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SpaceBear_
06/20/18 11:40:18 PM
#51:


You sound like a needy nightmare.

Also LOL @ ditching your husband to go hang out with a couple dudes from college.
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trentpac
06/21/18 5:08:38 AM
#52:


Yeesh...the more you speak the less I care about offending you. You're a needy, self centered, spoiled little brat and Juan deserves better.

That's not flaming right? You asked.
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trentpac
06/21/18 5:13:35 AM
#53:


You were looking for validation in this topic and that's it. You completely ignored anything anyone who had opposing views and used the other comments to validate your shitty behavior.
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AllstarSniper32
06/21/18 5:30:12 AM
#54:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
It struck me that for years I considered them to be friends when in reality they're my husband's friends and my acquaintances.

And that's why you deciding to go meet up with your friends is the thing to do. I'd even say that the next time you should both make plans to meet and hang out with your friends and not visit his at all.

I do think the best thing would be for your friends and his friends to all hang out if possible.
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Alexandra_Trent
06/21/18 6:26:14 AM
#55:


trentpac posted...
You were looking for validation in this topic and that's it. You completely ignored anything anyone who had opposing views and used the other comments to validate your shitty behavior.


This really goes both ways. You insisted on your opposing comments hoping she'd listen to your opinion. This is a way of validation on your part too. And obviously you got upset that she ignored your comments altogether. This really shouldn't upset you though. You gave her your two cents in this situation. That's it. Whether or not she made this topic for validation isn't any of your concern. You said your piece and that's all there is to it. If chooses not to go by what you've said, there's nothing more to be said.
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MartianManchild
06/21/18 6:37:36 AM
#56:


Good morning, Susan. Hope you have a good day.
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SusanGreenEyes
06/21/18 9:50:59 AM
#57:


Tomorrow I get to see my friends and I'm excited.
My husband is fine with everything now, and it's been decided it's best that I see my friends while he see his own for future trips, so that we get to both see the people we want to see.
They're going to have guy time this visit.
I hope you all have a great day.
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SunWuKung420
06/21/18 9:54:56 AM
#58:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
They're going to have guy time this visit.


By all accounts, so will you. *wink*
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Smarkil
06/21/18 11:19:43 AM
#59:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
I hope one day you guys are on the receiving end of something like this. I hope one day someone says 'Fuck rules. Fuck expectations. Fuck time fuck space fuck distance. Fuck what other people think. I HAD to see you because I missed you. That's badass and epic as fuck.


You're definitely blowing things out of proportion.

I mean, it's fine that you're gonna chill with your friends but you're not exactly making some kind of statement with it.
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Moonjay
06/21/18 2:12:27 PM
#60:


Smarkil posted...
SusanGreenEyes posted...
I hope one day you guys are on the receiving end of something like this. I hope one day someone says 'Fuck rules. Fuck expectations. Fuck time fuck space fuck distance. Fuck what other people think. I HAD to see you because I missed you. That's badass and epic as fuck.


You're definitely blowing things out of proportion.

I mean, it's fine that you're gonna chill with your friends but you're not exactly making some kind of statement with it.


Yeah. This is not an amazing story that will blow people away, it is not epic, and it is not unusual.
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trentpac
06/21/18 4:41:29 PM
#61:


Poor Juan...poor poor Juan.
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ultra magnus13
06/21/18 4:58:38 PM
#62:


SpaceBear_ posted...
You sound like a needy nightmare.

Also LOL @ ditching your husband to go hang out with a couple dudes from college.


Pretty much.

This is not bad ass, or epic, or awesome.

You mildly annoyed and inconvinenced your husband because you are needy and bad at planning. You had months to make plans with your friends, you could have invited them out with you and Juans friends, or you and Juan could have seen them the next night. You chose to drop a day before drama bomb.

Btw if the dudes you hang with think its "epic" confirmed they want to sleep with you.
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LinkPizza
06/21/18 5:04:15 PM
#63:


ultra magnus13 posted...
SpaceBear_ posted...
You sound like a needy nightmare.

Also LOL @ ditching your husband to go hang out with a couple dudes from college.


Pretty much.

This is not bad ass, or epic, or awesome.

You mildly annoyed and inconvinenced your husband because you are needy and bad at planning. You had months to make plans with your friends, you could have invited them out with you and Juans friends, or you and Juan could have seen them the next night. You chose to drop a day before drama bomb.

Btw if the dudes you hang with think its "epic" confirmed they want to sleep with you.

