Current Events > I really don't like going down on my wife.

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MrDrMan posted...

Morally wrong? Ok buddy. Someone isn't getting any pussy it seems?

Yes I think it's morally wrong. I think it's perverted. I don't care if you don't agree.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

MrDrMan posted...

Morally wrong? Ok buddy. Someone isn't getting any pussy it seems?

Yes I think it's morally wrong. I think it's perverted. I don't care if you don't agree.

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Tadamoto38 posted...

MrDrMan posted...

Morally wrong? Ok buddy. Someone isn't getting any pussy it seems?

Yes I think it's morally wrong. I think it's perverted. I don't care if you don't agree.

The important question is does your wife agree? And I mean really agree
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voldothegr8 posted...

All I can think about is the pee hole and how much blood flows through there and it makes my stomach turn.

does she not bathe?
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I'm so glad mine doesn't care for receiving oral.
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If she gives you oral put your big boy pants on and return the favor
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prince_leo posted...

voldothegr8 posted...

All I can think about is the pee hole and how much blood flows through there and it makes my stomach turn.

does she not bathe?

She's fine and cleanly, even keeps it shaved. It's all me with such (very real) thoughts.
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3deep5u posted...

I'm so glad mine doesn't care for receiving oral.

just means she's never had it done right
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Quick anatomy lesson here guys, blood comes out of the vagina, urine (pee) comes out of the urethra.

This is probably one of those topics that I shouldn't have read because now, for the rest of my life, I will always wonder "does he hate doing it" to the point where I wouldn't be able to relax and wouldn't enjoy it. When it comes to sex and intimacy, if there is something you don't like "doing" then don't do it. I never considered for a minute that this would be a thing -- silly me I guess. My boyfriend always gave me the impression that he couldn't wait to do this, kind of like "gotta have it now" type thing. And him enjoying it (or so I thought he did, if not he was a great actor) made me enjoy it even more with both of us being uninhibited and anxious to please the other. Never once did I feel that "you did it to me so I have to do it to you" thing that was spoken of. There were many times where I would please him and not expect anything back, and he did the same to me -- it all depended on the mood or the game or what we were going for.

There are so many ways to do it but I just looked at it like that "lots of different positions". I never thought of them as making the dude uncomfortable. My boyfriend never once gave me the impression that one way or the other was more difficult or uncomfortable for him, it was just whatever happened at that minute. As for being smelly or not clean, why would that even happen? It only takes a few minutes to wash down there and freshen up. Heck, if you have company coming over to your house you clean up, so if you have "company" coming to visit you down there you freshen up.

I just didn't realize it was a nasty chore.
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i know it's hard to go down on an ssbbw but you gotta handle it boss.

your wife needs it
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mipond posted...

Quick anatomy lesson here guys, blood comes out of the vagina, urine (pee) comes out of the urethra.

This is probably one of those topics that I shouldn't have read because now, for the rest of my life, I will always wonder "does he hate doing it" to the point where I wouldn't be able to relax and wouldn't enjoy it. When it comes to sex and intimacy, if there is something you don't like "doing" then don't do it. I never considered for a minute that this would be a thing -- silly me I guess. My boyfriend always gave me the impression that he couldn't wait to do this, kind of like "gotta have it now" type thing. And him enjoying it (or so I thought he did, if not he was a great actor) made me enjoy it even more with both of us being uninhibited and anxious to please the other. Never once did I feel that "you did it to me so I have to do it to you" thing that was spoken of. There were many times where I would please him and not expect anything back, and he did the same to me -- it all depended on the mood or the game or what we were going for.

There are so many ways to do it but I just looked at it like that "lots of different positions". I never thought of them as making the dude uncomfortable. My boyfriend never once gave me the impression that one way or the other was more difficult or uncomfortable for him, it was just whatever happened at that minute. As for being smelly or not clean, why would that even happen? It only takes a few minutes to wash down there and freshen up. Heck, if you have company coming over to your house you clean up, so if you have "company" coming to visit you down there you freshen up.

I just didn't realize it was a nasty chore.

You're going to let a bunch of self-righteous CEmen ruin your sex life? I mean fuck... you can tell easily if someone is genuinely interested in something or not. If you can't read that in bed, then that's your problem.

Asherlee10 posted...

fenderbender321 posted...

Doctor Foxx posted...

Imagine thinking it's a chore to do something simple to bring pleasure to your sexual partner

Stick your penis into her vagina. That way TWO people get pleasure instead of just one at a time while the other person loses their arousal and has to start over.

This post made me gayer.

Best post in the topic tbh
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lol vaginas.
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Your wife probably hates sucking your dick but you don't find her complaining on CE
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mipond posted...

As for being smelly or not clean, why would that even happen?

this

it's common fucking decency for both parties.

take a damn shower before you hook up. brush your teeth before you make out.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

MrDrMan posted...

Morally wrong? Ok buddy. Someone isn't getting any pussy it seems?

Yes I think it's morally wrong. I think it's perverted. I don't care if you don't agree.

If eating pussy is wrong, I don't want to be right.
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DoctorPiranha3 posted...

mipond posted...

