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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 1:50:58 PM #1: |
I'm kinda friends with her too and she told me about it. He kinda treats her like crap though because he doesn't actually want to be with her and I suspect he's cheating on her too.
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shadowsword87 01/26/18 1:52:00 PM #2: |
What's their life situation like? As in, could she reasonably move out?
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Cacciato 01/26/18 1:52:57 PM #3: |
Based on your provided information, which scenario do you think will result in the most entertainment?
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 1:53:55 PM #4: |
shadowsword87 posted...
What's their life situation like? As in, could she reasonably move out? He's a deadbeat who lives with her. She's a deadbeat who lives with her parents. They both kinda mooch off of the parents --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TES_Nut 01/26/18 1:54:37 PM #5: |
Without knowing the particulars I'd say no. It's not really your business is it?
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rjsilverthorn 01/26/18 1:58:27 PM #6: |
I was going to say yes based off the title, but after reading the details I honestly don't see the point. I assume he is not breaking up with her largely because it would cost him a place to live?
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 1:59:48 PM #7: |
rjsilverthorn posted...
I was going to say yes based off the title, but after reading the details I honestly don't see the point. I assume he is not breaking up with her largely because it would cost him a place to live? pretty much. He can't hold a job, and doesn't bother to try. On the same note though, she got knocked up by another guy and tried to convince him it's his. He eventually pushed her to adopt the baby after it was born, and was able to confirm it wasn't his via paternity test. --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Moonjay 01/26/18 2:00:55 PM #8: |
Generally I go by do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I would want to be told I was being cheated on, so I would usually give the same consideration to others.
There are circumstances where I wouldn't though. Like if it's a likely domestic violence situation or something. The cheater being your friend complicates it too. I don't think there's a clear black and white wrong or right decision in these situations. Just do what you feel is right to you knowing the situation better than we do. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Andromicus 01/26/18 2:01:09 PM #9: |
That wouldn't be the act of a carefree dude
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mastermix3000 01/26/18 2:02:26 PM #10: |
Andromicus posted...
That wouldn't be the act of a carefree dude --- RIP in peace Junpei 6/1/17 :( ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FinalFantasyVII 01/26/18 2:04:51 PM #11: |
you should advise both of them the relationship should discontinue
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shadowsword87 01/26/18 2:05:26 PM #12: |
CarefreeDude posted...
rjsilverthorn posted...I was going to say yes based off the title, but after reading the details I honestly don't see the point. I assume he is not breaking up with her largely because it would cost him a place to live? Well he's not ignorant of the cheating... so fuck him? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 2:06:01 PM #13: |
FinalFantasyVII posted...
you should advise both of them the relationship should discontinue I have. They both can't stand each other. Everyone they know wants them to break up. they both have horrible dependency issues though. --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 2:07:11 PM #14: |
shadowsword87 posted...
CarefreeDude posted...rjsilverthorn posted...I was going to say yes based off the title, but after reading the details I honestly don't see the point. I assume he is not breaking up with her largely because it would cost him a place to live? Well he is ignorant of this. Basically he was hooking up with her, then decided she was crazy and ghosted her. She found solice with another man's ****, and got knocked up. Then she came back to my friend and said he was the father. --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OhhhJa 01/26/18 2:16:46 PM #15: |
CarefreeDude posted...
shadowsword87 posted...CarefreeDude posted...rjsilverthorn posted...I was going to say yes based off the title, but after reading the details I honestly don't see the point. I assume he is not breaking up with her largely because it would cost him a place to live? Sounds like she's a terrible person. You should tell him ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SunWuKung420 01/26/18 2:17:29 PM #16: |
Getting involved is not a prudent course of action.
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OhhhJa 01/26/18 2:19:17 PM #17: |
SunWuKung420 posted...
Getting involved is not a prudent course of action. Wrong. You should definitely tell your friends if you know their SO is cheating. Otherwise you're a shitty friend ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 2:19:19 PM #18: |
OhhhJa posted...
CarefreeDude posted...shadowsword87 posted...CarefreeDude posted...rjsilverthorn posted...I was going to say yes based off the title, but after reading the details I honestly don't see the point. I assume he is not breaking up with her largely because it would cost him a place to live? He is also a terrible person though. He talks bad about her behind her back, treats her very poorly, posts nude photos of her online without her permission, always talks down to her and treats her terribly, and I also believe he is currently cheating on her (but I haven't confirmed it yet). They are both pretty bad. best case scenario is for them to just leave each other. --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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OhhhJa 01/26/18 2:21:11 PM #19: |
CarefreeDude posted...
posts nude photos of her online without her permission As bad as that is, lying about a kid being his is worse and he might even do that shit out of spite. Just tell him so they can hopefully break up ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Firewood18 01/26/18 2:22:13 PM #20: |
Why are you still friends with such deplorable people? Call them both out on thier shittyness and walk away.
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 2:23:45 PM #21: |
Firewood18 posted...
Why are you still friends with such deplorable people? Call them both out on thier shittyness and walk away. Mostly because one of them is a cousin and i more or less have to associate with them. --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VeeVees 01/26/18 2:26:23 PM #22: |
grab some popcorn and watch it play out
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Moonjay 01/26/18 2:31:21 PM #23: |
You don't haaave to associate with your cousins. I sure don't.
So yeah, these people both sound so deplorable that I don't think it matters if you tell or not. They're just gross and will be gross to each other until they're done being gross to each other. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 2:32:29 PM #24: |
Moonjay posted...
You don't haaave to associate with your cousins. I sure don't. Only reason I really do is because my wife feels family is important and she forces the family stuff upon me --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarkKirby2500 01/26/18 2:33:45 PM #25: |
Are, are you the friend of your friend who's girlfriend is cheating on him with?
