Current Events > I went on a date with Aziz Ansari. It turned into the worst night of my life

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ssj3vegeta2 01/14/18 9:42:00 AM #105:	So she didn't go to his apartment to fuck? Wtf was she dere for den lmao --- http://i.imgur.com/8YZ4i.jpg http://i.imgur.com/205g6FR.gifv http://h-7.abload.de/img/messi02-rm-ucl3ngb.gif http://i.imgur.com/IBJCH6O.jpg <cite>ssj3vegeta2 posted [p:894025461] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>So she didn't go to his apartment to fuck? Wtf was she dere for den lmao</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 01/14/18 9:42:29 AM #106:	But she mumbled something! If mumbling isn't a clear cut sign that she is saying "no" than idk what is. --- PSN: Jiek <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:894025486] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>But she mumbled something! If mumbling isn't a clear cut sign that she is saying "no" than idk what is.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
littlebro07 01/14/18 9:42:31 AM #107:	I'm just surprised that Aziz Ansari lives in an apartment --- http://i211.photobucket.com/albums/bb289/volcaitlin/gifs/dancning.gif <cite>littlebro07 posted [p:894025488] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>I'm just surprised that Aziz Ansari lives in an apartment</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vyrulisse 01/14/18 9:45:37 AM #108:	littlebro07 posted... I'm just surprised that Aziz Ansari lives in an apartment To be fair his "apartment" is probably as big as our houses --- http://i.imgur.com/6VeX04D.jpg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cW_V1kG6mRc <cite>Vyrulisse posted [p:894025578] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>littlebro07 posted...</cite> <quote>I'm just surprised that Aziz Ansari lives in an apartment</quote> To be fair his "apartment" is probably as big as our houses</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DoctorVader 01/14/18 9:45:57 AM #109:	littlebro07 posted... I'm just surprised that Aziz Ansari lives in an apartment The apartments in Manhattan cost more than houses. --- It all just disappears, doesn't it? Everything you are, gone in a moment, like breath on a mirror. - The Doctor <cite>DoctorVader posted [p:894025594] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>littlebro07 posted...</cite> <quote>I'm just surprised that Aziz Ansari lives in an apartment</quote> The apartments in Manhattan cost more than houses.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
assassingriskel 01/14/18 9:48:42 AM #112:	The witch hunt continues this is just like the Salem witch trials who's next Pitt? Will Smith? Denzel? --- "Never trust a women"-Nobliss Gordon Mobile Suit Gundam Iron Blooded Orphans episode 17 <cite>assassingriskel posted [p:894025675] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>The witch hunt continues this is just like the Salem witch trials who's next Pitt? Will Smith? Denzel?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
50Blessings 01/14/18 9:49:06 AM #113:	Sean Penn --- America is a tune. It must be sung together. --50 Blessings https://i.imgur.com/xKI9rbb.jpg <cite>50Blessings posted [p:894025682] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>Sean Penn</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
St0rmFury 01/14/18 9:56:21 AM #114:	ssj3vegeta2 posted... So she didn't go to his apartment to fuck? Wtf was she dere for den lmao Netflix of course. --- "Average Joe" is a trolling term since it's completely an opinion. "Overachieving" is also an opinion. - SBAllen (Hellhole: 52458377) <cite>St0rmFury posted [p:894025901] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>ssj3vegeta2 posted...</cite> <quote>So she didn't go to his apartment to fuck? Wtf was she dere for den lmao</quote> Netflix of course.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Patchwork 01/14/18 9:57:14 AM #115:	Aziz, from this recollection, was a complete scumbag during this entire encounter. However, "Grace" does have a duty to protect herself, as well; she should've extricated herself from that situation sooner. It is strange to me that, even after the initial forcefulness and the exchange of oral that left her feeling violated, she still longed for them to sit, relax, and for him to "play with her hair." No man should treat a woman this way, but she is an adult. At some point, you need to start protecting yourself in these encounters. --- The mind is its own place, and in itself Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n. <cite>Patchwork posted [p:894025934] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>Aziz, from this recollection, was a complete scumbag during this entire encounter. However, "Grace" does have a duty to protect herself, as well; she should've extricated herself from that situation sooner. It is strange to me that, even after the initial forcefulness and the exchange of oral that left her feeling violated, she still longed for them to sit, relax, and for him to "play with her hair." No man should treat a woman this way, but she is an adult. At some point, you need to start protecting yourself in these encounters.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LockeMonster 01/14/18 9:57:29 AM #116:	St0rmFury posted... ssj3vegeta2 posted... So she didn't go to his apartment to fuck? Wtf was she dere for den lmao Netflix of course. Netflix and leave. --- "Scranton is great, but New York is like Scranton on acid. No, on speed. Nah. On steroids." FC: 3282-3258-0224 <cite>LockeMonster posted [p:894025940] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>St0rmFury posted...</cite> <quote><cite>ssj3vegeta2 posted...</cite> <quote>So she didn't go to his apartment to fuck? Wtf was she dere for den lmao</quote> Netflix of course.</quote> Netflix and leave.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
