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Damn I used that phone number trick (never thought to do that) and found that girls Facebook

Her most recent pic on OkCupid is from three years ago and well lets just say she hasnt lost any weight since then

Ill still meet up with her because Ive got nothing to lose but at least now I know
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I feel like shes gonna break up with me soon for some reason.

Shes just acting differently.

I think moving in together was a bit too soon.

She was originally supposed to stay here for two months but afterwards she didnt want to move. Idk.
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gna647 posted...

I feel like shes gonna break up with me soon for some reason.

Shes just acting differently.

I think moving in together was a bit too soon.

She was originally supposed to stay here for two months but afterwards she didnt want to move. Idk.

Woah woah woah, you guys MOVED IN together? Thats way too soon, man. People need space. Moving in is not fun times, its advancing the relationship after youve reached a comfortable level with each other, like two years in
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Talking to two other cute girls rn. One is responding pretty much right away, but I never know how early is too early to ask to meet up when its more like a chat than sending long messages back and forth
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I take back everything bad I said about the new OkCupid format

Getting all kinds of responses now, it just takes a little longer because they have to like you back
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So heres a problem Im having right now that might upset some people

Too many people are responding to me. I have like 8 conversations going now. Usually I wouldnt but since theres no way to keep track of all the messages you send, I ended up sending out a whole bunch and now theyve been responding day by day
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TheGoldenEel posted...

So heres a problem Im having right now that might upset some people

Too many people are responding to me. I have like 8 conversations going now. Usually I wouldnt but since theres no way to keep track of all the messages you send, I ended up sending out a whole bunch and now theyve been responding day by day

My man, you're doing good. Take down all 8. I know you can

Blue_Popo posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

So heres a problem Im having right now that might upset some people

Too many people are responding to me. I have like 8 conversations going now. Usually I wouldnt but since theres no way to keep track of all the messages you send, I ended up sending out a whole bunch and now theyve been responding day by day

My man, you're doing good. Take down all 8. I know you can

I dont want to go overboard with dates ya know

Cute lawyer chick agreed to get drinks so thats cool
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So my friend/ex girl had offered to pick me up from the airport after my work trip next friday

well, i found out a couple days ago that they're sending me home early (tomorrow) so I had texted her about it. we ended up in a dumb argument over the phone, she said maybe we should cool it, i don't want to deal with this, hung up

just now (midnight, her time) got a text asking what time i get in tomorrow
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Her dog ate my pizzas. She didnt apologize. Im disappointed
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I feel like your best chance is to just hit up your downtown area bars and breweries with friends and talk to women there

I was single af and when I did that I had all kinds of girls talking to me. Even had some milfy looking woman grinding on me at a club lol
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Had 3 dates this week

Date 1 I already mentioned. Was from okcupid. Very nice, cute but way too quiet. In the time I was there I barely got anything out of her. She had said herself before she is very quiet.

Date 2 was from bumble and she was pretty hot. Also surprisingly a good talker. I think it was a fun date but at the end I felt I wasn't her type so I never really pursued after. You win some you lose some.

Date 3 was from coffee meets bagel. With her heels she is almost my height (and I am 6 feet). She was also really cute but slightly less cute than her pics. At first I was wondering if I would even get a chance to talk but after some time it became a nice back and forth conversation. Surprisingly 3 hours flew by. This morning I woke up and got a text from her saying she had fun and would like to do that again. I noticed I hit it off better with women of color. She's Persian.

I was supposed to have a date today but she unmatched me. Don't care too much, there is a blizzard outside

Girl I asked out suggested we go ice skating

So that should be interesting
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going on a date with a girl who is really cute, loves poetry like I do, very sweet, wants to kiss me and has cancer

life is weird
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That last part threw me for a loop
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"Hey, sorry I'm responding so late. I've been out with my family the whole day & plus I don't feel good , I think we might need to reschedule. I'll let you kbnow forsure in the a.m. if I feel better or not!"

Guys

Guys

Am I fucked
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Blue_Inigo posted...

"Hey, sorry I'm responding so late. I've been out with my family the whole day & plus I don't feel good , I think we might need to reschedule. I'll let you kbnow forsure in the a.m. if I feel better or not!"

Guys

Guys

Am I fucked

80% fucked

honestly wonder what kinda chads got to boink with halloween girl
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gna647 posted...

honestly wonder what kinda chads got to boink with halloween girl

Yes! Yes!

Update us on Halloween girl!!!
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Im meeting up with a girl tomorrow who says shes 22 but all my friends told me to check her ID...

Some people just look young idk
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Blue_Inigo posted...

"Hey, sorry I'm responding so late. I've been out with my family the whole day & plus I don't feel good , I think we might need to reschedule. I'll let you kbnow forsure in the a.m. if I feel better or not!"