I don't see how she's bad at planning because of this. Based on the reason why she decided to hang out with her friends instead of her husband's, at least.
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SusanGreenEyes
06/22/18 12:18:54 AM
#64:


LinkPizza posted...
ultra magnus13 posted...
SpaceBear_ posted...
You sound like a needy nightmare.

Also LOL @ ditching your husband to go hang out with a couple dudes from college.


Pretty much.

This is not bad ass, or epic, or awesome.

You mildly annoyed and inconvinenced your husband because you are needy and bad at planning. You had months to make plans with your friends, you could have invited them out with you and Juans friends, or you and Juan could have seen them the next night. You chose to drop a day before drama bomb.

Btw if the dudes you hang with think its "epic" confirmed they want to sleep with you.

I don't see how she's bad at planning because of this. Based on the reason why she decided to hang out with her friends instead of her husband's, at least.

You get it dude. Thank you. Lol
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MartianManchild
06/22/18 8:06:38 AM
#65:


Good morning, Susan. Have a good day.
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Greenfox111
06/22/18 6:27:04 PM
#66:


yeah i mean you can do what you want, i don't think you're in the wrong or bad at planning or whatever, but i really wouldn't refer to this as "epic" or anything like that
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SusanGreenEyes
06/23/18 8:53:31 PM
#67:


Friday night was so awesome!
We went out for pizza, walked around and talked for hours, went out for karaoke and I got home at 3:30 in the morning.

Hanging out with my dudes was like catching up from right where we left off 12 years ago- no awkwardness or anything like that.

I'm so glad that these are my friends, and
that I dropped people who I didn't really want to see in order to chill out with them.

We're going to chill out whenever I am in town as opposed to having plans made for me to see other people.

Thanks to everyone who chilled with me during my topic. I'm a very lucky girl!
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trentpac
06/23/18 8:55:11 PM
#68:


Who cares
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SusanGreenEyes
06/23/18 8:56:03 PM
#69:


trentpac posted...
Who cares

I do and they do. Lol
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My_Unit
06/23/18 10:25:26 PM
#70:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
Tomorrow I get to see my friends and I'm excited. I'm going to have a great time and they get an amazing story about the time I chose to ditch people for them without considering consequences because I couldn't go through with seeing people I don't care about, when in my heart I straight up missed my friends and had to see them. Like me or not, agree with me or not, but that's some pretty epic shit right there.

I hope one day you guys are on the receiving end of something like this. I hope one day someone says 'Fuck rules. Fuck expectations. Fuck time fuck space fuck distance. Fuck what other people think. I HAD to see you because I missed you. That's badass and epic as fuck.

Sometimes we must do what feels right, even though other people may not agree with it. I never came here thinking everyone would agree with me, and to be honest I never intended to change my plans or feel guilty if people didn't. Most people wouldn't change their plans either. Lol

My husband is fine with everything now, and it's been decided it's best that I see my friends while he see his own for future trips, so that we get to both see the people we want to see.
They're going to have guy time this visit.
I hope you all have a great day.
Thanks for sharing I'm my experience.


Ditching your husband to see two dudes from college
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AllstarSniper32
06/24/18 12:16:56 AM
#71:


Woot woot for fun friend time!
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My_Unit
06/24/18 12:38:59 AM
#72:


AllstarSniper32 posted...
Woot woot for fun threeway time!

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SusanGreenEyes
06/24/18 1:07:47 AM
#73:


My_Unit posted...
SusanGreenEyes posted...
Tomorrow I get to see my friends and I'm excited. I'm going to have a great time and they get an amazing story about the time I chose to ditch people for them without considering consequences because I couldn't go through with seeing people I don't care about, when in my heart I straight up missed my friends and had to see them. Like me or not, agree with me or not, but that's some pretty epic shit right there.

I hope one day you guys are on the receiving end of something like this. I hope one day someone says 'Fuck rules. Fuck expectations. Fuck time fuck space fuck distance. Fuck what other people think. I HAD to see you because I missed you. That's badass and epic as fuck.

Sometimes we must do what feels right, even though other people may not agree with it. I never came here thinking everyone would agree with me, and to be honest I never intended to change my plans or feel guilty if people didn't. Most people wouldn't change their plans either. Lol

My husband is fine with everything now, and it's been decided it's best that I see my friends while he see his own for future trips, so that we get to both see the people we want to see.
They're going to have guy time this visit.
I hope you all have a great day.
Thanks for sharing I'm my experience.


