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Hexenherz 09/21/18 10:37:58 AM #51: |
lmfao @ this topic
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Solid Sonic 09/21/18 10:39:59 AM #52: |
DK9292 posted...
Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. Well, I'm glad you have some measure of acceptance, regardless of how little... --- Washable toilet paper. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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t_paynes_ghost 09/21/18 10:40:12 AM #53: |
DK9292 posted...
Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. I once phoned in to accept a job interview at a call center, no one was there so I left the message. The message - "Hey uh this is [name] phoning back about the job interview on [date] that works for me and..... uh...... uh............................... .................. uhhh.... ..............." *click* I thought for sure I lost the job right there. They phoned me back and I got the job in the end. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Solid Sonic 09/21/18 10:41:10 AM #54: |
The weird thing is he's saying a lot of stuff that I would if I were in his situation (like being apprehensive about asking for help). But whereas I usually just withdraw and put up with not knowing instead of demonstrating ignorance openly, he gets angry and resentful when he has to be given help...
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DK9292 09/21/18 10:41:16 AM #55: |
t_paynes_ghost posted...
DK9292 posted...Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. Yeah right. --- A hero's role is one that cannot be forsaken, Caring for those with hearts that are breaking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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t_paynes_ghost 09/21/18 10:41:49 AM #56: |
DK9292 posted...
t_paynes_ghost posted...DK9292 posted...Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. I have no reason to lie. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Learning 09/21/18 10:42:24 AM #57: |
DK9292 posted...
Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. I have been late to interviews and got the job How's that for "not handling the basics" --- Backup Conflict alt for the next week ... Copied to Clipboard!
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stone 09/21/18 10:42:27 AM #58: |
DK9292 posted...
But like I said, fuck it. Not understanding this apparently just makes me an asshole Yeah pretty sure the way you've been acting through all the topic is what makes you one, not the fact you don't understand e-signatures. --- PONG WAS REAL? I thought that was just a story parents told kids to scare them ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DK9292 09/21/18 10:43:25 AM #59: |
t_paynes_ghost posted...
DK9292 posted...t_paynes_ghost posted...DK9292 posted...Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. You have plenty reason. And even if you didn't, "no reason to lie" hasn't stopped people. --- A hero's role is one that cannot be forsaken, Caring for those with hearts that are breaking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Learning 09/21/18 10:44:12 AM #60: |
I mean you can just leg everyone who has actually had experience help you or you can just assume everyone's a filthy liar and nobody gets jobs unless they are perfect and flawless human beings
Your choice --- Backup Conflict alt for the next week ... Copied to Clipboard!
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t_paynes_ghost 09/21/18 10:44:25 AM #61: |
DK9292 posted...
You have plenty reason. And even if you didn't, "no reason to lie" hasn't stopped people. What reason do I have? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DK9292 09/21/18 10:44:52 AM #62: |
Learning posted...
DK9292 posted...Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. Bullshit. I've turned up fucking early for interviews and got sent home. --- A hero's role is one that cannot be forsaken, Caring for those with hearts that are breaking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DK9292 09/21/18 10:45:21 AM #63: |
t_paynes_ghost posted...
DK9292 posted...You have plenty reason. And even if you didn't, "no reason to lie" hasn't stopped people. Amusement from fucking with me. --- A hero's role is one that cannot be forsaken, Caring for those with hearts that are breaking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bok_Choi 09/21/18 10:45:22 AM #64: |
Once failed a drug test and got hired anyway
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Learning 09/21/18 10:46:12 AM #65: |
DK9292 posted...
Learning posted...DK9292 posted...Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. So have I It's almost like it's not black and white and every interview weighs things differently --- Backup Conflict alt for the next week ... Copied to Clipboard!
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t_paynes_ghost 09/21/18 10:46:14 AM #66: |
DK9292 posted...
t_paynes_ghost posted...DK9292 posted...You have plenty reason. And even if you didn't, "no reason to lie" hasn't stopped people. How does my story fuck with you? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DK9292 09/21/18 10:46:46 AM #67: |
Learning posted...
