Current Events > I'm morbidly obese and would rather die than change myself.

Topic List	Page List: 1
Liherals 12/22/18 11:41:04 PM #1:	CE hates fat people, so this should be an interesting topic. Note: I am not looking for sympathy at all. I'm aware that my life is completely my choice. I just wanted people to know what is going through a lot of fat people's minds. I personally am in a very scary place, which is why I made the choice to become obese, which I will explain below. To put it simply, bad foods are basically the only thing I truly look forward to in life. I could spend hours just thinking about eating something that is bad for me and when I finally do, it is, in my opinion, the best feeling I could possibly experience. No amount of sex, or relationships, or friendships could possibly live up to how amazing I feel, just for a little while, when eating bad foods. Drinking and drugs are pretty good (and tbh would probably be better/healthier for me) but food is so much better. I see no reason to deny myself that pleasure even if it means I will never be able to have the things that make most people happy (a good job, healthy friendships, relationships, etc.), and even if it kills me (which it will) I don't care. Even when I was thin, it was a cycle of binging food and eating <1000 cals/day. I cannot function without it and the reasons people tell me to stop the food addiction/lose weight piss me off every time. Here are some common ones: "nO oNe maKeS thE chOiCe tO bE ugLy, yoU wanT To bE BeAuTifUl YoU'rE Just DenYinG it" usually followed by "eVerYoNE is rePULSEd bY yoU thE wAy YoU LoOk NOW" - Actually, I feel much more comfortable now that I know no one will approach me. When I was thinner and people wanted to approach me/I had friends I would constantly think about how I was sure these people secretly hated me and how they didn't really want to be friends with me. My personality is boring as shit and was even when I was thin, the online version of my personality is okay but IRL I'm completely boring (I'm sure this has to do with my social anxiety and autism). Sure enough, it was confirmed to me on one of the last days of junior year of HS (was still thin) when everyone was allowed to leave the room but someone else (another student) had to come pick them up. My "friends" and I were talking until people came to pick my "friends" up slowly, one by one, and not me. It was funny because almost all of them asked me for a pencil so that they could sign their hall pass. So then I was alone in the room with the teacher, and even she left, lol. That was a pretty sad moment, but it confirmed to me how people felt for me. Good riddance to those fake relationships, I feel much better without people bothering me and trying to become fake friends. "yOU wOnT haVe aS MuCH SeX! and YoU WoNT bE AbLE to DaTE!!!!" - I don't enjoy sex that much. I did quite a lot of it when I was thinner and it was just okay. Of course, no one wanted to be in a relationship with me because I'm not that good looking even when I am thinner, and I have gynecomastia no matter what weight I am, so I have to wait 10 years and make a huge salary to get surgery so that I can be thin and date thin people, which would probably just still make me insecure? Fuck that. Food is so much better. Maybe some people have the discipline to wait that long to fulfill their goals and that makes them happy, but I don't. I'm a lazy person -- why do you think I'm fat? I did have one "relationship" and it was just the person cleverly manipulating me to get sex. I was fat at that point too, funny how people will do incredible things just to get sex from even the least sexually desirable of people. I don't want to deal with everyone else's problems. <cite>Liherals posted [p:914577201] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>CE hates fat people, so this should be an interesting topic. Note: I am not looking for sympathy at all. I'm aware that my life is completely my choice. I just wanted people to know what is going through a lot of fat people's minds. I personally am in a very scary place, which is why I made the choice to become obese, which I will explain below. To put it simply, bad foods are basically the only thing I truly look forward to in life. I could spend hours just thinking about eating something that is bad for me and when I finally do, it is, in my opinion, the best feeling I could possibly experience. No amount of sex, or relationships, or friendships could possibly live up to how amazing I feel, just for a little while, when eating bad foods. Drinking and drugs are pretty good (and tbh would probably be better/healthier for me) but food is so much better. I see no reason to deny myself that pleasure even if it means I will never be able to have the things that make most people happy (a good job, healthy friendships, relationships, etc.), and even if it kills me (which it will) I don't care. Even when I was thin, it was a cycle of binging food and eating <1000 cals/day. I cannot function without it and the reasons people tell me to stop the food addiction/lose