Quick anatomy lesson here guys, blood comes out of the vagina, urine (pee) comes out of the urethra.

This is probably one of those topics that I shouldn't have read because now, for the rest of my life, I will always wonder "does he hate doing it" to the point where I wouldn't be able to relax and wouldn't enjoy it. When it comes to sex and intimacy, if there is something you don't like "doing" then don't do it. I never considered for a minute that this would be a thing -- silly me I guess. My boyfriend always gave me the impression that he couldn't wait to do this, kind of like "gotta have it now" type thing. And him enjoying it (or so I thought he did, if not he was a great actor) made me enjoy it even more with both of us being uninhibited and anxious to please the other. Never once did I feel that "you did it to me so I have to do it to you" thing that was spoken of. There were many times where I would please him and not expect anything back, and he did the same to me -- it all depended on the mood or the game or what we were going for.

There are so many ways to do it but I just looked at it like that "lots of different positions". I never thought of them as making the dude uncomfortable. My boyfriend never once gave me the impression that one way or the other was more difficult or uncomfortable for him, it was just whatever happened at that minute. As for being smelly or not clean, why would that even happen? It only takes a few minutes to wash down there and freshen up. Heck, if you have company coming over to your house you clean up, so if you have "company" coming to visit you down there you freshen up.

I just didn't realize it was a nasty chore.

You're going to let a bunch of self-righteous CEmen ruin your sex life? I mean fuck... you can tell easily if someone is genuinely interested in something or not. If you can't read that in bed, then that's your problem.

This attitude is prevalent in a lot of guys do it's not just CE. I feel that. For decades I've been reading about how much some men hate pleasuring their partners and it just makes me
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I find it very boring and tedious. Sometimes I use pop rocks for fun.
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deanshow posted...

Your wife probably hates sucking your dick but you don't find her complaining on CE

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iron jojo posted...

I find it very boring and tedious. Sometimes I use pop rocks for fun.

I guess I don't understand...they don't like going down on a woman but it's okay when they cum inside our mouth.
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mipond posted...

iron jojo posted...

I find it very boring and tedious. Sometimes I use pop rocks for fun.

I guess I don't understand...they don't like going down on a woman but it's okay when they cum inside our mouth.

A lot of dudes are very uh...

Self serving. It's how it goes, unfortunate as it is.
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iron jojo posted...

I find it very boring and tedious. Sometimes I use pop rocks for fun.

Mmmm nothing like sugar on genitals to spice things up
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Because its a submissive action. Men shouldnt be doing it.

The_Freecs posted...

Because its a submissive action. Men shouldnt be doing it.

No it's not lol
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Is she Irish?
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Lol, being the giver is dominant. And if you can't play different roles in the bedroom regardless, you're a pathetically bland lover.

The_Freecs posted...

Because its a submissive action. Men shouldnt be doing it.

This is fucking stupid tbh.

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Lol, being the giver is dominant. And if you can't play different roles in the bedroom regardless, you're a pathetically bland lover.

This 100%
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Uncomfortable?
Have her lay on her back, you sit straight up on your knees, grab her hips, then bring the goods to your mouth, like a piece of watermelon.
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Ive always started out gentle like a butterfly landing on a blade of grass. By the end, Im a Saint Bernard eating ice cream out of a bowl.
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Aelia posted...

Ive always started out gentle like a butterfly landing on a blade of grass. By the end, Im a Saint Bernard eating ice cream out of a bowl.

Vulgorn posted...

The_Freecs posted...

Because its a submissive action. Men shouldnt be doing it.

This is fucking stupid tbh.

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Lol, being the giver is dominant. And if you can't play different roles in the bedroom regardless, you're a pathetically bland lover.

This 100%

What are you, high? You're servicing her. You're the definition of subservient when you go down on someone. She is getting direct pleasure as a result of your work.

I'm not saying going down on someone isn't pleasurable, but on the surface, going down on someone is submissive.
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You better like it, or else she will find someone who will.

MuffinzwOrned posted...

Aelia posted...

Ive always started out gentle like a butterfly landing on a blade of grass. By the end, Im a Saint Bernard eating ice cream out of a bowl.

Vulgorn posted...

The_Freecs posted...

Because its a submissive action. Men shouldnt be doing it.

This is fucking stupid tbh.

DoctorPiranha3 posted...

Lol, being the giver is dominant. And if you can't play different roles in the bedroom regardless, you're a pathetically bland lover.

This 100%

What are you, high? You're servicing her. You're the definition of subservient when you go down on someone. She is getting direct pleasure as a result of your work.

I'm not saying going down on someone isn't pleasurable, but on the surface, going down on someone is submissive.

No it's not. You can be dominant and pleasing someone. You don't understand what being dominant is.
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Tadamoto38 posted...

Beats me. I personally think oral is nasty as fuck. I would never do it.

Lol you might as well just stop trying to get a girl altogether then
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I like making dem squirm
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MuffinzwOrned

What are you, high? You're servicing her. You're the definition of subservient when you go down on someone. She is getting direct pleasure as a result of your work.

I'm not saying going down on someone isn't pleasurable, but on the surface, going down on someone is submissive.