DK9292 posted...Learning posted...DK9292 posted...Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. Then your "I turned up late and still got the job" is meaningless. --- A hero's role is one that cannot be forsaken, Caring for those with hearts that are breaking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DK9292 09/21/18 10:47:20 AM #68: |
t_paynes_ghost posted...
DK9292 posted...t_paynes_ghost posted...DK9292 posted...You have plenty reason. And even if you didn't, "no reason to lie" hasn't stopped people. Because I said one thing, so you're saying the opposite to make a liar out of me. --- A hero's role is one that cannot be forsaken, Caring for those with hearts that are breaking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bok_Choi 09/21/18 10:47:54 AM #69: |
And so is your "they'll think i'm incompetent anyway" argument.
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t_paynes_ghost 09/21/18 10:49:45 AM #70: |
DK9292 posted...
t_paynes_ghost posted...DK9292 posted...t_paynes_ghost posted...DK9292 posted...You have plenty reason. And even if you didn't, "no reason to lie" hasn't stopped people. Both can be true. Your scenario being correct or incorrect doesn't make you a liar either. Perhaps not understanding how the signature works is not a big deal, that's not information we know yet. Schrodinger's e-signature. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArchiePeck 09/21/18 10:49:50 AM #71: |
Bok_Choi posted...
And so is your "they'll think i'm incompetent anyway" argument. This, basically - it's a self fulfilling prophecy when you act like this. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Learning 09/21/18 10:50:10 AM #72: |
DK9292 posted...
No it isn't Because your argument is "oh I needed help with X, I'm immediately shot down!" and I'm telling you from personal experience that that doesn't hold water Not to mention... How would the hiring manager even know if you had trouble with e-signing if you just asked an agent for help? --- Backup Conflict alt for the next week ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Learning 09/21/18 10:53:12 AM #73: |
See this topic here shows that it wouldn't make a damn difference if we helped you before it was "too late". Your attitude and outlook is garbage and you immediately assume any anecdote that doesn't fit your warped credentials is bullshit. Go see a professional. Now
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Bok_Choi 09/21/18 10:55:57 AM #74: |
I'm not one to freely recommend professional help but unless you got some dedicated parents and siblings i think you got little choice tc
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DK9292 09/21/18 10:59:24 AM #75: |
Learning posted...
See this topic here shows that it wouldn't make a damn difference if we helped you before it was "too late". Your attitude and outlook is garbage and you immediately assume any anecdote that doesn't fit your warped credentials is bullshit. Go see a professional. Now Why? If I'm as much of a piece of shit as you keep claiming with a horrible attitude and outlook, then you should be happy I'm miserable. --- A hero's role is one that cannot be forsaken, Caring for those with hearts that are breaking. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ArchiePeck 09/21/18 11:02:09 AM #76: |
DK9292 posted...
Learning posted...See this topic here shows that it wouldn't make a damn difference if we helped you before it was "too late". Your attitude and outlook is garbage and you immediately assume any anecdote that doesn't fit your warped credentials is bullshit. Go see a professional. Now We'd rather you changed your attitude towards things being difficult and thus greatly improved your progress in many areas of life, but you sure don't make it easy for us. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Learning 09/21/18 11:02:29 AM #77: |
DK9292 posted...
Learning posted...See this topic here shows that it wouldn't make a damn difference if we helped you before it was "too late". Your attitude and outlook is garbage and you immediately assume any anecdote that doesn't fit your warped credentials is bullshit. Go see a professional. Now Lol stop putting words in my mouth. I'm telling you to see a professional because that's literally the only way you're going to fix your outlook --- Backup Conflict alt for the next week ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bok_Choi 09/21/18 11:03:08 AM #78: |
DK9292 posted...