assassingriskel 01/14/18 9:58:04 AM #117:	Patchwork posted... Aziz, from this recollection, was a complete scumbag during this entire encounter. However, "Grace" does have a duty to protect herself, as well; she should've extricated herself from that situation sooner. It is strange to me that, even after the initial forcefulness and the exchange of oral that left her feeling violated, she still longed for them to sit, relax, and for him to "play with her hair." No man should treat a woman this way, but she is an adult. At some point, you need to start protecting yourself in these encounters. Yes women need special treatment despite wanting equality right? Femanist logic --- "Never trust a women"-Nobliss Gordon Mobile Suit Gundam Iron Blooded Orphans episode 17 <cite>assassingriskel posted [p:894025956] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Patchwork posted...</cite> <quote>Aziz, from this recollection, was a complete scumbag during this entire encounter. However, "Grace" does have a duty to protect herself, as well; she should've extricated herself from that situation sooner. It is strange to me that, even after the initial forcefulness and the exchange of oral that left her feeling violated, she still longed for them to sit, relax, and for him to "play with her hair." No man should treat a woman this way, but she is an adult. At some point, you need to start protecting yourself in these encounters.</quote> Yes women need special treatment despite wanting equality right? Femanist logic</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 01/14/18 10:12:46 AM #118:	Funkydog posted... Lorenzo_2003 posted... Coercion is absolutely a thing. On the other hand, we are talking about Aziz Ansari. Let me repeat that: Aziz Ansari. Remember Bill Cosby. Beloved actor and well known amazingly good guy. Turns out he may have date raped loads of women. Remember Rolf Harris, beloved childs actor? Turns out he was a paedophile and then wrote songs in jail taunting his victims. Simply because someone seems benign or good, doesn't mean they aren't capable of doing bad things or can intimidate someone into acting as they wish (even unintentionally, with power positions etc) Nah, friend, I dont think you can compare Aziz Ansari with Bill Cosby. Cosby is a much bigger dude and hes from Philly. He played football and basically every other sport in school, then he joined the military. He presented himself as a lovable comedian, but if a woman said she felt intimidated by his presence, I would definitely believe it. Lol, Ansari is a good representation of beta soy boys. My sister-in-law could bitch slap him into unconsciousness. All of this also disregards the difference in how these guys achieved sex. Cosby used drugs to knock women out. Ansari? He asked (Told?) this woman to blow him. And she did... twice! I dont know about this Rolf Harris person, so Ill have to look him up. --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:894026428] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote>Coercion is absolutely a thing. On the other hand, we are talking about Aziz Ansari. Let me repeat that: Aziz Ansari.</quote> Remember Bill Cosby. Beloved actor and well known amazingly good guy. Turns out he may have date raped loads of women. Remember Rolf Harris, beloved childs actor? Turns out he was a paedophile and then wrote songs in jail taunting his victims. Simply because someone seems benign or good, doesn't mean they aren't capable of doing bad things or can intimidate someone into acting as they wish (even unintentionally, with power positions etc)</quote> Nah, friend, I dont think you can compare Aziz Ansari with Bill Cosby. Cosby is a much bigger dude and hes from Philly. He played football and basically every other sport in school, then he joined the military. He presented himself as a lovable comedian, but if a woman said she felt intimidated by his presence, I would definitely believe it. Lol, Ansari is a good representation of beta soy boys. My sister-in-law could bitch slap him into unconsciousness. All of this also disregards the difference in how these guys achieved sex. Cosby used drugs to knock women out. Ansari? He asked (Told?) this woman to blow him. And she did... twice! I dont know about this Rolf Harris person, so Ill have to look him up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 01/14/18 10:14:18 AM #119:	This was 100% written knowing it would be sent to the media and would get #metoo attention. