relationship in the future), the sites much better than a bar or club. Especially when the reasoning on why you want to go there is weak...

Though, going to the bar/club does make it sound like youre lacking confidence. Mainly because the only real difference is that youll be there with you friend. And that you seem to need his help... Bit maybe not. Having a wingman is good, though, so...
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LinkPizza posted...

Also not true. Tinder (as well as other sites), can be used for many things. Some of the people there even say they are there for networking. Or meeting friends. Especially on certain apps and sites. Ive made plenty of friends to talk to on those sites. Some which Ive never met in person. And some Ive met, but havent done anything with.

And not all bars and clubs are for matchmaking. But some definitely are. Even if its not what the main purpose was suppose to be.

In the end, I never said you couldnt go. But if youre serious about finding a hook-up (and possibly a relationship in the future), the sites much better than a bar or club. Especially when the reasoning on why you want to go there is weak...

Though, going to the bar/club does make it sound like youre lacking confidence. Mainly because the only real difference is that youll be there with you friend. And that you seem to need his help... Bit maybe not. Having a wingman is good, though, so...

You could use Tinder for networking, but that's not what they made it for. It's the premise of "This is a matchmaking service" that I'm trying to avoid. I don't wanna go to a matchmaking bar/club either. I don't mean a bar/club that people happen to make matches at, I'll go to one of those. But I don't wanna go to a bar/club named "Cupid's Bar/Club For Meeting And Having Sex With People." It's all about the premise.

FrothySolutions posted...

You could use Tinder for networking, but that's not what they made it for. It's the premise of "This is a matchmaking service" that I'm trying to avoid. I don't wanna go to a matchmaking bar/club either. I don't mean a bar/club that people happen to make matches at, I'll go to one of those. But I don't wanna go to a bar/club named "Cupid's Bar/Club For Meeting And Having Sex With People." It's all about the premise.

I dont understand why this premise is so important. Doesnt make sense...

In the end, youre just looking for sex. Why take the hard and unnecessary route when an easier one is right there. Also more choices. For all the females at the bar, you have bunch that may be taken already, some that you dont find attractive, others that dont find you attractive, and some who wont go with you because they didnt go out for that that night, and wont go with you because they just dont want that. The app and sites offer more choices and variety, though. Possiby wasting less time and money, tbh...

So, why does premise have to do with this? Why make it hard on yourself. Sounds like you really dont want to have sex. You dont have to if you dont want to.
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LinkPizza posted...

I dont understand why this premise is so important. Doesnt make sense...

It wouldn't make sense to a normal person, that's true. And so it's hard to explain. I really do wanna have sex, casual, drunken, sloppy blowjob sex.

FrothySolutions posted...

It wouldn't make sense to a normal person, that's true. And so it's hard to explain. I really do wanna have sex, casual, drunken, sloppy blowjob sex.

Which is much easier to do with the site. And doesnt really change with the premise. Saying stuff about the premise might be why some people dont believe this is a real topic. Making it harder on yourself for not real or legitimate reason when you already apparently have a problem doing it in the first place...
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SusanGreenEyes posted...

If you were together for 2 years, then why didn't you have sex?

might not have known where to put it

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LinkPizza posted...

Which is much easier to do with the site. And doesnt really change with the premise. Saying stuff about the premise might be why some people dont believe this is a real topic. Making it harder on yourself for not real or legitimate reason when you already apparently have a problem doing it in the first place...

If we're hooking up in a place that's not necessarily for hooking up, that means more to me.

Mead posted...

might not have known where to put it

Yikes.
I scrolled up then realized the question had already been asked so I deleted my post.
The answer sounded like bullshit but I wasn't going to question it.

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FrothySolutions posted...

If we're hooking up in a place that's not necessarily for hooking up, that means more to me.

But why? Im asking because that literally makes no sense. Like at all...

Youre doing the same exact thing. Except youre making something harder than it needs to be when you already have a problem doing it. Thats like wanting to go somewhere, but will only take a unicycle as a form of transportation when people are offering cars, bikes, and motorcycles...
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LinkPizza posted...

But why? Im asking because that literally makes no sense. Like at all...

Youre doing the same exact thing. Except youre making something harder than it needs to be when you already have a problem doing it. Thats like wanting to go somewhere, but will only take a unicycle as a form of transportation when people are offering cars, bikes, and motorcycles...

Anyone can get laid on Tinder. But if I get laid where it's hard to get laid? What would that mean to, say, you?

FrothySolutions posted...

Anyone can get laid on Tinder. But if I get laid where it's hard to get laid? What would that mean to, say, you?