weight piss me off every time. Here are some common ones: "nO oNe maKeS thE chOiCe tO bE ugLy, yoU wanT To bE BeAuTifUl YoU'rE Just DenYinG it" usually followed by "eVerYoNE is rePULSEd bY yoU thE wAy YoU LoOk NOW" - Actually, I feel much more comfortable now that I know no one will approach me. When I was thinner and people wanted to approach me/I had friends I would constantly think about how I was sure these people secretly hated me and how they didn't really want to be friends with me. My personality is boring as shit and was even when I was thin, the online version of my personality is okay but IRL I'm completely boring (I'm sure this has to do with my social anxiety and autism). Sure enough, it was confirmed to me on one of the last days of junior year of HS (was still thin) when everyone was allowed to leave the room but someone else (another student) had to come pick them up. My "friends" and I were talking until people came to pick my "friends" up slowly, one by one, and not me. It was funny because almost all of them asked me for a pencil so that they could sign their hall pass. So then I was alone in the room with the teacher, and even she left, lol. That was a pretty sad moment, but it confirmed to me how people felt for me. Good riddance to those fake relationships, I feel much better without people bothering me and trying to become fake friends. "yOU wOnT haVe aS MuCH SeX! and YoU WoNT bE AbLE to DaTE!!!!" - I don't enjoy sex that much. I did quite a lot of it when I was thinner and it was just okay. Of course, no one wanted to be in a relationship with me because I'm not that good looking even when I am thinner, and I have gynecomastia no matter what weight I am, so I have to wait 10 years and make a huge salary to get surgery so that I can be thin and date thin people, which would probably just still make me insecure? Fuck that. Food is so much better. Maybe some people have the discipline to wait that long to fulfill their goals and that makes them happy, but I don't. I'm a lazy person -- why do you think I'm fat? I did have one "relationship" and it was just the person cleverly manipulating me to get sex. I was fat at that point too, funny how people will do incredible things just to get sex from even the least sexually desirable of people. I don't want to deal with everyone else's problems.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Liherals 12/22/18 11:41:25 PM #2:	"yOuLL DiEEE@!)!)(@!)#!" - Oh no, what ever will I do? I'll die, and not be able to go to a job I hate anymore, won't be able to live with a relative that I take care of (and also basically secretly hate), and have nothing to look forward to anymore? So horrible!!!!! People would just say it's my fault that I died (because it would be), so it's not like anyone would care except for my mom who I'm pretty sure just gave birth to me to keep the relationship with my father going (he died anyway) and to have a slave she could order around all the time. "bEfOrE yOU dIE YouR HeaLTH wILL gET WoRSE" - Then I'll just kill myself lol. By that point, my mom will probably already be dead, so at least I won't have to feel bad if I kill myself at that point. The only sort of valid one is "Just exercise," to which I say, "I hate exercising." I'm a lazy person, like I said above. I fully admit that. Of course I know being thin would improve a lot of these things, but it didn't improve them enough for it to feel worth it, so I gained the weight back because food still felt better. So those people who say "All of your problems are because you're obese!!!!!@!)#!@()#" can shove it. Yes, they are exacerbated by my obesity, but they do not go away. I see a therapist about the food addiction (I'm fully aware that I'm completely an addict at this point) and it's basically sucked. I used to feel like "oh, who cares about friendships/relationships, I don't require other people in my life, being alone is awesome!" but he's making me realize that I do want them and that makes me feel even worse because I've screwed up my body so badly, and my mind is too messed up to have healthy ones. Besides, getting friends etc. isn't going to cure me, you have to work on yourself before other people can like you, and I simply don't see that happening. If someone is unwilling to make changes, then they won't, and I won't. I really wish I could see reasons for trying to stop the addiction but I just don't. I want to desire to not be a food addict but that desire isn't there. There are a ton of addicts in my family - I'm convinced this is how I'm wired and I'm not meant to live a conventional life - I've always known, even from age ~5 that I would die early, I just didn't know how. I can't feel emotions like love. It just doesn't register with me. My therapist says that he cares about me and I don't feel it at all. I think I did at the beginning (actually went into this strange transference thing with him), but My mom tells me she loves me and it doesn't make sense. I can't comprehend it. I can, though, comprehend when she complains about things I do to me, basically every day. I