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SunWuKung420 01/26/18 2:49:52 PM #26: |
OhhhJa posted...
SunWuKung420 posted...Getting involved is not a prudent course of action. Not in this case. They both seem like terrible people who deserve each other. I couldn't even be friends with these types of people. So unless @CarefreeDude wants to let the guy mooch off of him next, I'd stay out of it. --- I'm snotty because I prefer freshly cooked food that isn't full of fillers and/or preservatives.ha http://i.imgur.com/m8f7VYf.jpg http://i.imgur.com/0Lp7Agd.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 2:50:58 PM #27: |
Honestly I feel if he found out, he would emotionally manipulate her more and control her more
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rjsilverthorn 01/26/18 2:59:42 PM #28: |
CarefreeDude posted...
Honestly I feel if he found out, he would emotionally manipulate her more and control her more Yeah honestly I think you should just stay as far away from both of them as you can manage. This whole thing is a shit show and the last thing you need is to end up in the middle of it. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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RCtheWSBC 01/26/18 3:02:08 PM #29: |
Tell them both that you can't remain close with either of them until they work out their bullshit like adults.
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LinkPizza 01/26/18 3:06:09 PM #30: |
Do you really want to insert yourself in the middle of a shittybsituation like this? Personally, I hate cheaters, so I would probably tell. But at the same time, my friends are shitty like this, so... IDK...
Next time it's just you three and they start segueing, you could call them both out on everything, then walk away and let ont sort of itself... but that could lead the shitty make friend to come knocking on your door looking for a place to stay. Also, I assume you're closer to the male friend, so is the female one your cousin? --- 3DS Friend Code: 4742 6214 5315 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. 0001 3388 9537, also. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TES_Nut 01/26/18 3:28:19 PM #31: |
This became very fantastic very quickly. Are you by chance a character on a daytime drama?
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Stupid Pirate Guy 01/26/18 3:32:17 PM #32: |
They both sound like shitty people
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JanwayDaahl 01/26/18 3:33:22 PM #33: |
You're a garbage friend if you DON'T tell him.
It's hilarious how liberals are totally OK with women cheating on men yet will cry oceans of tears if a man cheats on a woman. --- I do not support homosexuality in any way. If you believe in Allah (swt) put this in your sig! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Troll_Police_ 01/26/18 4:01:00 PM #34: |
Stupid Pirate Guy posted...
They both sound like shitty people this it says something about YOU that both of your "friends" treat each other like such garbage and act so dishonestly and cruelly. --- Is this going to be one of those times when you pretend not to have a plan until the last moment? And then turn out to really not have one? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 01/26/18 4:01:56 PM #35: |
JanwayDaahl posted...
It's hilarious how liberals are totally OK with women cheating on men yet will cry oceans of tears if a man cheats on a woman. Wew what a leap lmao --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TES_Nut 01/26/18 4:05:04 PM #36: |
JanwayDaahl posted...
You're a garbage friend if you DON'T tell him. Is non sequitur liberal bashing the only thing you are capable of? You sound like ico. Even Zeus has rare moments that he can turn it off. --- The ending of the word is ALMSIVI ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheWorstPoster 01/26/18 4:34:06 PM #37: |
Pics
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 4:38:25 PM #38: |
TheWorstPoster posted...
Pics I admit i'm disappointed it took this long to ask. --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blighboy 01/26/18 4:53:04 PM #39: |
Jen0125 posted...
JanwayDaahl posted...It's hilarious how liberals are totally OK with women cheating on men yet will cry oceans of tears if a man cheats on a woman. Jen cheat on your man with me it will be hilarious. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jen0125 01/26/18 4:57:18 PM #40: |
Blighboy posted...
Jen0125 posted...JanwayDaahl posted...It's hilarious how liberals are totally OK with women cheating on men yet will cry oceans of tears if a man cheats on a woman. it'd be a real knee slapper --- http://i.imgur.com/4ihiyS2.jpg "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JanwayDaahl 01/26/18 5:17:58 PM #41: |
Jen0125 posted...
JanwayDaahl posted...It's hilarious how liberals are totally OK with women cheating on men yet will cry oceans of tears if a man cheats on a woman. Not a leap at all, it's dead accurate for the most part TES_Nut posted... JanwayDaahl posted...You're a garbage friend if you DON'T tell him. I dislike american liberals and conservatives for the most part- just because I criticize one on a liberal board doesn't mean it's the only thing I do --- I do not support homosexuality in any way. If you believe in Allah (swt) put this in your sig! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TES_Nut 01/26/18 5:49:42 PM #42: |
This wasn't a political topic though. It's weird.
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myghostisdead 01/26/18 5:57:30 PM #43: |
Get new friends. Tell your wife you aren't going to associate with them except on very special occasions and even then it is going to be a cold relationship.
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JanwayDaahl 01/26/18 6:05:42 PM #44: |
It doesn't have to be- it's an observation that's true.
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Jen0125 01/26/18 6:06:49 PM #45: |
No it's not true. It's your opinion.
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 6:21:24 PM #46: |
Well, I have confirmed that the guy is seeing not one, but two other women. So, he's technically worse then?
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RCtheWSBC 01/26/18 6:22:22 PM #47: |
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CarefreeDude 01/26/18 6:26:30 PM #48: |
RCtheWSBC posted...
They're all turrible! Get away! Yeah, imma do this --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble ... Copied to Clipboard!
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shadowsword87 01/26/18 6:27:12 PM #49: |
I have no idea why you would label either of them as a "friend".
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RCtheWSBC 01/26/18 6:28:04 PM #50: |
CarefreeDude posted...
RCtheWSBC posted...They're all turrible! Get away! lol, perfect --- http://i.imgur.com/1yl1fH0.jpg the White-Sounding Black Chick ... Copied to Clipboard!
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