Learning posted...See this topic here shows that it wouldn't make a damn difference if we helped you before it was "too late". Your attitude and outlook is garbage and you immediately assume any anecdote that doesn't fit your warped credentials is bullshit. Go see a professional. Now Because as much as this topic is starting to smell like a shitty troll topic, some part of me still wants everyone on this board to get healthy and make something of themselves You can doubt my reasoning or continue to be skeptical but That's the truth --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mr_Biscuit 09/21/18 11:03:12 AM #79: |
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Fuck it. I dunno why I thought it'd be a good idea to ask. thats a melty --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ranting Nord 09/21/18 11:10:20 AM #80: |
Believe this or not, but here's my anecdote. I'm the only IT person for a company of about 100. I don't know the answer to probably half of the problems I come across. And I have to tell people that. "I don't know the answer, but I will find out." You did the right thing by reaching out for help. In fact, that's a selling point in an interview. Companies would prefer you try to find help than guessing. You just need to have a little more patience and be able to ignore the joke responses. It was 20 minutes before I posted an answer that would work and that was after I got the information that it was a Word document.
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Bok_Choi 09/21/18 11:14:21 AM #81: |
There are just some people in the world that feel like if they don't get it right the first time around, they are stupid, incompetent, and incapable of grasping this new information/skill
so they give up This is often indicative of how someone was brought through schooling and adversity, and what kind of language was used to praise their efforts or encourage them back into good studies. People don't realize that the human mind is meant to adapt and learn constantly, so failure the first time is not condemnation. We as a species, as a people, have the ability to grow and learn. And get better. TC might have never had someone around him to say "You worked hard, but you're going to have to work harder to get there." --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Learning 09/21/18 11:18:39 AM #82: |
Bok_Choi posted...
There are just some people in the world that feel like if they don't get it right the first time around, they are stupid, incompetent, and incapable of grasping this new information/skill This is accurate but I mean I think TC just revels in this too He wants people to pity compliment him cause I've told him this before and he just continues to verbally assault himself --- Backup Conflict alt for the next week ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Hexenherz 09/21/18 11:20:10 AM #83: |
Well real talk maybe TC should visit a counselor or therapist or support group because that kind of mentality is not the healthiest.
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Bok_Choi 09/21/18 11:22:01 AM #84: |
its easy to lose faith in your own ability
when you were taught to rely solely on your own ability if TC isn't trolling, i feel for them because this is how i felt coming out of high school dealing with my own shit for the first time EVER i literally left a gash on my arm alone forever because I was too anxious to go to a hospital or medical clinic to get it checked and treated, and it got infected and FORCED me to go Once I was there I had a rough time with everything thanks to the anxiety, but once I did it it was just done and over time after those moments I'd realize that things aren't particularly difficult to do... they just... have to be done. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AvantgardeAClue 09/21/18 11:34:29 AM #85: |
DK9292 posted...
Bok_Choi posted...DK9292 posted...Learning posted...Being confused and needing help with something isn't embarrassing. Lmao Sounds like you were applying for something you weren't even remotely qualified for --- Sometimes I say things and I'm not voice acting. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Two_Dee 09/21/18 11:54:45 AM #87: |
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ArchiePeck 09/21/18 1:21:56 PM #88: |
Bok_Choi posted...
There are just some people in the world that feel like if they don't get it right the first time around, they are stupid, incompetent, and incapable of grasping this new information/skill There's nothing wrong with failure so long as you can learn from it, improve your skills or even just come back next time a little more determined to succeed in future. It's only a bad thing if you choose to let it be. Think about the famous Michael Jordan "failure" commercial: ... Copied to Clipboard!
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furb 09/21/18 1:24:28 PM #89: |
Print.
Sign doc. Scan. Convert to pdf. --- You know how fads are. Today it's brains, tomorrow, pierced tongues. Then the next day, pierced brains. -Jane Lane ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mystery_Mission 09/21/18 1:33:08 PM #90: |
everyone in this topic: gives helpful advice to tc
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Bok_Choi 09/21/18 1:38:46 PM #91: |
furb posted...
Print. i mean its posts like this that obviously bothered him (tho he shouldn't have been so tbh) He's said he can't do that already. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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furb 09/22/18 10:22:56 AM #92: |
Bok_Choi posted...
furb posted...Print. It wad my bad. I just read the topic title. --- You know how fads are. Today it's brains, tomorrow, pierced tongues. Then the next day, pierced brains. -Jane Lane ... Copied to Clipboard!
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