personally just pretend to love her because otherwise she gets mad. Emotionally I feel like she is doing the same to me, although logically I can see that she loves me. Like I said before, though, I just can't comprehend it. I think I was able to feel love to a small degree when I was very young but I'm not sure. Now I almost definitely can't....although one day recently I hugged my dog for a long time and cried a lot. I sort of feel loved by him... and I think that may have been something....not enough though. I certainly don't get those feelings from humans, ever. Besides, even if I could feel those things, how much would it really help? People love each other and still do horrible things to each other all the time. I'm autistic, I'm supposed to have low "empathy" or whatever, and can't connect to people, so maybe this is just part of my condition. My therapist says he feels it's due to my experiences in life, but he has only seen a few AS people.... so I don't know. <cite>Liherals posted [p:914577216] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>"yOuLL DiEEE@!)!)(@!)#!" - Oh no, what ever will I do? I'll die, and not be able to go to a job I hate anymore, won't be able to live with a relative that I take care of (and also basically secretly hate), and have nothing to look forward to anymore? So horrible!!!!! People would just say it's my fault that I died (because it would be), so it's not like anyone would care except for my mom who I'm pretty sure just gave birth to me to keep the relationship with my father going (he died anyway) and to have a slave she could order around all the time. "bEfOrE yOU dIE YouR HeaLTH wILL gET WoRSE" - Then I'll just kill myself lol. By that point, my mom will probably already be dead, so at least I won't have to feel bad if I kill myself at that point. The only sort of valid one is "Just exercise," to which I say, "I hate exercising." I'm a lazy person, like I said above. I fully admit that. Of course I know being thin would improve a lot of these things, but it didn't improve them enough for it to feel worth it, so I gained the weight back because food still felt better. So those people who say "All of your problems are because you're obese!!!!!@!)#!@()#" can shove it. Yes, they are exacerbated by my obesity, but they do not go away. I see a therapist about the food addiction (I'm fully aware that I'm completely an addict at this point) and it's basically sucked. I used to feel like "oh, who cares about friendships/relationships, I don't require other people in my life, being alone is awesome!" but he's making me realize that I do want them and that makes me feel even worse because I've screwed up my body so badly, and my mind is too messed up to have healthy ones. Besides, getting friends etc. isn't going to cure me, you have to work on yourself before other people can like you, and I simply don't see that happening. If someone is unwilling to make changes, then they won't, and I won't. I really wish I could see reasons for trying to stop the addiction but I just don't. I want to desire to not be a food addict but that desire isn't there. There are a ton of addicts in my family - I'm convinced this is how I'm wired and I'm not meant to live a conventional life - I've always known, even from age ~5 that I would die early, I just didn't know how. I can't feel emotions like love. It just doesn't register with me. My therapist says that he cares about me and I don't feel it at all. I think I did at the beginning (actually went into this strange transference thing with him), but My mom tells me she loves me and it doesn't make sense. I can't comprehend it. I can, though, comprehend when she complains about things I do to me, basically every day. I personally just pretend to love her because otherwise she gets mad. Emotionally I feel like she is doing the same to me, although logically I can see that she loves me. Like I said before, though, I just can't comprehend it. I think I was able to feel love to a small degree when I was very young but I'm not sure. Now I almost definitely can't....although one day recently I hugged my dog for a long time and cried a lot. I sort of feel loved by him... and I think that may have been something....not enough though. I certainly don't get those feelings from humans, ever. Besides, even if I could feel those things, how much would it really help? People love each other and still do horrible things to each other all the time. I'm autistic, I'm supposed to have low "empathy" or whatever, and can't connect to people, so maybe this is just part of my condition. My therapist says he feels it's due to my experiences in life, but he has only seen a few AS people.... so I don't know.