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:894026487] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote> This was 100% written knowing it would be sent to the media and would get #metoo attention.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 01/14/18 10:15:51 AM #120:	Mal_Fet posted... hortanz posted... Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling. Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order... Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:894026563] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mal_Fet posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hortanz posted...</cite> <quote>Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling.</quote> Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order...</quote> Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 01/14/18 10:17:46 AM #121:	LittleRoyal posted... Mal_Fet posted... Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order... Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:894026629] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mal_Fet posted...</cite> <quote>Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order...</quote> Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Funkydog 01/14/18 10:18:43 AM #122:	Lorenzo_2003 posted... Funkydog posted... Lorenzo_2003 posted... Coercion is absolutely a thing. On the other hand, we are talking about Aziz Ansari. Let me repeat that: Aziz Ansari. Remember Bill Cosby. Beloved actor and well known amazingly good guy. Turns out he may have date raped loads of women. Remember Rolf Harris, beloved childs actor? Turns out he was a paedophile and then wrote songs in jail taunting his victims. Simply because someone seems benign or good, doesn't mean they aren't capable of doing bad things or can intimidate someone into acting as they wish (even unintentionally, with power positions etc) Nah, friend, I dont think you can compare Aziz Ansari with Bill Cosby. Cosby is a much bigger dude and hes from Philly. He played football and basically every other sport in school, then he joined the military. He presented himself as a lovable comedian, but if a woman said she felt intimidated by his presence, I would definitely believe it. Lol, Ansari is a good representation of beta soy boys. My sister-in-law could bitch slap him into unconsciousness. All of this also disregards the difference in how these guys achieved sex. Cosby used drugs to knock women out. Ansari? He asked (Told?) this woman to blow him. And she did... twice! I dont know about this Rolf Harris person, so Ill have to look him up. British (australian) children's TV show host with the BBC. Involved in the child sex scandal they had. And my point was more that just because someone seems something, doesn't mean they actually are. Perhaps he was purposely intimidating, or the woman was simply too afraid to voice her issues properly. Just because one woman could, doesn't mean all are equally as capable. Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question. --- http://i.imgur.com/BGbZK.gif <cite>Funkydog posted [p:894026668] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote>Coercion is absolutely a thing. On the other hand, we are talking about Aziz Ansari. Let me repeat that: Aziz Ansari.</quote> Remember Bill Cosby. Beloved actor and well known amazingly good guy. Turns out he may have date raped loads of women. Remember Rolf Harris, beloved childs actor? Turns out he was a paedophile and then wrote songs in jail taunting his victims. Simply because someone seems benign or good, doesn't mean they aren't capable of doing bad things or can intimidate someone into acting as they wish (even unintentionally, with power positions etc)</quote> Nah, friend, I dont think you can compare Aziz Ansari with Bill Cosby. Cosby is a much bigger dude and hes from Philly. He played football and basically every other sport in school, then he joined the military. He presented himself as a lovable comedian, but if a woman said she felt intimidated by his presence, I would definitely believe it. Lol, Ansari is a good representation of beta soy boys. My sister-in-law could bitch slap him into unconsciousness. All of this also disregards the difference in how these guys achieved sex. Cosby used drugs to knock women out. Ansari? He asked (Told?) this woman to blow him. And she did... twice! I dont know about this Rolf Harris person, so Ill have to look him up.</quote> British (australian) children's TV show host with the BBC. Involved in the child sex scandal they had. And my point was more that just because someone seems something, doesn't mean they actually are. Perhaps he was purposely intimidating, or the woman was simply too afraid to voice her issues properly. Just because one woman could, doesn't mean all are equally as capable. Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vyrulisse 01/14/18 10:19:43 AM #123:	The Admiral posted... This was 100% written knowing it would be sent to the media and would get #metoo attention. Honestly looks like a PR prepared statement. Who talks like that via text? Especially if you're upset and feel like you were taken advantage of. --- http://i.imgur.com/6VeX04D.jpg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cW_V1kG6mRc <cite>Vyrulisse posted [p:894026703] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote> This was 100% written knowing it would be sent to the media and would get #metoo attention.