Current Events > Ok CE...should I lower my standard for girls, or keep getting rejected?

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MFBKBass5 12/28/18 5:46:02 PM #52:	EndOfDiscOne posted... If you're looking for a life partner, remember that very few women are still going to be hot once they hit middle age. You probably won't be either. You're going to spend the majority of your life with someone not attractive, so what they look like now is not that important. Man that couldnt be any more wrong. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:914842413] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote><cite>EndOfDiscOne posted...</cite> <quote>If you're looking for a life partner, remember that very few women are still going to be hot once they hit middle age. You probably won't be either. You're going to spend the majority of your life with someone not attractive, so what they look like now is not that important.</quote> Man that couldnt be any more wrong.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Balrog0 12/28/18 6:16:58 PM #54:	MFBKBass5 posted... Anteaterking posted... MFBKBass5 posted... Im attractive enough to get interest from girls way above my actual league...but once we meet in person they realize that Im pretty mediocre looking. I dont try to hide what I actually look like. If anything, Id say Im not photogenic at all and look better in person. But still. Are you getting these people through online dating sites/apps, mutual friends, or what? Because unless it's completely blind, I can't imagine their physical impression of you changes dramatically before and after the first date. It's much more likely that in person your personality/charm isn't enough to get a second date, whereas you might find it easier over text and stuff. Online dating. Theyre not blind dates at all haha. But Im the opposite actually. I find myself way more charming than via text/messaging. It's fine to think that, but your theory here doesn't line up with the story you told us. And I'm willing to bet your perception of yourself is likely wrong. Most peoples are. --- But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:914843817] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote><cite>MFBKBass5 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Anteaterking posted...</cite> <quote><cite>MFBKBass5 posted...</cite> <quote>Im attractive enough to get interest from girls way above my actual league...but once we meet in person they realize that Im pretty mediocre looking. I dont try to hide what I actually look like. If anything, Id say Im not photogenic at all and look better in person. But still. </quote> Are you getting these people through online dating sites/apps, mutual friends, or what? Because unless it's completely blind, I can't imagine their physical impression of you changes dramatically before and after the first date. It's much more likely that in person your personality/charm isn't enough to get a second date, whereas you might find it easier over text and stuff.</quote> Online dating. Theyre not blind dates at all haha. But Im the opposite actually. I find myself way more charming than via text/messaging.</quote> It's fine to think that, but your theory here doesn't line up with the story you told us. And I'm willing to bet your perception of yourself is likely wrong. Most peoples are.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anteaterking 12/29/18 1:16:20 AM #55:	MFBKBass5 posted... Online dating. Theyre not blind dates at all haha. But Im the opposite actually. I find myself way more charming than via text/messaging. But I think along the lines of what Balrog is saying, the fact that you're getting these dates in the first place means that the 95% confidence interval of your attractiveness based on your photo(s) on your online dating profile plus the personality you give off through your texts/messages passes the bar for trying to date. If you were really more charming in person, you're suggesting that you're so much uglier in person that it's outside even the low end of expectations AND it's also enough to outweigh your personality and additional charm. That just doesn't seem likely, unless your photos are incredibly misleading (which, if they are you should change them, unless you like just getting first dates). My guess is that you aren't as charming in person as you think and it's possible that something about what you consider your charm is turning people off. After all, acting stereotypically "suave" can make someone feel like they are being charming while not really landing. --- http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg <cite>Anteaterking posted [p:914860238] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote><cite>MFBKBass5 posted...</cite> <quote>Online dating. Theyre not blind dates at all haha. But Im the opposite actually. I find myself way more charming than via text/messaging.