Nothing. Absolutely nothing. And who says its hard to get laid at a bar or club? Answer: No one.

But it is much easier on the app or site. If you were really looking to lose your virginity, youd use that instead of possibly wasting time and money trying at a bar or club when you specifically have a problem with losing you virginity. As you seem to have had a problem with it for the last 46 years, including while in a relationship that lasted for over a year. You can pick up women at a bar, but theres many things that could go wrong. Like you not finding them attractive, them not find you attractive, there being no women who are single (or are looking for another partner), or no women who were going there for sex (which may mean they wont have sex with you because they didnt go out that night for it even if you want to have sex with someone who wasnt looking for it). Theres a possibility you go on a night when barely any women are there. So, you could waste time and money and get nowhere. But an app would most likely waste less time, less money, and have many more choices...

If youre looking for a challenge, then go somewhere like a hospital or police station to try to pick someone up. Not a place where people already go to find hook-ups... (Though, if you get arrested at the police station trying to pick someone up, they may take you to a place where someone might help you lose it...)

Also, if this is what youre really like, its not hard to see why youre a virgin. And not trying to be mean, but you have an easy way to lose it. And wont use it. Yet, it seems like you want to. It seems weird to ask for help. And when people give you an easy way, you say youd rather try the harder way. If you were going to ignore advice and listen to your friend over us, why even ask?
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LinkPizza posted...

Nothing. Absolutely nothing. And who says its hard to get laid at a bar or club? Answer: No one.

But it is much easier on the app or site. If you were really looking to lose your virginity, youd use that instead of possibly wasting time and money trying at a bar or club when you specifically have a problem with losing you virginity. As you seem to have had a problem with it for the last 46 years, including while in a relationship that lasted for over a year. You can pick up women at a bar, but theres many things that could go wrong. Like you not finding them attractive, them not find you attractive, there being no women who are single (or are looking for another partner), or no women who were going there for sex (which may mean they wont have sex with you because they didnt go out that night for it even if you want to have sex with someone who wasnt looking for it). Theres a possibility you go on a night when barely any women are there. So, you could waste time and money and get nowhere. But an app would most likely waste less time, less money, and have many more choices...

If youre looking for a challenge, then go somewhere like a hospital or police station to try to pick someone up. Not a place where people already go to find hook-ups... (Though, if you get arrested at the police station trying to pick someone up, they may take you to a place where someone might help you lose it...)

Also, if this is what youre really like, its not hard to see why youre a virgin. And not trying to be mean, but you have an easy way to lose it. And wont use it. Yet, it seems like you want to. It seems weird to ask for help. And when people give you an easy way, you say youd rather try the harder way. If you were going to ignore advice and listen to your friend over us, why even ask?

I don't wanna just lose my virginity for the sake of losing my virginity. I want it to be special. Giving it away on Tinder is too easy, too meaningless. But how many can say they successfully navigated a sexual proposal with a random person that night?

FrothySolutions posted...

I don't wanna just lose my virginity for the sake of losing my virginity. I want it to be special. Giving it away on Tinder is too easy, too meaningless. But how many can say they successfully navigated a sexual proposal with a random person that night?

A hook-up at a bar any more special than a app/site. Its not special at all, tbqh... It the same level or meaningless to find a random drunk girl at the bar. Now youre just making shit up...

And many people can. As it happens all the time to non-virgins... Idk why you think its the hardest thing ever to meet someone at a bar for sex. Or why doing that would mean anything... All Im trying to do is help. But you obviously dont want help. Just be youre friends puppet if thats what you want to do and have sex with who he tells you to. Thats what it sounds like you want to do...
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LinkPizza posted...

A hook-up at a bar any more special than a app/site. Its not special at all, tbqh... It the same level or meaningless to find a random drunk girl at the bar. Now youre just making shit up...

And many people can. As it happens all the time to non-virgins... Idk why you think its the hardest thing ever to meet someone at a bar for sex. Or why doing that would mean anything... All Im trying to do is help. But you obviously dont want help. Just be youre friends puppet if thats what you want to do and have sex with who he tells you to. Thats what it sounds like you want to do...

I appreciate the help, I'm not dismissing your help, I'm discussing the help with you. I'm trying to help you help me. I want my virginity loss to be meaningful, and you wanna help me make it meaningful, but first I have to lay out what "meaning" means to me.

Bar/club hookups mean a whole lot more to me than Tinder, because they're much harder. I've been to bars & clubs. Not only have I never hooked up at one despite trying, but I don't really see other people hooking up at bars/clubs. Whenever I go to a bar or a club, it's people coming in with groups of friends, and all they do is hang out with those groups of friends. There's no mingling, there's no depraved bathroom sex, none of that fun stuff. So to pull that off, to pull of this rare thing, would be really cool.