</quote> Honestly looks like a PR prepared statement. Who talks like that via text? Especially if you're upset and feel like you were taken advantage of.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Admiral 01/14/18 10:19:50 AM #124:	Funkydog posted... Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question. Aziz is a 5'5 manlet who weighs less than the the majority of women in the U.S. It is impossible for him to be physically intimidating. --- - The Admiral <cite>The Admiral posted [p:894026709] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote>Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question.</quote> Aziz is a 5'5 manlet who weighs less than the the majority of women in the U.S. It is impossible for him to be physically intimidating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ReignFury 01/14/18 10:21:40 AM #125:	LittleRoyal posted... Mal_Fet posted... hortanz posted... Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling. Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order... Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man So how do you talk to a "violent man"? --- Not all women deserve chivalry http://i.giftrunk.com/rv4b2c.gif <cite>ReignFury posted [p:894026793] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mal_Fet posted...</cite> <quote><cite>hortanz posted...</cite> <quote>Most of my discomfort was expressed in me pulling away and mumbling.</quote> Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order...</quote> Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man</quote> So how do you talk to a "violent man"?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Funkydog 01/14/18 10:21:45 AM #126:	The Admiral posted... Funkydog posted... Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question. Aziz is a 5'5 manlet who weighs less than the the majority of women in the U.S. It is impossible for him to be physically intimidating. For most of us? Sure. But intimidation isn't just about physical size. This is the same bullcrap people spout when men talk about being sexually assaulted/raped. Just because you can't fathom X doing something, doesn't mean it is impossible. Any number of factors could have led to the woman being scared. --- http://i.imgur.com/BGbZK.gif <cite>Funkydog posted [p:894026794] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote>Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question.</quote> Aziz is a 5'5 manlet who weighs less than the the majority of women in the U.S. It is impossible for him to be physically intimidating.</quote> For most of us? Sure. But intimidation isn't just about physical size. This is the same bullcrap people spout when men talk about being sexually assaulted/raped. Just because you can't fathom X doing something, doesn't mean it is impossible. Any number of factors could have led to the woman being scared.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Akagami_Shanks 01/14/18 10:23:15 AM #127:	Yeah that's definitely a prepared statement. Especially how this happened literally 4 months ago and just now comes out about it when he received an award. --- http://i.imgur.com/MFTpPuq.jpg <cite>Akagami_Shanks posted [p:894026855] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>Yeah that's definitely a prepared statement. Especially how this happened literally 4 months ago and just now comes out about it when he received an award.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dat_Cracka_Jax 01/14/18 10:24:11 AM #128:	I hope more stories like this continue to come out so this whole "movement" can finally go away --- http://img826.imageshack.us/img826/8131/flame201010170949481638.jpg http://img705.imageshack.us/img705/5517/cateyes.gif Rams: 7-9 <cite>Dat_Cracka_Jax posted [p:894026895] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>I hope more stories like this continue to come out so this whole "movement" can finally go away</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Jagr_68 01/14/18 10:28:15 AM #130:	With so many loose ends in her story and decision-making at the time that happened, it all just sounds like bullshit. She probably had high expectations when they went to his apartment (why the fuck else would anyone end a date at someone's home if not for a makeout session or more?!), it didn't turn out the way she wanted because he went all 12 year old perv on her, she confronted him via text later, he apologized, the end. She's a friggin adult woman with the power to say no and leave and he's just pipsqueak Aziz Ansari. Sorry, but she's painting herself only as a dumb person who had an uncomfortable albeit consentual sex encounter motivated to bash Ansari's cred, not a genuine victim. --- New York Rangers [2004-2008] http://i.imgur.com/BLrKxEd.jpg http://timtim.crevado.com/ <cite>Jagr_68 posted [p:894027071] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>With so many loose ends in her story and decision-making at the time that happened, it all just sounds like bullshit. She probably had high expectations when they went to his apartment (why the fuck else would anyone end a date at someone's home if not for a makeout session or more?!), it didn't turn out the way she wanted because he went all 12 year old perv on her, she confronted him via text later, he apologized, the end. She's a friggin adult woman with the power to say no and leave and he's just pipsqueak Aziz Ansari. Sorry, but she's painting herself only as a dumb person who had an uncomfortable albeit consentual sex encounter motivated to bash Ansari's cred, not a genuine victim.