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YoshitoKikuchi
12/15/19 7:04:19 PM
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Is "Baby, It's Cold Outside" offensive?



https://genius.com/Dean-martin-baby-its-cold-outside-lyrics

"Say, what's in this drink? (No cab's to be had out there)"

In a modern climate, these lines are often seen as Marilyn catching Dean putting a roofie in her drink, followed by simpler date-sexual assault. Dean also defends that his feelings are ostensibly more meaningful than Marilyns.

When the song was written in 1944, it was seen as scandalous for women to stay the night with someone who wasnt their husband. As seen earlier (and later) in the song, the girl has a strong desire to stay with the man, regardless of the social normnot to mention theres a strong blizzard outside.

The line Say, whats in this drink? was a common phrase women would use as a way to attribute their deviance to a strong drink. The phrase was originally a nod to the idea that alcohol is making them do something unusual when there is actually nothing in the drinkthe drink is to blame. In Frank Loessers original version, the girl pretends to resist his advancements so she can tell others it wasnt her fault for deviating from the current societal expectations.

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MrNintendo1213
12/15/19 7:07:24 PM
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No. Not at all and if you think it is you just arent thinking critically about it.
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GodBlessAustin
12/15/19 7:08:54 PM
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It should be our new national anthem tbh
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Accolon
12/15/19 7:09:56 PM
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It's not offensive, but i wouldn't mind if it was retired as a Christmas song

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WilliamPorygon
12/15/19 7:12:34 PM
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"Let it Snow" is more offensive IMO. I don't care if you've got no place to go, a lot of us do and would be highly inconvenienced by a blizzard you selfish prick.

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YourDrunkFather
12/15/19 7:13:41 PM
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Not to anyone intelligent.

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TheDreadedWave
12/15/19 7:13:44 PM
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Santa Baby is the most offensive, I don't need to hear about how some girl wants Santa to "come" down her "chimney" tonight

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Skye Reynolds
12/15/19 7:16:47 PM
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It shouldn't be. But if somebody wants to pretend it's about rape, no force on Earth can stop them from being willfully offended. It gives them the excuse to do what they really want to do and that's throw a wet blanket on other people's good time.

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DevsChum
12/15/19 7:19:21 PM
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No and I can't understand why people would

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Superlinkbro
12/15/19 7:20:03 PM
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TheDreadedWave posted...
Santa Baby is the most offensive, I don't need to hear about how some girl wants Santa to "come" down her "chimney" tonight
This lmao. That song is pure trash too.

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PleaseClap
12/15/19 7:20:41 PM
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I think that we can all agree that it's a shitty song
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TheVipaGTS
12/15/19 7:20:50 PM
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No. Its just a song about a guy who doesn't want the night to end and wants to spend more time with his girlfriend...i don't understand why people started viewing it in rape sense.

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Wetterdew
12/15/19 7:21:30 PM
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I don't think it was written to be rapey but I can totally see how it can be heard that way.

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UnholyMudcrab
12/15/19 7:23:19 PM
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Seeing three of these topics pop up every day is my least favorite part of this time of the year
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DevsChum
12/15/19 7:25:48 PM
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TheDreadedWave posted...
Santa Baby is the most offensive, I don't need to hear about how some girl wants Santa to "come" down her "chimney" tonight
Santa Baby is the worst effing song.

The.

Worst.

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Skye Reynolds
12/15/19 7:26:09 PM
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Christmas

SHOES

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Blo
12/15/19 7:26:26 PM
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There are only like, 12 Christmas songs, and 4 aren't any good

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GodBlessAustin
12/15/19 7:28:58 PM
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What Christmas song isnt offensive? I'll make it offensive.

12 Days of Christmas-men can dance too you sexists
Santa Claus is Coming to Town-stalking
I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus-why isnt it daddy you homophobes?
Deck the Halls-offensive to people with studio apartments and homeless people
Joy to the World-offensive to martians
Jingle Bells-promotes animal abuse having horses pulling sleighs
Little Drummer Boy-telling a little boy to come can be taken the wrong way
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TheDreadedWave
12/15/19 7:29:26 PM
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Blo posted...
There are only like, 12 Christmas songs, and 4 aren't any good
I mean they're all pretty bad

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IShall_Run_Amok
12/15/19 7:30:30 PM
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My mom is a Beatles nut, so every Christmas morning is like this...

simply

ha-a-aving

A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS TIME

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TheVipaGTS
12/15/19 7:33:14 PM
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yea if you try to force innuendo any song, especially Holiday songs, can be deemed offensive in some way....look let be real, in situation like this most men usually do think with their 2nd head, so could the dude in the song have had sex on his mind, yea of course. That shit still happens today, but the way even that scenario is framed in the song doesn't make it sound like rape...hell to some extent it sound like she wants to stay herself but is worried about other things outside of her control like her family and just doesn't want to get in trouble.....its best to not overthink these things.

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Chicken_Butt
12/15/19 7:34:46 PM
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Every single thing in the world is offensive. I want it all censored tbh. If we're not living The Giver, it's too much.

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DevsChum
12/15/19 7:35:37 PM
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IShall_Run_Amok posted...
My mom is a Beatles nut, so every Christmas morning is like this...

simply

ha-a-aving

A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS TIME
Oh man I feel so sorry for you.

Santa Baby may be the worst overall, but this is by far the most annoying song of all time.

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DevsChum
12/15/19 7:37:00 PM
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GodBlessAustin posted...
Joy to the World-offensive to martians
Literally mentions Jesus. You don't even have to stretch.

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BiggLaw
12/15/19 7:40:50 PM
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The word "offensive" has little value to me these days. Unless it's something that goes without saying, that person is going to have to support their statement with an intelligent explanation lol.

There are people offended at the word "sex" itself.

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BobanMarjanovic
12/15/19 7:41:38 PM
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If you are offended by it, it says more about you than the song.

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SocksForWok999
12/15/19 8:03:03 PM
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If someone thinks its offensive, they better not listen to modern rap or hip hop...

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viewmaster_pi
12/15/19 8:15:07 PM
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I assumed it was a coy remark about alcohol since I first heard about the big stink everyone was making

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Phantom_Nook
12/15/19 8:23:55 PM
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remember last year when a few radio stations decided to not play this song, and conservatives threw a fucking fit?

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gguirao
12/18/19 2:37:21 AM
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No, and I can't see why it would be.

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Zikten
12/18/19 2:39:44 AM
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only people who don't understand how the song fit into it's era and society of it's day, think it's offensive
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TheoryzC
12/18/19 2:45:33 AM
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Offensive? No. That's the wrong word

Problematic? Maybe

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MabusIncarnate
12/18/19 2:47:35 AM
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No, it's one of the many beyond fucking moronic "controversies" of modern times

It's uneducated people trying to find something to get mad about.

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