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Liherals 12/22/18 11:42:08 PM #3:	Had to wait 60 seconds to post this last one, lol. I worked my ass off to get into the prestigious university that I am in now and I hate it. I just want to graduate and get out of this horrible place. I idealized the school for two years, even worked there as a researcher before I got in, and then hated it. I thought that I would finally feel smart, that I could feel superior to other people once I got in, but I don't. I just feel worse. I thought it would be my golden ticket to an amazing life and it's very heartbreaking to realize that is not the case at all. It's like I can't be happy no matter what, even if I do achieve my goals. What will achieving other goals yield? Probably the same thing. It's sad because nothing happened in my life that would make me like this. I just am. I was never abused, never molested, never any of that. Other people have a reason to be depressed and pessimistic about life but I don't. To me, this is further evidence that I don't belong in this world. I'd say it's evidence that something is wrong with me, but we already know that from my AS diagnosis. I am more and more pessimistic about therapy even though my therapist says he is more and more optimistic, even saying that the way I feel recently is progress. I don't know if this is true, but I feel like my therapist is trying to make me so miserable that I'll try to lose weight in order to change my miserable condition, but lol. It's not working. Probably my fault, not his. I'm in the middle of a 6-week break from therapy because of final exams and the New Year holiday (I go every other Tuesday), so it'll be a while before I can tell him any of this. Even though I said that, I still have some hope that my life will get better one day. That's not really how it works though.... idk. <cite>Liherals posted [p:914577243] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>Had to wait 60 seconds to post this last one, lol. I worked my ass off to get into the prestigious university that I am in now and I hate it. I just want to graduate and get out of this horrible place. I idealized the school for two years, even worked there as a researcher before I got in, and then hated it. I thought that I would finally feel smart, that I could feel superior to other people once I got in, but I don't. I just feel worse. I thought it would be my golden ticket to an amazing life and it's very heartbreaking to realize that is not the case at all. It's like I can't be happy no matter what, even if I do achieve my goals. What will achieving other goals yield? Probably the same thing. It's sad because nothing happened in my life that would make me like this. I just am. I was never abused, never molested, never any of that. Other people have a reason to be depressed and pessimistic about life but I don't. To me, this is further evidence that I don't belong in this world. I'd say it's evidence that something is wrong with me, but we already know that from my AS diagnosis. I am more and more pessimistic about therapy even though my therapist says he is more and more optimistic, even saying that the way I feel recently is progress. I don't know if this is true, but I feel like my therapist is trying to make me so miserable that I'll try to lose weight in order to change my miserable condition, but lol. It's not working. Probably my fault, not his. I'm in the middle of a 6-week break from therapy because of final exams and the New Year holiday (I go every other Tuesday), so it'll be a while before I can tell him any of this. Even though I said that, I still have some hope that my life will get better one day. That's not really how it works though.... idk.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 12/22/18 11:42:41 PM #4:	tldr <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:914577263] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>tldr</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
#5	Post #5 was unavailable or deleted.
thrashmetal14 12/22/18 11:44:19 PM #6:	Start smoking cigarettes, they'll suppress your appetite and give you something to look forward to besides junk food. <cite>thrashmetal14 posted [p:914577323] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>Start smoking cigarettes, they'll suppress your appetite and give you something to look forward to besides junk food.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Liherals 12/22/18 11:45:39 PM #7:	WhinyZach posted... how much do you weigh? whats ur main? I weigh enough for it to suck but not enough to prevent me from functioning, fortunately. I will die if I stay this way though, probably by 40 or 50. I can only hope that I somehow motivate myself to change by then. Hahahahaha if you think I'm ever saying my main. I guess you could say it's a fat chance I'll tell you my main laugh track <cite>Liherals posted [p:914577375] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>WhinyZach posted...</cite> <quote>how much do you weigh? whats ur main?</quote> I weigh enough for it to suck but not enough to prevent me from functioning, fortunately. I will die if I stay this way though, probably by 40 or 50. I can only hope that I somehow motivate myself to change by then. Hahahahaha if you think I'm ever saying my main. I guess you could say it's a fat chance I'll tell you my main laugh track</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
#8	Post #8 was unavailable or deleted.