You say bar/club hookups are easy and common, but I've never seen one. Not to say they don't happen, but they must be leagues rarer than Tinder hookups. And if nothing else, they're rarer for me. And to do the hard/rare thing means more.

FrothySolutions posted...

I appreciate the help, I'm not dismissing your help, I'm discussing the help with you. I'm trying to help you help me. I want my virginity loss to be meaningful, and you wanna help me make it meaningful, but first I have to lay out what "meaning" means to me.

Bar/club hookups mean a whole lot more to me than Tinder, because they're much harder. I've been to bars & clubs. Not only have I never hooked up at one despite trying, but I don't really see other people hooking up at bars/clubs. Whenever I go to a bar or a club, it's people coming in with groups of friends, and all they do is hang out with those groups of friends. There's no mingling, there's no depraved bathroom sex, none of that fun stuff. So to pull that off, to pull of this rare thing, would be really cool.

You say bar/club hookups are easy and common, but I've never seen one. Not to say they don't happen, but they must be leagues rarer than Tinder hookups. And if nothing else, they're rarer for me. And to do the hard/rare thing means more.

So, you dont really mean meaningful. As meaningful would still be easier on a site. Because meaningful would be like in a relationship. Which is also easier with online help. You just want the challenge instead of something meaningful. But how about practicing running before a race. Having sex on a site of app will get you to lose your virginity, and then you can still go pick someone up at the club or bar afterwards for whatever reason.

Also, just because you dont see anyone leaving with there doesnt mean they didnt. For example, two different groups of friends could meet at one place, and then go to another together. And you may think they were all one group, but they werent. Or you just may not see them leaving with someone they met there. Also, I went to a club where like a bunch of people were getting blowjobs in the bathroom. And I saw not one. So, people may be having sex and you just dont know. And it depends on which bathroom you went into.

But if you want to meet someone at the bar for whatever reason, they just do what your friend says. Obviously, out help isnt needed. Im trying to help you have sex. Not win some weird challenge of something thats not hard, not meaningful... At least, thats how I feel. Bar/club hook-ups are no different than app/site to most people, myself included. But just do what your friend says if it means that much to you...
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I don't even know where to start here.

Mead posted...

this entire topic

This.

Providing this isn't a shitpost:

The OP was quite clearly written by a virgin. I never realised that was an actual thing, but my God, you can just tell.

It's not even a bad thing, though. Who cares? Don't force yourself into it just because your 'friend' laughed at you for twenty minutes. You're well on your way to being an incel if you start forcing your way into it at this stage and expecting results.

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FrothySolutions posted...

I don't wanna just lose my virginity for the sake of losing my virginity. I want it to be special. Giving it away on Tinder is too easy, too meaningless. But how many can say they successfully navigated a sexual proposal with a random person that night?

If you keep waiting for the perfect girl, then you'll stay a virgin for your entire life. Just save up some money and go to a brothel, that's what I did to lose my virginity. The girls working there are all professional sex workers, don't be ashamed to admit you're a virgin and they'll take the lead. Pick the hottest girl, and she'll show you the most "special" way to lose your virginity ;)

Either way, none of us can help you if youre set on this bar/club thing. Only your friend can. You have to be able to read people out of the limited choice there. And while someone could write you a novel on the subject, might as well just jump in head first. Or waste money taking class, I guess. And you better save up. Youll probably thane to hit someone drinks. And probably multiple people if they still dont want to go home with you because they have an SO, or just dont want to... Though, I still advise against it as having sex with a drunk person means technically having non-consensual sex... But just do whatever you friend say since hes the only one wholl be there with you. Sounds like hes probably done it before. Which also makes it weird that you havent heard on people doing it if he has...
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I'm 40 and a virgin

LinkPizza posted...

So, you dont really mean meaningful. As meaningful would still be easier on a site. Because meaningful would be like in a relationship. Which is also easier with online help. You just want the challenge instead of something meaningful. But how about practicing running before a race. Having sex on a site of app will get you to lose your virginity, and then you can still go pick someone up at the club or bar afterwards for whatever reason.

Wait, why is what I said not "meaningful?" Some people find meaning in a relationship. I find meaning in sloppy bathroom sex. Because sloppy bathroom sex is harder to have than "committed relationship sex" or "Tinder sex."

SpaceBear_ posted...

I don't even know where to start here.

This.