But you're in control, which is the point. Would you say in the case of, idk, femdom? that even if the woman is technically giving the man pleasure, that she's being submissive to him?
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Doctor Foxx posted...

No it's not. You can be dominant and pleasing someone. You don't understand what being dominant is.

MuffinzwOrned posted...

on the surface, going down on someone is submissive

Vulgorn posted...

MuffinzwOrned

What are you, high? You're servicing her. You're the definition of subservient when you go down on someone. She is getting direct pleasure as a result of your work.

I'm not saying going down on someone isn't pleasurable, but on the surface, going down on someone is submissive.

But you're in control, which is the point. Would you say in the case of, idk, femdom? that even if the woman is technically giving the man pleasure, that she's being submissive to him?

If you were in control, wouldn't it be natural to demand she blow you while you lie there and enjoy it?

Again, yes, I acknowledge you can be a dominant while going down on someone, but that's digging beneath the surface.

On the surface, going down on someone is a submissive act.
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Vulgorn posted...

But you're in control, which is the point.

This. The person controlling the act is the one in the "power" position. Now if you had a gun to her head or something, then yeah, receiving is dominant then!

MuffinzwOrned posted...

If you were in control, wouldn't it be natural to demand she blow you while you lie there and enjoy it?

If you're shitty in bed sure

Controlling giving pleasure is part of dominating

MuffinzwOrned posted...

On the surface, going down on someone is a submissive act.

If you're really really shitty in bed I guess so?
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Doctor Foxx posted...

MuffinzwOrned posted...

If you were in control, wouldn't it be natural to demand she blow you while you lie there and enjoy it?

If you're shitty in bed sure

Controlling giving pleasure is part of dominating

MuffinzwOrned posted...

On the surface, going down on someone is a submissive act.

If you're really really shitty in bed I guess so?

holy shit bruv you're digging too deeply into this

stop digging beneath the surface of my point

On the surface, the recipient of the pleasure with no work is the person in control.

What if the wife goes and tells the husband to mow the lawn while she watches TV? Even though the husband is "in control," he's still subservient.

MuffinzwOrned posted...

I acknowledge you can be a dominant while going down on someone, but that's digging beneath the surface.

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Vulgorn posted...

MuffinzwOrned

What are you, high? You're servicing her. You're the definition of subservient when you go down on someone. She is getting direct pleasure as a result of your work.

I'm not saying going down on someone isn't pleasurable, but on the surface, going down on someone is submissive.

But you're in control, which is the point. Would you say in the case of, idk, femdom? that even if the woman is technically giving the man pleasure, that she's being submissive to him?

Lol. Its okay youre still a man. No need to get insecure.

Your point is if you're asked to do it.

I think most of us advocating for it here would just do it because we want to.

Which isn't subservient.
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MuffinzwOrned posted...

What if the wife goes and tells the husband to mow the lawn while she watches TV? Even though the husband is "in control," he's still subservient.

That's not an act between two people that's delegation of tasks and yeah those that delegate are in charge

And the dominant person delegates the pleasure giving. Sometimes it's them sometimes it's not
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Vulgorn posted...

Your point is if you're asked to do it.

I think most of us advocating for it here would just do it because we want to.

Which isn't subservient.

The implication of the topic title and the OP is that TC does not enjoy it, but does it anyways. Thus making him subservient when he does it.

I do think TC is the anomaly in not enjoying going down on someone, hence his calling it a "chore." But he does it anyways. If you were assigned something that you did not actively want to do, but do anyways, are you not inherently submitting to that person by fulfilling their request?

Doctor Foxx posted...

MuffinzwOrned posted...

What if the wife goes and tells the husband to mow the lawn while she watches TV? Even though the husband is "in control," he's still subservient.

That's not an act between two people that's delegation of tasks and yeah those that delegate are in charge

And the dominant person delegates the pleasure giving. Sometimes it's them sometimes it's not

You're digging too deep again.

On the surface, a guy mowing the lawn while his wife watches TV is being submissive. On the surface. Things only change when you start digging into things like "motivation," or "commands," or whatever. For example, we can go down the rabbit hole of "he's mowing the lawn because he wants to." In that case, he's dominant. As is the case with going down on someone as well; if I want to go down on my wife, I'm being dominant by doing it because I want to. However, this is all digging beneath the surface of my point.

When you start the hypotheticals of "why" someone goes down on someone, or "why" someone mows the lawn, that's too deep.

A woman sucking a dude's dick while he lies there and relaxes is submissive. That's the surface. Once you start digging the hole of "No she's being dominant because she wants to, then you're digging too deep.
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Vegy posted...

I like making dem squirm

This is the endgame best result winner. This is pretty much my goal every time.
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Aelia posted...

Ive always started out gentle like a butterfly landing on a blade of grass. By the end, Im a Saint Bernard eating ice cream out of a bowl.

XD
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MuffinzwOrned posted...

A woman sucking a dude's dick while he lies there and relaxes is submissive. That's the surface. Once you start digging the hole of "No she's being dominant because she wants to, then you're digging too deep.

Disagree even on that. The person with teeth around their genitals is not the one in control and is the person submitting
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