Current Events > Why women aren't attracted to male feminists.

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Women want a strong, confident man with a backbone. A real, traditional man. Not a doormat or a weak yes man.
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what do you think makes male feminists weak, insecure, or doormat-like?
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Your opinions is why you are virgin though

If a man isnt a feminist, its an immediate turn off for me
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Darkman124 posted...

what do you think makes male feminists weak, insecure, or doormat-like?

Believe the go-to explanation is soy these days.
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vocedelmorte posted...

Your opinions is why you are virgin though

TC pretends to be a semi-famous wrestler on gamefaqs.gamespot.com, of COURSE he's a virgin
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Darkman124 posted...

what do you think makes male feminists weak, insecure, or doormat-like?

They don't have self-respect. They're traitors to their own gender. And women pick up on how weird that is.
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What real woman would want a man made of soy, snow, and lettuce in general ?!
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Darkman124 posted...

what do you think makes male feminists weak, insecure, or doormat-like?

I think he may be referring to a specific subset of male feminists. The soy boy type. The one that is really passionate about women's rights, but you can tell he really wants to get laid and it isn't working. I've seen one or two of these in feminism type classes.

Of course, TC may be overgeneralizing with the term or whatever.
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Because most women don't want pussies since they already have one.

Hey, you posted another topic saying "If he was a man worth my respect, he would be an egalitarian or MRA instead of a male feminist."

You ignored my question of: Why can't he be a MRA and a feminist?

Please don't be a coward and dodge the question.
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Harpie posted...

If a man isnt a feminist, its an immediate turn off for me

The way they kiss up to women while expecting to be rewarded with sex is almost certainly a turn off for the majority of women. A real man is honest about being interested.
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Orlando_Jordan posted...

Harpie posted...

If a man isnt a feminist, its an immediate turn off for me

The way they kiss up to women while expecting to be rewarded with sex is almost certainly a turn off for the majority of women. A real man is honest about being interested.

You can support equality without being like a lost puppy.

Orlando_Jordan posted...

Darkman124 posted...

what do you think makes male feminists weak, insecure, or doormat-like?

They don't have self-respect. They're traitors to their own gender. And women pick up on how weird that is.

Traitors to their own gender sounds a bit strong, but I have seen some males who think everything about men is terrible. Saw a guy at an open mic basically just say over and over how terrible men are without any real jokes. I think he expected some laughs or cheers from that alone, but his entire set was one big bomb. I chuckled when he walked off the stage in shame.
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I know a lot of male feminists and they tend to have no problem attracting women
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scar the 1 posted...

I know a lot of male feminists and they tend to be frustrated adult virgins

Fixed.
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Orlando_Jordan posted...

scar the 1 posted...

I know a lot of male feminists and they tend to be frustrated adult virgins

Broken.

Fixed.
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Male feminist = sexual predator
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Hey ladies fix me a fuckin sammich bitch. *waiting for all that ass*
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because women subconsciously want to be dominated , which is why being male feminist isn't really an attractive trait

Ehh, depends. Some women prefer to wear the pants in the relationship, others aren't looking for macho bullshit.

There's definitely a level of passivity that most folks shouldn't be hitting, you need some degree of control over your life and the strength and autonomy to pursue your passions, goals and dreams. Spending your life being a passive white knight isn't how to go about things, be more pro-active in how you approach gender activism and balance it well with a more carefree outgoing lifestyle, or whatever. But different women are looking for different things out of different guys, the same way guys look for different things in women. You're going to find women who are looking for a doormat, though not necessarily this "male feminist" stereotype you're going after.

I've seen more than enough doormat guys in my life already, all of them tripping over each other to beg and plead with whatever woman comes across their predicament about how much they would care and love and appreciate their hypothetical female partner. The sheer volume and the same tired, worthless rhetoric is pathetic. But given that a guy is able to stand on his own two feet and actually do something with his life, there would be women who would be willing to date a doormat. There's just an incredible amount of pathetic dudes out there in the world to compete with, and it's not a lifestyle and/or tactic that's worth pursuing - you're better off just being a more approachable person.
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I think you guys are living in the old ages.

