Poll of the Day > So my sister has three options - the mental hospital, the streets, or jail

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HeyImAlex
02/11/18 1:56:15 PM
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Good times. She's just been in the hospital so much these past 5 years she's sick of it. But it's gotta be better than the other two options...
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LinkPizza
02/11/18 1:57:53 PM
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Where does jail come in to play?
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HeyImAlex
02/11/18 2:02:11 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
Where does jail come in to play?

She's assaulted my mom a few times in the past couple months and isn't allowed at the house, but that's where she always ends up cause she has nowhere to go and doesn't want to stay in a hospital.
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myghostisdead
02/11/18 2:05:08 PM
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What kind of program does the hospital have? Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help? Surely there are other options?
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Kyuubi4269
02/11/18 2:07:50 PM
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myghostisdead posted...
Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help?

Sir, brothels are illegal.
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LinkPizza
02/11/18 2:09:55 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
myghostisdead posted...
Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help?

Sir, brothels are illegal.

I think you mean, ma'am... I think... correct me if I'm wrong, myghostisdead...
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HeyImAlex
02/11/18 2:11:50 PM
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myghostisdead posted...
What kind of program does the hospital have? Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help? Surely there are other options?

She's been though the system at least 3 times. That means the hospitals to halfway houses to other assisted living and she does well but then eventually leaves (on her own will) but now she doesn't want to enter the system again.

My dad dropped her off in front of a hospital the other night but she didn't want to check herself in so she spent a night on the streets. Shits rough...
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RCtheWSBC
02/11/18 2:35:28 PM
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What is her diagnosis?
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likehelly
02/11/18 2:38:02 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
myghostisdead posted...
Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help?

Sir, brothels are illegal.

all jokes aside, brothels are legal in nevada.

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SusanGreenEyes
02/11/18 2:48:28 PM
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HeyImAlex posted...
myghostisdead posted...
What kind of program does the hospital have? Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help? Surely there are other options?

She's been though the system at least 3 times. That means the hospitals to halfway houses to other assisted living and she does well but then eventually leaves (on her own will) but now she doesn't want to enter the system again.

My dad dropped her off in front of a hospital the other night but she didn't want to check herself in so she spent a night on the streets. Shits rough...

Does she have a substance abuse problem?
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wwinterj25
02/11/18 2:55:10 PM
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HeyImAlex posted...
She's assaulted my mom a few times in the past couple months and isn't allowed at the house, but that's where she always ends up cause she has nowhere to go and doesn't want to stay in a hospital.


Probably best for her to stay at the mental heath hospital. She's clearly in need of help and unfortunately that's the only option.
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HeyImAlex
02/11/18 3:10:10 PM
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RCtheWSBC posted...
What is her diagnosis?

They diagnosed her with SMI, severe mental illness. The thing that really kicked this off 5 or so years ago were the voices she was hearing. They were giving her suicidal thoughts. Telling her people were out to kill her. Even family and stuff.

But in the end the basically said, we're not exactly sure what it is but you're definitely crazy. So SMI.
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HeyImAlex
02/11/18 3:14:32 PM
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SusanGreenEyes posted...
Does she have a substance abuse problem?
As of now, no.
But when this started 5 years ago she was smoking A LOT of weed. And probably doing some other harder stuff, too. But she wouldn't tell us. That drug use definitely didn't help her situation.
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HeyImAlex
02/11/18 3:18:13 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Probably best for her to stay at the mental heath hospital. She's clearly in need of help and unfortunately that's the only option.

I agree 100%. She's under the impression that the staff makes fun of her and that they are nasty and rude to her. I've visited a few times and never got that impression. But she also believes that her exboyfriend is sleeping with our mom... My sister is very delusional. It's quite sad ):
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SusanGreenEyes
02/11/18 3:32:58 PM
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HeyImAlex posted...
SusanGreenEyes posted...
Does she have a substance abuse problem?
As of now, no.
But when this started 5 years ago she was smoking A LOT of weed. And probably doing some other harder stuff, too. But she wouldn't tell us. That drug use definitely didn't help her situation.

That really sucks.
I'm sorry your family is dealing with this.
Is there any medication that she can take?
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wwinterj25
02/11/18 3:34:09 PM
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HeyImAlex posted...
I agree 100%. She's under the impression that the staff makes fun of her and that they are nasty and rude to her.


My cousin is the same. She feels that nobody cares too. Mental health issues can do that. All you can really do is support her and keep reassuring her she's in the right place.
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FatalAccident
02/11/18 3:48:07 PM
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HeyImAlex posted...

They diagnosed her with SMI, severe mental illness. The thing that really kicked this off 5 or so years ago were the voices she was hearing. They were giving her suicidal thoughts. Telling her people were out to kill her. Even family and stuff.

But in the end the basically said, we're not exactly sure what it is but you're definitely crazy. So SMI.

I'm no doctor and I wish your sis the best and everything but that just sounds like a lazy ass diagnosis

severe mental illness? really lol
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HeyImAlex
02/11/18 3:56:36 PM
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SusanGreenEyes posted...
That really sucks.
I'm sorry your family is dealing with this.
Is there any medication that she can take?

Thanks. Yeah, and when she gets the right mixture of medication she does decently well. But then she gets to a point where she feels like she doesn't need to take it anymore... And no one can FORCE her to take it.

wwinterj25 posted...
My cousin is the same. She feels that nobody cares too. Mental health issues can do that. All you can really do is support her and keep reassuring her she's in the right place.
It's tough cause she doesn't have a phone and I live on the other side of the country. But I'm going to visit them all next month. Hopefully I'll get to see her.

FatalAccident posted...
I'm no doctor and I wish your sis the best and everything but that just sounds like a lazy ass diagnosis

severe mental illness? really lol

It does feel pretty lame. And that makes it hard to give her the right kind of medication, cause they don't really know what's wrong with her.
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SkynyrdRocker
02/11/18 4:03:43 PM
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HeyImAlex posted...
Thanks. Yeah, and when she gets the right mixture of medication she does decently well. But then she gets to a point where she feels like she doesn't need to take it anymore... And no one can FORCE her to take it.

Yeah that's what I figured. A lot of people with mental illness don't understand they can't just stop taking the meds.
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myghostisdead
02/11/18 4:05:39 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
myghostisdead posted...
Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help?

Sir, brothels are illegal.

I think you mean, ma'am... I think... correct me if I'm wrong, myghostisdead...


Yes it is and I meant live, sorry.
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Zeus
02/11/18 4:37:52 PM
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likehelly posted...
Kyuubi4269 posted...
myghostisdead posted...
Is there some kind of half way house she can love in while getting help?

Sir, brothels are illegal.

all jokes aside, brothels are legal in nevada.

and also germany


Plus places like Craigslist have offers where they accept sex in lieu of rent, which is presumably perfectly legal because no money or goods are actually changing hands.
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Lokarin
02/11/18 5:22:09 PM
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Sounds like she needs ... a different system. Perhaps sending her to Norway/etc and other more supportive and corrective systems would help more than keeping her rotating in the sludges of inefficient bureaucracy
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HeyImAlex
02/13/18 1:54:18 PM
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So my sister walked the streets for a couple days then ended up in a motel where somehow the police got involved. I don't know the specifics... But at that point she told the cops she wanted to go to the hospital and that's where she is right now. Hopefully she'll come out of this, get some decent medication, and stay on it. She'll end up in a resident assisted living house again, but hopefully having to quite literally live on the streets for a couple days was eye opening for her...
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