Poll of the Day > Would you date a really fat girl? (300 pounds or more)

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No, but then I'm gay so I would've answered no in any case.
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Date- no. Bang- depends on if they have a decent looking face and how proportional their weight was distributed .
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RetasuKate posted...

Those that said no, for curiousity sake, how much do YOU weigh?

A fuckload less than 300, that's for damn sure. The heaviest I've ever been was *maybe* 220, so even going 250 is unfathomable. Not that it'd make any difference either way because what I look like wouldn't make somebody else more attractive. For a chick to carry that much weight and still be attractive, she'd have to be like 10 feet tall which is just freaky.
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Like I've said before: I've doinked and dated several.

- Not because Im fat. Or ugly, awkward, or otherwise haplessly virginal. Im 154 lbs and 57, plus I guess sort of reasonably decent-looking from certain angles at the correct distance if the lightings right. (Yeah, yeah, I know, false modesty.) And I think it'd be honest of me to say Ive been with a fair few girls of various shapes and sizes during my time: enough to let me make up my mind what my preferences are.

- Not because fat girls are supposed to be useful as cheap, compliant, disposable sex toys: good for practice or convenient as substitutes, if guys "don't mind lowering their standards" or some such dogshit. I dont want doormats. I want self-confident, sassy, savvy, sexually assertive fat girls.

- And it's not because of low standards or poor self-esteem. This isnt about me lowering the bar or making compromises; this is about about preference, about me liking what I like instead of maybe what you like. And what I like is the only standard that really matters, the only one Ive ever felt compelled to care a crap about.

Nope. It's because fat girls (even very fat girls) can turn me on; it's really just that simple. They hit all the right buttons for me, hard. Why? Well, thats a bit of a tricky question, because the libidos a tangled bunch of knots that you cant easily unpick with the simple word "why?".

I know that most other guys wont get it, but hey, thats cool because you know what? it's not compulsory for everyone to share my likes and dislikes. I'd never suggest that you give someone "a try" if you don't find them attractive; that's a terrible idea, and I wouldn't try to sell you on it. Plus, to be honest, if more guys knew what they were missing, Id have a lot more competition. :-)

So there you go. No secret, no shame, no regrets, no way Ill change. Turdwits blathering on about how I shouldn't like the women I like dont have a snowflakes chance in Hell of deprogramming my libido. I love fat chicks, and I love that I love fat chicks. Its the way Im wired, and the way I see it, an ability to appreciate females of all shapes and sizes is a generous dollop of good fortune its filled my world that much fuller with pleasures, temptations and opportunities.
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Funkdamental posted...

Like I've said before: I've doinked and dated several.

- Not because Im fat. Or ugly, awkward, or otherwise haplessly virginal. Im 154 lbs and 57, plus I guess sort of reasonably decent-looking from certain angles at the correct distance if the lightings right. (Yeah, yeah, I know, false modesty.) And I think it'd be honest of me to say Ive been with a fair few girls of various shapes and sizes during my time: enough to let me make up my mind what my preferences are.

- Not because fat girls are supposed to be useful as cheap, compliant, disposable sex toys: good for practice or convenient as substitutes, if guys "don't mind lowering their standards" or some such dogshit. I dont want doormats. I want self-confident, sassy, savvy, sexually assertive fat girls.

- And it's not because of low standards or poor self-esteem. This isnt about me lowering the bar or making compromises; this is about about preference, about me liking what I like instead of maybe what you like. And what I like is the only standard that really matters, the only one Ive ever felt compelled to care a crap about.

Nope. It's because fat girls (even very fat girls) can turn me on; it's really just that simple. They hit all the right buttons for me, hard. Why? Well, thats a bit of a tricky question, because the libidos a tangled bunch of knots that you cant easily unpick with the simple word "why?".

I know that most other guys wont get it, but hey, thats cool because you know what? it's not compulsory for everyone to share my likes and dislikes. I'd never suggest that you give someone "a try" if you don't find them attractive; that's a terrible idea, and I wouldn't try to sell you on it. Plus, to be honest, if more guys knew what they were missing, Id have a lot more competition. :-)

So there you go. No secret, no shame, no regrets, no way Ill change. Turdwits blathering on about how I shouldn't like the women I like dont have a snowflakes chance in Hell of deprogramming my libido. I love fat chicks, and I love that I love fat chicks. Its the way Im wired, and the way I see it, an ability to appreciate females of all shapes and sizes is a generous dollop of good fortune its filled my world that much fuller with pleasures, temptations and opportunities.

Allow me to convert your 1000 words in to a picture:


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tl:dr

funkdamental has a fat fetish
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Krazy_Kirby posted...

funkdamental has a fat fetish

Heh. I always say it's a preference, not a fetish. I'd argue that if, for me, it was a fetish I'd be attracted only to fat girls, and to all fat girls because -- well, because they're fat. That's because fetishists typically fixate on the object of their fetish, and they're not too interested in the whole package. Me, I'm still very much a "whole package" guy. But yeah, they're my extra special favourites, my Christmas candy treats, my crack cocaine with sugar and cream on top. :-)
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Funkdamental posted...