Women nowadays (at least in my demographic of 16-24 year olds), tend to value men that are outspoken about womans rights, toxic masculinity and lgbtq. I think youd be very surprised to find that its a very sought after and desired quality these days.
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Guess TC just decided he wanted to be wrong about something today.

I'm not a feminist but this 'gender traitor' stuff is fucking tragic.

Orlando_Jordan posted...

They're traitors to their own gender

Yikes
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Chad-Henne posted...

Orlando_Jordan posted...

They're traitors to their own gender

Yikes

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Orlando_Jordan posted...

Harpie posted...

If a man isnt a feminist, its an immediate turn off for me

The way they kiss up to women while expecting to be rewarded with sex is almost certainly a turn off for the majority of women. A real man is honest about being interested.

Do you know what a male feminist is lmao
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Harpie posted...

I think you guys are living in the old ages.

Women nowadays (at least in my demographic of 16-24 year olds), tend to value men that are outspoken about womans rights, toxic masculinity and lgbtq. I think youd be very surprised to find that its a very sought after and desired quality these days.

You can be a man with relf-respect while being pro-LGBTQ.
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I'd pay to see Orlando debate the female users of CE, just to see him melt down and tell them that they're wrong about what women want.
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Orlando_Jordan posted...

They don't have self-respect. They're traitors to their own gender.

this seems vague and broad

please be more specific in your generalization of all male feminists
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LimboTraveller posted...

because women subconsciously want to be dominated , which is why being male feminist isn't really an attractive trait

Respect everywhere except the bedroom. Be polite and respectful during sex and you'll be seen as a little bitch. "I demand respect!....unless I'm wet.."

You can be a feminist and still be dominant in bed.

Wanting to be dominated in bed and being feminist are not contradictory positions.

Harpie posted...

Orlando_Jordan posted...

Harpie posted...

If a man isnt a feminist, its an immediate turn off for me

The way they kiss up to women while expecting to be rewarded with sex is almost certainly a turn off for the majority of women. A real man is honest about being interested.

Do you know what a male feminist is lmao

What do you think of when you think male feminist? A man who believes in equal rights?

I think TC is referring to the white knight/nice guy verity.
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Conflict posted...

Why you guys kept entertaining this topic after that cringeworthy piece is beyond my knowledge

Holy shit, are you a male feminist? lmao
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TC speaks as if he's ever touched a woman before lmao
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Orlando_Jordan posted...

Harpie posted...

I think you guys are living in the old ages.

Women nowadays (at least in my demographic of 16-24 year olds), tend to value men that are outspoken about womans rights, toxic masculinity and lgbtq. I think youd be very surprised to find that its a very sought after and desired quality these days.

You can be a man with relf-respect while being pro-LGBTQ.

You can also be a self respecting man who is also a feminist.
You can be a gym buff in the day and a master to someone at night and still be a feminist.
Feminism is about being aware of womens struggles and advocating or at least supporting equal rights.
I know its hard to believe, but anyone can have any belief regardless of theyre outward appearance. I know, shocking
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Is this one of the rare things men can speak on even if it isn't directly affecting them? I don't know if I'd consider myself a feminist. Does wanting equal rights automatically make you a feminist? Why wouldn't you want equal rights for everyone regardless of gender? I don't understand.
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In my experience, women like a guy who is sure of himself, passionate about something, and sticks to his own morals and values without being a dick about it. It's pretty simple.
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a lot of men itt thinking they know more about who straight women are attracted to than straight women themselves
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Dyinglegacy posted...

Harpie posted...

Orlando_Jordan posted...

Harpie posted...

If a man isnt a feminist, its an immediate turn off for me

The way they kiss up to women while expecting to be rewarded with sex is almost certainly a turn off for the majority of women. A real man is honest about being interested.

Do you know what a male feminist is lmao

What do you think of when you think male feminist? A man who believes in equal rights?

I think TC is referring to the white knight/nice guy verity.

I think the first, because it is the first. Literally anyone can be a feminist.

What TC is thinking of is definitely not a feminist. Male feminists believe in their views, they dont pretend to be so so they can get laid. Thats the opposite of a feminist lol
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Harpie posted...

Feminism is about being aware of womens struggles and advocating or at least supporting equal rights.

Maybe 30 years ago.
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