Liherals 12/22/18 11:51:10 PM #9:	WhinyZach posted... like over/under 500lbs Oh, no, I'm nowhere near that level. Not even 400lbs. I say "not even" but I'm still over like twice the amount I should weigh. I wouldn't get to that level because I do physically move around quite a bit for school/work, plus I don't think I could afford that much food. My metabolism is actually pretty fast (plus I'm young), when I eat like a normal person I usually end up on the lower side of normal weight. Won't be too long before the r/fatpeoplehate types get finished reading the first 3 posts and shit talk me loool <cite>Liherals posted [p:914577576] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>WhinyZach posted...</cite> <quote>like over/under 500lbs</quote> Oh, no, I'm nowhere near that level. Not even 400lbs. I say "not even" but I'm still over like twice the amount I should weigh. I wouldn't get to that level because I do physically move around quite a bit for school/work, plus I don't think I could afford that much food. My metabolism is actually pretty fast (plus I'm young), when I eat like a normal person I usually end up on the lower side of normal weight. Won't be too long before the r/fatpeoplehate types get finished reading the first 3 posts and shit talk me loool</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
REMercsChamp 12/22/18 11:51:32 PM #10:	what do you hope to accomplish by posting this here --- Come check out my community board for NEET discussions: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/1467-neet-discussions <cite>REMercsChamp posted [p:914577592] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>what do you hope to accomplish by posting this here</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Liherals 12/22/18 11:53:57 PM #11:	REMercsChamp posted... what do you hope to accomplish by posting this here I'm interested in seeing the responses, I guess. I also wonder if it may gave the fat people h8ers on this board an insight into why some people are fat. Not really looking for sympathy or anything like that since there isn't really anything anyone can say. I just, for some reason, can't really feel positive emotions. <cite>Liherals posted [p:914577681] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>REMercsChamp posted...</cite> <quote>what do you hope to accomplish by posting this here</quote> I'm interested in seeing the responses, I guess. I also wonder if it may gave the fat people h8ers on this board an insight into why some people are fat. Not really looking for sympathy or anything like that since there isn't really anything anyone can say. I just, for some reason, can't really feel positive emotions.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
#12	Post #12 was unavailable or deleted.
EpicKingdom_ 12/22/18 11:54:46 PM #13:	soulunison2 posted... Too fat didn't read FTFY --- @GameFAQs moderators https://youtu.be/PeihcfYft9w Is Fortnite for kids? Let's check https://imgtc.com/i/8eGRB2s.png <cite>EpicKingdom_ posted [p:914577708] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>soulunison2 posted...</cite> <quote>Too fat didn't read</quote> FTFY</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Roxborough4Ever 12/22/18 11:55:34 PM #14:	how much $$$ are you spending on food a month? it's got to be a fortune if you are truly that big....i hear commercials for noninvasive plastic surgery to correct gynecomastia everyday on the radio..google is saying it costs $5,000 to $10,000 to do it..............you don't need a huge salary to correct this using the most raw numbers I can with a min wage of 7.25, working a normal job of 40 hours a week for a year is going to net you $15080...if you made 10 dollars a hour you could do it in 6 months. you could finance it at 7% and do it NOW and not make the first payment for 1 year. you could have the surgery in ONE year minimum without having to go through all this destruction to your body... but tbh, it sounds like you need to get your mind right before you can start working on your body. Goodluck fellow CEmen --- You feast on red herring because it is your birthright. <cite>Roxborough4Ever posted [p:914577739] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>how much $$$ are you spending on food a month? it's got to be a fortune if you are truly that big....i hear commercials for noninvasive plastic surgery to correct gynecomastia everyday on the radio..google is saying it costs $5,000 to $10,000 to do it..............you don't need a huge salary to correct this using the most raw numbers I can with a min wage of 7.25, working a normal job of 40 hours a week for a year is going to net you $15080...if you made 10 dollars a hour you could do it in 6 months. you could finance it at 7% and do it NOW and not make the first payment for 1 year. you could have the surgery in ONE year minimum without having to go through all this destruction to your body... but tbh, it sounds like you need to get your mind right before you can start working on your body. Goodluck fellow CEmen</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 12/22/18 11:55:40 PM #15:	EpicKingdom_ posted... soulunison2 posted... Too fat didn't read FTFY <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:914577745] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>EpicKingdom_ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>soulunison2 posted...</cite> <quote>Too fat didn't read</quote> FTFY</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
#16	Post #16 was unavailable or deleted.
