Current Events > I haven't texted this girl back. She's threatening to call the police

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Run. But save the messages cuz youll need em lol
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Blue_Dream87 posted...

DDirtyDastard posted...

Ever heard of the me too movement? How about believe women? She can literally ruin his life with a rape accusation.

Yes because this is such a rampant problem and nobody looks at evidence

Cops do, even if the public doesn't. Anyway, once her ass is busted for filing a false report, she can be sued for wrongful prosecution.
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what exactly does she plan on telling the cops?
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The best way to get rid of a stalker is to find someone to stalk the stalker.

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The_Scarecrow posted...

Yeah, everyone. I'm going to take care of this during the week.

Not "during the week" (I realize it's kind of late to say that for your case, but in case someone else in your situation reads this). Now. You cannot file police reports backward in time, and neither can she, and this gives whoever files first a permanent advantage. You cannot afford to risk losing that.
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EvenSpoonier posted...

Not "during the week" (I realize it's kind of late to say that for your case, but in case someone else in your situation reads this). Now. You cannot file police reports backward in time, and neither can she, and this gives whoever files first a permanent advantage. You cannot afford to risk losing that.

Nah, youre good. Im going to take care of this as soon as possible. I just have to be careful since this girl suffers from a lot of issues and she has suicidal tendencies. Last time I took the initiative with a different girl I was having problems with, she came back with revenge and tried to fuck my life over. Im a black guy and these are white girls so Ill just lose the battle anyways. Its why Im displaying a lot of caution here.

Even with the text conversations, it still didnt help me last time as authorities and the school didnt care at all about whatever proof I had. Crazy world we live in.

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Kitt posted...

Im not sure. Girls tell me Im easy to talk to because I seem really chill as if nothing bothers me and Im approachable compared to a lot of other guys they meet. Personally, I think Im ugly and weird but they dont think so.

I'm not trying to say this to dunk on you or anything. Speaking purely internet person-to-internet person:

But it sounds like you're a pushover and you attract these kind of girls because they know they can have their way with you.
When I was in school, there was an entire subset of girls who went for insecure, nerdy guys because they knew they could have power over them without much of any pushback.

I'm getting very similar vibes here, especially since this is a more than once occurrence for you.

I do act like a pushover these days mostly on purpose more than anything. Back in middle and high school, I was told that I came off as an uncaring person by many people so Ive toned down my demeanor in recent years as a more casual and friendly guy. I think it would be better if I tried to strike a balance between my behavior in the past and now.

Im not offended or anything. I did say some real cruel things to people whenever they came after me in the past and I didnt really want to return to that. However, it did get these type of girls to leave me be so theres that.
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ALIEN_WORK2HOP posted...

what exactly does she plan on telling the cops?

If I had to take a guess as to what she would have said, He has weapons like guns and knives. Hes going to hurt himself and potentially other people.

Theres nothing else she could really say. We do have some firearms here in the house and I do own a knife that was brought over from Africa as a gift from my brother.

Considering that a man was shot to death by police in this same state for carrying a BB gun in Walmart, I definitely wasnt going to take that risk. They are trigger happy around here.
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The_Scarecrow posted...

https://imgur.com/a/iHSw5Te

And there it is. I can either say good night, not respond again because this kind of shit happens more often than it should, or I can spend the rest of the night and week comforting her like all of October.

Im not sure. Girls tell me Im easy to talk to because I seem really chill as if nothing bothers me and Im approachable compared to a lot of other guys they meet. Personally, I think Im ugly and weird but they dont think so.

According to her, her ex boyfriend initiated sex one night when they were together but she wasnt down for it. Instead of telling him no or something, she pretended to be into it. After it was over and he fell asleep, she cried and has been traumatized ever since.

Talking to her over the phone is a huge inconvenience?

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Ving_Rhames posted...

Run. But save the messages cuz youll need em lol

this 100%. Ignore any other suggestion.

I say call her bluff. I don't think you broke any laws (unless you did, and that's on you).
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Its been taken care of.

Arcanine2009 posted...

The_Scarecrow posted...

https://imgur.com/a/iHSw5Te

And there it is. I can either say good night, not respond again because this kind of shit happens more often than it should, or I can spend the rest of the night and week comforting her like all of October.

Im not sure. Girls tell me Im easy to talk to because I seem really chill as if nothing bothers me and Im approachable compared to a lot of other guys they meet. Personally, I think Im ugly and weird but they dont think so.

According to her, her ex boyfriend initiated sex one night when they were together but she wasnt down for it. Instead of telling him no or something, she pretended to be into it. After it was over and he fell asleep, she cried and has been traumatized ever since.

Talking to her over the phone is a huge inconvenience?

No, her calling someone on me is an inconvenience.
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