Ditching your husband to see two dudes from college

He went out with his friends and I went out with my friends.
I was ditching his friends, not him.
If my husband had no plans for the night, he would have been invited to come out with me and my friends.
I had no interest in spending time with his friends though.
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Keebs05
06/24/18 2:21:31 AM
#74:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
He went out with his friends and I went out with my friends.
I was ditching his friends, not him..

I'll take "Arguing Semantics" for $1000, Alex.
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Lil69Leo
06/24/18 2:26:46 AM
#75:


I bet her two friends enjoyed it too. Did you visit the Eiffel tower?
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My_Unit
06/24/18 2:29:30 AM
#76:


Lil69Leo posted...
I bet her two friends enjoyed it too. Did you visit the Eiffel tower?

Yeah quite the setting to get in the mood.
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SusanGreenEyes
06/24/18 6:10:50 AM
#77:


Keebs05 posted...
SusanGreenEyes posted...
He went out with his friends and I went out with my friends.
I was ditching his friends, not him..

I'll take "Arguing Semantics" for $1000, Alex.

I'll take "I had a fantastic time so I don't mind any negative comments I may receive on a video game message board" for $1". Lol
I seriously had an awesome night and I would do it all again in a heartbeat.
I've been friends with these guys for 20 years and I'm glad that we had the chance to finally chill out together.
I had to do that in the place of seeing acquaintances and I'm fine with that.
My husband understood once we sat down and discussed everything so he's not angry.
From now on I'm free to make my own plans when we visit again.
He got to see his friends and I got to see mine.
We're good. No worries.
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SunWuKung420
06/24/18 7:57:40 AM
#78:


I'm so lucky my wife is cool. Poor Juan.
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MartianManchild
06/24/18 8:01:50 AM
#79:


Good morning. Hope you have a good day.
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LinkPizza
06/24/18 8:16:28 AM
#80:


SunWuKung420 posted...
I'm so lucky my wife is cool. Poor Juan.

I dont know why youre saying poor Juan... Susans super nice. And everybody got to see their friends.
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SusanGreenEyes
06/24/18 8:37:25 AM
#81:


MartianManchild posted...
Good morning. Hope you have a good day.

Good morning. Have a great day.
LinkPizza posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...
I'm so lucky my wife is cool. Poor Juan.

I'm cool. I have my own mind and my own friends though. They were glad to see me and I was glad to see them.
I dont know why youre saying poor Juan... Susans super nice. And everybody got to see their friends.

Thanks dude. You get it. Hugs. Lol
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MartianManchild
06/24/18 8:44:00 AM
#82:


Glad you were finally able to respond. Have a great day too.
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LinkPizza
06/24/18 8:44:12 AM
#83:


Hugs!
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My_Unit
06/25/18 10:33:08 AM
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SusanGreenEyes
06/25/18 8:01:21 PM
#85:


^
Dude, whatever you do with your guy friends is your own business.
Don't try to pin your lifestyle on me.
Have a great night, guys.
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LinkPizza
06/25/18 8:23:24 PM
#86:


I recently went home as well. And hung out with my friends. It was fun. The only thing that is ever a problem is my best friends boyfriend. But, in the end, I still always hang out with her.
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SusanGreenEyes
06/25/18 9:38:55 PM
#87:


LinkPizza posted...
I recently went home as well. And hung out with my friends. It was fun. The only thing that is ever a problem is my best friends boyfriend. But, in the end, I still always hang out with her.

Nice!
Glad you had a great time.
What's the deal with the boyfriend?
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My_Unit
06/25/18 10:01:51 PM
#88:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
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Dude, whatever you do with your guy friends is your own business.
Don't try to pin your lifestyle on me.
Have a great night, guys.

How was it though?
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LinkPizza
06/25/18 10:02:59 PM
#89:


SusanGreenEyes posted...
LinkPizza posted...
I recently went home as well. And hung out with my friends. It was fun. The only thing that is ever a problem is my best friends boyfriend. But, in the end, I still always hang out with her.

Nice!
Glad you had a great time.
What's the deal with the boyfriend?

Idk. Its weird. And its kind different everytime. Like I dont go home very often. So, to my friends, its a big deal. And she was like, they were laying in bed doing nothing. And we were talking in a group text. So, she got up to meet up with me and he got all mad and said that they were going to have dinner. And she was saying how I was only home like once a year or so. She also said how they were just laying in bed doing nothing. So, she wanted to hang out. She invited him, but he didnt want to go. She invited him multiple times throughout the night. But its usually something like that.
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