Krazy_Kirby posted...

funkdamental has a fat fetish

Heh. I always say it's a preference, not a fetish. I'd argue that if, for me, it was a fetish I'd be attracted only to fat girls, and to all fat girls because -- well, because they're fat. That's because fetishists typically fixate on the object of their fetish, and they're not too interested in the whole package. Me, I'm still very much a "whole package" guy. But yeah, they're my extra special favourites, my Christmas candy treats, my crack cocaine with sugar and cream on top. :-)

fetish
ft/
noun
1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

Fetishists typically get only attracted to their fetish because they're burnt out on the normal stuff.
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I'd go possible 200 pounds.... it depends on how she's shaped that weight I guess.

what if she's like 6 3 or 6 4 that wouldn't be too obese
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UT1999 posted...

what if she's like 6 3 or 6 4 that wouldn't be too obese

300 lbs on a 6'3 or 6'4 **MAN** still looks obese, so it'd look far worse on a woman given that they have less muscle mass. Like I said, she'd have to be like 10 ft tall.
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

Funkdamental posted...

Krazy_Kirby posted...

funkdamental has a fat fetish

Heh. I always say it's a preference, not a fetish. I'd argue that if, for me, it was a fetish I'd be attracted only to fat girls, and to all fat girls because -- well, because they're fat. That's because fetishists typically fixate on the object of their fetish, and they're not too interested in the whole package. Me, I'm still very much a "whole package" guy. But yeah, they're my extra special favourites, my Christmas candy treats, my crack cocaine with sugar and cream on top. :-)

fetish
ft/
noun
1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

Fetishists typically get only attracted to their fetish because they're burnt out on the normal stuff.

Eh, I don't know if that's true. I mean, what is it about the saturation effect of hardcore but normal porn -- y'know, a few hundred hours spent watching endless in-and-out -- that would make you suddenly start to obsess with, of all things, a particular hair colour or nose shape, for example? What if you've found that kind of thing (and, if it's genuinely a fetish, it'd have to be only that kind of thing and always that kind of thing) attractive ever since adolescence?
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

fetish
ft/
noun
1. a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.

Apparently my fetishes aren't really fetishes because i'm not abnormally into it.
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What if I find myself fascinated by teats as thick as thimbles and pimply aureoles the size of saucers? I mean, am I a fetishist, or a normal guy who very much likes a highly popular body part?
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^^ lmao, dude I don't think i'd called that normal, that's definitely a fetish.
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Hmm. I'd ask, then, if nominating not-quite-so-big nipples as 'sexiest body part' would qualify as normal attraction rather than a fetish? It's pretty slippery terminology.
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If you like it more than the average person, you like it an abnormal amount. It's not a slippery slope, it's just not a harsh term.
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Assuming that most white guys have a preference for white girls over black girls, would that imply the minority of white guys who are really into black girls -- maybe even attracted to them exclusively -- are fetishizing a certain skin colour?
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Funkdamental posted...

Assuming that most white guys have a preference for white girls over black girls, would that imply the minority of white guys who are really into black girls -- maybe even attracted to them exclusively -- are fetishizing a certain skin colour?

If you get sexual satisfaction from the blackness of their skin, yeah.
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Zangulus posted...

Preference is not a fetish by definition.

Which is kind of the point I was trying to drive at earlier. I'd aver that because fat girls aren't the only kind who can put a party in my pants, even though they're unquestionably my favourites it's nevertheless a simple question of preference rather than a fetish. I'm not touchy about the label, though, and I guess "fat fetish" does alliterate nicely as shorthand.
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Funkdamental posted...

Which is kind of the point I was trying to drive at earlier. I'd aver that because fat girls aren't the only kind who can put a party in my pants, even though they're unquestionably my favourites it's nevertheless a simple question of preference rather than a fetish.

Even if we go by the Zeus and the actual definition I think your fascination for thimble teets and saucer nipples definitely qualifies as abnormal and thus, a fetish.
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darcandkharg31 posted...

I think your fascination for thimble teets and saucer nipples

I'll point out that bit was actually a hypothetical example, not a confession. To be honest with you, I'm not that sure about saucer-sized aureoles...
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darcandkharg31 posted...

Funkdamental posted...

Which is kind of the point I was trying to drive at earlier. I'd aver that because fat girls aren't the only kind who can put a party in my pants, even though they're unquestionably my favourites it's nevertheless a simple question of preference rather than a fetish.

Even if we go by the Zeus and the actual definition I think your fascination for thimble teets and saucer nipples definitely qualifies as abnormal and thus, a fetish.

I don't recall weighing in on the subject of fetishes until this post.

Zangulus posted...

Funkdamental posted...

Assuming that most white guys have a preference for white girls over black girls, would that imply the minority of white guys who are really into black girls -- maybe even attracted to them exclusively -- are fetishizing a certain skin colour?

Preference is not a fetish by definition. Colloquially fetish means you want to breath like a fish now.

A strong racial preference to the point of excluding other races can be construed as a fetish, though. It's a matter of degrees. If a person likes all Asian chicks simply for being Asian, then it's probably more a fetish than just an attraction since normal attraction doesn't loop in everybody within the race.
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RetasuKate posted...

Those that said no, for curiousity sake, how much do YOU weigh?

6'0".

Fluctuate between 165 and 175.

6'1'' and 160 lb
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6' 1" 185