</quote> But I think along the lines of what Balrog is saying, the fact that you're getting these dates in the first place means that the 95% confidence interval of your attractiveness based on your photo(s) on your online dating profile plus the personality you give off through your texts/messages passes the bar for trying to date. If you were really more charming in person, you're suggesting that you're so much uglier in person that it's outside even the low end of expectations AND it's also enough to outweigh your personality and additional charm. That just doesn't seem likely, unless your photos are incredibly misleading (which, if they are you should change them, unless you like just getting first dates). My guess is that you aren't as charming in person as you think and it's possible that something about what you consider your charm is turning people off. After all, acting stereotypically "suave" can make someone feel like they are being charming while not really landing.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sylverlolol 12/29/18 1:29:44 AM #56:	250lbs and you're judging chicks for having a gut? lmao highly doubt its muscle otherwise you wouldn't have trouble pulling in chicks beyond the first meet up. --- This is my signature. There are many like it, but this one is mine. <cite>sylverlolol posted [p:914860643] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote>250lbs and you're judging chicks for having a gut? lmao highly doubt its muscle otherwise you wouldn't have trouble pulling in chicks beyond the first meet up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vita_Aeterna 12/29/18 1:33:36 AM #57:	You should try dating CE girls. --- "Death is so terribly final, while life is full of possibilities." <cite>Vita_Aeterna posted [p:914860760] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote>You should try dating CE girls.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SSMajinVegeta2 12/29/18 1:33:44 AM #58:	Never lower them --- On my business card, I am a corporate president. In my mind, I am a game developer. But in my heart, I am a gamer. Satoru Iwata, 1959 - 2015 RIP GP God bless <cite>SSMajinVegeta2 posted [p:914860766] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote>Never lower them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 12/29/18 2:27:07 AM #59:	sylverlolol posted... 250lbs and you're judging chicks for having a gut? lmao highly doubt its muscle otherwise you wouldn't have trouble pulling in chicks beyond the first meet up. Never said I was judging them. Just said I wasnt attracted to it. Cant help what Im attracted to, bro. Literally out of my control. --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:914862171] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote><cite>sylverlolol posted...</cite> <quote>250lbs and you're judging chicks for having a gut? lmao highly doubt its muscle otherwise you wouldn't have trouble pulling in chicks beyond the first meet up.</quote> Never said I was judging them. Just said I wasnt attracted to it. Cant help what Im attracted to, bro. Literally out of my control.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rikasa 12/29/18 2:29:13 AM #60:	You can focus on the girls if you want but I think it's missing the point. You're competing with other men. If there were no other men you could have any girl you wanted. So when she doesn't call back it's because she has a date w/ someone else. That's why it's funny when the guys ITT tell you to keep trying. Ofc they would prefer you don't compete with them for more attainable girls. --- you are not alone <cite>rikasa posted [p:914862220] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote>You can focus on the girls if you want but I think it's missing the point. You're competing with other men. If there were no other men you could have any girl you wanted. So when she doesn't call back it's because she has a date w/ someone else. That's why it's funny when the guys ITT tell you to keep trying. Ofc they would prefer you don't compete with them for more attainable girls.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
juicebox4 12/29/18 2:30:24 AM #61:	SpaghettiCookie posted... Keep getting rejected honestly or go for sluts --- Ding dong, bing bong GABBA GABBA HEY <cite>juicebox4 posted [p:914862243] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote><cite>SpaghettiCookie posted...</cite> <quote>Keep getting rejected honestly or go for sluts</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PBusted 12/31/18 1:22:28 AM #62:	TC went from having a fiancee to this. Pretty hilarious <cite>PBusted posted [p:914961678] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote>TC went from having a fiancee to this. Pretty hilarious</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
refmon 12/31/18 1:25:24 AM #63:	PBusted posted... TC went from having a fiancee to this. Pretty hilarious lol what --- If you read this signature, then that meant that I had control of what you read for 5 SECONDS!! <cite>refmon posted [p:914961769] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote><cite>PBusted posted...</cite> <quote>TC went from having a fiancee to this. Pretty hilarious</quote> lol what</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MFBKBass5 12/31/18 10:53:55 AM #64:	PBusted posted... TC went from having a fiancee to this. Pretty hilarious Never had a fiance --- !!!!!!!!! https://imgur.com/DzJSPWA <cite>MFBKBass5 posted [p:914975025] in Ok CE...sh... [t:77340773]...</cite> <quote><cite>PBusted posted...</cite> <quote>TC went from having a fiancee to this. Pretty hilarious</quote> Never had a fiance</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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