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Looked gf 01/14/18 10:29:06 AM #131:	xOmniCloudx posted... Girls like this are the worst. Vyrulisse posted... She wasn't interested but she let him undress her right off the bat... OK. Then she blew him twice...OK. Then she had him give her oral...OK. #metoo --- https://giant.gfycat.com/ShowyWarmheartedCuscus.gif <cite>Looked gf posted [p:894027099] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>xOmniCloudx posted...</cite> <quote>Girls like this are the worst.</quote> <cite>Vyrulisse posted...</cite> <quote>She wasn't interested but she let him undress her right off the bat... OK. Then she blew him twice...OK. Then she had him give her oral...OK. #metoo</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrPeppers 01/14/18 10:38:06 AM #132:	AlecSkorpio posted... This whole thing is really sad. Like, on one hand, why couldn't she just leave? I always hear these stories where they say they "wouldn't let them" but it always sounds more like they were just too timid to stand up for themselves. You had no intention of fucking him, it sounds like you had an awful time at dinner, why would you go up to his apartment? Just tell him you can't and fucking go home? But on the other hand, why the fuck would you want to fuck someone who was clearly that uncomfortable? What the fuck happened to people to make them so fucking pathetic? Sexual encounter aside, I'm sure he felt that the date was going well. A horrible date is not always a mutual experience. --- http://i.imgur.com/SGkkbF0.png <cite>MrPeppers posted [p:894027465] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>AlecSkorpio posted...</cite> <quote>This whole thing is really sad. Like, on one hand, why couldn't she just leave? I always hear these stories where they say they "wouldn't let them" but it always sounds more like they were just too timid to stand up for themselves. You had no intention of fucking him, it sounds like you had an awful time at dinner, why would you go up to his apartment? Just tell him you can't and fucking go home? But on the other hand, why the fuck would you want to fuck someone who was clearly that uncomfortable? What the fuck happened to people to make them so fucking pathetic?</quote> Sexual encounter aside, I'm sure he felt that the date was going well. A horrible date is not always a mutual experience.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClutchMcBeast 01/14/18 10:40:25 AM #134:	i kinda get why rich people pay for sex --- I just needed a sig <cite>ClutchMcBeast posted [p:894027556] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>i kinda get why rich people pay for sex</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrPeppers 01/14/18 10:46:07 AM #135:	My greatest frustration with this is something I experienced on a routine (non-sexual) basis with my ex. She could never muster up the courage to say "no" outright whenever I wanted to do something or we were making a decision. She would "drop hints" as to what she wanted or didn't want and expect me to be a fucking mind reader. All the while a simple "no" or "I don't want to do that" would have saved a lot of headache. This is something that women do way more frequently than men. Not all women do this, but it's so incredibly frustrating when it comes up 2 months after the fact in an argument and you had no idea it was an issue, because she never said it was. --- http://i.imgur.com/SGkkbF0.png <cite>MrPeppers posted [p:894027772] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>My greatest frustration with this is something I experienced on a routine (non-sexual) basis with my ex. She could never muster up the courage to say "no" outright whenever I wanted to do something or we were making a decision. She would "drop hints" as to what she wanted or didn't want and expect me to be a fucking mind reader. All the while a simple "no" or "I don't want to do that" would have saved a lot of headache. This is something that women do way more frequently than men. Not all women do this, but it's so incredibly frustrating when it comes up 2 months after the fact in an argument and you had no idea it was an issue, because she never said it was.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 01/14/18 10:58:49 AM #136:	Lorenzo_2003 posted... LittleRoyal posted... Mal_Fet posted... Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order... Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man Any guy who is grabbing and groping at you while you pull away and say no and etc, thats violent. Its happened to me too and its a very scary situation but you cant just scream at them --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:894028260] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mal_Fet posted...</cite> <quote>Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order...</quote> Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man</quote></quote> Any guy who is grabbing and groping at you while you pull away and say no and etc, thats violent. Its happened to me too and its a very scary situation but you cant just scream at them</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 01/14/18 11:03:31 AM #137:	Funkydog posted... dave_is_slick posted... Funkydog posted... People seem surprisingly unaware of coercion or someone being too scared to say no. Not surprising for CE though. So what about this sounds like coercion to you? The ignoring repeated cues, forcing her hands to his genitals. Being a famous person compared to her could make it hard for someone to forcefully say no out of fear of someone you admire shunning you, etc. What about getting naked and sucking dick...twice --- Waaaah. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:894028455] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote>People seem surprisingly unaware of coercion or someone being too scared to say no. Not surprising for CE though.</quote> So what about this sounds like coercion to you?</quote> The ignoring repeated cues, forcing her hands to his genitals. Being a famous person compared to her could make it hard for someone to forcefully say no out of fear of someone you admire shunning you, etc.</quote> What about getting naked and sucking dick...twice</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 01/14/18 11:05:54 AM #138:	@D-Lo_BrownTown posted... And people wonder why I'm super SUPER sketchy around women these days. Tagged as Aziz Ansari --- Waaaah. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:894028539] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>@D-Lo_BrownTown posted...</cite> <quote>And people wonder why I'm super SUPER sketchy around women these days.</quote> Tagged as Aziz Ansari</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Patchwork 01/14/18 11:08:42 AM #140:	LittleRoyal posted... Lorenzo_2003 posted... LittleRoyal posted... Mal_Fet posted... Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order... Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man Any guy who is grabbing and groping at you while you pull away and say no and etc, thats violent. Its happened to me too and its a very scary situation but you cant just scream at them It's not violent. It's wrong, and forceful, but it isn't violent. --- The mind is its own place, and in itself Can make a heav'n of hell, a hell of heav'n. <cite>Patchwork posted [p:894028656] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Mal_Fet posted...</cite> <quote>Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order...</quote> Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man</quote></quote> Any guy who is grabbing and groping at you while you pull away and say no and etc, thats violent. Its happened to me too and its a very scary situation but you cant just scream at them</quote> It's not violent. It's wrong, and forceful, but it isn't violent.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 01/14/18 11:11:10 AM #141:	leverageblargh posted... Apparently, certain CEmen ITT need a woman to not only say no but walk out of the place as well, otherwise they feel they're justified in taking it as far as they please. Being told no twice is not enough for them to take a hint. Being told that the other party's feeling forced is not enough either. Heavens no, listening to that would mean they're beta males. She blew him twice. Got naked She let him eat her muff --- Waaaah. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:894028763] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>leverageblargh posted...</cite> <quote>Apparently, certain CEmen ITT need a woman to not only say no but walk out of the place as well, otherwise they feel they're justified in taking it as far as they please. Being told no twice is not enough for them to take a hint. Being told that the other party's feeling forced is not enough either. Heavens no, listening to that would mean they're beta males.</quote> She blew him twice. Got naked She let him eat her muff</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrPeppers 01/14/18 11:11:27 AM #142:	leverageblargh posted... Apparently, certain CEmen ITT need a woman to not only say no but walk out of the place as well, otherwise they feel they're justified in taking it as far as they please. Being told no twice is not enough for them to take a hint. Being told that the other party's feeling forced is not enough either. Heavens no, listening to that would mean they're beta males. I wasn't there so I can't say one way or the other, but her rather sheepish recount of everything that transpired leads me to believe that she did not, in fact, outright say no and probably danced around the issue out of fear. Communication is important. A failure in communication requires 2 parties. --- http://i.imgur.com/SGkkbF0.png <cite>MrPeppers posted [p:894028776] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>leverageblargh posted...