thronedfire2 12/22/18 11:57:08 PM #17:	it's a melty --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen... <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:914577785] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>it's a melty</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EpicKingdom_ 12/22/18 11:57:11 PM #18:	soulunison2 posted... EpicKingdom_ posted... soulunison2 posted... Too fat didn't read FTFY Well, it was a pretty fat post. --- @GameFAQs moderators https://youtu.be/PeihcfYft9w Is Fortnite for kids? Let's check https://imgtc.com/i/8eGRB2s.png <cite>EpicKingdom_ posted [p:914577788] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>soulunison2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EpicKingdom_ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>soulunison2 posted...</cite> <quote>Too fat didn't read</quote> FTFY</quote> </quote> Well, it was a pretty fat post.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
soulunison2 12/23/18 12:00:00 AM #19:	EpicKingdom_ posted... soulunison2 posted... EpicKingdom_ posted... soulunison2 posted... Too fat didn't read FTFY Well, it was a pretty fat post. You got me there <cite>soulunison2 posted [p:914577872] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>EpicKingdom_ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>soulunison2 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EpicKingdom_ posted...</cite> <quote><cite>soulunison2 posted...</cite> <quote>Too fat didn't read</quote> FTFY</quote> </quote> Well, it was a pretty fat post.</quote> You got me there</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
UltraDeku 12/23/18 12:11:25 AM #20:	No one makes the choice to be ugly, you want to be beautiful you're just denying it, TC. --- https://imgtc.com/i/c5VfeKI.png <cite>UltraDeku posted [p:914578263] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>No one makes the choice to be ugly, you want to be beautiful you're just denying it, TC.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IHOP 12/23/18 12:48:25 AM #21:	:( <cite>IHOP posted [p:914579517] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>:(</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ryuko_Chan 12/23/18 12:51:56 AM #22:	thrashmetal14 posted... Start smoking cigarettes, they'll suppress your appetite and give you something to look forward to besides junk food. this unironically --- https://i.imgtc.com/LCLKlZX.gif Life Fiber Kamui SENKETSU! <cite>Ryuko_Chan posted [p:914579642] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>thrashmetal14 posted...</cite> <quote>Start smoking cigarettes, they'll suppress your appetite and give you something to look forward to besides junk food.</quote> this unironically</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bobaban 12/23/18 12:53:57 AM #23:	Your mentality unstable bro <cite>bobaban posted [p:914579702] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>Your mentality unstable bro</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TES_Nut 12/23/18 12:55:34 AM #24:	Saying "fuck it" is just another type of deflection. Stop being a pussy. --- The ending of the word is ALMSIVI <cite>TES_Nut posted [p:914579756] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>Saying "fuck it" is just another type of deflection. Stop being a pussy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WaterLink 12/23/18 12:58:17 AM #25:	TES_Nut posted... Saying "fuck it" is just another type of deflection. Stop being a pussy. YOUR REVOLUTION IS OVER MR LEBOWSKI. --- https://i.imgtc.com/3qqvvSR.png <cite>WaterLink posted [p:914579841] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>TES_Nut posted...</cite> <quote>Saying "fuck it" is just another type of deflection. Stop being a pussy.</quote> YOUR REVOLUTION IS OVER MR LEBOWSKI.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
#26	Post #26 was unavailable or deleted.