Providing this isn't a shitpost:

The OP was quite clearly written by a virgin. I never realised that was an actual thing, but my God, you can just tell.

It's not even a bad thing, though. Who cares? Don't force yourself into it just because your 'friend' laughed at you for twenty minutes. You're well on your way to being an incel if you start forcing your way into it at this stage and expecting results.

I'm not being forced to do this, I really do wanna have club sex. I don't expect it to work, but if it can happen, that's great and ideal.

LinkPizza posted...

Either way, none of us can help you if youre set on this bar/club thing. Only your friend can. You have to be able to read people out of the limited choice there. And while someone could write you a novel on the subject, might as well just jump in head first. Or waste money taking class, I guess. And you better save up. Youll probably thane to hit someone drinks. And probably multiple people if they still dont want to go home with you because they have an SO, or just dont want to... Though, I still advise against it as having sex with a drunk person means technically having non-consensual sex... But just do whatever you friend say since hes the only one wholl be there with you. Sounds like hes probably done it before. Which also makes it weird that you havent heard on people doing it if he has...

But that is help. Right there, that's telling me how the bar/club scene tends to play out. That's basically what I came here asking for. Which women I should try chatting up, and how.

davrick posted...

If you keep waiting for the perfect girl, then you'll stay a virgin for your entire life. Just save up some money and go to a brothel, that's what I did to lose my virginity. The girls working there are all professional sex workers, don't be ashamed to admit you're a virgin and they'll take the lead. Pick the hottest girl, and she'll show you the most "special" way to lose your virginity ;)

That's not special, that's the most unspecial way to lose your virginity. She doesn't want me, it's her job. This is about being wanted so badly that people try to have sex with you in settings where one doesn't typically do that.

When it finally happens I wonder how long you'll last. Make sure it's not one of those shallow girls who will make fun of you the next day to her girlfriends.

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Doompa posted...

When it finally happens I wonder how long you'll last. Make sure it's not one of those shallow girls who will make fun of you the next day to her girlfriends.

How the hell is he supposed to ensure that doesn't happen? lmao

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Doompa posted...

When it finally happens I wonder how long you'll last. Make sure it's not one of those shallow girls who will make fun of you the next day to her girlfriends.

RCtheWSBC posted...

How the hell is he supposed to ensure that doesn't happen? lmao

I'm guessing I'm supposed to seek out women of character. They say there are ways to do that, I think that's Doompa's suggestion.

How are you supposed to sus out a woman's character like that at the bar? What an unrealistic ask. Pro-tip: friends confide in friends about their hookups, regardless of sex. Wouldn't you tell your bar-friend about the shit the next day, too? Why would you care what she said to her friends? How would you even know?

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RCtheWSBC posted...

How are you supposed to sus out a woman's character like that at the bar? What an unrealistic ask. Pro-tip: friends confide in friends about their hookups, regardless of sex. Wouldn't you tell your bar-friend about the shit the next day, too? Why would you care what she said to her friends? How would you even know?

I think Doompa is okay with me being told about, just not being made fun of. But I think that's the kind of thing you could just talk about. Like "I'd like tonight to just be between you and I." And gauge the sincerity of their answer from there.

I mean there is probably another factor here that hasn't been acknowledged. While I have not done research on this, I have heard before that as you get older and stop having sex, everything basically shrivels up and gets smaller.

I can attest myself that while I larger than average by at least an inch through my 20's and 30's, at this point I am probably under average if that. By the itme your 46 if you havenot had sex for awhile (virgin or not), things are probably going to get pretty small, which is going to make any sex fairly difficult.

Now I have never taken pills etc, so all that may reverse such things, and if you become sexually active again, it's quite likely that might help as well. I have no clue, but I would imagine if you don't have sex for over 10 years, your gonna have a hard time (at least as a man, and I'm guessing there are probably similar issues for a woman (Although lube etc might over come thing, I have no clue).

I mean if you still have been having sexy dreams and pleasing yourself etc, then your probably all right, but if its' been at least a few years since you even bothered with that......Well it certainly could be another hurdle and something you should plan for. I would even suggest talking to your doctor about the issue and see if he recommends taking vitamins or pills etc to help.

I have no real interest in having a sexual relationship right now, but if I did develop one, I would certainly have some work to do before hand (probably using my hand lol, and more then likely involving pills as well). Luckily I have lots of experience am great with my hands and other body parts and can use toys etc as well, so I wouldn't have a "hard" time pleasing a woman, but yeah, it would probably take awhile before we could really start having good traditional sex again (no that I am going to meet anyone, I don't socialize anymore and am now a hermit).

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