</cite> <quote>Apparently, certain CEmen ITT need a woman to not only say no but walk out of the place as well, otherwise they feel they're justified in taking it as far as they please. Being told no twice is not enough for them to take a hint. Being told that the other party's feeling forced is not enough either. Heavens no, listening to that would mean they're beta males.</quote> I wasn't there so I can't say one way or the other, but her rather sheepish recount of everything that transpired leads me to believe that she did not, in fact, outright say no and probably danced around the issue out of fear. Communication is important. A failure in communication requires 2 parties.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ClutchMcBeast 01/14/18 11:11:30 AM #143:	leverageblargh posted... Apparently, certain CEmen ITT need a woman to not only say no but walk out of the place as well, otherwise they feel they're justified in taking it as far as they please. Being told no twice is not enough for them to take a hint. Being told that the other party's feeling forced is not enough either. Heavens no, listening to that would mean they're beta males. Her: "Slow down" Blowjob make out Her: "Not tonight" Blowjob make out Her: "OK I'm leaving" Him: "OK I'll get you a car" --- I just needed a sig <cite>ClutchMcBeast posted [p:894028781] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>leverageblargh posted...</cite> <quote>Apparently, certain CEmen ITT need a woman to not only say no but walk out of the place as well, otherwise they feel they're justified in taking it as far as they please. Being told no twice is not enough for them to take a hint. Being told that the other party's feeling forced is not enough either. Heavens no, listening to that would mean they're beta males.</quote> Her: "Slow down" Blowjob make out Her: "Not tonight" Blowjob make out Her: "OK I'm leaving" Him: "OK I'll get you a car"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gamer99z 01/14/18 11:12:37 AM #144:	The Admiral posted... Funkydog posted... Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question. Aziz is a 5'5 manlet who weighs less than the the majority of women in the U.S. It is impossible for him to be physically intimidating. You realize there's potentially more to intimidation than raw physical size right? Not making any comment about this specific instance but it's dumb if you think intimidation can't exist without being notably physically superior. --- "You need to lay off the peanut-butthurt and u-jelly sandwiches" - NeonOctopus <cite>Gamer99z posted [p:894028831] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>The Admiral posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Funkydog posted...</cite> <quote> Sure Ansari doesn't seem very intimidating, but when alone with him it could be very different for the lady in question.</quote> Aziz is a 5'5 manlet who weighs less than the the majority of women in the U.S. It is impossible for him to be physically intimidating.</quote> You realize there's potentially more to intimidation than raw physical size right? Not making any comment about this specific instance but it's dumb if you think intimidation can't exist without being notably physically superior.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Roxborough4Ever 01/14/18 11:13:54 AM #145:	imo somebody is being racist against him.....they just dont like him because he is brown --- You feast on red herring because it is your birthright. <cite>Roxborough4Ever posted [p:894028893] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>imo somebody is being racist against him.....they just dont like him because he is brown</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
xBloodBrotherx 01/14/18 11:15:28 AM #146:	LittleRoyal posted... Lorenzo_2003 posted... LittleRoyal posted... Mal_Fet posted... Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order... Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man Any guy who is grabbing and groping at you while you pull away and say no and etc, thats violent. Its happened to me too and its a very scary situation but you cant just scream at them Yes you literally can. I've done exactly that and it stopped the situation immediately. --- The above post is literally and objectively right. <cite>xBloodBrotherx posted [p:894028964] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote> <cite>Mal_Fet posted...</cite> <quote> Not to blame the victim here, but surely a "back off, asshole" was in order... </quote> Thats really not how we talk or can talk to a violent man </quote></quote> Any guy who is grabbing and groping at you while you pull away and say no and etc, thats violent. Its happened to me too and its a very scary situation but you cant just scream at them</quote> Yes you literally can. I've done exactly that and it stopped the situation immediately.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