Guys

Guys

Am I fucked

Could go either way, but I think it sounds sincere. Dont worry about it
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Got this girl a dumb card for Valentines day. Gonna see how this feels, but I think well be having a talk soon after to see if this is worth continuing. She seems like shed be everything I could ever want but I just cant get into it. Shes a curvier Denise Richards, I dunno whats wrong with me
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TheGoldenEel posted...

gna647 posted...

honestly wonder what kinda chads got to boink with halloween girl

Yes! Yes!

Update us on Halloween girl!!!

Idk tbh

Havent talked to her since like...June
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She has strep throat. Gonna reschedule. I was really hoping Id get laid today
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Oh shit it's tonsillitis now
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Her way of saying it is over

Just spent the morning giving my girl some chad D
how are you guys doing?
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Really liked the girl I just met.

Kinda young for meIm 27, shes 22 and still in college. But she was sweet and even though was kind of shy I think when she gets more comfortable will be a great time. I mean, it already was fun. And she was cute, and although it was a little concerning she didnt have body pics, she had a nice body

Talked about maybe going out again. Well see:
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I'm talking to two girls, both of which play the same videogames I do. Life is good.
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So I texted her to say I had a good time and she told me shed like to go out again and also that I smell good
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Well I set up the second date with this girl for Friday

Got dates with two others this week

Things are looking up
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Making dates with girls you don't really know around Valentine's Day is awkward.
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So friend/ex never responded to me yesterday when I told her I didnt need her to pick me up but just sent me a random story about some tv show shes watching

Torn between just ignoring it and texting a one word response

billcom6 posted...

Making dates with girls you don't really know around Valentine's Day is awkward.

Not really. As long its not on Valentines Day its just another day
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Reminds me last year when I was casually dating a polish Cuban girl

Week before Valentines Day. I still had lingering feelings for Halloween girl. Felt bad if I took her out for Valentines Day even though Im not serious about her.

Broke it off with her before then lol
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I agree that it is awkward making plans with girls you don't know on or around valentines day

Speaking of, I met a girl on Friday and now we will be getting dinner on Valentines

F that Valentines date crap.

Wanna know how I'm getting out of Valentines day responsibilities? I've told multiple chicks that I'm going out of town on business starting today and won't be back til Thursday evening.
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i have dates tuesday thursday friday this week

but yeah not valentine's day lol. will probably just be enjoying the night off from pretending to be cool for strange women
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Had a dream I was fucking an old tinder date
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feel like I should get back on okcupid or something and send out messages again
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I don't understand how y'all go on so many dates. It's tiring work I tell ya.
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krazychao5 posted...

I don't understand how y'all go on so many dates. It's tiring work I tell ya.

Im sure Ill get burnt out on it after this week

Tbh the one I met yesterday is seeming pretty promising. We have a second date planned and shes been texting me today
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TheGoldenEel posted...

krazychao5 posted...

I don't understand how y'all go on so many dates. It's tiring work I tell ya.

Im sure Ill get burnt out on it after this week

Tbh the one I met yesterday is seeming pretty promising. We have a second date planned and shes been texting me today

It's just that I find chasing one woman tiring enough, let alone carrying conversations with more than one person and figuring out plans and whatnot.

Do you go to the same place with each chick, or do you plan it out differently for each one?
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I mean, I dont get past the first date with most, so its really just meeting up for drinks for a couple hours

I have a few different places I choose between
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krazychao5 posted...

TheGoldenEel posted...

krazychao5 posted...

I don't understand how y'all go on so many dates. It's tiring work I tell ya.

Im sure Ill get burnt out on it after this week

Tbh the one I met yesterday is seeming pretty promising. We have a second date planned and shes been texting me today

It's just that I find chasing one woman tiring enough, let alone carrying conversations with more than one person and figuring out plans and whatnot.

Do you go to the same place with each chick, or do you plan it out differently for each one?

I tend to go to the same few places more or less.

Also I'm not generally texting them all day so it's not as big a deal. I'm literally juggling like 5 women at the moment and there's more I could add to the list but then it would start getting too difficult. I'm managing somehow.
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I have no interest in juggling or stringing anyone along tbh. I just set these three dates up this week because thats when worked, and I know they could all fizzle out after one date.

If I end up getting a third date with the girl from yesterday Ill probably not message anyone else for a while
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Think of it as backups if things don't go well with your main you can quickly get twlking with someone else. You aren't twotiming anyone, you're just talking.
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Sunday's date got pushed back a week because she slept all day following a 24-hour shift.
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krazychao5 posted...

I don't understand how y'all go on so many dates. It's tiring work I tell ya.

I cant do it, either. I have no idea how people juggle multiple partners
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EnragedSlith posted...

krazychao5 posted...

I don't understand how y'all go on so many dates. It's tiring work I tell ya.

I cant do it, either. I have no idea how people juggle multiple partners

I cant believe polyamory is such a thing now

Its a pain enough putting up with one persons bullshit
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