wronganswerfool 12/23/18 1:08:33 AM #27:	thrashmetal14 posted... Start smoking cigarettes, they'll suppress your appetite and give you something to look forward to besides junk food. "You should start doing really unhealthy thing so you can stop doing really unhealthy thing" Probably one of the dumbest pieces of advice you can give somebody. <cite>wronganswerfool posted [p:914580122] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>thrashmetal14 posted...</cite> <quote>Start smoking cigarettes, they'll suppress your appetite and give you something to look forward to besides junk food.</quote> "You should start doing really unhealthy thing so you can stop doing really unhealthy thing" Probably one of the dumbest pieces of advice you can give somebody.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ultima Dragon 12/23/18 1:08:37 AM #28:	I think a lot of people fall into similar situations. They have other problems in life or mentally, their situation feels hopeless, so they turn to food for comfort. It's really sad to me and I wish I could convince them to change but I know that I can't fix them. They'll keep living that way until they have a brush with death or almost zero quality of life left (constant pain, sickness, no mobility) but by then it's almost too late to change because the damage has already been done over so many years and the amount you would need to lose is almost insurmountable. Not to mention trying to unlearn a lifetime of bad habits and undo a lifetime of neglect. I've observed this with my mom who is now in her early-mid fifties. She's not comically obese by any means, but she's definitely a big lady. I think for more than a decade I'd been trying to get her to live healthier, saying she needs to change, but it always led to hurt feelings even though I wasn't personally attacking her. Now she's suffering from a lot of health issues regarding her weight (insulin resistance, high blood pressure, heart issue, lots of joint pain, some early mental deficits) and wants desperately to lose the weight but it's a lot harder when you're older and have limited energy and mobility (and again, unlearning the bad habits and undergoing a complete lifestyle change). She's sort of facing her own mortality now. She says she doesn't want to just die in five years or whatever but I'm afraid that's what will end up happening. --- "We know things can move faster than the speed of light because liberal tears are on the ground before something offensive even happens" - Coffeebeanz <cite>Ultima Dragon posted [p:914580124] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>I think a lot of people fall into similar situations. They have other problems in life or mentally, their situation feels hopeless, so they turn to food for comfort. It's really sad to me and I wish I could convince them to change but I know that I can't fix them. They'll keep living that way until they have a brush with death or almost zero quality of life left (constant pain, sickness, no mobility) but by then it's almost too late to change because the damage has already been done over so many years and the amount you would need to lose is almost insurmountable. Not to mention trying to unlearn a lifetime of bad habits and undo a lifetime of neglect. I've observed this with my mom who is now in her early-mid fifties. She's not comically obese by any means, but she's definitely a big lady. I think for more than a decade I'd been trying to get her to live healthier, saying she needs to change, but it always led to hurt feelings even though I wasn't personally attacking her. Now she's suffering from a lot of health issues regarding her weight (insulin resistance, high blood pressure, heart issue, lots of joint pain, some early mental deficits) and wants desperately to lose the weight but it's a lot harder when you're older and have limited energy and mobility (and again, unlearning the bad habits and undergoing a complete lifestyle change). She's sort of facing her own mortality now. She says she doesn't want to just die in five years or whatever but I'm afraid that's what will end up happening.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Liherals 12/23/18 1:09:11 AM #29:	WhinyZach posted... tc is trolling on his main for sure I'm not. This is some pretty low effort trolling, I expected more from CE tbh. <cite>Liherals posted [p:914580147] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote><cite>WhinyZach posted...</cite> <quote>tc is trolling on his main for sure</quote> I'm not. This is some pretty low effort trolling, I expected more from CE tbh.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master_Bass 12/23/18 1:10:40 AM #30:	Ok. If you're comfortable with the way you look I certainly don't care if you're overweight. --- Many Bothans died to bring you this post. <cite>Master_Bass posted [p:914580190] in I'm morbid... [t:77326969]...</cite> <quote>Ok. If you're comfortable with the way you look I certainly don't care if you're overweight.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Topic List	Page List: 1

Current Events > I'm morbidly obese and would rather die than change myself. (+) Yeah! (+)

Current Events > I'm morbidly obese and would rather die than change myself.