justaguy3492 01/14/18 11:30:20 AM #147:	Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable? --- Gt: justaguy3492 <cite>justaguy3492 posted [p:894029658] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 01/14/18 11:30:56 AM #148:	justaguy3492 posted... Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable? Cause she was sucking his dick --- Waaaah. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:894029680] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>justaguy3492 posted...</cite> <quote>Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable?</quote> Cause she was sucking his dick</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 01/14/18 11:32:49 AM #149:	KingCrabCake posted... justaguy3492 posted... Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable? Cause she was sucking his dick Ayyy lmao. --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:894029763] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>KingCrabCake posted...</cite> <quote><cite>justaguy3492 posted...</cite> <quote>Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable?</quote> Cause she was sucking his dick</quote> Ayyy lmao.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Vengeance29 01/14/18 11:33:29 AM #150:	...lady can't walk out a door? <cite>Vengeance29 posted [p:894029796] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>...lady can't walk out a door?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ReignFury 01/14/18 11:44:10 AM #151:	KingCrabCake posted... justaguy3492 posted... Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable? Cause she was sucking his dick Maybe that was her way of saying no --- Not all women deserve chivalry http://i.giftrunk.com/rv4b2c.gif <cite>ReignFury posted [p:894030310] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>KingCrabCake posted...</cite> <quote><cite>justaguy3492 posted...</cite> <quote>Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable?</quote> Cause she was sucking his dick</quote> Maybe that was her way of saying no</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KingCrabCake 01/14/18 11:57:53 AM #152:	ReignFury posted... KingCrabCake posted... justaguy3492 posted... Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable? Cause she was sucking his dick Maybe that was her way of saying no Twice She said no twice tho --- Waaaah. <cite>KingCrabCake posted [p:894030906] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>ReignFury posted...</cite> <quote><cite>KingCrabCake posted...</cite> <quote><cite>justaguy3492 posted...</cite> <quote>Not saying what he allegedly did was right, but why didn't she leave if she felt uncomfortable?</quote> Cause she was sucking his dick</quote> Maybe that was her way of saying no</quote> Twice She said no twice tho</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Steve Nick 01/14/18 12:01:37 PM #154:	It's not really a secret or a surprise that a horny guy will try to get 100% of everything that a girl will voluntarily do. Which is what Aziz did here. Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked. Doesn't sound like any force was involved, and she could leave at anytime, evidenced by the fact that she did. --- This is my signature. <cite>Steve Nick posted [p:894031069] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>It's not really a secret or a surprise that a horny guy will try to get 100% of everything that a girl will voluntarily do. Which is what Aziz did here. Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked. Doesn't sound like any force was involved, and she could leave at anytime, evidenced by the fact that she did.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OmegaTomHank 01/14/18 12:04:45 PM #155:	I dont understand this story. It seems very incomplete. What happened after they both got undressed? <cite>OmegaTomHank posted [p:894031233] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote>I dont understand this story. It seems very incomplete. What happened after they both got undressed?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
COVxy 01/14/18 12:09:25 PM #156:	Steve Nick posted... Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked. Is this not some form of coercion? --- =E[(x-E[x])(y-E[y])] <cite>COVxy posted [p:894031461] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Steve Nick posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds like he basically just repeatedly badgered her with "Sex now? How about now? Now? How about this? This? Wanna do it over there? Here do this" and she did like half the things he asked.</quote> Is this not some form of coercion?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trigg3rH4ppy 01/14/18 12:12:44 PM #157:	Coolppl Owns posted... victim blaming everywhere why am I not surprised Nobody is blaming Aziz --- ~A little nonsense, now and then, is relished by the wisest men ~ TWSSted since~ 3/27/12 https://i.imgur.com/zlaENmx.png <cite>Trigg3rH4ppy posted [p:894031641] in I went on ... [t:76199551]...</cite> <quote><cite>Coolppl Owns posted...</cite> <quote>victim blaming everywhere why am I not surprised</quote> Nobody is blaming Aziz</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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